Our loss

[Guest guest]

I AM SSOOO SORRY. THIS HAS BEEN A VERY BAD WEEK OF LOSSES FOR SEVERAL OF US.

I SYPATHIZE AND FEEL SOOO BAD. I HAD MANY, MANY YEARS OF INFERTILITY TOO

BEFORE I HAD ANY KIDS AND I KNOW THAT HEARTACHE. I AM HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED A

SHOULDER. I AM GLAD YOU HAVE FAMILY SUPPORT. I AM SAD FOR YOUR DAUGHTER, SHE

MUST OF BEEN SAD THAT SHE DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO FOR YOU WHEN ALL THAT WAS

HAPPENING. YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS,

HUGS, ROBIN, NY

Age- 41

TTC#4 -

OPEN RNY

10-18-02

378/246/170???

DR.EDWARD HIXSON

SARANAC LAKE, NY

Mom to:

&

7 1/2 year twin boys and

Madison age 4 1/2 yrs.

Miscarraige August 2001

Miscarraige August 2003

Married to Pup:

15 years this

Halloween : )

[Guest guest]

well I am so sorry for your sad news. usually depending on your doc

tor but some say you dont have to wait at all and other want you to give it up

to 3 cycles, I know after my D&C earlier this year it took several cycles for

things to go back to normal, I had lots of clotting and heavier than normal

cycles for awhile. you are in my thoughts!

apryl

[Guest guest]

Hello everyone! As I write this to all of you, I am in tears.

Yesterday, I was scheduled for my regular OB appt. Well, when I was in

there, he tried to hear the heartbeat and couldn't so he decided to do

an internal ultrasound. The ultrasound was so fuzzy that he couldn't

pick up anything so he decided to send me for a regular one at an

ultrasound facility. I went to the appt at 3:15 yesterday and after

the technician took several pictures she told me she had to get the

radiologist to take a look so I didn't think anything of it. I got

dressed and she took me to the waiting room. The radiologist comes and

gets me and takes me to his office and I am thinking to myself that

this can't be good but was hopeful. He begins to tell me that I never

really was pregnant but only gave the gestational sac but nothing

developed in it so it tricked my body into thinking that I was

pregnant and so I went through the motions of pregnancy like the

nausea, tiredness, sore breasts, etc. As he is telling me this my 9

year old daughter is with me and she is listening but doesn't

understand. He then tells me that I need to go to the hospital across

the street and get some bloodwork done to confirm. He calls my OB and

gets the dr. on call and he meets me there. I left that office in a

blur. When I got to my car, I started crying so hard and my daughter

was so confused. I tried to explain it to her but I as so confused at

that point. I went to the hospital and got the bloodwork done and

talked to the OB on call and he explained to me that it was normal and

is sometimes call a missed abortion. I didn't bleed because there

wasn't anything to get rid of. I have to go next week for a D&C to get

rid of the sac and tissue in my uterus. I have cried all night and my

family was devastated but with their help and the loving support of my

husband, I am getting through this. I have asked myself all the

questions that every woman that miscarries asks but still don't have

any answers. I know that I will be okay and I will get through this

but nonetheless I was totally attached to this baby since it has been

a long 9 years of infertility since the birth of my daughter and this

baby was VERY wanted to say the least. My question to all of you that

have had a miscarriage, how soon can you try again? I will go over all

of this with my doctor next week but just wanted to know from your

experience. I will keep you posted on my situation. Thanks you.

New Castle,De

RNY 10-16-02

Miscarriage September 2003

[Guest guest]

My doc said 2 cycles

Lenore

Re: Our loss

well I am so sorry for your sad news. usually depending on your

doc

tor but some say you dont have to wait at all and other want you to give

it up

to 3 cycles, I know after my D&C earlier this year it took several

cycles for

things to go back to normal, I had lots of clotting and heavier than

normal

cycles for awhile. you are in my thoughts!

apryl

[Guest guest]

,

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

~

[Guest guest]

I cannot tell you how heartfelt in pain I feel for you and yours.

It is one of my fears as well for myself. They have not been able

to see anything but the sac on me yet. I will keep you and yours in

my thoughts. -big hugs-

Beth

> Hello everyone! As I write this to all of you, I am in tears.

> a long 9 years of infertility since the birth of my daughter and

this

> baby was VERY wanted to say the least. My question to all of you

that

> have had a miscarriage, how soon can you try again? I will go over

all

> of this with my doctor next week but just wanted to know from your

> experience. I will keep you posted on my situation. Thanks you.

>

>

> New Castle,De

> RNY 10-16-02

> Miscarriage September 2003

[Guest guest]

To bhappy4me2004,

I had a miscarriage three summers ago. I was about 8 weeks pregnant. The

doctor told me to wait three months before trying again. The miscarriage

actually didn't feel much different than my normal cycle although I bled quite a

bit more. Anyway, we didn't " try " but we also didn't " not try " and I was

pregnant the next month. was born that next April!!! I didn't have have

a D&C though so that might change the doctors orders. Sorry to hear of your

loss.

Diane

From: bhappy4me2004

To: OSSG-pregnant

Sent: Saturday, September 06, 2003 4:23 PM

Subject: Our loss

Hello everyone! As I write this to all of you, I am in tears.

Yesterday, I was scheduled for my regular OB appt. Well, when I was in

there, he tried to hear the heartbeat and couldn't so he decided to do

an internal ultrasound. The ultrasound was so fuzzy that he couldn't

pick up anything so he decided to send me for a regular one at an

ultrasound facility. I went to the appt at 3:15 yesterday and after

the technician took several pictures she told me she had to get the

radiologist to take a look so I didn't think anything of it. I got

dressed and she took me to the waiting room. The radiologist comes and

gets me and takes me to his office and I am thinking to myself that

this can't be good but was hopeful. He begins to tell me that I never

really was pregnant but only gave the gestational sac but nothing

developed in it so it tricked my body into thinking that I was

pregnant and so I went through the motions of pregnancy like the

nausea, tiredness, sore breasts, etc. As he is telling me this my 9

year old daughter is with me and she is listening but doesn't

understand. He then tells me that I need to go to the hospital across

the street and get some bloodwork done to confirm. He calls my OB and

gets the dr. on call and he meets me there. I left that office in a

blur. When I got to my car, I started crying so hard and my daughter

was so confused. I tried to explain it to her but I as so confused at

that point. I went to the hospital and got the bloodwork done and

talked to the OB on call and he explained to me that it was normal and

is sometimes call a missed abortion. I didn't bleed because there

wasn't anything to get rid of. I have to go next week for a D&C to get

rid of the sac and tissue in my uterus. I have cried all night and my

family was devastated but with their help and the loving support of my

husband, I am getting through this. I have asked myself all the

questions that every woman that miscarries asks but still don't have

any answers. I know that I will be okay and I will get through this

but nonetheless I was totally attached to this baby since it has been

a long 9 years of infertility since the birth of my daughter and this

baby was VERY wanted to say the least. My question to all of you that

have had a miscarriage, how soon can you try again? I will go over all

of this with my doctor next week but just wanted to know from your

experience. I will keep you posted on my situation. Thanks you.

New Castle,De

RNY 10-16-02

Miscarriage September 2003

[Guest guest]

,

I am sorry for your loss also. I am sitting here getting caught up on a ton

of emails and I am in tears over all the precious ladies here that have had

miscarriages and/or trouble conceiving lately. I can't begin to understand

why this is happening to so many of you, and I am just so sorry for all the

losses suffered here lately.

My own miscarriage was in 1992, but I can tell you, that I have thought

about that baby every now and again, and it still brings a pang of hurt to

my tummy, but it does get better, I promise.

I'm so sorry ladies, my thoughts and prayers are with you ALL!

Marcy

Our loss

> Hello everyone! As I write this to all of you, I am in tears.

> Yesterday, I was scheduled for my regular OB appt. Well, when I was in

> there, he tried to hear the heartbeat and couldn't so he decided to do

> an internal ultrasound. The ultrasound was so fuzzy that he couldn't

> pick up anything so he decided to send me for a regular one at an

> ultrasound facility. I went to the appt at 3:15 yesterday and after

> the technician took several pictures she told me she had to get the

> radiologist to take a look so I didn't think anything of it. I got

> dressed and she took me to the waiting room. The radiologist comes and

> gets me and takes me to his office and I am thinking to myself that

> this can't be good but was hopeful. He begins to tell me that I never

> really was pregnant but only gave the gestational sac but nothing

> developed in it so it tricked my body into thinking that I was

> pregnant and so I went through the motions of pregnancy like the

> nausea, tiredness, sore breasts, etc. As he is telling me this my 9

> year old daughter is with me and she is listening but doesn't

> understand. He then tells me that I need to go to the hospital across

> the street and get some bloodwork done to confirm. He calls my OB and

> gets the dr. on call and he meets me there. I left that office in a

> blur. When I got to my car, I started crying so hard and my daughter

> was so confused. I tried to explain it to her but I as so confused at

> that point. I went to the hospital and got the bloodwork done and

> talked to the OB on call and he explained to me that it was normal and

> is sometimes call a missed abortion. I didn't bleed because there

> wasn't anything to get rid of. I have to go next week for a D&C to get

> rid of the sac and tissue in my uterus. I have cried all night and my

> family was devastated but with their help and the loving support of my

> husband, I am getting through this. I have asked myself all the

> questions that every woman that miscarries asks but still don't have

> any answers. I know that I will be okay and I will get through this

> but nonetheless I was totally attached to this baby since it has been

> a long 9 years of infertility since the birth of my daughter and this

> baby was VERY wanted to say the least. My question to all of you that

> have had a miscarriage, how soon can you try again? I will go over all

> of this with my doctor next week but just wanted to know from your

> experience. I will keep you posted on my situation. Thanks you.

>

>

> New Castle,De

> RNY 10-16-02

> Miscarriage September 2003

>

>

>

>

> Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3

>

>

[Guest guest]

-

Hi ,

I am so sorry to hear your loss. Life works in a strange ways and lot

of us are feeling this heartache together. Rightnow, I am in limbo as

well, not being able to hear heartbeat. you and your family are in my

prayers. I hope with support of friends and family you will make it

thourgh, I know so. *huG*..

Kashi

-- In OSSG-pregnant , " bhappy4me2004 "

wrote:

> Hello everyone! As I write this to all of you, I am in tears.

> Yesterday, I was scheduled for my regular OB appt. Well, when I was

in

> there, he tried to hear the heartbeat and couldn't so he decided to

do

> an internal ultrasound. The ultrasound was so fuzzy that he couldn't

> pick up anything so he decided to send me for a regular one at an

> ultrasound facility. I went to the appt at 3:15 yesterday and after

> the technician took several pictures she told me she had to get the

> radiologist to take a look so I didn't think anything of it. I got

> dressed and she took me to the waiting room. The radiologist comes

and

> gets me and takes me to his office and I am thinking to myself that

> this can't be good but was hopeful. He begins to tell me that I

never

> really was pregnant but only gave the gestational sac but nothing

> developed in it so it tricked my body into thinking that I was

> pregnant and so I went through the motions of pregnancy like the

> nausea, tiredness, sore breasts, etc. As he is telling me this my 9

> year old daughter is with me and she is listening but doesn't

> understand. He then tells me that I need to go to the hospital

across

> the street and get some bloodwork done to confirm. He calls my OB

and

> gets the dr. on call and he meets me there. I left that office in a

> blur. When I got to my car, I started crying so hard and my daughter

> was so confused. I tried to explain it to her but I as so confused

at

> that point. I went to the hospital and got the bloodwork done and

> talked to the OB on call and he explained to me that it was normal

and

> is sometimes call a missed abortion. I didn't bleed because there

> wasn't anything to get rid of. I have to go next week for a D&C to

get

> rid of the sac and tissue in my uterus. I have cried all night and

my

> family was devastated but with their help and the loving support of

my

> husband, I am getting through this. I have asked myself all the

> questions that every woman that miscarries asks but still don't have

> any answers. I know that I will be okay and I will get through this

> but nonetheless I was totally attached to this baby since it has

been

> a long 9 years of infertility since the birth of my daughter and

this

> baby was VERY wanted to say the least. My question to all of you

that

> have had a miscarriage, how soon can you try again? I will go over

all

> of this with my doctor next week but just wanted to know from your

> experience. I will keep you posted on my situation. Thanks you.

>

>

> New Castle,De

> RNY 10-16-02

> Miscarriage September 2003

[Guest guest]

gee,

I am sorry for all the losses of our group also.

It must be such a heartbreaking thing to have happen.

You are all in my thoughts and prayers,

Sheila

[Guest guest]

I am so sorry for your loss... did they tell you it was a molar

pregnancy?? Or was it a miscarriage??

Either way, I am so sorry you went through this... our prayers and warm

wishes are with you.

Sharon

bhappy4me2004 said:

> Hello everyone! As I write this to all of you, I am in tears.

> Yesterday, I was scheduled for my regular OB appt. Well, when I was in

> there, he tried to hear the heartbeat and couldn't so he decided to do

> an internal ultrasound. The ultrasound was so fuzzy that he couldn't

> pick up anything so he decided to send me for a regular one at an

> ultrasound facility. I went to the appt at 3:15 yesterday and after

> the technician took several pictures she told me she had to get the

> radiologist to take a look so I didn't think anything of it. I got

> dressed and she took me to the waiting room. The radiologist comes and

> gets me and takes me to his office and I am thinking to myself that

> this can't be good but was hopeful. He begins to tell me that I never

> really was pregnant but only gave the gestational sac but nothing

> developed in it so it tricked my body into thinking that I was

> pregnant and so I went through the motions of pregnancy like the

> nausea, tiredness, sore breasts, etc. As he is telling me this my 9

> year old daughter is with me and she is listening but doesn't

> understand. He then tells me that I need to go to the hospital across

> the street and get some bloodwork done to confirm. He calls my OB and

> gets the dr. on call and he meets me there. I left that office in a

> blur. When I got to my car, I started crying so hard and my daughter

> was so confused. I tried to explain it to her but I as so confused at

> that point. I went to the hospital and got the bloodwork done and

> talked to the OB on call and he explained to me that it was normal and

> is sometimes call a missed abortion. I didn't bleed because there

> wasn't anything to get rid of. I have to go next week for a D&C to get

> rid of the sac and tissue in my uterus. I have cried all night and my

> family was devastated but with their help and the loving support of my

> husband, I am getting through this. I have asked myself all the

> questions that every woman that miscarries asks but still don't have

> any answers. I know that I will be okay and I will get through this

> but nonetheless I was totally attached to this baby since it has been

> a long 9 years of infertility since the birth of my daughter and this

> baby was VERY wanted to say the least. My question to all of you that

> have had a miscarriage, how soon can you try again? I will go over all

> of this with my doctor next week but just wanted to know from your

> experience. I will keep you posted on my situation. Thanks you.

>

>

> New Castle,De

> RNY 10-16-02

> Miscarriage September 2003

>

>

>

>

> Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3

>

>