WOW>>>I agree

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Wow I have been very busy lately and just came onto all this

drama...but I whole heartedly agree with . This is very petty

and not serving any purpose. No harm was intended at all!!! I read

the " dreaded " post and did not get what caused the grief. It was a

slang abbreviation period. Please do not take this personally but

for goodness sake save the drama!!! And everything else said!!

Huggles

> MAYBE people need to be reading the posts with a grain of salt and

not

> taking every little word PERSONALLY. THEN other people wouldn't

feel the

> need to tiptoe....honestly! This list is supposed to be gastric

bypass

> SUPPORT for Kaiser patients and it is starting to feel like

everyone has to

> tiptoe in order not to hurt someone's feelings..simply because a

slang

> ABBREVIATION was used for the word " another " .

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> Shirley, maybe you aren't familiar with the slang version of

another, but it

> is " nuther " . Lots of people use it and I think you are reading

something

> into it that just wasn't there.

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> As far as someone's divorce and ex- wife being bi-polar..well,

that isn't

> any of my business and I am experienced enough to know that there

are

> usually many problems in a marriage to cause ending one....very

rarely just

> one. In any case, that is not my business.

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> Up until this thread, I was getting a lot out of this list...but

this

> hypersensitivity just isn't my bag.

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> I realize I haven't contributed a lot..haven't been here long and

am just

> beginning the process so I have little experience, but I have

enjoyed most

> of the posts and have learned so much.

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> I hope we can move on and remember not to take every single post

personally.

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> Woodbridge, VA