Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 Hi Cappie, Boy, you're on a roll today! I too get frustrated trying to help folks that just want to " eat the foods they always have " & still have good diabetes control (or wonder why they don't). IMHO, it takes a mindset change & we can't make others do that (I know, I've tried with dismal results!!!). They have to come to the conclusion themselves that they are willing to make some " changes " to get the job done. With some this takes the onset of one or more complications. After " excellent, non-diabetic bg levels " are achieved, then's the time to start experimenting with the " carby stuff " , although my own experience is that I'm not interested in it any more. Boy, I've been grumpy in the afternoons lately! Down off soap-box now! , T2, dx'ed 4/98, controlling with LC & Supplements Average fasting bg 100mg/dl, last HbA1c 5.6% >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>> I think Gretchen is right that all most newly diagnosed diabetics seem to want is recipes so they can continue to eat as they always have... .... .... People give up their time & go to a lot of effort to try to direct the newly diagnosed. I for one have become quite burnt out by having that effort either ignored or thrown in the face, It seems to me to not to be worthwhile any longer. cappie <<< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 Everybody has to make their own balance between 1) how much their own body can handle carbs 2) what they like to eat 3) how much medication they want to take 4) how low they want their blood glucose to be In 3 months I got Gil to an A1c of 5.3 from 10.3 on a somewhat low-carb diet and 5mg Glyburide twice a day. He is able to eat limited amounts of carby food on that regimen. One slice of pumpernickel (really black really grainy bread), limited fruits except tropical (1/3 not-overripe banana with other food seems OK for him), small glass of milk, small amounts of whole wheat pasta, one slice of Ezekiel bread. Not every meal or even every day, but on a regular basis. My guess is he's on an average of 100g carbs/day, often lower, sometimes a bit higher, especially when we go out to eat. So that's quite a bit above Bernstein's recommendations but it is a diet he is fairly comfortable on. And he's losing weight. We are eating different things of course. A lot more nuts and nut butter, for example. A lot more veggies, cooked and raw. More eggs and cheese. I haven't started trying to bake with the strange new ingredients, but he likes the sugar free ice cream and it seems to agree with him. At that point we could have tried to cut the carbs more and cut the drugs. But right now we are trying Metformin instead and we're seeing how the initial dose goes with the diet he's on. I think you all are not admitting how much effect your advice really has. I wasn't aware, and certainly the diabetic friend I lost a couple of years ago wasn't aware, that certain " white " items are as bad for diabetics as sugar is. She thought mashed potatoes were suitable food for diabetics, as were bananas and whole wheat bread. So even if people don't totally follow the diet you want them to, I would not conclude that your time is wasted. Even if they don't listen at the time, it is information that can come into their mind again later when they decide they do want better blood glucose control or want to cut back the drugs. Plus I wouldn't feel my time is wasted if they make some changes. For resistant people I'm not sure that a few changes might lead to more changes and make a good starting point. For example, forget the starch at the evening meal. For me, it was what a meal had in it: meat, starch, veggies. Now it is almost always only meat and veggies. Have them try an open-faced sandwich, preferably made with a fairly low carb or high fiber bread of some sort. If they are cereal eaters, point them to the high bran or high flax cereals. Teach them to read the labels. It may not be what you eat, but oh so much better than what the average American eats. Some people like to learn everything about a subject all at once. Other people seem to get overwhelmed by the amount they feel they need to know to even get started. For the latter type, starting slower may be the only way to succeed in the end. Like cleaning the house -- start with a small part of it and ignore the entire house. I also think everything we can do to communicate with non-diabetic people that the average American diet is dangerous to their health. I truly believe that it is not good even for those of us who may not be prone to type 2 diabetes. I'm not diabetic and no one in my family has had diabetes of either type and I feel very good on this diet and I'm losing some weight. My carb intake are a bit higher because I try to avoid artificial sugars and am not such a fan of that black bread, but basically I eat what my husband eats. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 Everybody has to make their own balance between 1) how much their own body can handle carbs 2) what they like to eat 3) how much medication they want to take 4) how low they want their blood glucose to be In 3 months I got Gil to an A1c of 5.3 from 10.3 on a somewhat low-carb diet and 5mg Glyburide twice a day. He is able to eat limited amounts of carby food on that regimen. One slice of pumpernickel (really black really grainy bread), limited fruits except tropical (1/3 not-overripe banana with other food seems OK for him), small glass of milk, small amounts of whole wheat pasta, one slice of Ezekiel bread. Not every meal or even every day, but on a regular basis. My guess is he's on an average of 100g carbs/day, often lower, sometimes a bit higher, especially when we go out to eat. So that's quite a bit above Bernstein's recommendations but it is a diet he is fairly comfortable on. And he's losing weight. We are eating different things of course. A lot more nuts and nut butter, for example. A lot more veggies, cooked and raw. More eggs and cheese. I haven't started trying to bake with the strange new ingredients, but he likes the sugar free ice cream and it seems to agree with him. At that point we could have tried to cut the carbs more and cut the drugs. But right now we are trying Metformin instead and we're seeing how the initial dose goes with the diet he's on. I think you all are not admitting how much effect your advice really has. I wasn't aware, and certainly the diabetic friend I lost a couple of years ago wasn't aware, that certain " white " items are as bad for diabetics as sugar is. She thought mashed potatoes were suitable food for diabetics, as were bananas and whole wheat bread. So even if people don't totally follow the diet you want them to, I would not conclude that your time is wasted. Even if they don't listen at the time, it is information that can come into their mind again later when they decide they do want better blood glucose control or want to cut back the drugs. Plus I wouldn't feel my time is wasted if they make some changes. For resistant people I'm not sure that a few changes might lead to more changes and make a good starting point. For example, forget the starch at the evening meal. For me, it was what a meal had in it: meat, starch, veggies. Now it is almost always only meat and veggies. Have them try an open-faced sandwich, preferably made with a fairly low carb or high fiber bread of some sort. If they are cereal eaters, point them to the high bran or high flax cereals. Teach them to read the labels. It may not be what you eat, but oh so much better than what the average American eats. Some people like to learn everything about a subject all at once. Other people seem to get overwhelmed by the amount they feel they need to know to even get started. For the latter type, starting slower may be the only way to succeed in the end. Like cleaning the house -- start with a small part of it and ignore the entire house. I also think everything we can do to communicate with non-diabetic people that the average American diet is dangerous to their health. I truly believe that it is not good even for those of us who may not be prone to type 2 diabetes. I'm not diabetic and no one in my family has had diabetes of either type and I feel very good on this diet and I'm losing some weight. My carb intake are a bit higher because I try to avoid artificial sugars and am not such a fan of that black bread, but basically I eat what my husband eats. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 --- In diabetes_int , " judith_nicholls " > Plus I wouldn't feel my time is wasted if they make some changes. For > resistant people I'm not sure that a few changes might lead to more > changes and make a good starting point. I agree, and you make a number of very good points, Judith. Even though I wanted to know everything at once when I was diagnosed, it took time to ease into a low carb lifestyle, and I was resistant to information that seemed contrary to what my doctor was telling me. It took time for me to gradually reduce the carbs and quit worrying so much about the fat, and to trust my meter and the blood tests that showed my lipids improving drastically. I think I may have even accused one or two people on this list of being zealots for LC diets. I started on a diet of about 120 g. of carbs a day, and low fat. I got pretty good control that way, but gradually I found it easier to go lower on carbs and actually had to add fats back in to keep from losing too much weight. Now I think I eat about 50-75 g. of carbs a day, but I always try to err on the low side. Everyone has to find their own way. Cappie, I do share your frustration as I talk to new people and want to almost overwhelm them with what I've learned over time, but sometimes learning needs to be a gradual process. After all, most of us have been inundated with bad information for a long time. Even my new stepfather, at 85, has started modifying his diet and has been able to cut back on medication as he cuts back on carbs, after 2+ years of " preaching " to him. What made a difference was when we'd go out to dinner together, and he'd eat what he was used to eating (bread, potatoes, etc) and I'd eat low carb and then we'd both test. And I thought he'd never change!! Christy, waving an olive branch... T2 dx 11/29/01, A1C 10.7 Now D & E controlled, A1c 5.1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 It would be nice if the manufacturers of our foods would use the ADA portion sizes instead of their own. My biggest problem, before going to the dietitian, was thinking that I was only eating one serving. The package would tell me that a whole muffin is one serving. But, when I got the Diabetic diet, I found out I had been eating two servings of carbs. So, now I am reading things more carefully and making sure to stay as close to the natural state as possible. Lots of fresh veggies and fruits. That is another thing, why are pieces of fruit so large? I like to have a few (3-4) slices of banana(used for sweetner instead of Splenda or Sweet N Low) with my cereal. But most bananas I find are about 8 inches long. That is too much for one sitting and then I end up either not eating it or having to waste it. Vons used to sell what they called juniors. They were the right size for my purposes. Now, I can't find them. The peaches, apples and many other fruits that I like are also too big for one serving. I have asked where I shop if they could please get smaller ones, but they tell me they can't. Oh well, I will just have to put up with it. Happy Thursday, ______________________________________________________ Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort. http://store.yahoo.com/redcross-donate3/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 It would be nice if the manufacturers of our foods would use the ADA portion sizes instead of their own. My biggest problem, before going to the dietitian, was thinking that I was only eating one serving. The package would tell me that a whole muffin is one serving. But, when I got the Diabetic diet, I found out I had been eating two servings of carbs. So, now I am reading things more carefully and making sure to stay as close to the natural state as possible. Lots of fresh veggies and fruits. That is another thing, why are pieces of fruit so large? I like to have a few (3-4) slices of banana(used for sweetner instead of Splenda or Sweet N Low) with my cereal. But most bananas I find are about 8 inches long. That is too much for one sitting and then I end up either not eating it or having to waste it. Vons used to sell what they called juniors. They were the right size for my purposes. Now, I can't find them. The peaches, apples and many other fruits that I like are also too big for one serving. I have asked where I shop if they could please get smaller ones, but they tell me they can't. Oh well, I will just have to put up with it. Happy Thursday, ______________________________________________________ Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort. http://store.yahoo.com/redcross-donate3/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 Helen recently suggested slicing up a banana and freezing the slices and eating them one a time, frozen. You might try that. Vicki Re: Re: Grumpy Me! (Cappie): was- bananas & other high carb food > It would be nice if the manufacturers of our foods > would use the ADA portion sizes instead of their own. > My biggest problem, before going to the dietitian, was > thinking that I was only eating one serving. The > package would tell me that a whole muffin is one > serving. But, when I got the Diabetic diet, I found > out I had been eating two servings of carbs. So, now I > am reading things more carefully and making sure to > stay as close to the natural state as possible. Lots > of fresh veggies and fruits. That is another thing, > why are pieces of fruit so large? I like to have a few > (3-4) slices of banana(used for sweetner instead of > Splenda or Sweet N Low) with my cereal. But most > bananas I find are about 8 inches long. That is too > much for one sitting and then I end up either not > eating it or having to waste it. Vons used to sell > what they called juniors. They were the right size for > my purposes. Now, I can't find them. The peaches, > apples and many other fruits that I like are also too > big for one serving. I have asked where I shop if they > could please get smaller ones, but they tell me they > can't. > > Oh well, I will just have to put up with it. > > Happy Thursday, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 At 09:50 PM 9/8/05, whimsy2 wrote: >Helen recently suggested slicing up a banana and freezing the slices and >eating them one a time, frozen. You might try that. along with the cereal and muffin and whatever other high-carb food the ADA is touting as a good diet for diabetics? I'm beginning to understand how Cappie feels. I'm still all for a class action lawsuit against the ADA for recommending a diabetic diet guaranteed to cause too-high BG's and diabetic complications down the road. Can you do that to an organization? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 At 09:50 PM 9/8/05, whimsy2 wrote: >Helen recently suggested slicing up a banana and freezing the slices and >eating them one a time, frozen. You might try that. along with the cereal and muffin and whatever other high-carb food the ADA is touting as a good diet for diabetics? I'm beginning to understand how Cappie feels. I'm still all for a class action lawsuit against the ADA for recommending a diabetic diet guaranteed to cause too-high BG's and diabetic complications down the road. Can you do that to an organization? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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