Guest guest Posted February 29, 2008 Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 I think you're stressing out too much :-) Usually we cooled the car off before putting my daughter in (open it up and run the A/C for a few mins). If you don't feel it is cool enough you can take the band off for a little while in the car. If you can move the vaccinations a few days it might be less stressful for you, but not essential. Do you give him tylenol when he gets a fever after the vax? If so you can just keep your eye on it and give tylenol as needed. My daughter tended to get a fever too, but low grade. Tylenol took care of it. I would say just play it by ear when you see how he's doing. Your 8 year old will probably be disappointed if you don't go and maybe he'll do better than you expect. They do get sweaty the first week or so. Make sure you dress him lighter - no socks etc. Let us know how he does. -christine sydney 2 yrs starband grad > > Hello - I need some advice. I may be just stressing out (my husband > thinks so) but what I am worried about is my son gets his band next > wed. March 5th. Then on Friday (March 7) my 8 year old is in a play > that I'd planned to go to; however, I am worried that with it being > so soon after getting the band that maybe I should explain to her > that I won't be able to make it. My concern is about if he will be > adjusted to the band by that time and driving in the hot car (we are > in Phx). Without the band if he gets upset in the car his little > head is dripping with sweat. > > Then I remembered that Calvin's 6 month vaccinations are scheduled > for that friday in the morning. Is it a bad idea to have the > vaccinations so soon after getting the band? He always runs a fever > after getting his vaccinations. I am going to try and reschedule the > appt for Monday, but may have a difficult time doing so. > > So basically, I am worried about taking him out in the hot car to the > play 2 days after getting the band, since I don't know how quickly > he'll adjust and if getting vaccinations just 2 days after getting > the band could be a problem? If I can't reschedule the vaccinations, > I definitely won't go to the play since he'll likely be running a > fever. > > Gretchen > Calvin 6 mon (tort - left plagio - docband 3/5/08) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 29, 2008 Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 You have lots going on! I think you're stressing just a little too much too, but I know it's hard not to. I can tell you this, I bet it all goes a lot better than you prepare yourself for. I don't know about the vaccinations, my son hasn't gotten a fever with his. I would think moving it to Monday can only be a good thing if you can manage it, just with the crankiness and everything. I would definitely go to the play. You're daughter would be so disappointed. The sweat is not that big of a deal. Our therapist said to take my son's band off every couple of hours and towel dry his head and the band, and that's just what I did. He will be sweaty, but it's manageable. I was prepared for the worst when my son got his band. We have to drive 3 hours to Charlotte to go to Cranial Tech and stay with my in- laws. When he was going to be fitted, I was prepared to stay for days while he adjusted, thinking that he was going to get red spots, problems, etc., made my daughter miss school, prepared the teachers that my son might be out of school for a week or more as he adjusted (he's in a toddler program), was packed for a week's stay, just in case (I didn't want to have to drive back for an adjustment a day later). He fussed for like 5 seconds when they put it on his head, and that was it. He slept in it that first night for 12 hours and didn't make a peep. The next day we went home and he was in the car for 3 hours, no problem. Now, every child might not be as easy as that, but I bet most moms will say that their child adjusted way better than they expected, and way better than the moms themselves! Prepare for the worst and hope for the best! But definitely go to the play, you'll be upset if you don't. Good luck! Jake-17.5m (tort resolved/rt plagio/DocBand 2/11/08) Jordan-4 > > Hello - I need some advice. I may be just stressing out (my husband > thinks so) but what I am worried about is my son gets his band next > wed. March 5th. Then on Friday (March 7) my 8 year old is in a play > that I'd planned to go to; however, I am worried that with it being > so soon after getting the band that maybe I should explain to her > that I won't be able to make it. My concern is about if he will be > adjusted to the band by that time and driving in the hot car (we are > in Phx). Without the band if he gets upset in the car his little > head is dripping with sweat. > > Then I remembered that Calvin's 6 month vaccinations are scheduled > for that friday in the morning. Is it a bad idea to have the > vaccinations so soon after getting the band? He always runs a fever > after getting his vaccinations. I am going to try and reschedule the > appt for Monday, but may have a difficult time doing so. > > So basically, I am worried about taking him out in the hot car to the > play 2 days after getting the band, since I don't know how quickly > he'll adjust and if getting vaccinations just 2 days after getting > the band could be a problem? If I can't reschedule the vaccinations, > I definitely won't go to the play since he'll likely be running a > fever. > > Gretchen > Calvin 6 mon (tort - left plagio - docband 3/5/08) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 29, 2008 Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 Also, I'm a firm believer that a baby feeds off the mom's emotions, so if your son senses your stress, he might become stressed as well. The more laid back and matter of fact you are through the whole process, the easier it will be on him. Plus, I was just thinking again how my 4-year-old daughter was basically a nightmare that first week of the band. I think she sensed our attention was focused on Jake and his new hat, and she acted out to say " hey! what about me? " So that just reiterates, for me anyway, that you should go to the play! Hope all goes well! Jake-17.5m (tort resolved/rt plagio/DocBand 2/11/08) Jordan-4 > > > > Hello - I need some advice. I may be just stressing out (my > husband > > thinks so) but what I am worried about is my son gets his band > next > > wed. March 5th. Then on Friday (March 7) my 8 year old is in a > play > > that I'd planned to go to; however, I am worried that with it > being > > so soon after getting the band that maybe I should explain to her > > that I won't be able to make it. My concern is about if he will be > > adjusted to the band by that time and driving in the hot car (we > are > > in Phx). Without the band if he gets upset in the car his little > > head is dripping with sweat. > > > > Then I remembered that Calvin's 6 month vaccinations are scheduled > > for that friday in the morning. Is it a bad idea to have the > > vaccinations so soon after getting the band? He always runs a > fever > > after getting his vaccinations. I am going to try and reschedule > the > > appt for Monday, but may have a difficult time doing so. > > > > So basically, I am worried about taking him out in the hot car to > the > > play 2 days after getting the band, since I don't know how quickly > > he'll adjust and if getting vaccinations just 2 days after getting > > the band could be a problem? If I can't reschedule the > vaccinations, > > I definitely won't go to the play since he'll likely be running a > > fever. > > > > Gretchen > > Calvin 6 mon (tort - left plagio - docband 3/5/08) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 29, 2008 Report Share Posted February 29, 2008 One more thing, I mentioned to our ortho (in PHX) that I was so thankful my son was banded before it got hot (Feb.-April). Her comment was that they actually see more issues in the cooler months because people are out more and that in the summer months they see less heat rashes, etc. > > > > Hello - I need some advice. I may be just stressing out (my > husband > > thinks so) but what I am worried about is my son gets his band > next > > wed. March 5th. Then on Friday (March 7) my 8 year old is in a > play > > that I'd planned to go to; however, I am worried that with it > being > > so soon after getting the band that maybe I should explain to her > > that I won't be able to make it. My concern is about if he will be > > adjusted to the band by that time and driving in the hot car (we > are > > in Phx). Without the band if he gets upset in the car his little > > head is dripping with sweat. > > > > Then I remembered that Calvin's 6 month vaccinations are scheduled > > for that friday in the morning. Is it a bad idea to have the > > vaccinations so soon after getting the band? He always runs a > fever > > after getting his vaccinations. I am going to try and reschedule > the > > appt for Monday, but may have a difficult time doing so. > > > > So basically, I am worried about taking him out in the hot car to > the > > play 2 days after getting the band, since I don't know how quickly > > he'll adjust and if getting vaccinations just 2 days after getting > > the band could be a problem? If I can't reschedule the > vaccinations, > > I definitely won't go to the play since he'll likely be running a > > fever. > > > > Gretchen > > Calvin 6 mon (tort - left plagio - docband 3/5/08) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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