Guest guest Posted April 10, 2003 Report Share Posted April 10, 2003 Hi Gladys I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Be kind to yourself. Bernadette x -----Original Message-----From: alberterese Sent: Friday, 11 April 2003 8:45 AMTo: Ashermans Subject: Gladys lossHi everyone,This is just to let you know that my pregnancy is gone. It happened on April 2nd. My ob and peri did all they could but no luck. They even tried to see if I could have another type of cerclage procedure. It is a new method and more of a major surgery with an incision in the abdomen but it was too late in my own case as the membrane was almost out and trying anything would be risking infection and endangering my life.I am still dealing with the pains on my breasts. As for the emotions, I am neither here nor there. However, I had to promise my family I was not going to do anything to hurt myself as they were very worried of that because of all the losses I've had to deal with. This is my seventh loss in seven years and no child. So I reassured them that inspite of everything, I still love myself and would not hurt myself in any way.Please pray for me for recovery, I need that more than anything else.Gladys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2003 Report Share Posted April 10, 2003 Gladys, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please keep us in mind if things should become too difficult to bear. You are in my thoughts, Bethany Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2003 Report Share Posted April 10, 2003 Hi Gladys, I am so sorry for everyhting that you have been through.. Please know that I am praying for you I wish they was more that I could say and do for you!! Please keep posting on this board . WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU!!!!! Kristi alberterese wrote: Hi everyone,This is just to let you know that my pregnancy is gone. It happened on April 2nd. My ob and peri did all they could but no luck. They even tried to see if I could have another type of cerclage procedure. It is a new method and more of a major surgery with an incision in the abdomen but it was too late in my own case as the membrane was almost out and trying anything would be risking infection and endangering my life.I am still dealing with the pains on my breasts. As for the emotions, I am neither here nor there. However, I had to promise my family I was not going to do anything to hurt myself as they were very worried of that because of all the losses I've had to deal with. This is my seventh loss in seven years and no child. So I reassured them that inspite of everything, I still love myself and would not hurt myself in any way.Please pray for me for recovery, I need that more than anything else.Gladys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2003 Report Share Posted April 10, 2003 Hi Gladys, I am so sorry for everyhting that you have been through.. Please know that I am praying for you I wish they was more that I could say and do for you!! Please keep posting on this board . WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU!!!!! Kristi alberterese wrote: Hi everyone,This is just to let you know that my pregnancy is gone. It happened on April 2nd. My ob and peri did all they could but no luck. They even tried to see if I could have another type of cerclage procedure. It is a new method and more of a major surgery with an incision in the abdomen but it was too late in my own case as the membrane was almost out and trying anything would be risking infection and endangering my life.I am still dealing with the pains on my breasts. As for the emotions, I am neither here nor there. However, I had to promise my family I was not going to do anything to hurt myself as they were very worried of that because of all the losses I've had to deal with. This is my seventh loss in seven years and no child. So I reassured them that inspite of everything, I still love myself and would not hurt myself in any way.Please pray for me for recovery, I need that more than anything else.Gladys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2003 Report Share Posted April 10, 2003 Oh Gladys, I am so sorry to hear your news. Anything we can do for you, we are all here. There are a number of online groups to help cope with losses. Please let me know if you would like me to help you find them. My prayers are with you and your family. Hugs from ! kristi niel wrote: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2003 Report Share Posted April 10, 2003 Oh Gladys, I am so sorry to hear your news. Anything we can do for you, we are all here. There are a number of online groups to help cope with losses. Please let me know if you would like me to help you find them. My prayers are with you and your family. Hugs from ! kristi niel wrote: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2003 Report Share Posted April 10, 2003 Gladys I am so sorry for your loss, you have been on my mind. My heart goes out to you, dh and family. I wish I could help in some way. Please know that you are in my prayers. Audrey Gladys loss Hi everyone,This is just to let you know that my pregnancy is gone. It happened on April 2nd. My ob and peri did all they could but no luck. They even tried to see if I could have another type of cerclage procedure. It is a new method and more of a major surgery with an incision in the abdomen but it was too late in my own case as the membrane was almost out and trying anything would be risking infection and endangering my life.I am still dealing with the pains on my breasts. As for the emotions, I am neither here nor there. However, I had to promise my family I was not going to do anything to hurt myself as they were very worried of that because of all the losses I've had to deal with. This is my seventh loss in seven years and no child. So I reassured them that inspite of everything, I still love myself and would not hurt myself in any way.Please pray for me for recovery, I need that more than anything else.Gladys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2003 Report Share Posted April 10, 2003 Gladys, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't think of anything that would make you feel any less pain, but I wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to you. Cz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2003 Report Share Posted April 11, 2003 Gladys- My prayers are coming your way Gladys. I am so very sorry for your loss- I do know how devaststing such a loss can be- but not after fighting so very hard. You did everything you could- and now you need to take time to heal yourself- we're all here- and there are wonderful groups for pg loss and stillbirth ouit there- they are an immense help. If you need anything don't hesitate to ask- these women are among the best of the best. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} , Mike, Brenna Jordan Ross-born 9/26/97(VSD, PS- open heart surgery 1/29/98), and Jaden Kalyan Ross-born in Cambodia July 15, 2001 home with us forever May 3, 2002, Colin Spencer Ross- born July 27, 2002, Baby Angel born still 11/7/00, and Riley and Snoozer the dogs Join us again next year in remembering the millions of people affected by CHD on 2/14/2003:Â "A Day for Hearts: Congenital Heart Defects Awareness Day!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2003 Report Share Posted April 11, 2003 Gladys I'm truly sorry for your loss. There are no words of comfort at a time like this. Just know that prayers for your recovery are being offered on your behalf U. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2003 Report Share Posted April 11, 2003 Gladys, I am so sad to read of this loss, I can't really find any words to offer you but you have my thoughts and prayers. Lesia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2003 Report Share Posted April 11, 2003 Dear Gladys, I know nothing I can say will ease the pain. I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. Please take care of yourself. I'll thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Haley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2003 Report Share Posted April 11, 2003 Dear Gladys, So sad to hear of your loss. Please don't feel bad about yourself, all that has happened is NOT your fault. We are here for you-- Best wishes, G. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2003 Report Share Posted April 11, 2003 Gladys, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss & all you been through over the past 7 years. I know nothing I can say will make the pain go away, but my prayers are with you and your husband. Deanna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 12, 2003 Report Share Posted April 12, 2003 Glady's, I am truly sorry for your loss. No words I say can take away your pain but hoping that by knowing we are all here for you will make your pain less bearable. ((((((((hugs))))))))))))) Poly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 15, 2003 Report Share Posted April 15, 2003 Gladys, I'm so so sorry that you have to go through such pain ....we feel for you and your husban and you are in our prayers !Take your time to grief..... with love Margie & Michel _________________________________________________________________ STOP MORE SPAM with the new MSN 8 and get 2 months FREE* http://join.msn.com/?page=features/junkmail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 15, 2003 Report Share Posted April 15, 2003 Oh Gladys, I write this with tears in my eyes. I know there are no words that will change things or make it better, but please know you are loved and prayed for. I just wish I could give you a hug in person. I'm so very sorry, Love to you, Vicki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2003 Report Share Posted May 3, 2003 Hi Gladys, I am so sorry for your loss and hope that your recovery is going ok. You are a strong woman and will get through this, one day at a time. Please know that we are here for you and you are in my thoughts. I had a miscarriage October 2001 and my baby would have been 1 years old this Monday, May 5. I still have a difficult time looking at my friend's children who turned 1 in March and another in June. Be good to yourself and let yourself grieve. Please don't give up hope and have faith that one day it will be your turn and you will have a child. Take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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