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Thanks all for your concern. I never made it to the doctor (I don't

drive and my doctor's office does not take emergency appointments-they

tell you to go the hospital). Since hubby was out and about getting the

frig, I called our friend who was a private duty RN for 20 years and is

now a PA (physician's assistant). He came over and checked me out,

listened to my heart and took my blood pressure, (which was fairly high

for me) etc. I told him about my terrible mood swings of the past year,

the PCOS, the hormone imbalance, etc. He sort of chastised me (in a nice

way) about getting so upset over something as dumb as a broken

refrigerator and some spoiled meat. I wailed that it was much more than

just that. He said everything I mentioned was " fixable " and not worth

throwing myself into a tizzy about. Most times I feel I have no control

over my emotions. I don't *want* to get so upset, it just happens.

He said perhaps I should go on the medication my endocrinologist

recommended (I had just wanted to follow the low-carb diet for a while

and see what happened.) He said a good part of it may be from lack of

sleep. He made me promise to get 7 hours a night (don't see that

happening, but I'll try), to eat several small meals a day, all balanced

with some protein at every meal, and to not " sweat the small stuff. " He

also taught me a breathing exercise which seemed to help as well. I

don't have the pain in my chest this morning, and only a tiny bit of

tightness. He told me if I was still in pain by Friday, to either DEMAND

that my doctor see me that day, or go to the emergency room.

Thanks again for everyone's support !

Autumn :)

On Wed, 24 Sep 2003 06:49:08 -0000 " Dianne "

writes:

Autumn,

I wholeheartedly agree with Lucy. Maybe you should check in with a

doctor to make sure everything is fine. I heard tightness of the

chest can be a symptom of serious stuff sometimes.

Dianne

> Ah, Autumn, I'm sorry about all your troubles today with your frig

but I'm really concerned about your pain and the tightness in your

chest. That really doesn't sound at all good and I think you should

see your doctor, or at least give him/her a call. Please don't push

it aside, bad things can happen. I would truly feel awful if

anything happened to you.

>

> Lucy

>

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Thanks all for your concern. I never made it to the doctor (I don't

drive and my doctor's office does not take emergency appointments-they

tell you to go the hospital). Since hubby was out and about getting the

frig, I called our friend who was a private duty RN for 20 years and is

now a PA (physician's assistant). He came over and checked me out,

listened to my heart and took my blood pressure, (which was fairly high

for me) etc. I told him about my terrible mood swings of the past year,

the PCOS, the hormone imbalance, etc. He sort of chastised me (in a nice

way) about getting so upset over something as dumb as a broken

refrigerator and some spoiled meat. I wailed that it was much more than

just that. He said everything I mentioned was " fixable " and not worth

throwing myself into a tizzy about. Most times I feel I have no control

over my emotions. I don't *want* to get so upset, it just happens.

He said perhaps I should go on the medication my endocrinologist

recommended (I had just wanted to follow the low-carb diet for a while

and see what happened.) He said a good part of it may be from lack of

sleep. He made me promise to get 7 hours a night (don't see that

happening, but I'll try), to eat several small meals a day, all balanced

with some protein at every meal, and to not " sweat the small stuff. " He

also taught me a breathing exercise which seemed to help as well. I

don't have the pain in my chest this morning, and only a tiny bit of

tightness. He told me if I was still in pain by Friday, to either DEMAND

that my doctor see me that day, or go to the emergency room.

Thanks again for everyone's support !

Autumn :)

On Wed, 24 Sep 2003 06:49:08 -0000 " Dianne "

writes:

Autumn,

I wholeheartedly agree with Lucy. Maybe you should check in with a

doctor to make sure everything is fine. I heard tightness of the

chest can be a symptom of serious stuff sometimes.

Dianne

> Ah, Autumn, I'm sorry about all your troubles today with your frig

but I'm really concerned about your pain and the tightness in your

chest. That really doesn't sound at all good and I think you should

see your doctor, or at least give him/her a call. Please don't push

it aside, bad things can happen. I would truly feel awful if

anything happened to you.

>

> Lucy

>

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Thanks all for your concern. I never made it to the doctor (I don't

drive and my doctor's office does not take emergency appointments-they

tell you to go the hospital). Since hubby was out and about getting the

frig, I called our friend who was a private duty RN for 20 years and is

now a PA (physician's assistant). He came over and checked me out,

listened to my heart and took my blood pressure, (which was fairly high

for me) etc. I told him about my terrible mood swings of the past year,

the PCOS, the hormone imbalance, etc. He sort of chastised me (in a nice

way) about getting so upset over something as dumb as a broken

refrigerator and some spoiled meat. I wailed that it was much more than

just that. He said everything I mentioned was " fixable " and not worth

throwing myself into a tizzy about. Most times I feel I have no control

over my emotions. I don't *want* to get so upset, it just happens.

He said perhaps I should go on the medication my endocrinologist

recommended (I had just wanted to follow the low-carb diet for a while

and see what happened.) He said a good part of it may be from lack of

sleep. He made me promise to get 7 hours a night (don't see that

happening, but I'll try), to eat several small meals a day, all balanced

with some protein at every meal, and to not " sweat the small stuff. " He

also taught me a breathing exercise which seemed to help as well. I

don't have the pain in my chest this morning, and only a tiny bit of

tightness. He told me if I was still in pain by Friday, to either DEMAND

that my doctor see me that day, or go to the emergency room.

Thanks again for everyone's support !

Autumn :)

On Wed, 24 Sep 2003 06:49:08 -0000 " Dianne "

writes:

Autumn,

I wholeheartedly agree with Lucy. Maybe you should check in with a

doctor to make sure everything is fine. I heard tightness of the

chest can be a symptom of serious stuff sometimes.

Dianne

> Ah, Autumn, I'm sorry about all your troubles today with your frig

but I'm really concerned about your pain and the tightness in your

chest. That really doesn't sound at all good and I think you should

see your doctor, or at least give him/her a call. Please don't push

it aside, bad things can happen. I would truly feel awful if

anything happened to you.

>

> Lucy

>

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I'm glad to hear you did get some advice. I understand about erratic

sleep, but try to get what you can, and maybe sneak in little breaks

to relax when you can. Just remember to take care of yourself,

because all of us on this group really want you around for a long

time. Oh, and your husband probably does too. (haha!) Let us know,

and I think going to your doctor or the hospital on Friday if the

chest pain/tightness doesn't stop is a good idea, even if I have to

come out and drive you there myself. =+)

And while you're talking to your doctor, what about seeing if there

are any meds to help with your mood swings? (or if maybe a med you're

taking now is causing/adding to them)

hugs

Catalina

> > Ah, Autumn, I'm sorry about all your troubles today with your

frig

> but I'm really concerned about your pain and the tightness in your

> chest. That really doesn't sound at all good and I think you

should

> see your doctor, or at least give him/her a call. Please don't

push

> it aside, bad things can happen. I would truly feel awful if

> anything happened to you.

> >

> > Lucy

> >

>

>

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I'm glad to hear you did get some advice. I understand about erratic

sleep, but try to get what you can, and maybe sneak in little breaks

to relax when you can. Just remember to take care of yourself,

because all of us on this group really want you around for a long

time. Oh, and your husband probably does too. (haha!) Let us know,

and I think going to your doctor or the hospital on Friday if the

chest pain/tightness doesn't stop is a good idea, even if I have to

come out and drive you there myself. =+)

And while you're talking to your doctor, what about seeing if there

are any meds to help with your mood swings? (or if maybe a med you're

taking now is causing/adding to them)

hugs

Catalina

> > Ah, Autumn, I'm sorry about all your troubles today with your

frig

> but I'm really concerned about your pain and the tightness in your

> chest. That really doesn't sound at all good and I think you

should

> see your doctor, or at least give him/her a call. Please don't

push

> it aside, bad things can happen. I would truly feel awful if

> anything happened to you.

> >

> > Lucy

> >

>

>

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Catalina,

Thanks for the offer. Ha! I am trying to remain calm today, although I

had six calls this morning, all wanting to switch around their

appointments, which gave me a headache. Or maybe it was the wine. But

it's gone now. The headache, not the wine. : D

This is going to sound really dumb, but I am reluctant to get meds for my

mood swings and anxiety attacks because I see how dependent my mother and

brother are on them. Plus, my husband has accused me many times of

having a screw loose and it would give him more fuel for the fire.

Yesterday he told me to " take some Midol. " I have never taken Midol and

I said, " What for? Midol is for cramps. " He said, " No, it's good for

women when they go nuts. It's also good for uptight Yankees. " I said,

" Listen you redneck bleepity-bleep, Midol is for pain, and you know what?

Maybe I *should* get some, because you're a pain in my bleepin' ass! "

It was a lovely conversation. LMAO! I swear he should have been a Gemini

like me. We can tear each other's eyes out one minute and be all, " Hiya

Babyyyyy! the next. Oy. He had filled up my water bottles this morning

and put post-it notes on each one. Love. You. Sweetie. Drink. Your.

Water. LOL!

Autumn :)

On Wed, 24 Sep 2003 15:21:27 -0000 " denvermusicplus "

writes:

I'm glad to hear you did get some advice. I understand about erratic

sleep, but try to get what you can, and maybe sneak in little breaks to

relax when you can. Just remember to take care of yourself, because all

of us on this group really want you around for a long time. Oh, and your

husband probably does too. (haha!) Let us know, and I think going to your

doctor or the hospital on Friday if the chest pain/tightness doesn't stop

is a good idea, even if I have to come out and drive you there myself.

=+)

And while you're talking to your doctor, what about seeing if there are

any meds to help with your mood swings? (or if maybe a med you're taking

now is causing/adding to them)

hugs

Catalina

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Catalina,

Thanks for the offer. Ha! I am trying to remain calm today, although I

had six calls this morning, all wanting to switch around their

appointments, which gave me a headache. Or maybe it was the wine. But

it's gone now. The headache, not the wine. : D

This is going to sound really dumb, but I am reluctant to get meds for my

mood swings and anxiety attacks because I see how dependent my mother and

brother are on them. Plus, my husband has accused me many times of

having a screw loose and it would give him more fuel for the fire.

Yesterday he told me to " take some Midol. " I have never taken Midol and

I said, " What for? Midol is for cramps. " He said, " No, it's good for

women when they go nuts. It's also good for uptight Yankees. " I said,

" Listen you redneck bleepity-bleep, Midol is for pain, and you know what?

Maybe I *should* get some, because you're a pain in my bleepin' ass! "

It was a lovely conversation. LMAO! I swear he should have been a Gemini

like me. We can tear each other's eyes out one minute and be all, " Hiya

Babyyyyy! the next. Oy. He had filled up my water bottles this morning

and put post-it notes on each one. Love. You. Sweetie. Drink. Your.

Water. LOL!

Autumn :)

On Wed, 24 Sep 2003 15:21:27 -0000 " denvermusicplus "

writes:

I'm glad to hear you did get some advice. I understand about erratic

sleep, but try to get what you can, and maybe sneak in little breaks to

relax when you can. Just remember to take care of yourself, because all

of us on this group really want you around for a long time. Oh, and your

husband probably does too. (haha!) Let us know, and I think going to your

doctor or the hospital on Friday if the chest pain/tightness doesn't stop

is a good idea, even if I have to come out and drive you there myself.

=+)

And while you're talking to your doctor, what about seeing if there are

any meds to help with your mood swings? (or if maybe a med you're taking

now is causing/adding to them)

hugs

Catalina

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Those notes on the water are disgusting. ;-)

As for mood meds, I can understand your hesitation, I had to get over

my own before I started taking pills, but they've made such a huge

difference! Brain chemistry is like all of your other body parts as

far as sometimes it needs a little help. It's really no different

than diabetes or any other illness you'd take pills for. Not saying

you definitely need meds, of course, and I don't suggest chemicals

are the answer to everything. But hey, if you're already drinking

alone, and before noon, what harm could there be in some drugs? heehee

Catalina

> Catalina,

> Thanks for the offer. Ha! I am trying to remain calm today,

although I

> had six calls this morning, all wanting to switch around their

> appointments, which gave me a headache. Or maybe it was the wine.

But

> it's gone now. The headache, not the wine. : D

>

> This is going to sound really dumb, but I am reluctant to get meds

for my

> mood swings and anxiety attacks because I see how dependent my

mother and

> brother are on them. Plus, my husband has accused me many times of

> having a screw loose and it would give him more fuel for the fire.

>

> Yesterday he told me to " take some Midol. " I have never taken

Midol and

> I said, " What for? Midol is for cramps. " He said, " No, it's good

for

> women when they go nuts. It's also good for uptight Yankees. " I

said,

> " Listen you redneck bleepity-bleep, Midol is for pain, and you know

what?

> Maybe I *should* get some, because you're a pain in my bleepin'

ass! "

>

> It was a lovely conversation. LMAO! I swear he should have been a

Gemini

> like me. We can tear each other's eyes out one minute and be

all, " Hiya

> Babyyyyy! the next. Oy. He had filled up my water bottles this

morning

> and put post-it notes on each one. Love. You. Sweetie. Drink. Your.

> Water. LOL!

>

> Autumn :)

>

> On Wed, 24 Sep 2003 15:21:27 -0000 " denvermusicplus "

> <denvermusicplus@y...> writes:

> I'm glad to hear you did get some advice. I understand about erratic

> sleep, but try to get what you can, and maybe sneak in little

breaks to

> relax when you can. Just remember to take care of yourself, because

all

> of us on this group really want you around for a long time. Oh, and

your

> husband probably does too. (haha!) Let us know, and I think going

to your

> doctor or the hospital on Friday if the chest pain/tightness

doesn't stop

> is a good idea, even if I have to come out and drive you there

myself.

> =+)

>

> And while you're talking to your doctor, what about seeing if there

are

> any meds to help with your mood swings? (or if maybe a med you're

taking

> now is causing/adding to them)

>

> hugs

> Catalina

>

>

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Autumn,

Well I'm glad you had your friend check you out and that you are

feeling better. I do understand how when it seems like everything is

happening at once it can be overwhelming at the time. It might not

sound like much to your friend but at the time to you, it does feel

like a big deal. I totally understand that! You are allowed to be

upset! It's how you deal with it and react to it though that counts.

Just know we are hear for you to vent to. That and exercise is a

wonderful stress reliever! Take some deep breaths hon and vent away to

us here.

Hugs,

Gena

> Thanks all for your concern. I never made it to the doctor (I don't

> drive and my doctor's office does not take emergency appointments-they

> tell you to go the hospital). Since hubby was out and about getting

> the

> frig, I called our friend who was a private duty RN for 20 years and is

> now a PA (physician's assistant). He came over and checked me out,

> listened to my heart and took my blood pressure, (which was fairly high

> for me) etc. I told him about my terrible mood swings of the past

> year,

> the PCOS, the hormone imbalance, etc. He sort of chastised me (in a

> nice

> way) about getting so upset over something as dumb as a broken

> refrigerator and some spoiled meat. I wailed that it was much more

> than

> just that. He said everything I mentioned was " fixable " and not worth

> throwing myself into a tizzy about. Most times I feel I have no

> control

> over my emotions. I don't *want* to get so upset, it just happens.

>

> He said perhaps I should go on the medication my endocrinologist

> recommended (I had just wanted to follow the low-carb diet for a while

> and see what happened.) He said a good part of it may be from lack of

> sleep. He made me promise to get 7 hours a night (don't see that

> happening, but I'll try), to eat several small meals a day, all

> balanced

> with some protein at every meal, and to not " sweat the small stuff. "

> He

> also taught me a breathing exercise which seemed to help as well. I

> don't have the pain in my chest this morning, and only a tiny bit of

> tightness. He told me if I was still in pain by Friday, to either

> DEMAND

> that my doctor see me that day, or go to the emergency room.

>

> Thanks again for everyone's support !

> Autumn :)

>

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Autumn,

Well I'm glad you had your friend check you out and that you are

feeling better. I do understand how when it seems like everything is

happening at once it can be overwhelming at the time. It might not

sound like much to your friend but at the time to you, it does feel

like a big deal. I totally understand that! You are allowed to be

upset! It's how you deal with it and react to it though that counts.

Just know we are hear for you to vent to. That and exercise is a

wonderful stress reliever! Take some deep breaths hon and vent away to

us here.

Hugs,

Gena

> Thanks all for your concern. I never made it to the doctor (I don't

> drive and my doctor's office does not take emergency appointments-they

> tell you to go the hospital). Since hubby was out and about getting

> the

> frig, I called our friend who was a private duty RN for 20 years and is

> now a PA (physician's assistant). He came over and checked me out,

> listened to my heart and took my blood pressure, (which was fairly high

> for me) etc. I told him about my terrible mood swings of the past

> year,

> the PCOS, the hormone imbalance, etc. He sort of chastised me (in a

> nice

> way) about getting so upset over something as dumb as a broken

> refrigerator and some spoiled meat. I wailed that it was much more

> than

> just that. He said everything I mentioned was " fixable " and not worth

> throwing myself into a tizzy about. Most times I feel I have no

> control

> over my emotions. I don't *want* to get so upset, it just happens.

>

> He said perhaps I should go on the medication my endocrinologist

> recommended (I had just wanted to follow the low-carb diet for a while

> and see what happened.) He said a good part of it may be from lack of

> sleep. He made me promise to get 7 hours a night (don't see that

> happening, but I'll try), to eat several small meals a day, all

> balanced

> with some protein at every meal, and to not " sweat the small stuff. "

> He

> also taught me a breathing exercise which seemed to help as well. I

> don't have the pain in my chest this morning, and only a tiny bit of

> tightness. He told me if I was still in pain by Friday, to either

> DEMAND

> that my doctor see me that day, or go to the emergency room.

>

> Thanks again for everyone's support !

> Autumn :)

>

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Autumn,

Well I'm glad you had your friend check you out and that you are

feeling better. I do understand how when it seems like everything is

happening at once it can be overwhelming at the time. It might not

sound like much to your friend but at the time to you, it does feel

like a big deal. I totally understand that! You are allowed to be

upset! It's how you deal with it and react to it though that counts.

Just know we are hear for you to vent to. That and exercise is a

wonderful stress reliever! Take some deep breaths hon and vent away to

us here.

Hugs,

Gena

> Thanks all for your concern. I never made it to the doctor (I don't

> drive and my doctor's office does not take emergency appointments-they

> tell you to go the hospital). Since hubby was out and about getting

> the

> frig, I called our friend who was a private duty RN for 20 years and is

> now a PA (physician's assistant). He came over and checked me out,

> listened to my heart and took my blood pressure, (which was fairly high

> for me) etc. I told him about my terrible mood swings of the past

> year,

> the PCOS, the hormone imbalance, etc. He sort of chastised me (in a

> nice

> way) about getting so upset over something as dumb as a broken

> refrigerator and some spoiled meat. I wailed that it was much more

> than

> just that. He said everything I mentioned was " fixable " and not worth

> throwing myself into a tizzy about. Most times I feel I have no

> control

> over my emotions. I don't *want* to get so upset, it just happens.

>

> He said perhaps I should go on the medication my endocrinologist

> recommended (I had just wanted to follow the low-carb diet for a while

> and see what happened.) He said a good part of it may be from lack of

> sleep. He made me promise to get 7 hours a night (don't see that

> happening, but I'll try), to eat several small meals a day, all

> balanced

> with some protein at every meal, and to not " sweat the small stuff. "

> He

> also taught me a breathing exercise which seemed to help as well. I

> don't have the pain in my chest this morning, and only a tiny bit of

> tightness. He told me if I was still in pain by Friday, to either

> DEMAND

> that my doctor see me that day, or go to the emergency room.

>

> Thanks again for everyone's support !

> Autumn :)

>

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