Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated ;o)) > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North Cambrideshire, > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > dangerous in any way should it?<< I don't know. My friend set up a website for her 7 year old daughter because her husband is Australian and it meant that all his relatives could tune into her life whenever they wanted to. Anyhow, the daughter got a " weird " email claiming to be from another child but this so called child had been looking at the web site in the early hours of the morning, plus asked what were " chicken nuggets " and were they nice. Considering most young kids know exactly what chicken nuggets are this was decidedly dodgy. Anyhow they reported the email to the police and now have the whole site password protected. They just give the password out to friends and family. I don't think it matters whether the children are fully-clothed or not, the kind of person to do this sort of thing are just on the look out for children. I would love to have a web page with all my mob on it but have to admit that the security of it all really puts me off. Lorraine Mum to: 10, Natasha 8, 5, ph nearly 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated ;o)) > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North Cambrideshire, > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > dangerous in any way should it? Hannah, that's how I feel about mine. If there are any perverts out there looking at my children's pictures and getting pleasure from it, well, I don't know about that and ignorance is bliss. They cannot do them any actual harm which is what concerns me. There are far more exciting sites than my tinpot family site for anybody who is looking for erotic pics of children, and it would be very difficult just to " come across " my site anyway so I really don't think it's a big issue. And, I'm sorry, Ruthie, but I totally disagree that web pics are more dangerous than photos in a local paper. There are often pictures of schoolchildren in our local paper, getting awards, showing off something they have made, raising money for charity etc. Their names are nearly always printed underneath, the school name is there. So, Mr Local Pervert has a wonderful opportunity to go to the school gates, intercept that child before s/he is collected, call them by name and talk to them about a subject which will be of interest to that child. And I bet nobody gives a second thought to their child appearing in the paper (apart from a certain degree of pride, and ordering an extra copy for Granny), and I bet no school ever asks permission. Having said all that, I think some caution is needed with such things as school/playgroup sites because of the link with a location, and I also think that any parent has the absolute right to refuse permission for their child's picture to appear on the web - 2 of my nephews/nieces are missing from my site because their parents weren't happy with them appearing. I think it's daft, but I respect their decision. Lynda SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch Area Rep, Region 7 www.familygarland.co.uk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated ;o)) > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North Cambrideshire, > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > dangerous in any way should it? Hannah, that's how I feel about mine. If there are any perverts out there looking at my children's pictures and getting pleasure from it, well, I don't know about that and ignorance is bliss. They cannot do them any actual harm which is what concerns me. There are far more exciting sites than my tinpot family site for anybody who is looking for erotic pics of children, and it would be very difficult just to " come across " my site anyway so I really don't think it's a big issue. And, I'm sorry, Ruthie, but I totally disagree that web pics are more dangerous than photos in a local paper. There are often pictures of schoolchildren in our local paper, getting awards, showing off something they have made, raising money for charity etc. Their names are nearly always printed underneath, the school name is there. So, Mr Local Pervert has a wonderful opportunity to go to the school gates, intercept that child before s/he is collected, call them by name and talk to them about a subject which will be of interest to that child. And I bet nobody gives a second thought to their child appearing in the paper (apart from a certain degree of pride, and ordering an extra copy for Granny), and I bet no school ever asks permission. Having said all that, I think some caution is needed with such things as school/playgroup sites because of the link with a location, and I also think that any parent has the absolute right to refuse permission for their child's picture to appear on the web - 2 of my nephews/nieces are missing from my site because their parents weren't happy with them appearing. I think it's daft, but I respect their decision. Lynda SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch Area Rep, Region 7 www.familygarland.co.uk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated ;o)) > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North Cambrideshire, > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > dangerous in any way should it? Hannah, that's how I feel about mine. If there are any perverts out there looking at my children's pictures and getting pleasure from it, well, I don't know about that and ignorance is bliss. They cannot do them any actual harm which is what concerns me. There are far more exciting sites than my tinpot family site for anybody who is looking for erotic pics of children, and it would be very difficult just to " come across " my site anyway so I really don't think it's a big issue. And, I'm sorry, Ruthie, but I totally disagree that web pics are more dangerous than photos in a local paper. There are often pictures of schoolchildren in our local paper, getting awards, showing off something they have made, raising money for charity etc. Their names are nearly always printed underneath, the school name is there. So, Mr Local Pervert has a wonderful opportunity to go to the school gates, intercept that child before s/he is collected, call them by name and talk to them about a subject which will be of interest to that child. And I bet nobody gives a second thought to their child appearing in the paper (apart from a certain degree of pride, and ordering an extra copy for Granny), and I bet no school ever asks permission. Having said all that, I think some caution is needed with such things as school/playgroup sites because of the link with a location, and I also think that any parent has the absolute right to refuse permission for their child's picture to appear on the web - 2 of my nephews/nieces are missing from my site because their parents weren't happy with them appearing. I think it's daft, but I respect their decision. Lynda SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch Area Rep, Region 7 www.familygarland.co.uk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > I don't know. My friend set up a website for her 7 year old daughter > because her husband is Australian and it meant that all his relatives > could tune into her life whenever they wanted to. Anyhow, the > daughter got a " weird " email Am I odd or something? I get a lot of pervy email in my Hotmail inbox and it doesn't bother me a bit, I just delete as soon as I realise. I would have deleted the above mail too if I thought it was suspicious - my kids don't get access to any email unless I have seen it first so it wouldn't have affected them at all. >the kind of > person to do this sort of thing are just on the look out for children. But anybody in the street, library, swimming pool, dentist's waiting room could be looking at my children and thinking pervy thoughts at any time, but that doesn't stop me taking them round Safeway (saving my own sanity might, but that's a different issue) or doing any other normal family activity. If I want a family website, and I want distant family and friends to see pictures of my children as they grow up, I am not going to have my life dictated by sad, warped individuals. Lynda SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch Area Rep, Region 7 www.familygarland.co.uk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > I don't know. My friend set up a website for her 7 year old daughter > because her husband is Australian and it meant that all his relatives > could tune into her life whenever they wanted to. Anyhow, the > daughter got a " weird " email Am I odd or something? I get a lot of pervy email in my Hotmail inbox and it doesn't bother me a bit, I just delete as soon as I realise. I would have deleted the above mail too if I thought it was suspicious - my kids don't get access to any email unless I have seen it first so it wouldn't have affected them at all. >the kind of > person to do this sort of thing are just on the look out for children. But anybody in the street, library, swimming pool, dentist's waiting room could be looking at my children and thinking pervy thoughts at any time, but that doesn't stop me taking them round Safeway (saving my own sanity might, but that's a different issue) or doing any other normal family activity. If I want a family website, and I want distant family and friends to see pictures of my children as they grow up, I am not going to have my life dictated by sad, warped individuals. Lynda SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch Area Rep, Region 7 www.familygarland.co.uk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > I don't know. My friend set up a website for her 7 year old daughter > because her husband is Australian and it meant that all his relatives > could tune into her life whenever they wanted to. Anyhow, the > daughter got a " weird " email Am I odd or something? I get a lot of pervy email in my Hotmail inbox and it doesn't bother me a bit, I just delete as soon as I realise. I would have deleted the above mail too if I thought it was suspicious - my kids don't get access to any email unless I have seen it first so it wouldn't have affected them at all. >the kind of > person to do this sort of thing are just on the look out for children. But anybody in the street, library, swimming pool, dentist's waiting room could be looking at my children and thinking pervy thoughts at any time, but that doesn't stop me taking them round Safeway (saving my own sanity might, but that's a different issue) or doing any other normal family activity. If I want a family website, and I want distant family and friends to see pictures of my children as they grow up, I am not going to have my life dictated by sad, warped individuals. Lynda SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch Area Rep, Region 7 www.familygarland.co.uk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 I think you have a point, Lynda. Although my site is somewhat different from what you were talking about, I do make a point of not having my children on my site - nor of putting their names up. I don't *think* I even have references to gender. That's because the nature of my site means I have to give my address and phone no. Also, my web stat service allows me to see what people have entered into search engines in order to get to my site. I certainly wouldn't want someone searching for " little girls wearing nappies " or " forced to wear nappies " or even " nappies + whips " to get anything remotely gratifying! There *is* a picture of a child in a nappy on my site: the child is a model, totally unknown to me, gender unspecified, and even under duress I couldn't tell anyone where (s)he lives. It does sometimes disturb me that some of the people looking at my site may have motives other than buying nappies for their babies, but what do you do? I actually don't too much mind the idea of adult babies, because they do tend to be adults and consenting - just because it's not my idea of fun, I don't feel I can condemn it! I do want to be helpful and accessible to incontinent adults looking for natural products and have one or two adult customers who, I'm fairly sure, fall into that category. Otherwise, I just try my best to ensure that visitors looking for anything else go away empty handed Vicki Re: Websites > > > > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated > ;o)) > > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North > Cambrideshire, > > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > > dangerous in any way should it? > > Hannah, that's how I feel about mine. If there are any perverts out there > looking at my children's pictures and getting pleasure from it, well, I > don't know about that and ignorance is bliss. They cannot do them any > actual harm which is what concerns me. There are far more exciting sites > than my tinpot family site for anybody who is looking for erotic pics of > children, and it would be very difficult just to " come across " my site > anyway so I really don't think it's a big issue. > And, I'm sorry, Ruthie, but I totally disagree that web pics are more > dangerous than photos in a local paper. There are often pictures of > schoolchildren in our local paper, getting awards, showing off something > they have made, raising money for charity etc. Their names are nearly > always printed underneath, the school name is there. So, Mr Local Pervert > has a wonderful opportunity to go to the school gates, intercept that child > before s/he is collected, call them by name and talk to them about a subject > which will be of interest to that child. And I bet nobody gives a second > thought to their child appearing in the paper (apart from a certain degree > of pride, and ordering an extra copy for Granny), and I bet no school ever > asks permission. > Having said all that, I think some caution is needed with such things as > school/playgroup sites because of the link with a location, and I also think > that any parent has the absolute right to refuse permission for their > child's picture to appear on the web - 2 of my nephews/nieces are missing > from my site because their parents weren't happy with them appearing. I > think it's daft, but I respect their decision. > > Lynda > SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) > Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch > Area Rep, Region 7 > www.familygarland.co.uk > > > > > *** NCT enquiry line - 0 *** > > Live chat http://www.yahoogroups.com/chat/nct-coffee > > Have you found out about all the other groups for the NCT online? > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 I think you have a point, Lynda. Although my site is somewhat different from what you were talking about, I do make a point of not having my children on my site - nor of putting their names up. I don't *think* I even have references to gender. That's because the nature of my site means I have to give my address and phone no. Also, my web stat service allows me to see what people have entered into search engines in order to get to my site. I certainly wouldn't want someone searching for " little girls wearing nappies " or " forced to wear nappies " or even " nappies + whips " to get anything remotely gratifying! There *is* a picture of a child in a nappy on my site: the child is a model, totally unknown to me, gender unspecified, and even under duress I couldn't tell anyone where (s)he lives. It does sometimes disturb me that some of the people looking at my site may have motives other than buying nappies for their babies, but what do you do? I actually don't too much mind the idea of adult babies, because they do tend to be adults and consenting - just because it's not my idea of fun, I don't feel I can condemn it! I do want to be helpful and accessible to incontinent adults looking for natural products and have one or two adult customers who, I'm fairly sure, fall into that category. Otherwise, I just try my best to ensure that visitors looking for anything else go away empty handed Vicki Re: Websites > > > > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated > ;o)) > > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North > Cambrideshire, > > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > > dangerous in any way should it? > > Hannah, that's how I feel about mine. If there are any perverts out there > looking at my children's pictures and getting pleasure from it, well, I > don't know about that and ignorance is bliss. They cannot do them any > actual harm which is what concerns me. There are far more exciting sites > than my tinpot family site for anybody who is looking for erotic pics of > children, and it would be very difficult just to " come across " my site > anyway so I really don't think it's a big issue. > And, I'm sorry, Ruthie, but I totally disagree that web pics are more > dangerous than photos in a local paper. There are often pictures of > schoolchildren in our local paper, getting awards, showing off something > they have made, raising money for charity etc. Their names are nearly > always printed underneath, the school name is there. So, Mr Local Pervert > has a wonderful opportunity to go to the school gates, intercept that child > before s/he is collected, call them by name and talk to them about a subject > which will be of interest to that child. And I bet nobody gives a second > thought to their child appearing in the paper (apart from a certain degree > of pride, and ordering an extra copy for Granny), and I bet no school ever > asks permission. > Having said all that, I think some caution is needed with such things as > school/playgroup sites because of the link with a location, and I also think > that any parent has the absolute right to refuse permission for their > child's picture to appear on the web - 2 of my nephews/nieces are missing > from my site because their parents weren't happy with them appearing. I > think it's daft, but I respect their decision. > > Lynda > SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) > Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch > Area Rep, Region 7 > www.familygarland.co.uk > > > > > *** NCT enquiry line - 0 *** > > Live chat http://www.yahoogroups.com/chat/nct-coffee > > Have you found out about all the other groups for the NCT online? > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 I think you have a point, Lynda. Although my site is somewhat different from what you were talking about, I do make a point of not having my children on my site - nor of putting their names up. I don't *think* I even have references to gender. That's because the nature of my site means I have to give my address and phone no. Also, my web stat service allows me to see what people have entered into search engines in order to get to my site. I certainly wouldn't want someone searching for " little girls wearing nappies " or " forced to wear nappies " or even " nappies + whips " to get anything remotely gratifying! There *is* a picture of a child in a nappy on my site: the child is a model, totally unknown to me, gender unspecified, and even under duress I couldn't tell anyone where (s)he lives. It does sometimes disturb me that some of the people looking at my site may have motives other than buying nappies for their babies, but what do you do? I actually don't too much mind the idea of adult babies, because they do tend to be adults and consenting - just because it's not my idea of fun, I don't feel I can condemn it! I do want to be helpful and accessible to incontinent adults looking for natural products and have one or two adult customers who, I'm fairly sure, fall into that category. Otherwise, I just try my best to ensure that visitors looking for anything else go away empty handed Vicki Re: Websites > > > > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated > ;o)) > > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North > Cambrideshire, > > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > > dangerous in any way should it? > > Hannah, that's how I feel about mine. If there are any perverts out there > looking at my children's pictures and getting pleasure from it, well, I > don't know about that and ignorance is bliss. They cannot do them any > actual harm which is what concerns me. There are far more exciting sites > than my tinpot family site for anybody who is looking for erotic pics of > children, and it would be very difficult just to " come across " my site > anyway so I really don't think it's a big issue. > And, I'm sorry, Ruthie, but I totally disagree that web pics are more > dangerous than photos in a local paper. There are often pictures of > schoolchildren in our local paper, getting awards, showing off something > they have made, raising money for charity etc. Their names are nearly > always printed underneath, the school name is there. So, Mr Local Pervert > has a wonderful opportunity to go to the school gates, intercept that child > before s/he is collected, call them by name and talk to them about a subject > which will be of interest to that child. And I bet nobody gives a second > thought to their child appearing in the paper (apart from a certain degree > of pride, and ordering an extra copy for Granny), and I bet no school ever > asks permission. > Having said all that, I think some caution is needed with such things as > school/playgroup sites because of the link with a location, and I also think > that any parent has the absolute right to refuse permission for their > child's picture to appear on the web - 2 of my nephews/nieces are missing > from my site because their parents weren't happy with them appearing. I > think it's daft, but I respect their decision. > > Lynda > SAHM to (8), (5), Fraser (3), Callum (15/5/00) > Newsletter editor, Mid-Northumberland Branch > Area Rep, Region 7 > www.familygarland.co.uk > > > > > *** NCT enquiry line - 0 *** > > Live chat http://www.yahoogroups.com/chat/nct-coffee > > Have you found out about all the other groups for the NCT online? > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 You and me both, then! I have lots of children's pictures on the web - have done for years. We've never had a single bit of email other than from people we have actively shared the photos with. OTOH, when I had *my* photo in my Yahoo profile, I used to get lots of pervy IMs. But I don't worry about these things - life is just too short. Living abroad, it is just too convenient to be able to share a little bit of our lives with family and friends in the UK. BTW, Ruthie, I've just had a good look through your lovely photos - you must have a hundred there! It is very easy to find things even without a link. Joyce http://clik.to/ourphotos Am I odd or something? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 I love your website Hannah, it's beautifully designed. Did you do the html raw, or use an editor? I must confess however to being a little bit worried about the openness of your stories about birth, breastfeeding, nipples etc. If a pervert on the web does a search for " Nipples " he might come across your site and " Perve " over your stories..there are a LOT of weirdos out there. We tend to forget, in our own cosy little NCT world, that the rest of the world doesn't understand or appreciate us quite the way we do. Maybe others don't agree, but I have been on the net for a long time, since 1994, long enough to see the rotten side of it, and the dark side isn't pleasant, believe me. I want to protect myself and my loved ones, and I don't talk about anything which could be misconstrued as stimulating to a pervert. Ruthie > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated ;o)) > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North Cambrideshire, > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > dangerous in any way should it? > > Hannah, 27 > Mum to Bethany 6 1/2, Lawrence 5, Verity 2 1/2 and Alfie, born 13/02/01 > > Visit me on the web at :- > http://hannahshome.20m.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 I love your website Hannah, it's beautifully designed. Did you do the html raw, or use an editor? I must confess however to being a little bit worried about the openness of your stories about birth, breastfeeding, nipples etc. If a pervert on the web does a search for " Nipples " he might come across your site and " Perve " over your stories..there are a LOT of weirdos out there. We tend to forget, in our own cosy little NCT world, that the rest of the world doesn't understand or appreciate us quite the way we do. Maybe others don't agree, but I have been on the net for a long time, since 1994, long enough to see the rotten side of it, and the dark side isn't pleasant, believe me. I want to protect myself and my loved ones, and I don't talk about anything which could be misconstrued as stimulating to a pervert. Ruthie > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated ;o)) > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North Cambrideshire, > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > dangerous in any way should it? > > Hannah, 27 > Mum to Bethany 6 1/2, Lawrence 5, Verity 2 1/2 and Alfie, born 13/02/01 > > Visit me on the web at :- > http://hannahshome.20m.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 I love your website Hannah, it's beautifully designed. Did you do the html raw, or use an editor? I must confess however to being a little bit worried about the openness of your stories about birth, breastfeeding, nipples etc. If a pervert on the web does a search for " Nipples " he might come across your site and " Perve " over your stories..there are a LOT of weirdos out there. We tend to forget, in our own cosy little NCT world, that the rest of the world doesn't understand or appreciate us quite the way we do. Maybe others don't agree, but I have been on the net for a long time, since 1994, long enough to see the rotten side of it, and the dark side isn't pleasant, believe me. I want to protect myself and my loved ones, and I don't talk about anything which could be misconstrued as stimulating to a pervert. Ruthie > This thread has me worried now - I've just finished working on my new > personal website with loads of photos of the kids (feedback appreciated ;o)) > but the only reference to where we live is that it's in North Cambrideshire, > and there's no unclothed children or anything, so that shouldn't be > dangerous in any way should it? > > Hannah, 27 > Mum to Bethany 6 1/2, Lawrence 5, Verity 2 1/2 and Alfie, born 13/02/01 > > Visit me on the web at :- > http://hannahshome.20m.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 Ruthie, I have to also take issue of your feelings of perceived > safety at living in a closed community: this is how most paedophiles > operate. 80% of people abused as children were abused by a family > friend. I won't let any male friends, however much i trust them, > babysit for my kids unless they are with a girlfriend or wife (it may > sound overprotective but I have worked in child protection for a few > years. I think it is far more important to protect our children from > harm than their photos. > > Emma Oh I agree 100%. And we have perves in our community just like any other; there have been child abusers amongst Orthodox Jews just like any other community, including teenage boy babysitters who ended up in court. We are all aware of keeping our kids from harm on the streets and in our homes, etc. Why should this be *instead of* rather than *as well as* not wanting their pictures plastered all over the internet for all to see for whatever vicarious enjoyment? I don't see the two are mutually exclusive. Anyway, each to their own. I must admit to being rather laissez faire about pictures of my grandchildren on my website until their parents came forward and insisted the pics were not so visible. I might not have felt the same about my own children if they were young enough to be of interest to anyone pervy; instead of which they are old enough to tell me themselves to take their *bleeping* photo of my website!!! I get plenty of the " Sexxxxy hotpix here! " kind of emails in my inbox, but I would be very uneasy if they were personal and addressed at my family. Glad you like lipfinity Emma Ruthie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 You make it sound like I live in a den of vice!! I don't know that many > perverts myself either!! I just refuse to be spooked by somebody calling > themselves shag69 who thinks they have the right to dump filth in my inbox. > Delete and forget. > > Lynda As I replied to emma earlier, I have no problem with " sexxxxxy hotpix " emails but if they were " I like the pic of your granddaughter Leah on your website. I would like it more if she wore a rubber wetsuit and had a lollypop in her mouth..do you think you could send me one like that? " I might think otherwise! The tiger in me would take over, I think! Ruthie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 Hannah, as I said, each to their own, it's a beautiful website. I don't want to get embroiled in a debate about this, everyone feels differently about their private matters Ruthie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > > > > > I love your website Hannah, it's beautifully designed. Did you do the > > html raw, or use an editor? > > Thanks Ruthie, I started out using their templates, then just cloned them > and adjusted them . *WHOSE* templates did you use? Ruthie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > > > > > I love your website Hannah, it's beautifully designed. Did you do the > > html raw, or use an editor? > > Thanks Ruthie, I started out using their templates, then just cloned them > and adjusted them . *WHOSE* templates did you use? Ruthie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > I love your website Hannah, it's beautifully designed. Did you do the > html raw, or use an editor? Thanks Ruthie, I started out using their templates, then just cloned them and adjusted them to make all the other pages. My html knowledge is rather limited! > I must confess however to being a little bit worried about the > openness of your stories about birth, breastfeeding, nipples etc. If > a pervert on the web does a search for " Nipples " he might come across > your site and " Perve " over your stories..there are a LOT of weirdos > out there. Well, I've been thinking about it today, and I think my feelings on the subject are along the lines of Lynda's. I could have completely made up my identity, and everything written there could be fiction - no one can trace me from my email address (aside from the police I suppose?) so what possible harm could there be? If some pervert gets off on reading my birth stories that's their problem. It doesn't hurt me or my family. I also don't see how fully clothed family pics can be used as child pornography. Hannah, 27 Mum to Bethany 6 1/2, Lawrence 5, Verity 2 1/2 and Alfie, born 13/02/01 Visit me on the web at :- http://hannahshome.20m.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > I love your website Hannah, it's beautifully designed. Did you do the > html raw, or use an editor? Thanks Ruthie, I started out using their templates, then just cloned them and adjusted them to make all the other pages. My html knowledge is rather limited! > I must confess however to being a little bit worried about the > openness of your stories about birth, breastfeeding, nipples etc. If > a pervert on the web does a search for " Nipples " he might come across > your site and " Perve " over your stories..there are a LOT of weirdos > out there. Well, I've been thinking about it today, and I think my feelings on the subject are along the lines of Lynda's. I could have completely made up my identity, and everything written there could be fiction - no one can trace me from my email address (aside from the police I suppose?) so what possible harm could there be? If some pervert gets off on reading my birth stories that's their problem. It doesn't hurt me or my family. I also don't see how fully clothed family pics can be used as child pornography. Hannah, 27 Mum to Bethany 6 1/2, Lawrence 5, Verity 2 1/2 and Alfie, born 13/02/01 Visit me on the web at :- http://hannahshome.20m.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > I love your website Hannah, it's beautifully designed. Did you do the > html raw, or use an editor? Thanks Ruthie, I started out using their templates, then just cloned them and adjusted them to make all the other pages. My html knowledge is rather limited! > I must confess however to being a little bit worried about the > openness of your stories about birth, breastfeeding, nipples etc. If > a pervert on the web does a search for " Nipples " he might come across > your site and " Perve " over your stories..there are a LOT of weirdos > out there. Well, I've been thinking about it today, and I think my feelings on the subject are along the lines of Lynda's. I could have completely made up my identity, and everything written there could be fiction - no one can trace me from my email address (aside from the police I suppose?) so what possible harm could there be? If some pervert gets off on reading my birth stories that's their problem. It doesn't hurt me or my family. I also don't see how fully clothed family pics can be used as child pornography. Hannah, 27 Mum to Bethany 6 1/2, Lawrence 5, Verity 2 1/2 and Alfie, born 13/02/01 Visit me on the web at :- http://hannahshome.20m.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 > *WHOSE* templates did you use? www.20m.com 's at a guess? ;-) -- Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 Hmmm - I have a pass word protected family section in my photopoint, but appear almost naked on my birth story page on 's site!!!!! Caroline Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 Hmmm - I have a pass word protected family section in my photopoint, but appear almost naked on my birth story page on 's site!!!!! Caroline Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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