Guest guest Posted October 10, 2001 Report Share Posted October 10, 2001 Hi Jazmin, I am so sorry for your losses. I had my ep in July of 99 after ttc to for 21 months with ovulation induction. I know right now your feeling so alone and kinda of feel like God forgot about you but things will get better. Just today my niece and I were talking and she was telling me how a friends friend has had an abortion with every guy that she has been with and she just had her second abortion with the bf she is with now and all I could think to myself was here is this young girl(shes 18) that obviously takes getting pg and having children for a joke and it just totally got to me to me because I want a baby so badly but I lost him or her. So I guess what I am trying to say since I got way off the path is that were never gonna get an answer as to why we have lost our babies so we go full steam forward ahead and keep our chins up. It isn't always gonna be easy, but I do think all of us here are gonna be holding a baby/babies in our arms one day and we will all have the families we so desperately want that is gonna make us complete. Please take care. Love Sheila Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2001 Report Share Posted October 11, 2001 Jazmin, Welcome. I am glad you found us, though I am very sorry you had to find us at all. I am very sorry for your losses. It is very hard to deal with. Feeling all those emotions is normal, all the rage, depression, jealousy, feeling sad....I hope being able to post here will bring you some peace, as it did me. I feel so blessed to have found these ladies, they really helped and supported me in a time I thought I would go crazy and had no hope for my future. I did have the metho inj. but ended up with my rt tube rupturing and had surgery Dec. 00. I was upset with my body for failing me and also asked God, " Why Me!? " Each day you will heal alittle, though as I am sure you know, you will never forget. I am glad your dh has been there for you. Take care and post whenever you like. PS I love your Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2001 Report Share Posted October 11, 2001 Jazmin, Welcome. I am glad you found us, though I am very sorry you had to find us at all. I am very sorry for your losses. It is very hard to deal with. Feeling all those emotions is normal, all the rage, depression, jealousy, feeling sad....I hope being able to post here will bring you some peace, as it did me. I feel so blessed to have found these ladies, they really helped and supported me in a time I thought I would go crazy and had no hope for my future. I did have the metho inj. but ended up with my rt tube rupturing and had surgery Dec. 00. I was upset with my body for failing me and also asked God, " Why Me!? " Each day you will heal alittle, though as I am sure you know, you will never forget. I am glad your dh has been there for you. Take care and post whenever you like. PS I love your name! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2001 Report Share Posted October 11, 2001 Thank you so much for your support. I'm so angry and in the depression mode. I found out yesturday that my cousin is having a baby... but she is having an abortion. And I prayed last night and I told GOD why are u letting these woman get preg. and they don't even want the baby. Now here I am settled and ready to have a family and it seems like he does not want to give me the oppurtunity. If its only one child that I could have I'll be fine but I feel so incomplete so unhopefull with no faith left in me. I'm venting, Thank you for liking my name...... (((HUG))) On Thu, 11 Oct 2001 08:44:30 -0700 (PDT), ectopicpregnancy wrote: > > Jazmin, > Welcome. I am glad you found us, though I am very sorry you had to find us at all. I am very sorry for your losses. It is very hard to deal with. Feeling all those emotions is normal, all the rage, depression, jealousy, feeling sad....I hope being able to post here will bring you some peace, as it did me. I feel so blessed to have found these ladies, they really helped and supported me in a time I thought I would go crazy and had no hope for my future. I did have the metho inj. but ended up with my rt tube rupturing and had surgery Dec. 00. I was upset with my body for failing me and also asked God, " Why Me!? " Each day you will heal alittle, though as I am sure you know, you will never forget. I am glad your dh has been there for you. Take care and post whenever you like. > > > PS I love your name! > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2001 Report Share Posted October 11, 2001 Oh Jazmin, I know it's just soooooo frustrating when we hear about these women who don't want their babies when we sooo desperately do. I work in a pharmacy in a large store. ONe of the young girls told me today that she took that morning-after (abortion) pill and was asking me about symptoms. She was soo happy about being able to take this pill. I had to be professional while my heart was breaking... Please don't lose your Faith. God IS taking care of us and we WILL be moms one... it's just in His time, not ours. I have enough faith for the both us... so you just don't worry. Lots of prayeres, lisa r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2001 Report Share Posted October 11, 2001 jazmin, where in ny do you live?? lisa r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2001 Report Share Posted October 11, 2001 Jazmin i am sorry for your losses. i know exactly how you feel. i had a miscarriage (april 00) and then 4 months or so later(sept 00), i had an ectopic. i am also married and we have one little girl and we wanted another so badly. then everything kept going wrong. and i know exactly how you feel about all of your friends getting pg and it making you hurt. it isn't jealousy, it is pain over your losses. i too felt so bad because i thought it was jealousy. we all have this little group of friends that we have been with since school and growing up and out of all my friends we wanted to have another baby last spring and then several of my friends (6 out of the other 8 couples had a baby after that time. one is still pregnanct now. and it was sooooo hard to be happy for them. deep down in my heart i was so excited and so happy and when i saw their little baby it was wonderful feeling, but i could not let my feeling show to them. I dont know why. God did not forget you, he has a plan for you. and I know you have heard before that it wasnt time, but there is a time he has planned. it will be very soon. keep your faith high. you are very lucky to have such a supportive and loving husband. that is good that he is there for you. just ensuring him that one day very soon you will make him a daddy!!! love crystal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2001 Report Share Posted October 11, 2001 I live in the Bronx. On Thu, 11 Oct 2001 18:51:14 -0400, ectopicpregnancy wrote: > jazmin, > where in ny do you live?? > > lisa r > _______________________________________________________ Send a cool gift with your E-Card http://www.bluemountain.com/giftcenter/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2001 Report Share Posted October 11, 2001 I pray every night and I ask god for faith. I am sooooo glag that I found this group. Thank you for all your help. (((hugs))) Jazmin ( From the Bronx) On Thu, 11 Oct 2001 18:44:35 -0400, ectopicpregnancy wrote: > Oh Jazmin, > I know it's just soooooo frustrating when we hear about these women who > don't want their babies when we sooo desperately do. I work in a pharmacy > in a large store. ONe of the young girls told me today that she took that > morning-after (abortion) pill and was asking me about symptoms. She was soo > happy about being able to take this pill. I had to be professional while my > heart was breaking... > > Please don't lose your Faith. God IS taking care of us and we WILL be moms > one... it's just in His time, not ours. I have enough faith for the both > us... so you just don't worry. > > Lots of prayeres, > lisa r > _______________________________________________________ Send a cool gift with your E-Card http://www.bluemountain.com/giftcenter/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2001 Report Share Posted October 12, 2001 Jazmin, I would be pretty upset too. I don't understand why things happen the way they do. I am sorry. {{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUG}}}}}}}}} Jazmin Cuascut Jazmin_00@...> wrote: Thank you so much for your support. I'm so angry and in the depression mode. I found out yesturday that my cousin is having a baby... but she is having an abortion. And I prayed last night and I told GOD why are u letting these woman get preg. and they don't even want the baby. Now here I am settled and ready to have a family and it seems like he does not want to give me the oppurtunity. If its only one child that I could have I'll be fine but I feel so incomplete so unhopefull with no faith left in me. I'm venting, Thank you for liking my name...... (((HUG))) On Thu, 11 Oct 2001 08:44:30 -0700 (PDT), ectopicpregnancy wrote: > > Jazmin, > Welcome. I am glad you found us, though I am very sorry you had to find us at all. I am very sorry for your losses. It is very hard to deal with. Feeling all those emotions is normal, all the rage, depression, jealousy, feeling sad....I hope being able to post here will bring you some peace, as it did me. I feel so blessed to have found these ladies, they really helped and supported me in a time I thought I would go crazy and had no hope for my future. I did have the metho inj. but ended up with my rt tube rupturing and had surgery Dec. 00. I was upset with my body for failing me and also asked God, " Why Me!? " Each day you will heal alittle, though as I am sure you know, you will never forget. I am glad your dh has been there for you. Take care and post whenever you like. > > > PS I love your name! > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2001 Report Share Posted October 12, 2001 Jazmin, You will have faith and you have us too!! Jazmin Cuascut Jazmin_00@...> wrote: I pray every night and I ask god for faith. I am sooooo glag that I found this group. Thank you for all your help. (((hugs))) Jazmin ( From the Bronx) On Thu, 11 Oct 2001 18:44:35 -0400, ectopicpregnancy wrote: > Oh Jazmin, > I know it's just soooooo frustrating when we hear about these women who > don't want their babies when we sooo desperately do. I work in a pharmacy > in a large store. ONe of the young girls told me today that she took that > morning-after (abortion) pill and was asking me about symptoms. She was soo > happy about being able to take this pill. I had to be professional while my > heart was breaking... > > Please don't lose your Faith. God IS taking care of us and we WILL be moms > one... it's just in His time, not ours. I have enough faith for the both > us... so you just don't worry. > > Lots of prayeres, > lisa r > _______________________________________________________ Send a cool gift with your E-Card http://www.bluemountain.com/giftcenter/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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