Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Hi Everyone, I am also a new member - not a sufferer of BC, but like , trying to support someone I love very much, my younger sister. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to learn more about this awful disease and hopefully, learn how I can make life a bit easier and happier for my sister. Cheers June Your free 'click' can help find a cure for breast cancer. Please visit http://breastcancer.care2.com/ " Don't be afraid to appreciate the qualities of other's dogs. Breeding is a competition with yourself, not with others " This e-mail is for the use of the intended recipient(s) only. If you have received this e-mail in error, please notify the sender immediately and then delete it. If you are not the intended recipient, you must not use, disclose or distribute this e-mail without the author's prior permission. I have taken precautions to minimise the risk of transmitting software viruses, but I advise you to carry out your own virus checks on any attachment to this message. I cannot accept liability for any loss or damage caused by software viruses hello there I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn more about comforting , and living life __________ NOD32 1.1846 (20061031) Information __________ This message was checked by NOD32 antivirus system. http://www.eset.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Welcome June and , I don't remember seeing 's post. I know Yahoo has not been sending all the posts sometimes. I will keep your loved ones in my prayers. Please feel free to ask any questions you may have. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com hello there I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn more about comforting , and living life __________ NOD32 1.1846 (20061031) Information __________ This message was checked by NOD32 antivirus system. http://www.eset.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Welcome June and , I don't remember seeing 's post. I know Yahoo has not been sending all the posts sometimes. I will keep your loved ones in my prayers. Please feel free to ask any questions you may have. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com hello there I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn more about comforting , and living life __________ NOD32 1.1846 (20061031) Information __________ This message was checked by NOD32 antivirus system. http://www.eset.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Welcome, June...sorry to hear about your sister. You are wonderful to join to help her through... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Welcome, June...sorry to hear about your sister. You are wonderful to join to help her through... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Welcome, June...sorry to hear about your sister. You are wonderful to join to help her through... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Hi - as a newly welcomed member of the club no one wants to join, I can tell you the best thing for me was people keeping things normal - not the pity me stuff - they did listen and wanted to hear what i had to say, however, they also kept me informed on thier kids, thier lives, thier work, my work, etc. Just knowing that the world really did not stop turning was a huge boost, as well as being made a part of the " normal " world outside my own spinning head. Hope that this helps and best of luck to you! Sharon in Vegas > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > more about comforting , and living life > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Hi - as a newly welcomed member of the club no one wants to join, I can tell you the best thing for me was people keeping things normal - not the pity me stuff - they did listen and wanted to hear what i had to say, however, they also kept me informed on thier kids, thier lives, thier work, my work, etc. Just knowing that the world really did not stop turning was a huge boost, as well as being made a part of the " normal " world outside my own spinning head. Hope that this helps and best of luck to you! Sharon in Vegas > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > more about comforting , and living life > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 Hi - as a newly welcomed member of the club no one wants to join, I can tell you the best thing for me was people keeping things normal - not the pity me stuff - they did listen and wanted to hear what i had to say, however, they also kept me informed on thier kids, thier lives, thier work, my work, etc. Just knowing that the world really did not stop turning was a huge boost, as well as being made a part of the " normal " world outside my own spinning head. Hope that this helps and best of luck to you! Sharon in Vegas > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > more about comforting , and living life > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2006 Report Share Posted November 1, 2006 Hi , You're right on the money! Listening and being a shoulder does go a long way towards support of someone who has B/C! It sometimes feel like there is nobody that really understands how I'm feeling or what I'm going through, EXCEPT someone else who is going through or has been through B/C. Although, I have several friends who seem to be both comforting and supporting at the " right time " . Sometimes, we need to feel sad for ourselves, " why me " and others, we're strong and fighting women who say " why not me " . There is a balance but at times I'm way off balance in my life and how to proceed with it. It's very complex, and I applaud you for coming to a place where you can learn more to become more supportive. We all need friends like you, . Thank you for joining. Ellen > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > more about comforting , and living life > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2006 Report Share Posted November 1, 2006 Hi , You're right on the money! Listening and being a shoulder does go a long way towards support of someone who has B/C! It sometimes feel like there is nobody that really understands how I'm feeling or what I'm going through, EXCEPT someone else who is going through or has been through B/C. Although, I have several friends who seem to be both comforting and supporting at the " right time " . Sometimes, we need to feel sad for ourselves, " why me " and others, we're strong and fighting women who say " why not me " . There is a balance but at times I'm way off balance in my life and how to proceed with it. It's very complex, and I applaud you for coming to a place where you can learn more to become more supportive. We all need friends like you, . Thank you for joining. Ellen > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > more about comforting , and living life > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2006 Report Share Posted November 1, 2006 Hi , You're right on the money! Listening and being a shoulder does go a long way towards support of someone who has B/C! It sometimes feel like there is nobody that really understands how I'm feeling or what I'm going through, EXCEPT someone else who is going through or has been through B/C. Although, I have several friends who seem to be both comforting and supporting at the " right time " . Sometimes, we need to feel sad for ourselves, " why me " and others, we're strong and fighting women who say " why not me " . There is a balance but at times I'm way off balance in my life and how to proceed with it. It's very complex, and I applaud you for coming to a place where you can learn more to become more supportive. We all need friends like you, . Thank you for joining. Ellen > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > more about comforting , and living life > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2006 Report Share Posted November 1, 2006 Welcome I couldn't agree more with Sharon. There's nothing worse than an " oh poor you " attitude from someone. Talking about normal stuff is a such a comfort. Only thing I might add is try not to be bothered by your loved ones tears. My emotions tend roll over me in waves. A smile and gentle hug go a very long way to making me feel better. And if you get sniffly to, thats ok. I'm pretty new to the group (joined in Oct) so I dont post much but I read every message. Its big moral boaster for me. Kathleen > > > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > > more about comforting , and living life > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2006 Report Share Posted November 1, 2006 Welcome I couldn't agree more with Sharon. There's nothing worse than an " oh poor you " attitude from someone. Talking about normal stuff is a such a comfort. Only thing I might add is try not to be bothered by your loved ones tears. My emotions tend roll over me in waves. A smile and gentle hug go a very long way to making me feel better. And if you get sniffly to, thats ok. I'm pretty new to the group (joined in Oct) so I dont post much but I read every message. Its big moral boaster for me. Kathleen > > > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > > more about comforting , and living life > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2006 Report Share Posted November 1, 2006 Welcome I couldn't agree more with Sharon. There's nothing worse than an " oh poor you " attitude from someone. Talking about normal stuff is a such a comfort. Only thing I might add is try not to be bothered by your loved ones tears. My emotions tend roll over me in waves. A smile and gentle hug go a very long way to making me feel better. And if you get sniffly to, thats ok. I'm pretty new to the group (joined in Oct) so I dont post much but I read every message. Its big moral boaster for me. Kathleen > > > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and help > > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > > more about comforting , and living life > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2006 Report Share Posted November 1, 2006 Thanks . She is a very special lady and I just wish I was closer so that I could do something/anything that seems more tangible - even if it was making good old chicken soup every now and again Hugs June June Hayles Great Dane Rehoming & Rescue Your free 'click' can help find a cure for breast cancer. Please visit http://breastcancer.care2.com/ " Don't be afraid to appreciate the qualities of other's dogs. Breeding is a competition with yourself, not with others " This e-mail is for the use of the intended recipient(s) only. If you have received this e-mail in error, please notify the sender immediately and then delete it. If you are not the intended recipient, you must not use, disclose or distribute this e-mail without the author's prior permission. I have taken precautions to minimise the risk of transmitting software viruses, but I advise you to carry out your own virus checks on any attachment to this message. I cannot accept liability for any loss or damage caused by software viruses Re: hello there Welcome, June...sorry to hear about your sister. You are wonderful to join to help her through... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 1, 2006 Report Share Posted November 1, 2006 Dear Ellen, I know that your words were meant for someone else but they meant alot to me and I think that they help all of us and make our resolve stronger. Thank you so much. ne > > > > I am New member to this group I've joined to gain the knowledge of > > those who are dealing and living with breastcancer . I've read some > > very uplifting messages. I would like to learn how to comfort and > help > > someone you love who is affected with breastcancer cop with it. As a > > loveone it hurts feeling as if there's nothing you can do to uplift > > and take away the pain but reading some of the messages I've learned > > that listening and being a shoulder goes a long way. I hope to learn > > more about comforting , and living life > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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