Re: passed away

March 21, 2007

wow i thought something was wromg with my comp fro a sec LOL i mean i really

did coz wastn soemthing id expect to see some little chargers yes some of

the sick ones yes but not soemone like her hugs to you and hope you can stay

on here anyway love you

>

> , I'm truly sorry for your loss. You were a great friend to

> and at least she isn't in pain anymore and she's with her

> mom now. My thoughts are with you and .

>

> >

> > It is with a heavy heart that I tell every one that

> passed

> > away this morning. The cause is unknown. She was in the hospital

> > because she had an absess lanced on her throat and wouldn't keep

> the

> > bandage on at home. Her staff aren't trained to do that so she

> had

> > to be addmittd, plus she kept spitting out pain meds. I saw her

> > yesterday afternoon and she was to be released today to a nursing

> > home, until the sore closed. She never made it. Her blood comes

> > back fine and thoughshe hasn't been eating or drinking the past

> > couple of days, everything was good. Her swallow study went well

> > yesterday. She has 24 hours support through her program and the

> > staff said that she coughed and laid back down, a few minutes

> later

> > she wasn't breathing. I got a call at 4:15 saying that they were

> > working on her, next call said she didn't make it. The doector

> > called me this morning, I questioned the hiatel hernia and he said

> > that could have done it or maybe her heart gave out. There will

> be

> > an internal investigation, just because she wasn't " sick " . I want

> an

> > autopsy but its up to the state for that one. In her younger

> years

> > she had so many issues and I know that something was up. I went

> to

> > her house to take her to the hospital the other day, she said she

> > hurt and asked foro her Mom. She hasn't done that since Mom has

> been

> > gone. Now thye can be in each others arms again.

> >

> > I hurt so much

> >

> > , friend for life to

> >

>

March 21, 2007

bonnie great to c u bak again

>

> ,

>

> Miraculously I got the CHARGE list back yesterday and sadly haven't read

> this till today. I can't tell you how surprised I am or how saddened I am

> to

> read of 's passing. I don't think there are any words that can

> truly

> comfort you at this time.

>

> Please know I believe was a walking angle. It was also a gift to

> meet you two and see your unique relationship. How I wish all our children

>

> could have a friend who cared about them as much as you do for .

> Actually you were more than friends. Sisters in heart.

>

> What I do know is love never goes away. Through love here in this world it

>

> just grows truer, sweeter and stronger. I will pray that and her

> mother will strengthen you at this time.

>

> With great sympathy,

>

> Bonnie, Mom to Kris 23, Patty CHARGE 21 and wife to

>

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March 21, 2007

Oh my gosh, , I can't believe this news! You had just been talking so

happily about your and 's upcoming trip to the CHARGE conference this

summer. Things can change so suddenly, and without no apparent reason. I hope

you get some answers as to what the cause of 's death was. Even though

it won't bring her back, it would at least bring some comfort to know exactly

what happened.

You and 's family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope your

memories of your time with are a comfort to you--I'm sure you have many

great memories of her.

Big hugs to you,

, mom to (5)

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,

I am so sorry to hear about . I admire your devotion to her. You

truely improved her quality of life while she was here.

Take Care,

from IL (Karlee 18)

passed away

It is with a heavy heart that I tell every one that passed

away this morning. The cause is unknown. She was in the hospital

because she had an absess lanced on her throat and wouldn't keep the

bandage on at home. Her staff aren't trained to do that so she had

to be addmittd, plus she kept spitting out pain meds. I saw her

yesterday afternoon and she was to be released today to a nursing

home, until the sore closed. She never made it. Her blood comes

back fine and thoughshe hasn't been eating or drinking the past

couple of days, everything was good. Her swallow study went well

yesterday. She has 24 hours support through her program and the

staff said that she coughed and laid back down, a few minutes later

she wasn't breathing. I got a call at 4:15 saying that they were

working on her, next call said she didn't make it. The doector

called me this morning, I questioned the hiatel hernia and he said

that could have done it or maybe her heart gave out. There will be

an internal investigation, just because she wasn't " sick " . I want an

autopsy but its up to the state for that one. In her younger years

she had so many issues and I know that something was up. I went to

her house to take her to the hospital the other day, she said she

hurt and asked foro her Mom. She hasn't done that since Mom has been

gone. Now thye can be in each others arms again.

I hurt so much

, friend for life to

March 21, 2007

,

My deepest sympathies. We can't think of as being lost

to us but that she has found her way to God and her mother. I will

always remember and cherish something that happened 2 days before my

Grandfather died of cancer. He had been in much pain at the last. One

day before he passed we found him sleeping peacefully for the first

in a long while. He woke and told us that Jesus had been there with

him and took his pain away. I believe 's mother may have been

there with her and that's why asked for her.

I know that you will miss her physical being but know that her spirit

lives on around all those she loved and who loved her. You are truely

blessed as one of those she loved.

mom to (31)

>

> It is with a heavy heart that I tell every one that

passed

> away this morning. The cause is unknown. She was in the hospital

> because she had an absess lanced on her throat and wouldn't keep

the

> bandage on at home. Her staff aren't trained to do that so she had

> to be addmittd, plus she kept spitting out pain meds. I saw her

> yesterday afternoon and she was to be released today to a nursing

> home, until the sore closed. She never made it. Her blood comes

> back fine and thoughshe hasn't been eating or drinking the past

> couple of days, everything was good. Her swallow study went well

> yesterday. She has 24 hours support through her program and the

> staff said that she coughed and laid back down, a few minutes later

> she wasn't breathing. I got a call at 4:15 saying that they were

> working on her, next call said she didn't make it. The doector

> called me this morning, I questioned the hiatel hernia and he said

> that could have done it or maybe her heart gave out. There will be

> an internal investigation, just because she wasn't " sick " . I want

an

> autopsy but its up to the state for that one. In her younger years

> she had so many issues and I know that something was up. I went to

> her house to take her to the hospital the other day, she said she

> hurt and asked foro her Mom. She hasn't done that since Mom has

been

> gone. Now thye can be in each others arms again.

>

> I hurt so much

>

> , friend for life to

>

March 21, 2007

,

I also had the thought that 's Mom was with her. I am glad you put this

thought into such clear words.