MO relatives / reliving my obesity

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Every member of my immediate family is clinically obese. I love them all.

One has chosen to get the surgery. The others have not.

All I can do is show them that there is an option. I can't make any of them

choose the surgery. If they die of obesity related causes, I will not beat

myself up (I say now) because I tried. There are some things beyond my

control.

God grant me the strength the change the relatives I can,

the serenity to accept the relatives I cannot change,

and the wisdom to know the difference.

..... or you can lead horticulture but you can't make her think