Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I was 9 weeks and my baby died at 7 weeks according to the ultrasound, I had a d&c that morning and it was 4 months ago it gets easier but little things still trigger a tearful reaction, we have decided to try again even though I am not that far out from my surgery but the lose was to great for my middle child and at times for me. I had kept much of my grief to myself but recently it has been popping its ugly head. so grieve as you must and when you are ready try again but i must say I know i will have a constant fear this next time, that this will happen again and i dont think anything canchange that. good luck to you apryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can not say that I know your pain but certainly empathize with your grief. We are here for support as needed. God bless you and your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I'm so sorry-you will be in my thoughts and prayers, honey. I've never had to deal w/ such a great loss but have had friends who have. You vent all you want, we here for you! L lost mybaby Hello everyone today I went to my 16th week appt. and my O.B. could not find the baby's heartbeat, she did a ultrasound and the baby was not moving no beat. She sent me to the other ultrasound room to have the tech look and I lost my baby between 10 and 11 weeks. Iam so outdone I had a appt last month on the 11th and there was a heartbeat and now a month later no beat, and on top of that I have to wait till friday to have the D&C done. Has this happen to anyone you carry a baby and the baby passes away and you don't know. This would of been my 3rd baby I really wanted this baby Iam so sick with sadness. Sorry if this is long I just needed toget it out before I explode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I'm so sorry-you will be in my thoughts and prayers, honey. I've never had to deal w/ such a great loss but have had friends who have. You vent all you want, we here for you! L lost mybaby Hello everyone today I went to my 16th week appt. and my O.B. could not find the baby's heartbeat, she did a ultrasound and the baby was not moving no beat. She sent me to the other ultrasound room to have the tech look and I lost my baby between 10 and 11 weeks. Iam so outdone I had a appt last month on the 11th and there was a heartbeat and now a month later no beat, and on top of that I have to wait till friday to have the D&C done. Has this happen to anyone you carry a baby and the baby passes away and you don't know. This would of been my 3rd baby I really wanted this baby Iam so sick with sadness. Sorry if this is long I just needed toget it out before I explode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I'm so sorry-you will be in my thoughts and prayers, honey. I've never had to deal w/ such a great loss but have had friends who have. You vent all you want, we here for you! L lost mybaby Hello everyone today I went to my 16th week appt. and my O.B. could not find the baby's heartbeat, she did a ultrasound and the baby was not moving no beat. She sent me to the other ultrasound room to have the tech look and I lost my baby between 10 and 11 weeks. Iam so outdone I had a appt last month on the 11th and there was a heartbeat and now a month later no beat, and on top of that I have to wait till friday to have the D&C done. Has this happen to anyone you carry a baby and the baby passes away and you don't know. This would of been my 3rd baby I really wanted this baby Iam so sick with sadness. Sorry if this is long I just needed toget it out before I explode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I'm so sorry. I know words cannot convey sympathy. My thoughts are with you. Haley Post Op RNY/March 21, 2003 EDD December 27, 2003 lost mybaby Hello everyone today I went to my 16th week appt. and my O.B. could not find the baby's heartbeat, she did a ultrasound and the baby was not moving no beat. She sent me to the other ultrasound room to have the tech look and I lost my baby between 10 and 11 weeks. Iam so outdone I had a appt last month on the 11th and there was a heartbeat and now a month later no beat, and on top of that I have to wait till friday to have the D&C done. Has this happen to anyone you carry a baby and the baby passes away and you don't know. This would of been my 3rd baby I really wanted this baby Iam so sick with sadness. Sorry if this is long I just needed toget it out before I explode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I'm so sorry. I know words cannot convey sympathy. My thoughts are with you. Haley Post Op RNY/March 21, 2003 EDD December 27, 2003 lost mybaby Hello everyone today I went to my 16th week appt. and my O.B. could not find the baby's heartbeat, she did a ultrasound and the baby was not moving no beat. She sent me to the other ultrasound room to have the tech look and I lost my baby between 10 and 11 weeks. Iam so outdone I had a appt last month on the 11th and there was a heartbeat and now a month later no beat, and on top of that I have to wait till friday to have the D&C done. Has this happen to anyone you carry a baby and the baby passes away and you don't know. This would of been my 3rd baby I really wanted this baby Iam so sick with sadness. Sorry if this is long I just needed toget it out before I explode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I'm so sorry. I know words cannot convey sympathy. My thoughts are with you. Haley Post Op RNY/March 21, 2003 EDD December 27, 2003 lost mybaby Hello everyone today I went to my 16th week appt. and my O.B. could not find the baby's heartbeat, she did a ultrasound and the baby was not moving no beat. She sent me to the other ultrasound room to have the tech look and I lost my baby between 10 and 11 weeks. Iam so outdone I had a appt last month on the 11th and there was a heartbeat and now a month later no beat, and on top of that I have to wait till friday to have the D&C done. Has this happen to anyone you carry a baby and the baby passes away and you don't know. This would of been my 3rd baby I really wanted this baby Iam so sick with sadness. Sorry if this is long I just needed toget it out before I explode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 Kris, I can totally relate. When andra was born stillborn at 36 weeks it was the deepest hurt I have ever felt in my life. It really did get better with time, but I still hurt too! God bless, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 Oh, honey, I'm so sorry. I know there's nothing I can to make you feel better, but I went on to have 2 healthy kids after a similar miscarriage. Time hasn't made the pain go away, but it has made it easier to deal with. Rusty >Hello everyone today I went to my 16th week appt. and my O.B. could >not find the baby's heartbeat, she did a ultrasound and the baby was >not moving no beat. She sent me to the other ultrasound room to have >the tech look and I lost my baby between 10 and 11 weeks. Iam so >outdone I had a appt last month on the 11th and there was a heartbeat >and now a month later no beat, and on top of that I have to wait till >friday to have the D&C done. Has this happen to anyone you carry a >baby and the baby passes away and you don't know. This would of been >my 3rd baby I really wanted this baby Iam so sick with sadness. Sorry >if this is long I just needed toget it out before I explode. > > > >Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2003 Report Share Posted July 11, 2003 I'm so sorry to hear of your news, my thoughts are with you and your family. ~ BabyCopia ~ Unique and Original Baby Products ~ Preggie Pops Now Available! ~ www.babycopia.com lost mybaby Hello everyone today I went to my 16th week appt. and my O.B. could not find the baby's heartbeat, she did a ultrasound and the baby was not moving no beat. She sent me to the other ultrasound room to have the tech look and I lost my baby between 10 and 11 weeks. Iam so outdone I had a appt last month on the 11th and there was a heartbeat and now a month later no beat, and on top of that I have to wait till friday to have the D&C done. Has this happen to anyone you carry a baby and the baby passes away and you don't know. This would of been my 3rd baby I really wanted this baby Iam so sick with sadness. Sorry if this is long I just needed toget it out before I explode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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