~*~To All~*~

[Guest guest]

((Aimee)) you need to let your dh know how you feel. We went through that a few

years ago(but not to that extreme) but I was straight forward with dh. He did

not realize that it was bothering me so much.. he can't read my mind. I would

never be able to handle that and if my dh even thought his mom was moving in

with us, he would be moving into her house alone! Please be upfront with him, he

may not even realize what is going on.

~*~To All~*~

Good morning, Ladies!!

So, I get up this morning and get online to check my e-mail and from

this group alone I had 146 messages. Sorry, that I haven't answered

but I am getting sort of depressed...Alot of things!! I am so sick

of waiting for a answer from the loan company..why does it take

forever? And Why wasn't I born rich instead of gorgeous? Hehe...

I hate this! I know that you aren't suppose to question God..but why

can't he allow me to have one good thing happen in my life? I know

why..because there is a devil too! And the devil is trying to bring

me down...and I hate to say it but it is working!!

Everything is getting to me!! I had to deal with my mother-in-law

most of the day yesterday..she drives me crazy..I know that she

drives my hubby crazy sometimes..because I have to hear about it.

Anyways, I had to take her to the doctor (Remember, my hubby's dad

passed away and his mom is blind! And to beat it all off his

parent's adopted a boy that is now 13!) They live in his parents

house...but things are getting worse..she acts like I need to take

her everywhere with me. For instance.. a week or so ago..the same

weekend as the Fourth of July..we rented a $266.oo room at the

Wildwood Inn (this was to celebrate our Anniversary..because my

hubby won't be able to get off for that!) The two kids stayed the

night with a friend. First, we asked his mom if she would keep them

overnight and she said no, that anything could happen..yeah, it

could but what was difference in having the adopted boy and two more

kids?? She was just being hateful!! Well, anyways..we left to get

there because it was about an hour away. We got there and my hubby

said to call and tell her where we were and the phone number there

and tell her that if she needed anything she could call one of the

cell phones. When I told her..she had a fit! She said well, we won't

need anything! After the conversation ended..Donnie and I went to

dinner..and at dinner I could tell that something was wrong with my

hubby..and there was his mommy! So, we left and went straight

home..What? You heard me...We went home after renting this room!! He

wanted to check out but I refused to let them get paid

twice...because they would of just rented the room again that n ight

after we left! So..we went home slept and then went back in the

morning to check out..we took his mom with us so that she could see

the room(it's a theme resort..we had the speedway room and there are

actual cars in the room!!) Anyways, then we went to stay at the

cabin that same day that we check out of the room and we had to take

her with us then. Then this pasted weekend we went to the zoo..we

took her then! Am I married to him or her? Or Is he married to her??

It doesn't bother me that we help her but I deserve to have some

type of marriage. Now..he is talking about how bad she is not taking

care of the house and the litttle boy don't help..I already clean

their house every other day..plus, I do the cooking. And I can't

believe this..in a year and a half..she has gone thru

$120,000.00..no joke!! I think that he wants to move her in with

us!! My house is only a three bedroom ranch with a full basement and

a three car attached garage. Where would we put her??

I so think that if that happens they will need to give me prozac at

28! It also means that things won't get better!!

I swear..you'd think that bad things follow me!! One thing..one

day..that's all I want!! Is that too much to ask for??

Instead..I will just remember that life could be ALOT worse and I

will quit pouting!! Sorry..to all of you that didn't want to read

this but at least I vented. Didn't help much though! I am still

upset!

Hope that everyone else is having a great day and that things are

going great for all!!

Hugs~

~Aimee

[Guest guest]

Good morning, Ladies!!

So, I get up this morning and get online to check my e-mail and from

this group alone I had 146 messages. Sorry, that I haven't answered

but I am getting sort of depressed...Alot of things!! I am so sick

of waiting for a answer from the loan company..why does it take

forever? And Why wasn't I born rich instead of gorgeous? Hehe...

I hate this! I know that you aren't suppose to question God..but why

can't he allow me to have one good thing happen in my life? I know

why..because there is a devil too! And the devil is trying to bring

me down...and I hate to say it but it is working!!

Everything is getting to me!! I had to deal with my mother-in-law

most of the day yesterday..she drives me crazy..I know that she

drives my hubby crazy sometimes..because I have to hear about it.

Anyways, I had to take her to the doctor (Remember, my hubby's dad

passed away and his mom is blind! And to beat it all off his

parent's adopted a boy that is now 13!) They live in his parents

house...but things are getting worse..she acts like I need to take

her everywhere with me. For instance.. a week or so ago..the same

weekend as the Fourth of July..we rented a $266.oo room at the

Wildwood Inn (this was to celebrate our Anniversary..because my

hubby won't be able to get off for that!) The two kids stayed the

night with a friend. First, we asked his mom if she would keep them

overnight and she said no, that anything could happen..yeah, it

could but what was difference in having the adopted boy and two more

kids?? She was just being hateful!! Well, anyways..we left to get

there because it was about an hour away. We got there and my hubby

said to call and tell her where we were and the phone number there

and tell her that if she needed anything she could call one of the

cell phones. When I told her..she had a fit! She said well, we won't

need anything! After the conversation ended..Donnie and I went to

dinner..and at dinner I could tell that something was wrong with my

hubby..and there was his mommy! So, we left and went straight

home..What? You heard me...We went home after renting this room!! He

wanted to check out but I refused to let them get paid

twice...because they would of just rented the room again that n ight

after we left! So..we went home slept and then went back in the

morning to check out..we took his mom with us so that she could see

the room(it's a theme resort..we had the speedway room and there are

actual cars in the room!!) Anyways, then we went to stay at the

cabin that same day that we check out of the room and we had to take

her with us then. Then this pasted weekend we went to the zoo..we

took her then! Am I married to him or her? Or Is he married to her??

It doesn't bother me that we help her but I deserve to have some

type of marriage. Now..he is talking about how bad she is not taking

care of the house and the litttle boy don't help..I already clean

their house every other day..plus, I do the cooking. And I can't

believe this..in a year and a half..she has gone thru

$120,000.00..no joke!! I think that he wants to move her in with

us!! My house is only a three bedroom ranch with a full basement and

a three car attached garage. Where would we put her??

I so think that if that happens they will need to give me prozac at

28! It also means that things won't get better!!

I swear..you'd think that bad things follow me!! One thing..one

day..that's all I want!! Is that too much to ask for??

Instead..I will just remember that life could be ALOT worse and I

will quit pouting!! Sorry..to all of you that didn't want to read

this but at least I vented. Didn't help much though! I am still

upset!

Hope that everyone else is having a great day and that things are

going great for all!!

Hugs~

~Aimee

[Guest guest]

~

I know he knows it gets to me!! I think he would stay with his mom if it came to

that..he is an only child and he only has her left...everyone else has died.

I am not sure what to do...just cry it off!!

And I am getting very impatient on waiting for this answer..it seems like it is

taking forever!!

Thanks for your advice!

~~BIG HUGS~~

~Aimee

~*~To All~*~

Good morning, Ladies!!

So, I get up this morning and get online to check my e-mail and from

this group alone I had 146 messages. Sorry, that I haven't answered

but I am getting sort of depressed...Alot of things!! I am so sick

of waiting for a answer from the loan company..why does it take

forever? And Why wasn't I born rich instead of gorgeous? Hehe...

I hate this! I know that you aren't suppose to question God..but why

can't he allow me to have one good thing happen in my life? I know

why..because there is a devil too! And the devil is trying to bring

me down...and I hate to say it but it is working!!

Everything is getting to me!! I had to deal with my mother-in-law

most of the day yesterday..she drives me crazy..I know that she

drives my hubby crazy sometimes..because I have to hear about it.

Anyways, I had to take her to the doctor (Remember, my hubby's dad

passed away and his mom is blind! And to beat it all off his

parent's adopted a boy that is now 13!) They live in his parents

house...but things are getting worse..she acts like I need to take

her everywhere with me. For instance.. a week or so ago..the same

weekend as the Fourth of July..we rented a $266.oo room at the

Wildwood Inn (this was to celebrate our Anniversary..because my

hubby won't be able to get off for that!) The two kids stayed the

night with a friend. First, we asked his mom if she would keep them

overnight and she said no, that anything could happen..yeah, it

could but what was difference in having the adopted boy and two more

kids?? She was just being hateful!! Well, anyways..we left to get

there because it was about an hour away. We got there and my hubby

said to call and tell her where we were and the phone number there

and tell her that if she needed anything she could call one of the

cell phones. When I told her..she had a fit! She said well, we won't

need anything! After the conversation ended..Donnie and I went to

dinner..and at dinner I could tell that something was wrong with my

hubby..and there was his mommy! So, we left and went straight

home..What? You heard me...We went home after renting this room!! He

wanted to check out but I refused to let them get paid

twice...because they would of just rented the room again that n ight

after we left! So..we went home slept and then went back in the

morning to check out..we took his mom with us so that she could see

the room(it's a theme resort..we had the speedway room and there are

actual cars in the room!!) Anyways, then we went to stay at the

cabin that same day that we check out of the room and we had to take

her with us then. Then this pasted weekend we went to the zoo..we

took her then! Am I married to him or her? Or Is he married to her??

It doesn't bother me that we help her but I deserve to have some

type of marriage. Now..he is talking about how bad she is not taking

care of the house and the litttle boy don't help..I already clean

their house every other day..plus, I do the cooking. And I can't

believe this..in a year and a half..she has gone thru

$120,000.00..no joke!! I think that he wants to move her in with

us!! My house is only a three bedroom ranch with a full basement and

a three car attached garage. Where would we put her??

I so think that if that happens they will need to give me prozac at

28! It also means that things won't get better!!

I swear..you'd think that bad things follow me!! One thing..one

day..that's all I want!! Is that too much to ask for??

Instead..I will just remember that life could be ALOT worse and I

will quit pouting!! Sorry..to all of you that didn't want to read

this but at least I vented. Didn't help much though! I am still

upset!

Hope that everyone else is having a great day and that things are

going great for all!!

Hugs~

~Aimee

[Guest guest]

Good Luck, I hope it works out for you.

~*~To All~*~

Good morning, Ladies!!

So, I get up this morning and get online to check my e-mail and from

this group alone I had 146 messages. Sorry, that I haven't answered

but I am getting sort of depressed...Alot of things!! I am so sick

of waiting for a answer from the loan company..why does it take

forever? And Why wasn't I born rich instead of gorgeous? Hehe...

I hate this! I know that you aren't suppose to question God..but why

can't he allow me to have one good thing happen in my life? I know

why..because there is a devil too! And the devil is trying to bring

me down...and I hate to say it but it is working!!

Everything is getting to me!! I had to deal with my mother-in-law

most of the day yesterday..she drives me crazy..I know that she

drives my hubby crazy sometimes..because I have to hear about it.

Anyways, I had to take her to the doctor (Remember, my hubby's dad

passed away and his mom is blind! And to beat it all off his

parent's adopted a boy that is now 13!) They live in his parents

house...but things are getting worse..she acts like I need to take

her everywhere with me. For instance.. a week or so ago..the same

weekend as the Fourth of July..we rented a $266.oo room at the

Wildwood Inn (this was to celebrate our Anniversary..because my

hubby won't be able to get off for that!) The two kids stayed the

night with a friend. First, we asked his mom if she would keep them

overnight and she said no, that anything could happen..yeah, it

could but what was difference in having the adopted boy and two more

kids?? She was just being hateful!! Well, anyways..we left to get

there because it was about an hour away. We got there and my hubby

said to call and tell her where we were and the phone number there

and tell her that if she needed anything she could call one of the

cell phones. When I told her..she had a fit! She said well, we won't

need anything! After the conversation ended..Donnie and I went to

dinner..and at dinner I could tell that something was wrong with my

hubby..and there was his mommy! So, we left and went straight

home..What? You heard me...We went home after renting this room!! He

wanted to check out but I refused to let them get paid

twice...because they would of just rented the room again that n ight

after we left! So..we went home slept and then went back in the

morning to check out..we took his mom with us so that she could see

the room(it's a theme resort..we had the speedway room and there are

actual cars in the room!!) Anyways, then we went to stay at the

cabin that same day that we check out of the room and we had to take

her with us then. Then this pasted weekend we went to the zoo..we

took her then! Am I married to him or her? Or Is he married to her??

It doesn't bother me that we help her but I deserve to have some

type of marriage. Now..he is talking about how bad she is not taking

care of the house and the litttle boy don't help..I already clean

their house every other day..plus, I do the cooking. And I can't

believe this..in a year and a half..she has gone thru

$120,000.00..no joke!! I think that he wants to move her in with

us!! My house is only a three bedroom ranch with a full basement and

a three car attached garage. Where would we put her??

I so think that if that happens they will need to give me prozac at

28! It also means that things won't get better!!

I swear..you'd think that bad things follow me!! One thing..one

day..that's all I want!! Is that too much to ask for??

Instead..I will just remember that life could be ALOT worse and I

will quit pouting!! Sorry..to all of you that didn't want to read

this but at least I vented. Didn't help much though! I am still

upset!

Hope that everyone else is having a great day and that things are

going great for all!!

Hugs~

~Aimee