Guest guest Posted October 17, 2006 Report Share Posted October 17, 2006 Staring to get a little stir crazy just sitting here in the rain. I cant get outside to do anything I do run up and down the stairs alot. I did have something interesting happen yesterday, I was in the store and a girl that I used to see stopped me and asked how I was doing. I told her to get ---- away from me. She had the nerve to ask me if we could get back together, she dumped me because of my weight. Well actually she was seeing someone else and got caught. She had been told that I had my surgery so naturally I would be skinny well alot smaller than I was. At first I thought well yea I could do to her what she did to mebut that is not my style. I told her to just leave me alone and stay outof my life. You know it would be nice to find someone wholikes me for me, whats on the inside. Am I the only guy that feels this way? Ladies help me out here, should I be that rude I dont like to but man that just really got under my skin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2006 Report Share Posted October 17, 2006 I can't say that I blame you for feeling that way and either would have done what you did, or just walked off. Lin Lhsh@... American by birth, Saved by the grace of God. Good Morning Staring to get a little stir crazy just sitting here in the rain. I cant get outside to do anything I do run up and down the stairs alot. I did have something interesting happen yesterday, I was in the store and a girl that I used to see stopped me and asked how I was doing. I told her to get ---- away from me. She had the nerve to ask me if we could get back together, she dumped me because of my weight. Well actually she was seeing someone else and got caught. She had been told that I had my surgery so naturally I would be skinny well alot smaller than I was. At first I thought well yea I could do to her what she did to mebut that is not my style. I told her to just leave me alone and stay outof my life. You know it would be nice to find someone wholikes me for me, whats on the inside. Am I the only guy that feels this way? Ladies help me out here, should I be that rude I dont like to but man that just really got under my skin. We are a very active support group. If the email becomes overwhelming, please change your setting to NO EMAIL! Please contact Group Creator Robyn@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2006 Report Share Posted October 17, 2006 I think it takes a ----no pun intended----big person to do what you did. Getting her back only prolongs your anguish and can make you unhappy in the long run. Think of how great it really felt on the inside to tell her to, basically, " go to hell " . Now, try to put it in the back part of your brain and move on with your life. It's funny that you say you'd like to find someone that would look past the fat exterior and find the inner beauty in you, because there are tons (and I mean tons!) of woman who feel the same way. If we don't look model thin, if our hair isn't blonde, if we are a butterhead, etc.........Good to know that men feel the same way.....Be patient, the right girl is out there: after all my husband and I found each other----I'm thin now and he's still a " chunky butt " ; but, I love him for the man that he is and the life he provides for me. Good luck in your search. " Be who you are and say how you feel, because those who mind do not matter, and those who matter do not mind! " ----Dr. Seuss --------------------------------- Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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