Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 I sure like what you said here. You reminded me about a book I brought. I can't find it right now. I can't even remember where I got it. It probably came from the lupus society or the arthritis foundation. It was all about sex for people in pain. It advised taking a hot bath and taking a pain pill before sex. I do that. Sometimes I have my husband bath me first. Like you mentioned, there are positions of sex that hurt less then others. If you lye on your side and he does too, facing each other, you can open your let and put it over his legs. He can slip in and if you have painful hips it an easy position to take. Lots of times, we start that way and the can change. Hope I'm not too blunt. Cheryl in CA>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>A husband may feel lonely because of the lack of physical sex in their relationship. He figures he is doing her a favor by not talking about his feelings. He thinks because she feels miserable most the time, if he talks to her about the problem it will make her feel worse. When in reality, she wonders why her husband is afraid to touch her anymore.There is more than just one position in sexual relations. If your "regular" position causes pain, then experiment, change positions, talk about what hurts and more importantly, what feels good! ____________________________________________________ IncrediMail - Email has finally evolved - Click Here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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