Guest guest Posted July 31, 2003 Report Share Posted July 31, 2003 I am still with the same old(well not really so old) hubby. We had our dds who are now 12 and 9 when he was in the military. We thought we were done because we couldn't afford any more so I had my TL. After a couple years when we were out of the military, we decided we wanted another child and started the adoption process. After completing the homestudy, getting a fostercare license, and having 2 adoptions fall through on us, we decided that we were going to put the money into having one of our own that no one can take from us if they change their minds. So we had the TR done in 2002 and our son in 2003. We are still considering doing foster care to adopt. Time will tell. (Sorry so long) So, you are not alone.. there are a few of us crazy ones here too! LOL Check out my E-bay auctions by Michi310 Different Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him.(Most days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2003 Report Share Posted July 31, 2003 I wish one of the nurses when I had my TL would have been able to talk about their experience, I would have really thought about it. I was only 23 at the time. Check out my E-bay auctions by Michi310 Re: Different Well, Dena, you are not the only one wanting a TR with the same husband. I just had my Tubal done two years ago and the minute that it was complete I knew that it was the biggest mistake of my life. At my six week post partum appointment I started to talk to my doctor about having the tubal reversed. The worst part is that I'm an RN who works on Maternity. I know enourage all of my patients who are going to have a post partum tubal to think very hard about it. Some people, like myself, just don't realize how having a tubal changes your life. I think that no one under the age of 30 should ever have a tubal now that I have been through it. I hope to have my tubal reversed next summer and the start trying for a baby immediatly. -- In TubalLigationReversal , " Dena " <denalraab@y...> wrote: > Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but > almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new > hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him. (Most > days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, > I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer > process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went > for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he > didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with > the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my > decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. > > Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2003 Report Share Posted July 31, 2003 Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him.(Most days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2003 Report Share Posted July 31, 2003 Well, Dena, you are not the only one wanting a TR with the same husband. I just had my Tubal done two years ago and the minute that it was complete I knew that it was the biggest mistake of my life. At my six week post partum appointment I started to talk to my doctor about having the tubal reversed. The worst part is that I'm an RN who works on Maternity. I know enourage all of my patients who are going to have a post partum tubal to think very hard about it. Some people, like myself, just don't realize how having a tubal changes your life. I think that no one under the age of 30 should ever have a tubal now that I have been through it. I hope to have my tubal reversed next summer and the start trying for a baby immediatly. -- In TubalLigationReversal , " Dena " <denalraab@y...> wrote: > Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but > almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new > hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him. (Most > days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, > I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer > process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went > for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he > didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with > the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my > decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. > > Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2003 Report Share Posted July 31, 2003 Yup! Me, me me! Jon and I had before my tubal ligation, this is his first marriage and my second - we then had following my TR and we would like another one in a few years. Hart ~ Mom to 4 Great Children ~ Arianne (16) ~ a (8) (5) ~ Bean (1) Glory to God and Many Thanks to Dr. Levin! http://www.geocities.com/thehartclantx/Thehartclantx.html Life's riches are not measured in dollars. Different Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him.(Most days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2003 Report Share Posted July 31, 2003 ---my hubby is the same, I got a good one and not letting him go!!! Charlotte does too, there really are quite a few here. Don't worry about it, you're fine hugs~~kelly In TubalLigationReversal , " Dena " <denalraab@y...> wrote: > Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but > almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new > hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him. (Most > days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, > I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer > process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went > for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he > didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with > the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my > decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. > > Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2003 Report Share Posted July 31, 2003 Dena- I have been married to my SAME husband for almost 16 years. We have 4 bio children (2 girls, 2 boys), and 3 adopted little girls. My TL was in 1994 and I have regretted it ever since. I'm planning on having my TR in Oct or Nov. this year. I had my phone consult this week and Dr. Levin was very positive. So, no you are not crazy! Sometimes for whatever reason, we make wrong decisions and thankfully, sometimes we can correct those decisions. Best of luck to you! Rhonda P. > Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but > almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new > hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him. (Most > days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, > I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer > process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went > for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he > didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with > the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my > decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. > > Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2003 Report Share Posted July 31, 2003 My husband and I have been married for almost 14 yrs and we have 3 beautyfull boys 13,11,9. We had our tl because we couldn't slow down how fast the babys were comming and we were really poor, so out of desparation we had the tl. Neither of us wanted one but saw no other option. We tried adoption, however that didn't work, so we decided to try for more of our own. Untill I met the ladies on here We thought we were the only crazy ones around, but it is wonderfull to know that we arn't insane after all. If the Lord puts it on your heart, then do it. Marty33 dh 38 ds13 ds11 ds9 tl98 tr7-28-03 rt5 lt5.5 > Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but > almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new > hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him. (Most > days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, > I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer > process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went > for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he > didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with > the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my > decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. > > Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2003 Report Share Posted August 1, 2003 ---I am always tempted before an ob appointment to print out the 101 reasons not to with the symptoms of pts and accidentally leave it in my dr's office........... In TubalLigationReversal , " " <jennybears3@y...> wrote: > Well, Dena, you are not the only one wanting a TR with the same > husband. I just had my Tubal done two years ago and the minute that > it was complete I knew that it was the biggest mistake of my life. > At my six week post partum appointment I started to talk to my > doctor about having the tubal reversed. The worst part is that I'm > an RN who works on Maternity. I know enourage all of my patients > who are going to have a post partum tubal to think very hard about > it. Some people, like myself, just don't realize how having a tubal > changes your life. I think that no one under the age of 30 should > ever have a tubal now that I have been through it. I hope to have > my tubal reversed next summer and the start trying for a baby > immediatly. > -- In TubalLigationReversal , " Dena " <denalraab@y...> > wrote: > > Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but > > almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new > > hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him. > (Most > > days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and > saying, " Hmmm, > > I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer > > process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I > went > > for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he > > didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this > with > > the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning > my > > decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. > > > > Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2003 Report Share Posted August 1, 2003 ---me too!! My friend is an ob nurse, had her tr by Dr. Rath 1 1/2 yrs, had a mc on mother's day, she is now teaching lvn class because it was too hard. she said, kelly why didn't you listen to me before you had your tl? I called her the day before my tr from KY and told her what was going on, we cried together, and she was happy for me... In TubalLigationReversal , " Jody " <jody_delong@y...> wrote: > ---I am always tempted before an ob appointment to print out the 101 > reasons not to with the symptoms of pts and accidentally leave it in > my dr's office........... > > > In TubalLigationReversal , " " > <jennybears3@y...> wrote: > > Well, Dena, you are not the only one wanting a TR with the same > > husband. I just had my Tubal done two years ago and the minute > that > > it was complete I knew that it was the biggest mistake of my life. > > At my six week post partum appointment I started to talk to my > > doctor about having the tubal reversed. The worst part is that I'm > > an RN who works on Maternity. I know enourage all of my patients > > who are going to have a post partum tubal to think very hard about > > it. Some people, like myself, just don't realize how having a > tubal > > changes your life. I think that no one under the age of 30 should > > ever have a tubal now that I have been through it. I hope to have > > my tubal reversed next summer and the start trying for a baby > > immediatly. > > -- In TubalLigationReversal , " Dena " > <denalraab@y...> > > wrote: > > > Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but > > > almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new > > > hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him. > > (Most > > > days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and > > saying, " Hmmm, > > > I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer > > > process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I > > went > > > for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he > > > didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this > > with > > > the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning > > my > > > decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. > > > > > > Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2003 Report Share Posted August 1, 2003 I am also with the same Hubby. We have 2 boys together and I have 1 son from another relationship. My husband decided one day that he wanted a daughter. We also think about how nice it would be to actually " plan " a child. All of ours were unplanned, but so wonderful. We were young and broke all of the time and think it will be great to actually be able to afford all of the cool things babies should have. We always welcomed having babies but struggled. You are not crazy (at least not for that reason). > Sometimes I feel like maybe I am crazy. Well, I know I am, but > almost everyone wanting a TR wants one because they have a new > hubby. I still have the same old hubby, I just still like him. (Most > days.) So, am I crazy for just waking up one day and saying, " Hmmm, > I think I'd like one or two more. " ? Actually, it was a longer > process than that. I guess, that was one of my concerns when I went > for my consult. I didn't want the doc to question me. But he > didn't. He was great. Has anyone else here decided to do this with > the same hubby? I kinda feel like a loner. I'm not questioning my > decision. I was just wondering if I was the only one. > > Dena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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