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I had in my message " The following is horrible and is in no way

indicative of ABA therapists as a rule. This is just another lesson

about the importance of knowing the professionals that work with

your child. "

(exact quote)

As Carolyn said I never said ABA is " bad " I have always said

to " proceed with caution " for those who may not need it. And it's

the only therapy I've said this about.

For the person that asked why I question it at all

(as if it's above being questioned -as if anything or anyone is)

Out of all the possible therapies a child with apraxia could be

given -including how many zillion alternative therapies -ABA is the

only one to proceed with caution -and why? I've personally met

children who were traumatized by it, and we've read about it

recently and it comes up in the archives. The most well known story

on the CHERAB site is Ketchum's story. Because of ABA she

developed post traumatic stress.

http://www.cherab.org/news/.html and isn't the only

one on the web diagnosed with post traumatic stress from ABA

http://www.astraeasweb.net/politics/aba.html or question

the " ethics " of it

http://www.sentex.net/~nexus23/naa_aba.html

The type of ABA appropriate for a child with autism and apraxia

would be a modified ABA where the therapist is aware of the child's

motor planning disability. Apraxia is the disability of performing

on command. This has come up over and over in the archives.

However that's not the point of the posting and apparently the point

was lost.

What is not disputable is that the woman that is charged with murder

of the two year old was an ABA therapist who worked with children

and she had a prior criminal history of heroin abuse and child

abuse. (I again did not state that example is indicative of all ABA

therapists) What to me anyway is shocking is that this woman has a

history of child abuse and still was practicing ABA on children and

was listed as a resource for ABA therapy. Why? Because I guess

some thought it's not appropriate to talk about it when she was

first charged with abuse when she just " injured " a child and didn't

kill the child. And it's not OK to talk about it now either? What

if she again gets out of jail and again starts practicing ABA

therapy?! Is that OK too because after all not all are like her?!

Even real estate agents convicted of most crimes lose their

license! The point is how did this woman end up alone with this

child, any child, with her history?!

You have a right to your opinion as we all do.

Let's agree that it's important to know who to trust with your

child - that's the point of the message.

And for the one who said me posting it compares to reading the

National Enquirer. I don't read the National Enquirer, but from

what I know -the National Enquirer is a bunch of made up stories

that are sensationalized enough to headlines that people want to buy

the rag to read more. I wish that story was just made up by some

sick person -but it's not.

The story I posted here -a grouplist which consists of parents and

professionals that work with children that age and with that

diagnosis. The fact that this happened doesn't mean let's turn our

backs and say " oh well " It means there needs to be tougher

background checks on who has a license to work with children. A

person with a history of child abuse shouldn't be working with

children period! No less (God Forbid!!!) An ABA therapist?!

You know what I'm wondering about -where the compassion is for this

poor family. For this poor sweet two year old child who didn't have

a chance for a life. Who God knows went through what before his

last minutes on Earth. I thought there would be outrage that a

person with a history of child abuse would be allowed to be any type

of therapist no less an ABA therapist! Those were the type of

responses I thought would come back from parents and professionals

who care for children just like this.

A lady was walking with her child in a stroller down a street in a

town around me that didn't have sidewalks and was killed by a hit

and run driver right in front of her child. It was on the news and

in the paper.

http://www.palmbeachpost.com/treasurecoast/content/local_news/epaper/2006/01/26/\

0126hitrun.html

They caught the guy. And they are putting sidewalks in. Why?

Because people were outraged. Not that the paper had it in the

news -but were outraged by the fact someone hit a mom with a

stroller and fled. Outraged that if sidewalks were there it probably

wouldn't have happened. Now there will be sidewalks.

I shared what I did to keep this from happening to any of our

children -and wish those parents of that poor two year old had the

chance to read it prior to letting this criminal work with their

baby. I let the webmaster that listed her as a resource know

" Take her name off your site " Why? Because I'm outraged.

If any of you want to continue to argue about this -let's share how

to stop this from ever happening again.

My prayers for that poor family and that poor little baby.

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I think you are right! We should check who is working with our

child, we should not just believe in recommendation letters or

interviews. I call everyone from the list and besides that I will

tape and I will watch some of the sessions. I am always nearby

anyway because I want to learn everything about my son, and because

I don't trust no one until prove I'm wrong (I know it is not nice

but I'm from Brazil, we learn to look the sides as soon as we born

ƒº). I taped a lot , good therapist doesn¡¦t mind at all. I learn a

lot about how to help my son this way and help to make all the

therapy unison. I do this with ABA, speech and even school !!!

Giseli

>

> I had in my message " The following is horrible and is in no way

> indicative of ABA therapists as a rule. This is just another

lesson

> about the importance of knowing the professionals that work with

> your child. "

> (exact quote)

>

> As Carolyn said I never said ABA is " bad " I have always said

> to " proceed with caution " for those who may not need it. And it's

> the only therapy I've said this about.

>

> For the person that asked why I question it at all

> (as if it's above being questioned -as if anything or anyone is)

>

> Out of all the possible therapies a child with apraxia could be

> given -including how many zillion alternative therapies -ABA is

the

> only one to proceed with caution -and why? I've personally met

> children who were traumatized by it, and we've read about it

> recently and it comes up in the archives. The most well known

story

> on the CHERAB site is Ketchum's story. Because of ABA she

> developed post traumatic stress.

> http://www.cherab.org/news/.html and isn't the

only

> one on the web diagnosed with post traumatic stress from ABA

> http://www.astraeasweb.net/politics/aba.html or question

> the " ethics " of it

> http://www.sentex.net/~nexus23/naa_aba.html

>

> The type of ABA appropriate for a child with autism and apraxia

> would be a modified ABA where the therapist is aware of the

child's

> motor planning disability. Apraxia is the disability of

performing

> on command. This has come up over and over in the archives.

>

> However that's not the point of the posting and apparently the

point

> was lost.

>

> What is not disputable is that the woman that is charged with

murder

> of the two year old was an ABA therapist who worked with children

> and she had a prior criminal history of heroin abuse and child

> abuse. (I again did not state that example is indicative of all

ABA

> therapists) What to me anyway is shocking is that this woman has

a

> history of child abuse and still was practicing ABA on children

and

> was listed as a resource for ABA therapy. Why? Because I guess

> some thought it's not appropriate to talk about it when she was

> first charged with abuse when she just " injured " a child and

didn't

> kill the child. And it's not OK to talk about it now either?

What

> if she again gets out of jail and again starts practicing ABA

> therapy?! Is that OK too because after all not all are like her?!

>

> Even real estate agents convicted of most crimes lose their

> license! The point is how did this woman end up alone with this

> child, any child, with her history?!

>

> You have a right to your opinion as we all do.

>

> Let's agree that it's important to know who to trust with your

> child - that's the point of the message.

>

> And for the one who said me posting it compares to reading the

> National Enquirer. I don't read the National Enquirer, but from

> what I know -the National Enquirer is a bunch of made up stories

> that are sensationalized enough to headlines that people want to

buy

> the rag to read more. I wish that story was just made up by some

> sick person -but it's not.

>

> The story I posted here -a grouplist which consists of parents and

> professionals that work with children that age and with that

> diagnosis. The fact that this happened doesn't mean let's turn

our

> backs and say " oh well " It means there needs to be tougher

> background checks on who has a license to work with children. A

> person with a history of child abuse shouldn't be working with

> children period! No less (God Forbid!!!) An ABA therapist?!

>

> You know what I'm wondering about -where the compassion is for

this

> poor family. For this poor sweet two year old child who didn't

have

> a chance for a life. Who God knows went through what before his

> last minutes on Earth. I thought there would be outrage that a

> person with a history of child abuse would be allowed to be any

type

> of therapist no less an ABA therapist! Those were the type of

> responses I thought would come back from parents and professionals

> who care for children just like this.

>

> A lady was walking with her child in a stroller down a street in a

> town around me that didn't have sidewalks and was killed by a hit

> and run driver right in front of her child. It was on the news

and

> in the paper.

>

http://www.palmbeachpost.com/treasurecoast/content/local_news/epaper/

2006/01/26/0126hitrun.html

>

> They caught the guy. And they are putting sidewalks in. Why?

> Because people were outraged. Not that the paper had it in the

> news -but were outraged by the fact someone hit a mom with a

> stroller and fled. Outraged that if sidewalks were there it

probably

> wouldn't have happened. Now there will be sidewalks.

>

> I shared what I did to keep this from happening to any of our

> children -and wish those parents of that poor two year old had the

> chance to read it prior to letting this criminal work with their

> baby. I let the webmaster that listed her as a resource know

> " Take her name off your site " Why? Because I'm outraged.

>

> If any of you want to continue to argue about this -let's share

how

> to stop this from ever happening again.

>

> My prayers for that poor family and that poor little baby.

>

> =====

>

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