Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 Everyone. adult kids & self included, tells me " it's just old age " too with all my symptoms. Even my older sister, the jock, keeps saying " Oh we've all got that " (herself, husband, friends) whenever I mention any symptoms. Or she gives me a remedy for each symptom. For the back pain/spinal pathology.......more exercise or surgery or just take Alleve or Tylenol. For the depression...get more outdoor light/sun & exercise. For the lethargy...get out more & do more stuff...get busy. For the GERD/acid reflux...just spit it out when it comes up. For the Buddah Belly...get more exercise...do 100 sit ups per day (like she does). For the thyroid...get a good doctor. Most others say the same things to me. There's 80yo people in my neighborhood who can work circles around me out in their yards/gardens that I couldn't even think about without having more pain & fatigue. So what's old age got to do with it? Well something yes...but not until we're in our 90s if you ask me. I'm still 67. My mom & her two sisters (now in their 90s) were way healthier & more active than me all through their & 80s even. With maybe a little arthritis & some depression depending on their life's circumstances or deaths of spouses, etc. is about all. ----- Original Message ----- From: nc2406@... In a message dated 12/30/2004 3:50:42 PM Eastern Standard Time, klb58@... writes: > I have a friend who blames everything on the fact that I am getting > older...grrrrr... I am not refusing to get older, I just want to get better!!!! if it wasn't that I felt better now at going on 50 than I did at 35...I might believe that...but hypo makes you feel old...and Armour has been like a fountain of youth. cindi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 Everyone. adult kids & self included, tells me " it's just old age " too with all my symptoms. Even my older sister, the jock, keeps saying " Oh we've all got that " (herself, husband, friends) whenever I mention any symptoms. Or she gives me a remedy for each symptom. For the back pain/spinal pathology.......more exercise or surgery or just take Alleve or Tylenol. For the depression...get more outdoor light/sun & exercise. For the lethargy...get out more & do more stuff...get busy. For the GERD/acid reflux...just spit it out when it comes up. For the Buddah Belly...get more exercise...do 100 sit ups per day (like she does). For the thyroid...get a good doctor. Most others say the same things to me. There's 80yo people in my neighborhood who can work circles around me out in their yards/gardens that I couldn't even think about without having more pain & fatigue. So what's old age got to do with it? Well something yes...but not until we're in our 90s if you ask me. I'm still 67. My mom & her two sisters (now in their 90s) were way healthier & more active than me all through their & 80s even. With maybe a little arthritis & some depression depending on their life's circumstances or deaths of spouses, etc. is about all. ----- Original Message ----- From: nc2406@... In a message dated 12/30/2004 3:50:42 PM Eastern Standard Time, klb58@... writes: > I have a friend who blames everything on the fact that I am getting > older...grrrrr... I am not refusing to get older, I just want to get better!!!! if it wasn't that I felt better now at going on 50 than I did at 35...I might believe that...but hypo makes you feel old...and Armour has been like a fountain of youth. cindi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 I can tell you right now, that what is really going on there is that she has a jealousy problem, so here come the put downs. Even though she obtained a nursing license, it didn't give her the inclination to understand what is going on or the inclination to learn what is really going on. I have seen wonderful nurses, but I've also seen nurses who scraped by to get their license or went mechanically by a certain protocal, but actually have no real understanding of the human body, per se. Then, they meet up with someone like you, who doesn't have a license, yet understands what she reads and has that natural talent to understand, initiates the gathering of info and puts it all together, and they become bewildered as to why their license does not grant them this, so here go the insults, without admitting this. This is NOT the definition of a friend, if she's into these not so subtle put downs. Re: doctors recommend page > > well - we had a discussion - she needs a bike helmet. I commented how hard it was for me to find one that fit my head - she said, small head, small brain. Sometimes she says the rudist things to me - I wonder how we're friends! so - I said - big head - big ego - then said I had to go. she said, oh, you're mad at me now>.. duh. > > I'm not sure why the attitude of the internet. I'm sure you're right tho - because had I mentioned I learned it from the books I had, they wouldn't be as good as medicial books that she and doctor's learned from. > I've had discussions in the past - my major in college was nutrition - ticked me when I was young, because nurses got jobs that I applied for, with no nutritional training. > Cris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 I have friends that are in their 60s that feel better than I do, and they can't even immagine what I'm talking about, when it comes to the way thyroid disease can make you feel old. Of course, like everyone, their heart will wear out in old age, or will suddenly stop beating, but they feel good up to that moment, and we were not meant to feel devastated in our old age (70s to 90s), we were actually meant to go to " sleep " peacefully. This is nothing to do with " getting older " . Obviously, I don't look or act like I did when I was in my teens or twenties, but it certainly shouldn't have gone THIS far, with the wells under the eyes, dizziness, brain fog, skin that is thick and needs motor oil on it just to keep from cracking, plus the zillions of other things that happen to us as hypos. (Lame feet and joints, heart palps, nausea, no energy, etc.......) Re: doctors recommend page > > > I have a friend who blames everything on the fact that I am getting older...grrrrr... I am not refusing to get older, I just want to get better!!!! > > Kerry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 I have friends that are in their 60s that feel better than I do, and they can't even immagine what I'm talking about, when it comes to the way thyroid disease can make you feel old. Of course, like everyone, their heart will wear out in old age, or will suddenly stop beating, but they feel good up to that moment, and we were not meant to feel devastated in our old age (70s to 90s), we were actually meant to go to " sleep " peacefully. This is nothing to do with " getting older " . Obviously, I don't look or act like I did when I was in my teens or twenties, but it certainly shouldn't have gone THIS far, with the wells under the eyes, dizziness, brain fog, skin that is thick and needs motor oil on it just to keep from cracking, plus the zillions of other things that happen to us as hypos. (Lame feet and joints, heart palps, nausea, no energy, etc.......) Re: doctors recommend page > > > I have a friend who blames everything on the fact that I am getting older...grrrrr... I am not refusing to get older, I just want to get better!!!! > > Kerry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 I have friends that are in their 60s that feel better than I do, and they can't even immagine what I'm talking about, when it comes to the way thyroid disease can make you feel old. Of course, like everyone, their heart will wear out in old age, or will suddenly stop beating, but they feel good up to that moment, and we were not meant to feel devastated in our old age (70s to 90s), we were actually meant to go to " sleep " peacefully. This is nothing to do with " getting older " . Obviously, I don't look or act like I did when I was in my teens or twenties, but it certainly shouldn't have gone THIS far, with the wells under the eyes, dizziness, brain fog, skin that is thick and needs motor oil on it just to keep from cracking, plus the zillions of other things that happen to us as hypos. (Lame feet and joints, heart palps, nausea, no energy, etc.......) Re: doctors recommend page > > > I have a friend who blames everything on the fact that I am getting older...grrrrr... I am not refusing to get older, I just want to get better!!!! > > Kerry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 you could be right. I get put downs from her all of the time. And since she moved, she has either really become a snob, or I never let it bother me before. Actually, about 4 months before she moved, she was getting really bad. I figured she was subconsciously trying to distance herself from her friends that she was moving away from. I figured, at that time, I was glad she was moving, and didn't plan on worrying about ever seeing her again. She didn't go to nursing school until she was older - and yes, her nursing degree is better than my BS degree!! and true - even her cars are better than my cars - I grew up with a father who was verbally abusive - I really don't need a friend who is too - Cris Re: doctors recommend page > > well - we had a discussion - she needs a bike helmet. I commented how hard it was for me to find one that fit my head - she said, small head, small brain. Sometimes she says the rudist things to me - I wonder how we're friends! so - I said - big head - big ego - then said I had to go. she said, oh, you're mad at me now>.. duh. > > I'm not sure why the attitude of the internet. I'm sure you're right tho - because had I mentioned I learned it from the books I had, they wouldn't be as good as medicial books that she and doctor's learned from. > I've had discussions in the past - my major in college was nutrition - ticked me when I was young, because nurses got jobs that I applied for, with no nutritional training. > Cris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 you could be right. I get put downs from her all of the time. And since she moved, she has either really become a snob, or I never let it bother me before. Actually, about 4 months before she moved, she was getting really bad. I figured she was subconsciously trying to distance herself from her friends that she was moving away from. I figured, at that time, I was glad she was moving, and didn't plan on worrying about ever seeing her again. She didn't go to nursing school until she was older - and yes, her nursing degree is better than my BS degree!! and true - even her cars are better than my cars - I grew up with a father who was verbally abusive - I really don't need a friend who is too - Cris Re: doctors recommend page > > well - we had a discussion - she needs a bike helmet. I commented how hard it was for me to find one that fit my head - she said, small head, small brain. Sometimes she says the rudist things to me - I wonder how we're friends! so - I said - big head - big ego - then said I had to go. she said, oh, you're mad at me now>.. duh. > > I'm not sure why the attitude of the internet. I'm sure you're right tho - because had I mentioned I learned it from the books I had, they wouldn't be as good as medicial books that she and doctor's learned from. > I've had discussions in the past - my major in college was nutrition - ticked me when I was young, because nurses got jobs that I applied for, with no nutritional training. > Cris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2004 Report Share Posted December 30, 2004 so - this is something we all get, because of how we feel. I know I mentioned muscle fatigue. she said - work thru the pain. exercise. I said - it isn't the pain, it's the fatigue. She said - well, I have that too.... sounds like our old neighbor, who asked us our symptoms so she could go to her dr. with made up problems for pain meds! and - you know what - they gave them to her!! Cris Re: doctors recommend page Everyone. adult kids & self included, tells me " it's just old age " too with all my symptoms. Even my older sister, the jock, keeps saying " Oh we've all got that " (herself, husband, friends) whenever I mention any symptoms. Or she gives me a remedy for each symptom. For the back pain/spinal pathology.......more exercise or surgery or just take Alleve or Tylenol. For the depression...get more outdoor light/sun & exercise. For the lethargy...get out more & do more stuff...get busy. For the GERD/acid reflux...just spit it out when it comes up. For the Buddah Belly...get more exercise...do 100 sit ups per day (like she does). For the thyroid...get a good doctor. Most others say the same things to me. There's 80yo people in my neighborhood who can work circles around me out in their yards/gardens that I couldn't even think about without having more pain & fatigue. So what's old age got to do with it? Well something yes...but not until we're in our 90s if you ask me. I'm still 67. My mom & her two sisters (now in their 90s) were way healthier & more active than me all through their & 80s even. With maybe a little arthritis & some depression depending on their life's circumstances or deaths of spouses, etc. is about all. ----- Original Message ----- From: nc2406@... In a message dated 12/30/2004 3:50:42 PM Eastern Standard Time, klb58@... writes: > I have a friend who blames everything on the fact that I am getting > older...grrrrr... I am not refusing to get older, I just want to get better!!!! if it wasn't that I felt better now at going on 50 than I did at 35...I might believe that...but hypo makes you feel old...and Armour has been like a fountain of youth. cindi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2004 Report Share Posted December 31, 2004 Yes others who don't have the thyroid problems just do NOT understand & we cannot make them understand. So I just don't even try to anymore. That's really amazing that lady told her doctor bogus symptoms & he gave her Rx drugs for them. I have a friend a few years younger than me who told me to do the same thing...really fake it a lot & cry & carry on with doctors about all kinds of exaggerated things ongoing with me. She has done it & it worked for her too. She has diabetes & used to have a pituitary dysfunction from an accident who doesn't understand either about the depression & lethargy. She's never been really depressed or lethargic until recently because she didn't feel much, if any, pain & therefore wasn't alarmed by symptoms. Now with the full-blown diabetes she's feeling much pain from neuropathy & the devastation in her body from the diabetes, mini strokes/heart attacks she's had. So I think she's got a thyroid problem too from her former pituitary dysfunction that never got diagnosed or corrrected. She does a lot of enemas to relieve many symptoms for herself. Enemas are her main treatment for everything. I used to do those to detox years & years ago but don't do them anymore...too painful to get into any comfortable enough position to do them anymore. She's listening to me now about all that & I sent her a lot of information about natural thyroid, blood tests, what the knowledgeable doctors say & how they treat it. So she's going to tell her doctor about it to see if she can get some help in that department. ----- Original Message ----- From: Cris so - this is something we all get, because of how we feel. I know I mentioned muscle fatigue. she said - work thru the pain. exercise. I said - it isn't the pain, it's the fatigue. She said - well, I have that too.... sounds like our old neighbor, who asked us our symptoms so she could go to her dr. with made up problems for pain meds! and - you know what - they gave them to her!! Cris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2004 Report Share Posted December 31, 2004 Yes others who don't have the thyroid problems just do NOT understand & we cannot make them understand. So I just don't even try to anymore. That's really amazing that lady told her doctor bogus symptoms & he gave her Rx drugs for them. I have a friend a few years younger than me who told me to do the same thing...really fake it a lot & cry & carry on with doctors about all kinds of exaggerated things ongoing with me. She has done it & it worked for her too. She has diabetes & used to have a pituitary dysfunction from an accident who doesn't understand either about the depression & lethargy. She's never been really depressed or lethargic until recently because she didn't feel much, if any, pain & therefore wasn't alarmed by symptoms. Now with the full-blown diabetes she's feeling much pain from neuropathy & the devastation in her body from the diabetes, mini strokes/heart attacks she's had. So I think she's got a thyroid problem too from her former pituitary dysfunction that never got diagnosed or corrrected. She does a lot of enemas to relieve many symptoms for herself. Enemas are her main treatment for everything. I used to do those to detox years & years ago but don't do them anymore...too painful to get into any comfortable enough position to do them anymore. She's listening to me now about all that & I sent her a lot of information about natural thyroid, blood tests, what the knowledgeable doctors say & how they treat it. So she's going to tell her doctor about it to see if she can get some help in that department. ----- Original Message ----- From: Cris so - this is something we all get, because of how we feel. I know I mentioned muscle fatigue. she said - work thru the pain. exercise. I said - it isn't the pain, it's the fatigue. She said - well, I have that too.... sounds like our old neighbor, who asked us our symptoms so she could go to her dr. with made up problems for pain meds! and - you know what - they gave them to her!! Cris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2004 Report Share Posted December 31, 2004 Yes others who don't have the thyroid problems just do NOT understand & we cannot make them understand. So I just don't even try to anymore. That's really amazing that lady told her doctor bogus symptoms & he gave her Rx drugs for them. I have a friend a few years younger than me who told me to do the same thing...really fake it a lot & cry & carry on with doctors about all kinds of exaggerated things ongoing with me. She has done it & it worked for her too. She has diabetes & used to have a pituitary dysfunction from an accident who doesn't understand either about the depression & lethargy. She's never been really depressed or lethargic until recently because she didn't feel much, if any, pain & therefore wasn't alarmed by symptoms. Now with the full-blown diabetes she's feeling much pain from neuropathy & the devastation in her body from the diabetes, mini strokes/heart attacks she's had. So I think she's got a thyroid problem too from her former pituitary dysfunction that never got diagnosed or corrrected. She does a lot of enemas to relieve many symptoms for herself. Enemas are her main treatment for everything. I used to do those to detox years & years ago but don't do them anymore...too painful to get into any comfortable enough position to do them anymore. She's listening to me now about all that & I sent her a lot of information about natural thyroid, blood tests, what the knowledgeable doctors say & how they treat it. So she's going to tell her doctor about it to see if she can get some help in that department. ----- Original Message ----- From: Cris so - this is something we all get, because of how we feel. I know I mentioned muscle fatigue. she said - work thru the pain. exercise. I said - it isn't the pain, it's the fatigue. She said - well, I have that too.... sounds like our old neighbor, who asked us our symptoms so she could go to her dr. with made up problems for pain meds! and - you know what - they gave them to her!! Cris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 1, 2005 Report Share Posted January 1, 2005 Yep! that lady was a piece of work. Ended up addicted to pain meds. She went to her gyny with problems, her regular md, to the walk in md... couldn't believe it! Started to come in to our houses to search for our meds - offered to trade certain drugs or things for the drugs she wanted. Had several surgeries - you guessed it - not necessary! to get pain meds. THAT puppy was really sick. I moved - then she moved - Cris Re: doctors recommend page Yes others who don't have the thyroid problems just do NOT understand & we cannot make them understand. So I just don't even try to anymore. That's really amazing that lady told her doctor bogus symptoms & he gave her Rx drugs for them. I have a friend a few years younger than me who told me to do the same thing...really fake it a lot & cry & carry on with doctors about all kinds of exaggerated things ongoing with me. She has done it & it worked for her too. She has diabetes & used to have a pituitary dysfunction from an accident who doesn't understand either about the depression & lethargy. She's never been really depressed or lethargic until recently because she didn't feel much, if any, pain & therefore wasn't alarmed by symptoms. Now with the full-blown diabetes she's feeling much pain from neuropathy & the devastation in her body from the diabetes, mini strokes/heart attacks she's had. So I think she's got a thyroid problem too from her former pituitary dysfunction that never got diagnosed or corrrected. She does a lot of enemas to relieve many symptoms for herself. Enemas are her main treatment for everything. I used to do those to detox years & years ago but don't do them anymore...too painful to get into any comfortable enough position to do them anymore. She's listening to me now about all that & I sent her a lot of information about natural thyroid, blood tests, what the knowledgeable doctors say & how they treat it. So she's going to tell her doctor about it to see if she can get some help in that department. ----- Original Message ----- From: Cris so - this is something we all get, because of how we feel. I know I mentioned muscle fatigue. she said - work thru the pain. exercise. I said - it isn't the pain, it's the fatigue. She said - well, I have that too.... sounds like our old neighbor, who asked us our symptoms so she could go to her dr. with made up problems for pain meds! and - you know what - they gave them to her!! Cris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 1, 2005 Report Share Posted January 1, 2005 Yep! that lady was a piece of work. Ended up addicted to pain meds. She went to her gyny with problems, her regular md, to the walk in md... couldn't believe it! Started to come in to our houses to search for our meds - offered to trade certain drugs or things for the drugs she wanted. Had several surgeries - you guessed it - not necessary! to get pain meds. THAT puppy was really sick. I moved - then she moved - Cris Re: doctors recommend page Yes others who don't have the thyroid problems just do NOT understand & we cannot make them understand. So I just don't even try to anymore. That's really amazing that lady told her doctor bogus symptoms & he gave her Rx drugs for them. I have a friend a few years younger than me who told me to do the same thing...really fake it a lot & cry & carry on with doctors about all kinds of exaggerated things ongoing with me. She has done it & it worked for her too. She has diabetes & used to have a pituitary dysfunction from an accident who doesn't understand either about the depression & lethargy. She's never been really depressed or lethargic until recently because she didn't feel much, if any, pain & therefore wasn't alarmed by symptoms. Now with the full-blown diabetes she's feeling much pain from neuropathy & the devastation in her body from the diabetes, mini strokes/heart attacks she's had. So I think she's got a thyroid problem too from her former pituitary dysfunction that never got diagnosed or corrrected. She does a lot of enemas to relieve many symptoms for herself. Enemas are her main treatment for everything. I used to do those to detox years & years ago but don't do them anymore...too painful to get into any comfortable enough position to do them anymore. She's listening to me now about all that & I sent her a lot of information about natural thyroid, blood tests, what the knowledgeable doctors say & how they treat it. So she's going to tell her doctor about it to see if she can get some help in that department. ----- Original Message ----- From: Cris so - this is something we all get, because of how we feel. I know I mentioned muscle fatigue. she said - work thru the pain. exercise. I said - it isn't the pain, it's the fatigue. She said - well, I have that too.... sounds like our old neighbor, who asked us our symptoms so she could go to her dr. with made up problems for pain meds! and - you know what - they gave them to her!! Cris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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