Re: Ellen-some of my ocd issues could be resolved ...

[Guest guest]

Yes Ellen,

That's an awesome thing you're learning. That's something has worked

on as well, and

in the same area.

There were some people she called often, when she had free time. But if

they weren't free to

talk then, she would take it personally, would even think maybe they hated

her, and it

wasn't that at all. It was just that they weren't free to " hang out " on the

phone as much as she

was.

So, she would get her feelings hurt, and then the other people would get

upset that she was

hurt and didn't understand that it wasn't personal, and the whole time the

real problem was that first mistaken thought of " maybe they don't like me. "

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So, when we understand the situation, then we have the appropriate response,

and the right

results!! ;-) ;-) ;-). Awesome work, Ellen!!!

Thanks for sharing that ;-)

in Ma.

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