Goodby Trudy

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I think Trudy will come back. If she tries another lupus group she will find the same rules apply as here.

There is one exception I think I remember seeing. I think there is an all Christian group on Yahoo. I am a Christian but all that mushy stuff is too much for me. They all believe different doctrines too.

I think we have the best group, we have good info, comfort, support, and most of have a spiritual feeling in our hearts. That is good enough for me. As a matter of fact, the rules here are quite lenient.

I used to be in another group (no names please). The moderator actually browbeat us. She was a nurse and discounted information we had to contribute. She was very strict on what to put on the subject line. I printed out her list of rules because she scolded me so much for not remembering to say the right thing. It was several pages long!!!

My husband told me to quit because I got upset over the fact that I kept making mistakes and getting scolded. Go figure.

I hope Trudy learns her lesson and comes back too.

Cheryl in CA

-- Re: I'm sad for our group

Guys, I am so sad for our group. I guess I get attached to everyone and it is like losing a member of my family when someone leaves. First Trudy, I keep thinking of when she got her little puppy last year and things like that and I will miss her very much, just because of one altercation. How can one incident take away all of the memories and things that we have all shared, times of worry and times of excitement when good things happen? And then I find out that a B is leaving as well and it is really depressing me. I really care about all of you. We all share things with each other and then throw it away, for what? I know that poor a is sick and I understand that, but Trudy? Anyway, I will miss them both. That's all and please don't anyone else leave for a while okay?a C

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