Wow....I thought My Ex was the only one who acted like that! This is LONG!!!

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My ex husband remarried a Stripper/kindergarten teacher 2 weeks after

our divorce was final. Now mind you, I am not a jealous person, but

this woman was a stripper, and she had more extra pounds than she

needed. I would guesstimate 5'4 " , and about 250. She got pregnant

right away, with my ex, who didn't want anymore kids. (Hence my TL)

Now he has 2 more kids, she has 2 from her first marriage who are 20

and 15. She is about 13 years older than he is. Well, this woman

called me the day after they eloped, and said on my message machine,

" This is the NEW Mrs. Newkirk calling, as of yesterday. From

now on when you drop off the kids, you will deal with me, and me

only. will not go to parent teacher conferences, I will. I

will do what I need to do do when it comes to the kids, and you will

never be allowed to talk to him. "

She just thought he was a prize!

Let me tell you about this " prize " .

Well, in the 4 years that they have been married, He has quit 10+

jobs, moved at least 10 times, now is living with HER parents, who

hate him by the way, Has only paid a total of about $3000.00 in child

support over the last 4 years, is behind about $10,000.00 in child

support, she lost her house because he is a deadbeat, and they are

all 5 living in one bedroom at her parents house. And THEN she told

me, " If and I ever split up, I would NEVER go after him for

child support. I am HONORED to have his children! " (Personally, I

think the woman is a mental case that had too much Benadryl!))

Well she told me I should be ashamed of myself to have hurt such

a " wonderful compassionate man " . And I should NOT have taken the one

and only car in the divorce(Even if I had sole custody of the kids,

and needed the car for what you need a car for when you have kids)

and let him have it so he could get on with his life and get a job.

So, this man has not seen my children since April 11, of this

year. That was a fluke. We were getting off the elevator at the

Nursing home his mother is at, and he was getting on. Did I mention

it was my daughters 8th birthday? She wore the dress that was hers in

the wedding, in case her daddy was going to be there. Well we stopped

to see grama, and he was there. We were inches apart passing on the

elevator, and the jerk did not say one word. Not even a Happy

birthday to . Before that, they had not seen him since 6-24-01.

He is pissed because I am taking HALF of his paycheck. Well, Hmmmmmmm.

MY children, (Yes mine. He is not a part of their lives, so they are

all mine!) My children talk my WHOLE paycheck, so he should feel

lucky! He was so mad that I got his income tax return, because they

were going to get an apartment with that money! WELL! I just saved

them moving expenses, and the headache of getting evicted again! They

should be thanking me! I have thought about having his rights

terminated, but, No. I want what is mine. The man will not be let off

so easily. I have kept receipts of uninsured medical, he is

responsible for half. I am taking him to court again. If he doesn't

fess up with some money within a month for those debts, then he goes

to jail. No mercy. He walked all over, and abused me for 7 years.

It's payback time. Hit them where it hurts the worst. That is usually

the wallet.

In the last 4 years since our divorce, I worked from day one,

(Till I got remarried, and could not afford daycare anymore)

maintained the same job. worked off and on additional 2nd jobs,

bought and paid for a 1996 Ford Explorer, bought a house, DID NOT

marry the first piece of ass that came into my life, unlike someone I

know, bought a house,and am still here, remarried a wonderful man,

paid almost all of my debt that was acquired during my first

marriage, and have been successful so far in the upbringing of my

three kids by myself, and managed to pay $1,200.00 in monthly bills

on $700.00 a month income. But he can't do that, so that just goes to

show how pathetic and weak he is. SO, sorry if I seem to brag, but I

figure my life has done nothing but IMPROVE since my divorce! So,

there is my evil ex story to add to the archives. I totally went off

on a tangent, didn't I!

Toni in Greeley, Colorado