Re: A VERY SAD DAY FOR THE LUPIES

[Guest guest]

I hadn't checked the board in a few days and I am just shocked and

deeply saddened. always had the best advice and most

cheerfully funny anecdotes. When I had questions, she was the first

to give me a medically sound answer. I will miss her terribly and

will not stay gone so long in the future. To all here who called her

a friend, my deepest and most heartfelt sypathies and a hug. I am

very sorry, guys.

Lori

> This is the hardest things I have had to announce to the board. I

can't

> believe this myself, but I need to ask everyone to keep our dear

> and her family in your thoughts and prayers.

>

> This morning our dear passed away. I can't even think of any

> words to describe how sad I am, all I can do is cry and ask " Why

,

> Why? "

>

> This is the email in which I received the news, as did whom

> called me.

>

> Lets all remember , our dear friend, and family member.

>

> This world will not be the same without here, and omg I am at just a

> lost for words.

>

> Hugs,

> Deanna

> is in the hospital..again

>

> Hi,

> This is " Rion " 's family.

> We wish to let you know that is no longer with us. She has

gone

> on to a better place.

> Thanks..

> Jack Sewell (husband)

> & Sewell (sons)

> ----------

> Some poems that wished to share with you all:

> Do Not Weep

>

> Please, do not weep for me,

> for I have finally made it home.

> My homecoming was a joyful one,

> even though the road was long.

>

> I was met by friends and family,

> passed over before my time,

> and guided into the place of love

> I had found in my dreamtime.

>

> Everything here is beautiful,

> so clean, so fresh and new;

> I wish that you could close your eyes

> and that you could see it too.

>

> Please try not to be sad for me

> for now I dwell in a land so fair;

> try to understand the beauty

> of being in the Creator's care.

>

> I have followed the path full circle

> from birth, through life, and demise

> and now I have been reborn again

> and can live wearing any disguise.

>

> So next time you see bright confetti

> flying high in the bright blue sky,

> you will know it is I just visiting

> dressed as a delicate butterfly.

>

> C July 2003 " Rion " Sewell

> -----

> Touching Death

> In all of our tomorrows, a ribbon of hope survives.

> We will be here for our loved ones,

> as long as one memory of our lives remain.

> Death is only the beginning.

> Death .. dying .. a natural crossing over

> from this side of the veil to the other.

> A stepping over into the heaven you've made

> of pleasant sights and no more fears.

> Death has touched all of us at one time or another

> taking a loved one before you were through loving them,

> taking someone you didn't personally know,

> but who had made a great difference in your life.

> Death has touched all of us at one time or another

> early in the morning, late into the night

> we hear Death has come for someone

> and our heart goes out to them and their families.

> Death is not a stopping point

> it is not an end .. it is just the continuance

> of a circle of life that will persevere

> until time itself disappears.

> Death is only the beginning.

> C April 2001 " Rion " Sewell

>

> -----

> Dealing with Death:

> Dealing with death is a process we all must endure at some time in

our

> life. When we receive the notice of the death of a loved one, the

words

> crush our hearts and take our breath away.

> One message cannot stand on its own as memories and thoughts rush

> through our minds in a flurry of emotion. If the person was

extremely

> close to us, we may even feel anger at the person for leaving us

alone

> to face the world.

> In all walks of life, people have devised ways to help them cope

with

> the inevitability and finality of death. In all lifestyles, talking

is

> the best way to open your heart and allow the grief to subside.

> Talking releases the emotions; it clears space in your heart and

mind

> for a touch of joy to enter your life.

> I believe when we have learned all the lessons we were sent to

Earth to

> learn, we are allowed to shed our physical body and return in

spirit.

> Our body imprisons our soul the way a cocoon encloses the future

> butterfly.

> At the time of our physical death, we will be free of pain, free of

> fears and free of worries. We will be as a beautiful butterfly

> returning home to God.

> The most important thing for you to remember during this time is

you are

> never alone.

> There are people who can help you cope with your grief as deal with

it

> you must. For life goes on and you will continue to grow and to

sing,

> to love and to dance, even after your loved one has parted.

> We cannot avoid the pain death brings into our life, but we can

choose

> to not allow the pain to overwhelm us to the point of a lifeless

> non-existence.

> Dealing with grief is something none of us want to endure. Some

people

> say dealing with grief is a waste of time .. I dont. The tears will

come

> and they are a good thing. They are a natural reaction to an

unpleasant

> situation.

> So just let them come. It is a good cleansing procedure, both

mentally

> and physically.

> Tears are nothing to be ashamed of .. just remember ..

> " Grief is the proof we have loved and lived.

> Tears wash the heart and cleanse it of grief ..

> allowing all the love you possess to shine forth! "

> C 2002 " Rion " Sewell

[Guest guest]

-I have been sick and away from my computer. I am shocked and

saddened with 's passing. I had no idea....she has been so good

to me and many others. I am typing thru tears. It just seems so

sudden. I was just talking with her last week!! I have to sit back

and let this sink in. How very sad, I will pray for her and her

family, and will never look at butterfly's the same way again. She is

now at peace and will suffer no longer, I will meet her someday. My

deepest regard to her family and God Bless, Pam-- In

LUPIES , " Deanna " <tigerice@r...> wrote:

> This is the hardest things I have had to announce to the board. I

can't

> believe this myself, but I need to ask everyone to keep our dear

> and her family in your thoughts and prayers.

>

> This morning our dear passed away. I can't even think of any

> words to describe how sad I am, all I can do is cry and ask " Why

,

> Why? "

>

> This is the email in which I received the news, as did whom

> called me.

>

> Lets all remember , our dear friend, and family member.

>

> This world will not be the same without here, and omg I am at just a

> lost for words.

>

> Hugs,

> Deanna

> is in the hospital..again

>

> Hi,

> This is " Rion " 's family.

> We wish to let you know that is no longer with us. She has

gone

> on to a better place.

> Thanks..

> Jack Sewell (husband)

> & Sewell (sons)

> ----------

> Some poems that wished to share with you all:

> Do Not Weep

>

> Please, do not weep for me,

> for I have finally made it home.

> My homecoming was a joyful one,

> even though the road was long.

>

> I was met by friends and family,

> passed over before my time,

> and guided into the place of love

> I had found in my dreamtime.

>

> Everything here is beautiful,

> so clean, so fresh and new;

> I wish that you could close your eyes

> and that you could see it too.

>

> Please try not to be sad for me

> for now I dwell in a land so fair;

> try to understand the beauty

> of being in the Creator's care.

>

> I have followed the path full circle

> from birth, through life, and demise

> and now I have been reborn again

> and can live wearing any disguise.

>

> So next time you see bright confetti

> flying high in the bright blue sky,

> you will know it is I just visiting

> dressed as a delicate butterfly.

>

> C July 2003 " Rion " Sewell

> -----

> Touching Death

> In all of our tomorrows, a ribbon of hope survives.

> We will be here for our loved ones,

> as long as one memory of our lives remain.

> Death is only the beginning.

> Death .. dying .. a natural crossing over

> from this side of the veil to the other.

> A stepping over into the heaven you've made

> of pleasant sights and no more fears.

> Death has touched all of us at one time or another

> taking a loved one before you were through loving them,

> taking someone you didn't personally know,

> but who had made a great difference in your life.

> Death has touched all of us at one time or another

> early in the morning, late into the night

> we hear Death has come for someone

> and our heart goes out to them and their families.

> Death is not a stopping point

> it is not an end .. it is just the continuance

> of a circle of life that will persevere

> until time itself disappears.

> Death is only the beginning.

> C April 2001 " Rion " Sewell

>

> -----

> Dealing with Death:

> Dealing with death is a process we all must endure at some time in

our

> life. When we receive the notice of the death of a loved one, the

words

> crush our hearts and take our breath away.

> One message cannot stand on its own as memories and thoughts rush

> through our minds in a flurry of emotion. If the person was

extremely

> close to us, we may even feel anger at the person for leaving us

alone

> to face the world.

> In all walks of life, people have devised ways to help them cope

with

> the inevitability and finality of death. In all lifestyles, talking

is

> the best way to open your heart and allow the grief to subside.

> Talking releases the emotions; it clears space in your heart and

mind

> for a touch of joy to enter your life.

> I believe when we have learned all the lessons we were sent to

Earth to

> learn, we are allowed to shed our physical body and return in

spirit.

> Our body imprisons our soul the way a cocoon encloses the future

> butterfly.

> At the time of our physical death, we will be free of pain, free of

> fears and free of worries. We will be as a beautiful butterfly

> returning home to God.

> The most important thing for you to remember during this time is

you are

> never alone.

> There are people who can help you cope with your grief as deal with

it

> you must. For life goes on and you will continue to grow and to

sing,

> to love and to dance, even after your loved one has parted.

> We cannot avoid the pain death brings into our life, but we can

choose

> to not allow the pain to overwhelm us to the point of a lifeless

> non-existence.

> Dealing with grief is something none of us want to endure. Some

people

> say dealing with grief is a waste of time .. I dont. The tears will

come

> and they are a good thing. They are a natural reaction to an

unpleasant

> situation.

> So just let them come. It is a good cleansing procedure, both

mentally

> and physically.

> Tears are nothing to be ashamed of .. just remember ..

> " Grief is the proof we have loved and lived.

> Tears wash the heart and cleanse it of grief ..

> allowing all the love you possess to shine forth! "

> C 2002 " Rion " Sewell