Guest guest Posted August 4, 2004 Report Share Posted August 4, 2004 I've seen this happen a lot to babies who spend too much time in a car seat or other type of carrier, or in their cribs too much - basically, babies who are not held enough and allowed to sit up-right enough through the day. (rules Everett out! haha, he won't let me put him down!) The skull is so soft it will take on the shape of the flat surface found in teh crib, seat or carrier, swing, etc.. The foster baby mom has right now is 3 months old and has quite the cone head because the back of his head was so flat when she got him due to his drug-momma leaving him lay all the time. After just ten days in her care (held a lot!) it's already looking better. Maybe instead of putting the baby in a seat/swing/etc., during the day hold him in a sling or simular device that allows more up right positioning but still allows your hands free to do your chores. s. Re: OT question My 4 month old also has a bit of a flat spot as she favors laying on the side in bed, in the swing, in the bouncer, in the carseat, etc. they told me too, like said, more tummy time. more time off that spot. make her lie on the other side. things like that. I am not saying this doc is wrong but remember that some docs are quick to turn to treatments when other less invasive and expensive treatments can work too(like less time on his head) (ok I know that sounded funny but you know what I meatn! now I am just picturing this kid hanging upside down on his head lol)follow your gut. if you have questions or doubts find another doc. get a second opinion. --- Kramer kramer0103@...> wrote: > Hi , > > We kinda had the same problem with our 10 month old > although he's seen at St. Louis Shriner's Hospital. > He seen a type of surgeon I can't think of the type > she was at the time but he was about the same age as > your son and he had a flat spot on one side of his > head. You could really tell that his head was > starting to look a little deformed looking. Now > considering I have no clue as to the severity of > your son's flat spot, but I was told that I needed > to try more belly activities and stay away from the > side that was going flat. I was also told that his > head will more than likely start to take shape as he > starts to sit up. > > I was also told that I could put my son in a helmet. > It was a bit pricey also. May go back and talk to > your peditrician or who they recommended you to to > find out more options. I hope that he doesn't have > to have that band. > > Christi > 10/23/01 > 9/27/03 BCF DBB 12hr/day > > tracy@...> wrote: > My son's pediatrician thought his head was a bit too > flat in the back and > sent us to have it evaluated. It is flat, which I > thought was too flat as > well, and now they want to put him in something > called a DOC band. He would > have to wear this for about 12 weeks and it will > help round out his head and > make it more symmetrical again. We were told that > if it isn't fixed, it > could get worse over the next 2 months or so (my son > is 4 months old) and > cause jaw and teeth alignment problems in the > future. My uncle is a dentist > and although he's never thought about it before, he > said that after he > thought about it, it is posslbe for that to happen. > > I was just wondering if anyone here had any > experience with this and this > type of band? Insurance usually doesn't cover this > type of thing and it's > about $3000 to have it all done. This includes the > weekly visits for > adjustments to the band. My grandmother is lending > us the money, but it is > a lot. I know something needs to be done for him > because I didn't need a > doctor to tell me that the back of his head is > flatter than it should be, > but I want to find out what I can before handing > over $3000 to this place. > > Thanks! > > and > BCF 03/25/2004 > DBB 23/7 > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 won't usually let me put him down much either anymore. Unfortunately he has to be down sometimes though because I work as a medical transcriptionist, which is great because it allows me to stay home and take care of him. I can type with him sitting in my lap, but since he can't sit unsupported yet, he ends up leaning over to the side, so I spend a lot of time sitting him back up again. Once he can sit on his own, I'm sure it'll be better....maybe....as long as he doesn't decide he's going to help me type! LOL I've been trying to get him on his tummy more, but it can be difficult since he doesn't really like it much, but I guess he'll learn. That's the docs goal at this point....full time on the tummy with an I don't mind it attitude from him. I would keep an eye on the baby's head because they say that a lot people think it will correct itself, but it won't. It might look better over time and not be a problem, but I guess it depends on how severe it is. And that's what they said....bouncy chairs and swings contribute to it, but ever since they've made babies sleep on their backs to help prevent SIDS, they've seen a lot more cases of this because they do end up spending so much of their early months on their backs or in a swing or chair. Trust me, if I have a second one, I will do things differently. He'd still be sleeping on his back, but he'd learn to like tummy time a lot sooner and not spend very much time in a swing or bouncy chair. and BCF 03/25/2004 DBB 23/7 Re: OT question > I've seen this happen a lot to babies who spend too much time in a car seat or other type of carrier, or in their cribs too much - basically, babies who are not held enough and allowed to sit up-right enough through the day. (rules Everett out! haha, he won't let me put him down!) The skull is so soft it will take on the shape of the flat surface found in teh crib, seat or carrier, swing, etc.. The foster baby mom has right now is 3 months old and has quite the cone head because the back of his head was so flat when she got him due to his drug-momma leaving him lay all the time. After just ten days in her care (held a lot!) it's already looking better. Maybe instead of putting the baby in a seat/swing/etc., during the day hold him in a sling or simular device that allows more up right positioning but still allows your hands free to do your chores. > s. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 Louisa, definitely let me know what your friend says! I know kids can be mean, so I want to make sure he won't get teased for something like that that we can fix. He's most likely going to have a time of it with his last name and I don't want to add to that with a fixable problem. : ) Thanks! and BCF 03/25/2004 DBB 23/7 Re: OT question > , > My friend's daughter had something she wore on her head for a while. > I have sent her an e-mail asking her about it. It is great you are > checking into it before making the decision, better to get it done > now than wait until they are older. I know what you mean about > wanting to avoid the wrath of other children at school. It's all > part of growing up, but you want to make sure you do all you can to > help them avoid problems. That's what keeps me curious about the > different calf sizes on Unilateral CF. > > I will let you know if what our friend had was similar to what you > are considering. > > Louisa > > > > > > My son's pediatrician thought his head was a bit too flat in the > back and > > > sent us to have it evaluated. It is flat, which I thought was > too flat as > > > well, and now they want to put him in something called a DOC > band. He > > would > > > have to wear this for about 12 weeks and it will help round out > his head > > and > > > make it more symmetrical again. We were told that if it isn't > fixed, it > > > could get worse over the next 2 months or so (my son is 4 months > old) and > > > cause jaw and teeth alignment problems in the future. My uncle > is a > > dentist > > > and although he's never thought about it before, he said that > after he > > > thought about it, it is posslbe for that to happen. > > > > > > I was just wondering if anyone here had any experience with this > and this > > > type of band? Insurance usually doesn't cover this type of thing > and it's > > > about $3000 to have it all done. This includes the weekly visits > for > > > adjustments to the band. My grandmother is lending us the money, > but it > > is > > > a lot. I know something needs to be done for him because I > didn't need a > > > doctor to tell me that the back of his head is flatter than it > should be, > > > but I want to find out what I can before handing over $3000 to > this place. > > > > > > Thanks! > > > > > > and > > > BCF 03/25/2004 > > > DBB 23/7 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 - I didn't even read the rest of the post. But try a boppy pillow or a nursing pillow (u shaped) and lie him there while you type. Make sure you've got foot support or he'll roll forward - a nursing stool works really well but you can let him lie there with you, nurse or whatever and the pillow holds him. Dunno how this would help with his head problem but at least you could be holding him and working when he doesn't want to sit. And once he's sitting... well, he won't let you type alone for your MT! Nothing will be accurate lol. I did the boppy pillow (I made my own) on the puter for each of mine. Works really well. Kori At 09:51 AM 8/5/2004, you wrote: > won't usually let me put him down much either anymore. >Unfortunately he has to be down sometimes though because I work as a medical >transcriptionist, which is great because it allows me to stay home and take >care of him. I can type with him sitting in my lap, but since he can't sit >unsupported yet, he ends up leaning over to the side, so I spend a lot of >time sitting him back up again. Once he can sit on his own, I'm sure it'll >be better....maybe....as long as he doesn't decide he's going to help me >type! LOL Kori Mama of Kenton - 6/98 Merek - 3/00 Darbi - 3/28/03 - Rt. CF - DBB 12hr/d (¨`·.·´¨) `·.¸(¨`·.·´¨) `·.¸.·´ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 I have a boppy pillow so I'll have to give that at try and see how it works. It'll definitley make life a lot easier if I can still work while holding him. I think I'll get more done during the day! and BCF 03/25/2004 DBB 23/7 Re: OT question - I didn't even read the rest of the post. But try a boppy pillow or a nursing pillow (u shaped) and lie him there while you type. Make sure you've got foot support or he'll roll forward - a nursing stool works really well but you can let him lie there with you, nurse or whatever and the pillow holds him. Dunno how this would help with his head problem but at least you could be holding him and working when he doesn't want to sit. And once he's sitting... well, he won't let you type alone for your MT! Nothing will be accurate lol. I did the boppy pillow (I made my own) on the puter for each of mine. Works really well. Kori At 09:51 AM 8/5/2004, you wrote: > won't usually let me put him down much either anymore. >Unfortunately he has to be down sometimes though because I work as a medical >transcriptionist, which is great because it allows me to stay home and take >care of him. I can type with him sitting in my lap, but since he can't sit >unsupported yet, he ends up leaning over to the side, so I spend a lot of >time sitting him back up again. Once he can sit on his own, I'm sure it'll >be better....maybe....as long as he doesn't decide he's going to help me >type! LOL Kori Mama of Kenton - 6/98 Merek - 3/00 Darbi - 3/28/03 - Rt. CF - DBB 12hr/d (¨`·.·´¨) `·.¸(¨`·.·´¨) `·.¸.·´ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 At 09:51 AM 8/5/2004, you wrote: >Trust >me, if I have a second one, I will do things differently. He'd still be >sleeping on his back, but he'd learn to like tummy time a lot sooner and not >spend very much time in a swing or bouncy chair. , With your job - it's hard not to use these things. Don't beat yourself up about it. And still, not all babies end up like this. But with one in the family - you are smart to look to other ways for baby to spend the day other than the swing or bouncy seat. Mine never did tummy time much, I did it when I remembered but it was more like 3 or 4 mo before I even remembered to put them down. I used the sling a lot with the first two (Darbi's legs turned purple in the sling and I just couldn't see using it when it did that even though I was told it wasn't a problem) and they side lay in bed most of the time (co-sleeping) too. I did hold them a lot more than using seats - with each child I used the swing a little more than the previous but they didn't swing much either. Since I was nursing I didn't want them to sleep very long and the swing would put them out for hours it seemed. But I'm glad I had it for when I needed it of course. Just sold it actually. I hope I don't get pg again! My children actually have a mild form of craniosynostosis where the anterior suture fuses early and forms a little klingon ridge in their foreheads but it doesn't compress the brain so we don't treat it. They all have it. I was really freaked at first with my oldest and took him to the Neurosurgeon for a consult but he was 2 at the time and it was just closing a little bit early - almost about the time it was supposed to so no brain compression which equals no head surgery! yay! Have you found the support group for this condition yet? Is this a specially made head band for each child or do you think perhaps someone has one they have stopped using that you could buy used? 3K is a lot of $ if you ask me. I think they're getting way more than they could possibly be worth and playing on parents fears with this one IMO. And why the heck doesn't insurance cover this? Do they want flat headed children on their insurance plans or what? Kori Kori Mama of Kenton - 6/98 Merek - 3/00 Darbi - 3/28/03 - Rt. CF - DBB 12hr/d (¨`·.·´¨) `·.¸(¨`·.·´¨) `·.¸.·´ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 When he can sit on your lap kiss your typing days good bye! LOL! I can't type with mine, he wants the key board. I did get a back pack carrier yesterday and managed to mow my lawn wearing it today. s. Re: OT question > I've seen this happen a lot to babies who spend too much time in a car seat or other type of carrier, or in their cribs too much - basically, babies who are not held enough and allowed to sit up-right enough through the day. (rules Everett out! haha, he won't let me put him down!) The skull is so soft it will take on the shape of the flat surface found in teh crib, seat or carrier, swing, etc.. The foster baby mom has right now is 3 months old and has quite the cone head because the back of his head was so flat when she got him due to his drug-momma leaving him lay all the time. After just ten days in her care (held a lot!) it's already looking better. Maybe instead of putting the baby in a seat/swing/etc., during the day hold him in a sling or simular device that allows more up right positioning but still allows your hands free to do your chores. > s. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2004 Report Share Posted August 5, 2004 Give him his own keyboard. My kids have really loved theirs. Now Darbi gets up on the table and bangs on the laptop if I leave it open. She is soooo thrilled with herself! Kori At 01:33 PM 8/5/2004, you wrote: >When he can sit on your lap kiss your typing days good bye! LOL! I can't >type with mine, he wants the key board. I did get a back pack carrier >yesterday and managed to mow my lawn wearing it today. >s. > > Re: OT question > > > > I've seen this happen a lot to babies who spend too much time in a car >seat or other type of carrier, or in their cribs too much - basically, >babies who are not held enough and allowed to sit up-right enough through >the day. (rules Everett out! haha, he won't let me put him down!) The >skull is so soft it will take on the shape of the flat surface found in >teh crib, seat or carrier, swing, etc.. The foster baby mom has right now >is 3 months old and has quite the cone head because the back of his head >was so flat when she got him due to his drug-momma leaving him lay all the >time. After just ten days in her care (held a lot!) it's already looking >better. Maybe instead of putting the baby in a seat/swing/etc., during the >day hold him in a sling or simular device that allows more up right >positioning but still allows your hands free to do your chores. > > s. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2004 Report Share Posted August 6, 2004 Just a note, I read somewhere that a baby cannot sit alone without falling sideways until their vestibulocochlear nerves are finished developing. I am guessing that is the part of your ear that deals with balance. But it said that usually happens around 4-5 months. I guess it is like everything else in that it depends on the baby. Freeman Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2004 Report Share Posted August 6, 2004 >At 07:49 PM 8/6/2004, you wrote: >Just a note, I read somewhere that a baby cannot sit alone without falling >sideways until their vestibulocochlear nerves are finished developing. I am >guessing that is the part of your ear that deals with balance. But it said that >usually happens around 4-5 months. I guess it is like everything else in that >it depends on the baby. And even then... they fall and bonk their heads over and over again anyway lol... Both my boys sat at somewhere around 5mo. Even the preemie. Then there was Darbs... who I swear to god, sat unaided at 3.5mo sometimes leaning on her hands but not always. She had MASTERED it by 4 mo and didn't fall anymore at all. I think she actually sat before she rolled (DBB you know - threw her off a little). She crawled at 5.5mo, walked at 10.5mo, said mama regularly by 11mo (but has very few words even now at 16mo - apparently Mama works well enough for her for everything and everyone... including Daddy and daddy's friends lol) She did everything earlier than her brothers, and neither of them had clubfoot. Some kids do this, others (most) don't. I'm glad I had two who were pretty much middle of the road before her or I would have thought something was wrong with the boys :~} I have an online friend who has a daughter Darbi's age - she walked at 8mo, speaks like 100 words and can SWIM! ACK! And then there's another online friend who'se child just started walking last week at 17mo. Go figure... My favorite milestones... sitting, finger foods, standing and potty training HAHA!! * Sitting - they can finally be set down about anywhere (except outside) so you can actually do *something*. * Finger foods - you can finally eat YOUR dinner again. * Standing - you can finally put them down outside to unlock the front door - your hips thank you. * Potty training - you can stop buying wipes by the case! Oh - and night weaning... A full night's sleep is quite a luxury to me... (going on 7 years with maybe 30 full night's sleep in that whole time) walking... is great and exciting (thrilling with a CF baby actually)... but it's an open doorway to more work for mama. They're so much easier when all they do is roll around on the floor LOL! Kori > Freeman > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 7, 2004 Report Share Posted August 7, 2004 Wow, those are all great milestones to look forward to. Kaitlin is 5 months old and she has been rolling over for as long as I can remember. I think the cast always helped her. I don't know if she will ever crawl though...seems anywhere she wants to go she rolls there. I am not kidding. That baby can roll clear across a room in seconds. It is the funniest thing. I don't think it's normal, but I'm not worried because atleast she is resourceful :-). Darbi sounds like a pretty quick learner. Kaitlin still can't sit alone without falling over but, I don't think she knows to try. I have tried the Boppy pillow and all, but she still gives me a puzzled look as she falls over. It's pretty cute. She can hold her head up like a pro though. As for talking, she only talks if I am out of the room or doing something else. I that's the only time she wants to talk. It's like she is saying, " Hello? I'm over here. Come play with me! " She can laugh out loud, she does that a lot! So cute. OOOOOHHHHH, *sigh* I LOVE being a mother. BTW, we got some of those seatbelt covers from the baby store. They work great to soften the bar, I have a lot less bruises and they are so cute. We got one with a butterfly and one with a ladybug. Not sure who mentioned the idea but thanks! Freeman Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2004 Report Share Posted August 8, 2004 OK, well... I suppose I should clarify. I'm in Portland... we have web feet 9 months out of the year... don't always want to hang outdoors in the muddy grass hehe... And since it seems all mine are sitting in the winter (spring/early summer babies) ... well, it's cold and rainy most of the time when they're that age for us. At 08:15 PM 8/6/2004, you wrote: >Sit " anywhere but out doors " ??? Oops, my kids just about live out doors, >even the baby who I've been plopping down every where from the grass to >the river bank since he was old enough to plop! haha Instead of >crawling, he " bear walks " on hands and FEET I guess because the rocks and >grass, etc., feel bad on his knees. I remember when my first discovered grass... he was about 10 mo's old in the spring and I put him on the grass - he wouldn't put his hands down! He was in a crawling stance but on his elbows! lol... I couldn't get a picture soon enough but it's burned into my mind the look on his face and his little hands up high with his elbows on the ground. >And finger foods: Um, his favorites are dirt-cookies and when he can find >them before I do, June Bugs! ACK! I've heard you don't want to get those in your hair... never seen one that I know of though. Does he really eat them?? You must be in the midwest huh? We're wet... but fairly bug free here. Kori Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2004 Report Share Posted August 8, 2004 You make Portland sound so lovely! hee hee....down here in Oklahoma it's the ticks and chiggers, and since we live by the river, add to that mosquitos. Of course the heat with the rocky hills invites the snakes. Web feet are sounding better and better to me! s. OK, well... I suppose I should clarify. I'm in Portland... we have web feet 9 months out of the year... don't always want to hang outdoors in the muddy grass hehe... And since it seems all mine are sitting in the winter (spring/early summer babies) ... well, it's cold and rainy most of the time when they're that age for us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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