Guest guest Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 lol, I just had to reply to this. Before surgery my now ex-husband hadn't touched me for nearly 5 years, not even on our wedding night! He would never admit it but I knew it was because of my weight. We had been together since I was 17 and was thinner when we met but got very heavy as time went on (they took my diet pills off the market) I had dealt with my weight my entire life and knew I had to do something (hopefully) once and for all about it so I did. Needless to say I left him nearly a year after. I know this may sound shallow, but I think its even more shallow that I was his wife and he would not go near me but I wont go into that lol. To answer your question, YES the sex is now awesome. I feel sexy and good about myself and although I'm not still not thin by society's standards I am the happiest I have been in literally years, maybe my entire life. Take care, Open RNY 1/12/05 310/150/120 > > SO has the sex gotten better? easier? ...lol > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 I don't know where you found this question but I never asked it. That is okay. I do understand your situation. I have had the sex problem but it is me that want have sex cause I don't feel good about my self. Anyway how did you get my e-mail or find this question to answer. I thought this was a chat line. Anyway have a good day and I hope to hear from you again. Thank you Lori Re: Inquring minds want to know??? lol, I just had to reply to this. Before surgery my now ex-husband hadn't touched me for nearly 5 years, not even on our wedding night! He would never admit it but I knew it was because of my weight. We had been together since I was 17 and was thinner when we met but got very heavy as time went on (they took my diet pills off the market) I had dealt with my weight my entire life and knew I had to do something (hopefully) once and for all about it so I did. Needless to say I left him nearly a year after. I know this may sound shallow, but I think its even more shallow that I was his wife and he would not go near me but I wont go into that lol. To answer your question, YES the sex is now awesome. I feel sexy and good about myself and although I'm not still not thin by society's standards I am the happiest I have been in literally years, maybe my entire life. Take care, Open RNY 1/12/05 310/150/120 > > SO has the sex gotten better? easier? ...lol > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 I don't know where you found this question but I never asked it. That is okay. I do understand your situation. I have had the sex problem but it is me that want have sex cause I don't feel good about my self. Anyway how did you get my e-mail or find this question to answer. I thought this was a chat line. Anyway have a good day and I hope to hear from you again. Thank you Lori Re: Inquring minds want to know??? lol, I just had to reply to this. Before surgery my now ex-husband hadn't touched me for nearly 5 years, not even on our wedding night! He would never admit it but I knew it was because of my weight. We had been together since I was 17 and was thinner when we met but got very heavy as time went on (they took my diet pills off the market) I had dealt with my weight my entire life and knew I had to do something (hopefully) once and for all about it so I did. Needless to say I left him nearly a year after. I know this may sound shallow, but I think its even more shallow that I was his wife and he would not go near me but I wont go into that lol. To answer your question, YES the sex is now awesome. I feel sexy and good about myself and although I'm not still not thin by society's standards I am the happiest I have been in literally years, maybe my entire life. Take care, Open RNY 1/12/05 310/150/120 > > SO has the sex gotten better? easier? ...lol > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 I don't know where you found this question but I never asked it. That is okay. I do understand your situation. I have had the sex problem but it is me that want have sex cause I don't feel good about my self. Anyway how did you get my e-mail or find this question to answer. I thought this was a chat line. Anyway have a good day and I hope to hear from you again. Thank you Lori Re: Inquring minds want to know??? lol, I just had to reply to this. Before surgery my now ex-husband hadn't touched me for nearly 5 years, not even on our wedding night! He would never admit it but I knew it was because of my weight. We had been together since I was 17 and was thinner when we met but got very heavy as time went on (they took my diet pills off the market) I had dealt with my weight my entire life and knew I had to do something (hopefully) once and for all about it so I did. Needless to say I left him nearly a year after. I know this may sound shallow, but I think its even more shallow that I was his wife and he would not go near me but I wont go into that lol. To answer your question, YES the sex is now awesome. I feel sexy and good about myself and although I'm not still not thin by society's standards I am the happiest I have been in literally years, maybe my entire life. Take care, Open RNY 1/12/05 310/150/120 > > SO has the sex gotten better? easier? ...lol > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2006 Report Share Posted November 11, 2006 Lori...that was a question that was posed a few days ago. It was in regards to sex after losing weight. The email came thru the group email to you & all others in the group. W 380/274/160 Lori McGuire wrote: > I don't know where you found this question but I never asked it. That is okay. I do understand your situation. I have had the sex problem but it is me that want have sex cause I don't feel good about my self. > Anyway how did you get my e-mail or find this question to answer. I thought this was a chat line. Anyway have a good day and I hope to hear from you again. Thank you Lori > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2006 Report Share Posted November 11, 2006 Yeah Lori.......we all know your doin it! LOLOL........ Mike T Re: Re: Inquring minds want to know??? > Lori...that was a question that was posed a few days ago. It was in > regards to sex after losing weight. The email came thru the group email > to you & all others in the group. > > W > 380/274/160 > > Lori McGuire wrote: >> I don't know where you found this question but I never asked it. That is >> okay. I do understand your situation. I have had the sex problem but it >> is me that want have sex cause I don't feel good about my self. >> Anyway how did you get my e-mail or find this question to answer. I >> thought this was a chat line. Anyway have a good day and I hope to hear >> from you again. Thank you Lori >> >> > > > > We are a very active support group. > If the email becomes overwhelming, > please change your setting to NO EMAIL! > Please contact Group Creator > Robyn@... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2006 Report Share Posted November 11, 2006 after surgery, I lost the feeling to have sex all the time. I miss it, I saw the OBGYN, they said it isnt related to the surgery but How weird how it happened right after that. It sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2006 Report Share Posted November 11, 2006 " the feeling to have sex all the time " I obviously have to get out and meet more women. > > after surgery, I lost the feeling to have sex all the time. I miss it, > I saw the OBGYN, they said it isnt related to the surgery but How > weird how it happened right after that. It sucks. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2006 Report Share Posted November 11, 2006 Thank YOu I am New!! Re: Re: Inquring minds want to know??? Lori...that was a question that was posed a few days ago. It was in regards to sex after losing weight. The email came thru the group email to you & all others in the group. W 380/274/160 Lori McGuire wrote: > I don't know where you found this question but I never asked it. That is okay. I do understand your situation. I have had the sex problem but it is me that want have sex cause I don't feel good about my self. > Anyway how did you get my e-mail or find this question to answer. I thought this was a chat line. Anyway have a good day and I hope to hear from you again. Thank you Lori > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2006 Report Share Posted November 11, 2006 ROFL! I knew you'd have something to say about that! W 380/274/160 Mike wrote: > " the feeling to have sex all the time " > > I obviously have to get out and meet more women. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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