Re: A new kind of pain-Meg

[Guest guest]

Meg,

I can relate to your experience but in a different way. My current boyfriend of over two and a half years, has a very difficult time understanding that we can't have sex everyday. Our relationship is going downhill very quickly and has been for almost a year. He goes with me to my out of town dr.appts, although he grips about it, which in turn makes me feel like crap. It makes me feel less of a woman because I can't satisfy his needs. I'm twenty five and he is twenty four and he tells me all the time that he is young and horny. Its like what does he expect me to do, he knows that I have VVS and PFD. When he and I finally end things, I know it'll be awhile before I find a man that loves me for me not just sex. I don't even want to think about telling another man that sex is painful for me and explaining my condition to him without him freaking out!

P.S. I apologize for the delayed replies but I'm just catching back up on my e-mails because I was visiting family back on the east coast.

Fondly,

Re: A new kind of pain

I just found out that my ex-boyfriend is seeing someone else. I am heartbroken. He broke up with me in August. We were together for over two years, and went literally two years straight with no sex. (we are in our late 20s). And he was amazing. He never ONCE made me feel bad about it. He was my main support system, going to dcts appointments, holding me when all I could do was cry cause I was in so much pain. Yeah, our relationship definitely had problems, but when it came to my v problems and my fibromyalgia, he was wonderful. Now all I can think about is him having sex with someone else, and how good it must feel because it has been so long since he has had it. Even typing these words makes me want to throw up. It makes me physically ache to think about that. And then I start thinking that I am going to be alone for a long, long time because who in their right mind would want to be with me when we can't have sex. These thoughts hurt me so much that I literally can't even say them out loud, not even to my best friend, who I tell everything.

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