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have been to he has been the best I have seen as

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--- Lester <ladd29@...> wrote:

> Went back to the ENT (Dr. Berryhill) after haveing

> the 5th tumor

> removed on 12/05/05. He say's that " it's doing

> fine " . fine MyASS! I

> also have TMJ on the same side as the mastoidectomy.

> I am still

> swollen purple and throbbing and it has bee 2 weeks.

> they say I don't

> need anymore pain meds ( God Forbid)! I really need

> dsome help or I am

> afraid I am gonna end it myself since nobody seems

> to give a flip!! If

> anyone knows of a good doctor in Oklahoma pleezzeee

> let me know! the

> previous 3 surgeries were done by the Hough ear

> Institute. But my

> opinion about them is still unsure. they aren't very

> supportive

> either. where do we turn? can anybody help?

>

>

>

>

>

>

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Just got back from my 8 day check up following a cwu on my left ear. I

also have TMJ on that side that just started 2 days ago. They told me

this is temporary and a normal side effect of the surgery. Had me a

bit worried ( not to mention painful as well). Did they give you any

ideas on how to alleviate the pain? I was told to take advil (good for

the swelling), stick to soft food, sleep on my back and use warm

compresses on the side of the face ( being careful not to get water in

the ear). Hope this helps. Stick in there.

>

> Went back to the ENT (Dr. Berryhill) after haveing the 5th tumor

> removed on 12/05/05. He say's that " it's doing fine " . fine MyASS! I

> also have TMJ on the same side as the mastoidectomy. I am still

> swollen purple and throbbing and it has bee 2 weeks. they say I don't

> need anymore pain meds ( God Forbid)! I really need dsome help or I

am

> afraid I am gonna end it myself since nobody seems to give a flip!!

If

> anyone knows of a good doctor in Oklahoma pleezzeee let me know! the

> previous 3 surgeries were done by the Hough ear Institute. But my

> opinion about them is still unsure. they aren't very supportive

> either. where do we turn? can anybody help?

>

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Hey, how's it going? Things getting any better? I tried the tricks

they told me yesterday for the TMJ and woke up this morning feeling a

lot better! I think the warm washcloth really helped ease the muscles.

Give us a report on how you're doing.

>

> Went back to the ENT (Dr. Berryhill) after haveing the 5th tumor

> removed on 12/05/05. He say's that " it's doing fine " . fine MyASS! I

> also have TMJ on the same side as the mastoidectomy. I am still

> swollen purple and throbbing and it has bee 2 weeks. they say I don't

> need anymore pain meds ( God Forbid)! I really need dsome help or I

am

> afraid I am gonna end it myself since nobody seems to give a flip!!

If

> anyone knows of a good doctor in Oklahoma pleezzeee let me know! the

> previous 3 surgeries were done by the Hough ear Institute. But my

> opinion about them is still unsure. they aren't very supportive

> either. where do we turn? can anybody help?

>

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hey alli my name is J-F and I am from ottawa ontario I had had cholesteatoma 7 times now and my last surgery was 4th of may of last year I had modified radical mastoidectomy done they told me the same thing everything is fine like you sayd fine my ass mine is worst now then before now he is teling me I need a nother surgery shit :( I when to see so many other Ent doc and they all tell me the same thing your doc is doing everything he can there is nothing more I can do ... and I am not even sure if I am going to do the surgery again I feel like just leaving my tumor the way it is and just leave it alone now its at a point where the Ent doc has the burn blood vesel in my ear everytime I go see him I am so scard my ear bleed all the time .... I am so sorry that I cant help you I am so :S and so mad myself about everything but I just wanted to tell you that you are not alone ..

alli_d_99 <alli_d_99@...> wrote: Hey, how's it going? Things getting any better? I tried the tricks they told me yesterday for the TMJ and woke up this morning feeling a lot better! I think the warm washcloth really helped ease the muscles. Give us a report on how you're doing.>> Went back to the ENT (Dr. Berryhill) after haveing the 5th tumor > removed on 12/05/05. He say's that "it's doing fine". fine MyASS! I > also have TMJ on the same side as the mastoidectomy. I am still > swollen purple and throbbing and it has bee 2 weeks. they say I don't > need anymore pain meds ( God Forbid)! I really need dsome help or I am > afraid I am gonna end it myself since nobody seems to give a flip!! If > anyone knows of a good doctor in Oklahoma pleezzeee let me

know! the > previous 3 surgeries were done by the Hough ear Institute. But my > opinion about them is still unsure. they aren't very supportive > either. where do we turn? can anybody help?>

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Why are they referring you to a ped. neurosurgeon a couple of hours

a way? Is this is a really good neurosurgeon? That is too bad that

your little one gets car sick...yuck. What does the ped. say about

that? IS there something you can give her for a long car ride?

Also, if you don't drive and your dad only drives locally is there a

friend that can help you out? What about your daughter's dad? Ya, I

understand too the cost of gas, etc. to travel. EEK! I wish I

could be of encouragement. Hopefully, someone else has some ideas

that will work with your situation. Good luck.

PS: How old is your little one? Are you doing repositioning?

>

> I am getting so frustrated my daughters Ped done a referal to

another

> pedatric neurosurgen that is hours away from here without me

knowing

> a thing about it and I was supposed to go Monday at 8am my dad

said

> there is no way that we would be driving down there that early

cause

> we most likely would have to leave at 3 or 4 am or even spend the

> night ( which we can't afford to spend the night or get gas

anyways

> to travel that far )to even make it close to time to get to the

Apt

> and my dad can only drive locally cause of his health conditions

and

> since I don't drive thats also out of the ?tion so I called back

and

> told the people in referals at my daughtets Peds office that I

> wouldn't be able to make it so they let me know what they thought

of

> me not following through before sending my daughters Ped a message

to

> call me back. Ugh. didn't need to hear that someone thinks I am

> neglecting my daughter cause of the fact I couldn't make the Apt.

> Well my daughters Ped didn't call me back but the woman who let me

> know what she thought of me in referals did and told me to make

the

> apt to meet up with my daughters Ped and I did . She was like we

will

> see (saying this sarcasticly ) about gettng you and your daughter

> transportation down to Winsten Salam for her Apt...I was thinking

> yeah if you can find any one that will be willing to get up before

> dawn and drive us. Plus I don't like the idea of riding for Hrs

not

> having a way to heat my daughters bottles or even change her ( the

> public trans doesn't make pit stops ) my daughter also gets car

sick

> so she will be throwing up and crying the whole way as well . This

is

> why I don't take her places unless its a need to situation. and

when

> I do take her out its not for car rides that lasts Hrs. She has

> already seen a pedatric neurosurgen already so why should she see

> another one who is further away than the one who isn't but 30 mins

> away from us. I am just frustrated with this situation that no one

> even is considering my daughter or me for that matter since I

wasn't

> informed what so ever.

>

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Hi Crystal,

sorry to hear this. Do you know why they want you to see another

neuro? Is it just the plagio or other concerns? Hopefully they'll be

more cooperative in actually communicating with you. It doesn't make

sense for anyone to go to an 8am appointment that is 3 hours away.

Good luck with it.

-christine

sydney 17 mo starband grad

>

> I am getting so frustrated my daughters Ped done a referal to

another

> pedatric neurosurgen that is hours away from here without me

knowing

> a thing about it and I was supposed to go Monday at 8am my dad said

> there is no way that we would be driving down there that early

cause

> we most likely would have to leave at 3 or 4 am or even spend the

> night ( which we can't afford to spend the night or get gas anyways

> to travel that far )to even make it close to time to get to the Apt

> and my dad can only drive locally cause of his health conditions

and

> since I don't drive thats also out of the ?tion so I called back

and

> told the people in referals at my daughtets Peds office that I

> wouldn't be able to make it so they let me know what they thought

of

> me not following through before sending my daughters Ped a message

to

> call me back. Ugh. didn't need to hear that someone thinks I am

> neglecting my daughter cause of the fact I couldn't make the Apt.

> Well my daughters Ped didn't call me back but the woman who let me

> know what she thought of me in referals did and told me to make the

> apt to meet up with my daughters Ped and I did . She was like we

will

> see (saying this sarcasticly ) about gettng you and your daughter

> transportation down to Winsten Salam for her Apt...I was thinking

> yeah if you can find any one that will be willing to get up before

> dawn and drive us. Plus I don't like the idea of riding for Hrs not

> having a way to heat my daughters bottles or even change her ( the

> public trans doesn't make pit stops ) my daughter also gets car

sick

> so she will be throwing up and crying the whole way as well . This

is

> why I don't take her places unless its a need to situation. and

when

> I do take her out its not for car rides that lasts Hrs. She has

> already seen a pedatric neurosurgen already so why should she see

> another one who is further away than the one who isn't but 30 mins

> away from us. I am just frustrated with this situation that no one

> even is considering my daughter or me for that matter since I

wasn't

> informed what so ever.

>

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Hi Crystal,

sorry to hear this. Do you know why they want you to see another

neuro? Is it just the plagio or other concerns? Hopefully they'll be

more cooperative in actually communicating with you. It doesn't make

sense for anyone to go to an 8am appointment that is 3 hours away.

Good luck with it.

-christine

sydney 17 mo starband grad

>

> I am getting so frustrated my daughters Ped done a referal to

another

> pedatric neurosurgen that is hours away from here without me

knowing

> a thing about it and I was supposed to go Monday at 8am my dad said

> there is no way that we would be driving down there that early

cause

> we most likely would have to leave at 3 or 4 am or even spend the

> night ( which we can't afford to spend the night or get gas anyways

> to travel that far )to even make it close to time to get to the Apt

> and my dad can only drive locally cause of his health conditions

and

> since I don't drive thats also out of the ?tion so I called back

and

> told the people in referals at my daughtets Peds office that I

> wouldn't be able to make it so they let me know what they thought

of

> me not following through before sending my daughters Ped a message

to

> call me back. Ugh. didn't need to hear that someone thinks I am

> neglecting my daughter cause of the fact I couldn't make the Apt.

> Well my daughters Ped didn't call me back but the woman who let me

> know what she thought of me in referals did and told me to make the

> apt to meet up with my daughters Ped and I did . She was like we

will

> see (saying this sarcasticly ) about gettng you and your daughter

> transportation down to Winsten Salam for her Apt...I was thinking

> yeah if you can find any one that will be willing to get up before

> dawn and drive us. Plus I don't like the idea of riding for Hrs not

> having a way to heat my daughters bottles or even change her ( the

> public trans doesn't make pit stops ) my daughter also gets car

sick

> so she will be throwing up and crying the whole way as well . This

is

> why I don't take her places unless its a need to situation. and

when

> I do take her out its not for car rides that lasts Hrs. She has

> already seen a pedatric neurosurgen already so why should she see

> another one who is further away than the one who isn't but 30 mins

> away from us. I am just frustrated with this situation that no one

> even is considering my daughter or me for that matter since I

wasn't

> informed what so ever.

>

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