Guest guest Posted December 30, 2001 Report Share Posted December 30, 2001 Dear Spider Woman, Just to be clear, so there is no misunderstanding, can you tell me what this means? I do not understand the wording? thanks, love, ceep In a message dated 12/30/01 3:36:58 PM, Graduate-OSSG writes: << or most def have a ethnic deficiency like many on this list >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2001 Report Share Posted December 31, 2001 In a message dated 12/30/2001 1:42:15 PM Central Standard Time, dragonweyr@... writes: > I do believe Medicaid will pay for anger management programs and > counseling. You're taking your anger out on people who don't have > anything to do with your situation. As for not understanding > your " lingo " then, write more clearly. Very simple, you want to be > understood, you sound like an intelligent person, communicate with > the people you are talking to in a way they will understand. Being > black has not a darn thing to do with it, I know a lot of black > people wouldn't know what the heck you were saying either so race > over the internet is moot. No one can see you, its all the written > word. There is a group called complain/argue where ranting is the > forum. There's no moderating and you can say any and everything that > may be on your mind whether it offends or not. > I hope you can reap the benefits of this list, there are many, these > are people who have experience behind them in the weight loss surgery > experience. It's a place to learn and exchange ideas and it meets > those needs very thoroughly. > Ramoth Ramoth, IMO any group tht considers itself to be a 'chat support' group should expect people having the need to vent once in a while. Exscuse the frick outta me for not being the perfect little token and feeling that I could come to my list-mates and rant on occassion. Hell anyone that didnt like what I had to say should have just ignored it and moved on like I normally do to a LOT of posts from this list. But I don't really expect people to sit by and say nothing when something offends... or rather not in this care where it really doesn't matter. am I angry.. sure. Just because I post a 'vent' do I need anger management? Hell NO. Like I said in my post.. if I offend, deal with it. Hell, I'm dealing with the replies that I've gotten and some of them offend. Does that mean that I'm not to to respond to the offensive replies.. HELL NO. I guess unless I'm all happy and bright, I (or anyone, huh?) isn't supposed to have an opinion? or is it just that we aren't supposed to post our opinion? OOOH I know.. I'll email all my posts to you first so you can put your 'happy day' stamp of approval on it before it goes list-side. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2001 Report Share Posted December 31, 2001 In a message dated 12/30/2001 1:42:15 PM Central Standard Time, dragonweyr@... writes: > I do believe Medicaid will pay for anger management programs and > counseling. You're taking your anger out on people who don't have > anything to do with your situation. As for not understanding > your " lingo " then, write more clearly. Very simple, you want to be > understood, you sound like an intelligent person, communicate with > the people you are talking to in a way they will understand. Being > black has not a darn thing to do with it, I know a lot of black > people wouldn't know what the heck you were saying either so race > over the internet is moot. No one can see you, its all the written > word. There is a group called complain/argue where ranting is the > forum. There's no moderating and you can say any and everything that > may be on your mind whether it offends or not. > I hope you can reap the benefits of this list, there are many, these > are people who have experience behind them in the weight loss surgery > experience. It's a place to learn and exchange ideas and it meets > those needs very thoroughly. > Ramoth Ramoth, IMO any group tht considers itself to be a 'chat support' group should expect people having the need to vent once in a while. Exscuse the frick outta me for not being the perfect little token and feeling that I could come to my list-mates and rant on occassion. Hell anyone that didnt like what I had to say should have just ignored it and moved on like I normally do to a LOT of posts from this list. But I don't really expect people to sit by and say nothing when something offends... or rather not in this care where it really doesn't matter. am I angry.. sure. Just because I post a 'vent' do I need anger management? Hell NO. Like I said in my post.. if I offend, deal with it. Hell, I'm dealing with the replies that I've gotten and some of them offend. Does that mean that I'm not to to respond to the offensive replies.. HELL NO. I guess unless I'm all happy and bright, I (or anyone, huh?) isn't supposed to have an opinion? or is it just that we aren't supposed to post our opinion? OOOH I know.. I'll email all my posts to you first so you can put your 'happy day' stamp of approval on it before it goes list-side. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2001 Report Share Posted December 31, 2001 In a message dated 12/30/2001 1:42:15 PM Central Standard Time, dragonweyr@... writes: > I do believe Medicaid will pay for anger management programs and > counseling. You're taking your anger out on people who don't have > anything to do with your situation. As for not understanding > your " lingo " then, write more clearly. Very simple, you want to be > understood, you sound like an intelligent person, communicate with > the people you are talking to in a way they will understand. Being > black has not a darn thing to do with it, I know a lot of black > people wouldn't know what the heck you were saying either so race > over the internet is moot. No one can see you, its all the written > word. There is a group called complain/argue where ranting is the > forum. There's no moderating and you can say any and everything that > may be on your mind whether it offends or not. > I hope you can reap the benefits of this list, there are many, these > are people who have experience behind them in the weight loss surgery > experience. It's a place to learn and exchange ideas and it meets > those needs very thoroughly. > Ramoth Ramoth, IMO any group tht considers itself to be a 'chat support' group should expect people having the need to vent once in a while. Exscuse the frick outta me for not being the perfect little token and feeling that I could come to my list-mates and rant on occassion. Hell anyone that didnt like what I had to say should have just ignored it and moved on like I normally do to a LOT of posts from this list. But I don't really expect people to sit by and say nothing when something offends... or rather not in this care where it really doesn't matter. am I angry.. sure. Just because I post a 'vent' do I need anger management? Hell NO. Like I said in my post.. if I offend, deal with it. Hell, I'm dealing with the replies that I've gotten and some of them offend. Does that mean that I'm not to to respond to the offensive replies.. HELL NO. I guess unless I'm all happy and bright, I (or anyone, huh?) isn't supposed to have an opinion? or is it just that we aren't supposed to post our opinion? OOOH I know.. I'll email all my posts to you first so you can put your 'happy day' stamp of approval on it before it goes list-side. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 31, 2001 Report Share Posted December 31, 2001 whether you can see it or not, you are very angry. You're allowed to vent but you're attacking and venting on people who have nothing to do with you or your situation (other people who want the surgery?). Getting help doesn't mean that something is wrong with you it means you're mature and sensible enough to know you could use some help in an area that you're not dealing with in an appropriate manner. Anger is so hard on you, it really doesn't hurt anyone else but it can eat you up inside. It has been proven that people who are happier, heal quicker and don't have raised blood pressure and other ailments that constant anger can contribute to. I'd be happy to read over your posts though and let you know if 1) I understand them. and 2) if you're coming across as more angry than informative. We're all here to help each other. hugs, Ramoth > In a message dated 12/30/2001 1:42:15 PM Central Standard Time, > dragonweyr@b... writes: > > > > I do believe Medicaid will pay for anger management programs and > > counseling. You're taking your anger out on people who don't have > > anything to do with your situation. As for not understanding > > your " lingo " then, write more clearly. Very simple, you want to be > > understood, you sound like an intelligent person, communicate with > > the people you are talking to in a way they will understand. Being > > black has not a darn thing to do with it, I know a lot of black > > people wouldn't know what the heck you were saying either so race > > over the internet is moot. No one can see you, its all the written > > word. There is a group called complain/argue where ranting is the > > forum. There's no moderating and you can say any and everything that > > may be on your mind whether it offends or not. > > I hope you can reap the benefits of this list, there are many, these > > are people who have experience behind them in the weight loss surgery > > experience. It's a place to learn and exchange ideas and it meets > > those needs very thoroughly. > > Ramoth > > Ramoth, IMO any group tht considers itself to be a 'chat support' group > should expect people having the need to vent once in a while. Exscuse the > frick outta me for not being the perfect little token and feeling that I > could come to my list-mates and rant on occassion. Hell anyone that didnt > like what I had to say should have just ignored it and moved on like I > normally do to a LOT of posts from this list. But I don't really expect > people to sit by and say nothing when something offends... or rather not in > this care where it really doesn't matter. > > am I angry.. sure. Just because I post a 'vent' do I need anger management? > Hell NO. Like I said in my post.. if I offend, deal with it. Hell, I'm > dealing with the replies that I've gotten and some of them offend. Does that > mean that I'm not to to respond to the offensive replies.. HELL NO. > > I guess unless I'm all happy and bright, I (or anyone, huh?) isn't supposed > to have an opinion? or is it just that we aren't supposed to post our > opinion? OOOH I know.. I'll email all my posts to you first so you can put > your 'happy day' stamp of approval on it before it goes list-side. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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