serious question on masturbation

April 26, 2001

Hello,

This is somewhat embarrassing for me but it worries me. Everytime

I masturbate I will flush alot. does anyone experience this. It's

like right as I'm climaxing I flush big time. So I have been avoiding

sex and masturbation. I'm very afraid to let my boyfriend see me like

this but its alright only if he is behind me becuase it goes really

pale after i have finished climaxing. Does anyone have a

recommendation,,, thanks

e

April 26, 2001

Hi e,

I recommend a cool environment with a fan. If the flushing persists

afterward, drink lots of cold water to cool off. Tell your boyfriend

that you flush so he'll know. After you have sex with him you will

probably need to modify your behaviour somewhat. This unfortunately

will mean less cuddling due to combined body heat. Move apart sooner

and take steps to cool your face, including drinking cold water (both

before and after sex), using a fan directed toward your face, and

applying cold compress to the face if necessary. Look for a reusable

cold compress containing a gel, in the US we have Ace brand reusable

cold gel compresses. Keep a couple in your freezer for flareups. Your

boyfriend will probably not mind any of this; he'll just go to sleep.

~Jim

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