Guest guest Posted March 3, 2007 Report Share Posted March 3, 2007 I need some help from anyone who lives in Virginia. My sister is having some problems and I'm not sure what to do.. She moved to North Carolina 1 week after her mastectomy because of her husband..They have just sold the house and she is wanting to move back to Virginia Beach. He is saying she has to help pay half of the rent in North Carolina and the harley payment, in order for her to keep her health insurance. she was DX after they married.. She has worked through the entire chemo process and radiation...She is currently working 12 to 14 hr days for a blind company and her boss wants the van back in Virginia Beach. because we dont know what this butt head hubby of my sisters will do to it....or what he might do to my sister. PLEASE ANYONE WITH ANY INFORMATION PLEASE LET ME KNOW.. I'm afraind with all she has gone through. we wont have her much longer.........She wants to move back to VB where her daughter is , and so my neice can help her ,since her ----- -----hubby is useless where it comes to her chemo,meds and her getting the rest she needs. Thank you all so much Pat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2007 Report Share Posted March 3, 2007 Pat – I live in VA Beach – I’m not sure what info you are looking for? Social Service #’s? Employment Office #? Oncologists? Please be a little more specific and I’ll so what I can get for her. My Sister I need some help from anyone who lives in Virginia. My sister is having some problems and I'm not sure what to do.. She moved to North Carolina 1 week after her mastectomy because of her husband..They have just sold the house and she is wanting to move back to Virginia Beach. He is saying she has to help pay half of the rent in North Carolina and the harley payment, in order for her to keep her health insurance. she was DX after they married.. She has worked through the entire chemo process and radiation...She is currently working 12 to 14 hr days for a blind company and her boss wants the van back in Virginia Beach. because we dont know what this butt head hubby of my sisters will do to it....or what he might do to my sister. PLEASE ANYONE WITH ANY INFORMATION PLEASE LET ME KNOW.. I'm afraind with all she has gone through. we wont have her much longer.........She wants to move back to VB where her daughter is , and so my neice can help her ,since her ----- -----hubby is useless where it comes to her chemo,meds and her getting the rest she needs. Thank you all so much Pat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2007 Report Share Posted March 3, 2007 What does her paying 1/2 of those bills have to do with her health ins? Is he threatening her that if she doesn't she will be dropped from the policy? Sounds to me like she might need to talk to a lawyer. There are lawyer that will help people who cannot pay. Have her contact her county, the Patient Advocate in the hospital where she will be going, and also the American Cancer Society. I live in Illinois so can't help you with anything I Va. I will keep her in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com My Sister I need some help from anyone who lives in Virginia. My sister is having some problems and I'm not sure what to do.. She moved to North Carolina 1 week after her mastectomy because of her husband..They have just sold the house and she is wanting to move back to Virginia Beach. He is saying she has to help pay half of the rent in North Carolina and the harley payment, in order for her to keep her health insurance. she was DX after they married.. She has worked through the entire chemo process and radiation...She is currently working 12 to 14 hr days for a blind company and her boss wants the van back in Virginia Beach. because we dont know what this butt head hubby of my sisters will do to it....or what he might do to my sister. PLEASE ANYONE WITH ANY INFORMATION PLEASE LET ME KNOW.. I'm afraind with all she has gone through. we wont have her much longer.........She wants to move back to VB where her daughter is , and so my neice can help her ,since her ----- -----hubby is useless where it comes to her chemo,meds and her getting the rest she needs. Thank you all so much Pat ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.6/708 - Release Date: 3/2/2007 4:19 PM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2007 Report Share Posted March 3, 2007 She should probably contact social security office, She is really disabled and maybe first see a DR who will verify that. If she is very run down, she needs to see one first anyway. Then he can help direct her. The hospital will help her from there, as nne said, ask the pt. rep or pt. advocate and tell them the problem. They will give her a wealth of info. She just has to do it. Pat M. My Sister I need some help from anyone who lives in Virginia. My sister is having some problems and I'm not sure what to do.. She moved to North Carolina 1 week after her mastectomy because of her husband..They have just sold the house and she is wanting to move back to Virginia Beach. He is saying she has to help pay half of the rent in North Carolina and the harley payment, in order for her to keep her health insurance. she was DX after they married.. She has worked through the entire chemo process and radiation...She is currently working 12 to 14 hr days for a blind company and her boss wants the van back in Virginia Beach. because we dont know what this butt head hubby of my sisters will do to it....or what he might do to my sister. PLEASE ANYONE WITH ANY INFORMATION PLEASE LET ME KNOW.. I'm afraind with all she has gone through. we wont have her much longer.........She wants to move back to VB where her daughter is , and so my neice can help her ,since her ----- -----hubby is useless where it comes to her chemo,meds and her getting the rest she needs. Thank you all so much Pat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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