Dating

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Hi There, I have been really depressed lately. A man that I really like asked me out. I said yes, and now I am having second thoughts. We work together and no one at work knows about my v issues or my fibro. I am getting so down just thinking about this date and possibly starting a new relationship. Wondering how he will take the news that I can't have sex? What if we're together for awhile and then he decides that the situation is too much for him and then I have to see him at work every day? All this stress is making my fibro act up. I am in such a bad place mentally. I almost think telling him about the Fibro will be just as difficult as the v issues, cause he is really active and I don't know if he'll understand why I sleep so much and can't do anything really strenuous. But I really like him and he

seems like such a good guy, really sweet, and really cute too. And of course I will never know how he'll react until I tell him....he could turn out to be completely understanding...I just don't know if I can handle all the stress. Our date isn't until this weekend and I feel like I am going to loose it before then. As of right now I don't feel excited about the date at all, I feel like I'm dreading it.

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Meg!! Don't get ahead of yourself. If you really think this guy is a good catch, just take it one day, one date, at a time. Try the first date. Maybe he will be different than you expect out of the office and you won't even need to worry about a second. Maybe he will be just as wonderful as you suspect and then you can deal with a second date! He can't give you a chance if you don't give him one first! So, go on your date and just enjoy yourself! Every woman deserves love! Don't deny yourself of that!! Good luck and have fun!! Subject: DatingTo:

VulvarDisorders Date: Monday, January 19, 2009, 9:30 PM

Hi There, I have been really depressed lately. A man that I really like asked me out. I said yes, and now I am having second thoughts. We work together and no one at work knows about my v issues or my fibro. I am getting so down just thinking about this date and possibly starting a new relationship. Wondering how he will take the news that I can't have sex? What if we're together for awhile and then he decides that the situation is too much for him and then I have to see him at work every day? All this stress is making my fibro act up. I am in such a bad place mentally. I almost think telling him about the

Fibro will be just as difficult as the v issues, cause he is really active and I don't know if he'll understand why I sleep so much and can't do anything really strenuous. But I really like him and he

seems like such a good guy, really sweet, and really cute too. And of course I will never know how he'll react until I tell him....he could turn out to be completely understanding. ..I just don't know if I can handle all the stress. Our date isn't until this weekend and I feel like I am going to loose it before then. As of right now I don't feel excited about the date at all, I feel like I'm dreading it.

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Hi !Oh your message made me feel so so so much better! It was just want I needed to hear. This is the same thing that my sister and my best friend have been telling me, but somehow it makes a huge difference coming from someone in my shoes. You made me feel physically and emotionally better!:)From: Meg <megsvproblem@ yahoo.com>Subject: DatingTo:

VulvarDisorders@ yahoogroups. comDate: Monday, January 19, 2009, 9:30 PM

Hi There, I have been really depressed lately. A man that I really like asked me out. I said yes, and now I am having second thoughts. We work together and no one at work knows about my v issues or my fibro. I am getting so down just thinking about this date and possibly starting a new relationship. Wondering how he will take the news that I can't have sex? What if we're together for awhile and then he decides that the situation is too much for him and then I have to see him at work every day? All this stress is making my fibro act up. I am in such a bad place mentally. I almost think telling him about the

Fibro will be just as difficult as the v issues, cause he is really active and I don't know if he'll understand why I sleep so much and can't do anything really strenuous. But I really like him and he

seems like such a good guy, really sweet, and really cute too. And of course I will never know how he'll react until I tell him....he could turn out to be completely understanding. ..I just don't know if I can handle all the stress. Our date isn't until this weekend and I feel like I am going to loose it before then. As of right now I don't feel excited about the date at all, I feel like I'm dreading it.