I need to vent please

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I am so upset right now over a couple or three things. First of all, you remember a few days ago I asked for prayer for my 43 yr old neice who was in the hospital and may not pull thru? Well, I believe I told you also that my neice had breathing problems all her life due to cigarette smoke and her mother and stepdaddy would not stop smoking for the benefit of their own child, not to mention themselves. Another sister sent me an email yesterday that Frances's doc said it was just a matter of hours then. That her heart rate and her blood pressure were continuing to drop. My sister also said that Sue, Frances' mother said that Frances told them to go home. So Sue and her other daughter went back to Oregon and said they would not go back for the funeral. Said she would email us when it was all over. I can't believe my sister is so uncaring about her own child. That she could not stay there a few more hours with her child. We have

no information about what hospital in Tulsa, what funeral home, how to reach Danny, her ex husband, nothing. I am so sick over this I am shaking. The second thing is SRD. Don't know if I will be able to go afterall or not. I have reserved a room and paid my registration but it really depends on if the rest of my family will be able to go also. The third thing is my family. My daugter and grandaughter got tickets for foul language at the high school. It's a long story and they have to do alot of hours community service for it. I am so ashamed of them for cussing and using the F word in the first place. It was mainly my daughter that started it. My grandaughter admitted that she knew it was wrong before she ever said it but she figured the school wasn't going to do anything since her mom was cussing too. I just can't believe I have raised a forty yr old daughter to be like

this and practically raised my 17 yr old grandaugter too. The fourth thing is our Fun Day coming up in a couple weeks. I was just informed that no children or guests will be allowed when I reported that we would be bringing the baby. That their space was limited. I just could not believe it. It turned me off on even going, really. I did write back to tell them, yes, it would be a problem. That the baby is five months old and is breast fed. She won't even take the breast milk from a bottle. I just can't handle all this today. Need to get back in my prayer closet and stay there I guess. I am so angry right now over all this. And it really isn't even my problem. Thanks for listening! Winnie

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Winnie,

That is what we are here for is for you to vent to and not eat. I'm afraid

that I would be as upset as you are over this....but like you said it is

" not your problem " and the sooner that we can realize that fact and stop

trying to fix it all and turn it over to GOD the better off we are.

Hang in there, and remember that GOD is on your side.

Luv ya,

Helon in Abilene

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Winnie ~ So sorry to hear of all your problems . .. . but I know that you know "Let go and let God' ~ easier said than done ~ but you must do that for your own health !! I hate that about your niece and I would feel her mother would want to stay there with her !! AND then to not go back for the funeral !!! Who is going to take care of the arrangements ??? Just being nosy . . . . . Your daughter and granddaughter are old enough to know what is appropriate language and what is not . . . so they deserve to have to do the community service (it's NOT your fault !!!). . . And I will continue to pray for your niece and hopefully you will find out where she is and also for SRD . . . Blessings. . . Randie

I need to vent please

I am so upset right now over a couple or three things. First of all, you remember a few days ago I asked for prayer for my 43 yr old neice who was in the hospital and may not pull thru? Well, I believe I told you also that my neice had breathing problems all her life due to cigarette smoke and her mother and stepdaddy would not stop smoking for the benefit of their own child, not to mention themselves. Another sister sent me an email yesterday that Frances's doc said it was just a matter of hours then. That her heart rate and her blood pressure were continuing to drop. My sister also said that Sue, Frances' mother said that Frances told them to go home. So Sue and her other daughter went back to Oregon and said they would not go back for the funeral. Said she would email us when it was all over. I can't believe my sister is so uncaring about her own child. That she could not stay there a few more hours with her child. We have no information about what hospital in Tulsa, what funeral home, how to reach Danny, her ex husband, nothing. I am so sick over this I am shaking.

The second thing is SRD. Don't know if I will be able to go afterall or not. I have reserved a room and paid my registration but it really depends on if the rest of my family will be able to go also.

The third thing is my family. My daugter and grandaughter got tickets for foul language at the high school. It's a long story and they have to do alot of hours community service for it. I am so ashamed of them for cussing and using the F word in the first place. It was mainly my daughter that started it. My grandaughter admitted that she knew it was wrong before she ever said it but she figured the school wasn't going to do anything since her mom was cussing too. I just can't believe I have raised a forty yr old daughter to be like this and practically raised my 17 yr old grandaugter too.

The fourth thing is our Fun Day coming up in a couple weeks. I was just informed that no children or guests will be allowed when I reported that we would be bringing the baby. That their space was limited. I just could not believe it. It turned me off on even going, really. I did write back to tell them, yes, it would be a problem. That the baby is five months old and is breast fed. She won't even take the breast milk from a bottle.

I just can't handle all this today. Need to get back in my prayer closet and stay there I guess. I am so angry right now over all this. And it really isn't even my problem.

Thanks for listening!

Winnie

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Wow!!! things are certainly challenging in your neck of the woods. I am sorry to hear of all that you are going through. I am glad that I could be here to listen. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I don't know what to say except to hang onto God right now. He can see you through all of this. May God's peace and grace surround you and dwell within you. Peace and blessings, Bethwinona harrell wrote: I am so upset right now over a couple or three things. First of all, you remember a few days ago I asked for prayer for my 43 yr old neice who was in the hospital and may not pull thru? Well, I believe I told you also that my neice had breathing problems all her life due to cigarette smoke and her mother and stepdaddy would not stop smoking for the benefit of their own

child, not to mention themselves. Another sister sent me an email yesterday that Frances's doc said it was just a matter of hours then. That her heart rate and her blood pressure were continuing to drop. My sister also said that Sue, Frances' mother said that Frances told them to go home. So Sue and her other daughter went back to Oregon and said they would not go back for the funeral. Said she would email us when it was all over. I can't believe my sister is so uncaring about her own child. That she could not stay there a few more hours with her child. We have no information about what hospital in Tulsa, what funeral home, how to reach Danny, her ex husband, nothing. I am so sick over this I am shaking. The second thing is SRD. Don't know if I will be able to go afterall or not. I have reserved a room and paid my registration but it really depends on if the rest of my family will be able to go

also. The third thing is my family. My daugter and grandaughter got tickets for foul language at the high school. It's a long story and they have to do alot of hours community service for it. I am so ashamed of them for cussing and using the F word in the first place. It was mainly my daughter that started it. My grandaughter admitted that she knew it was wrong before she ever said it but she figured the school wasn't going to do anything since her mom was cussing too. I just can't believe I have raised a forty yr old daughter to be like this and practically raised my 17 yr old grandaugter too. The fourth thing is our Fun Day coming up in a couple weeks. I was just informed that no children or guests will be allowed when I reported that we would be bringing the baby. That their space was limited. I just could not believe it. It turned me off on even going,

really. I did write back to tell them, yes, it would be a problem. That the baby is five months old and is breast fed. She won't even take the breast milk from a bottle. I just can't handle all this today. Need to get back in my prayer closet and stay there I guess. I am so angry right now over all this. And it really isn't even my problem. Thanks for listening! Winnie Brings words and photos together (easily) withPhotoMail - it's free and works with Yahoo! Mail.