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" I need an e-mail support group for people re-joining the dating scene.

I am finding this whole experience extremely weird and awkward. " ...

Jessie-- even though I have not lost weight yet (just gaining it pre-op,

darn it !) and I do have a boyfriend (5 months last wendsday !!!), I

would really like to read more about this too, as I know our

relationship is bound to change...

.... and a big ouchie on the wax thinige... do I know what you mean !!

~ Dorit in Israel

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I need an e-mail support group for people re-joining the dating scene.

I am finding this whole experience extremely weird and awkward. I

thought it was awkward when I was a teenager but this is even worse.

I was seeking advice from my neighbor and asked her:

What about this man who has not paid any attention to me for the last

two years while I was fat and suddenly is asking me out all the time -

she said that sounds like a normal male to me.

I had to laugh because I know she is right. It is not this one person

that couldn't see through the fat -- it is all of society. I am being

treated so much differently now (and I am still pretty plump). I know

some of it is my new found confidence and improved attitude but lots of

it comes from the way other people view you too.

Anyway, I burned myself with the bikini wax so I will not be

consummating this relationship this weekend as I am too embarrassed. If

it's not fat it is something else. Damn!

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Ah Jessie, that made me laugh.

Yes men don't notice fat women exist until they lose weight. One of

life's little, shall we say " mysteries " .

I am invisible when I am fat and very noticeable when I am slim. Yet I am

the same person. I have not changed except for my outward appearance. My

views on life are the same and I treat people the way I used to, it's just

that now people see me instead of the fat. Fat isn't and never will be

acceptable. It is an unfortunate fact of life.

At 18:17 17/04/1999 -0700, you wrote:

>

>

>I need an e-mail support group for people re-joining the dating scene.

>I am finding this whole experience extremely weird and awkward. I

>thought it was awkward when I was a teenager but this is even worse.

>

>I was seeking advice from my neighbor and asked her:

>

>What about this man who has not paid any attention to me for the last

>two years while I was fat and suddenly is asking me out all the time -

>she said that sounds like a normal male to me.

>I had to laugh because I know she is right. It is not this one person

>that couldn't see through the fat -- it is all of society. I am being

>treated so much differently now (and I am still pretty plump). I know

>some of it is my new found confidence and improved attitude but lots of

>it comes from the way other people view you too.

>

>Anyway, I burned myself with the bikini wax so I will not be

>consummating this relationship this weekend as I am too embarrassed. If

>it's not fat it is something else. Damn!

>

>

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