Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Oh, Char, Guess we'll just have to have an online celebration! The ham sounds good. Can you send some my way :-) Maybe the kids and hubby are thinking you're done and that means everything can get back to normal. I'm sending you a toast your way. I guess this group doesn't allow graphics (my picture bounced back). So just imagine me holding up a glass & sending you good cheer! - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Char, I think it takes another breast cancer patient/survivor to truly know what a milestone this is for us. What calls for a big celebration to us is just another day for some who don't truly understand. To them it probably means that everything is back to normal before treatments. You can vent here anytime. Sedning hugs Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com Celebration... HA RIGHT Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.410 / Virus Database: 268.17.1/640 - Release Date: 1/19/2007 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 I am sorry that no one was ther for you. I finished my last rads last Tuesday. My husband - who tried to deny the fact that I had cancer all along, surprised me with pink roses and my son took me out for dinner. I was totally shocked since I felt like I got minimal support the last 6 weeks. Maybe your family will surprise you- you never know. Tell them how you feel-honesty is the best policy! Best wishes Eileen > > Ok, I need to vent! > > I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the > whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I > said sure! > Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, > so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a > ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). > Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch > on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are > having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it > is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt > know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! > > Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her > sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff > together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home > for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do > whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " > > radation again????> > > So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK > MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head > out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a > celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! > > Hurting here in Michigan > > Char > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Dear Char, First off...Congrats on finishing your rads. Secondly it is only natural for you to feel what you are feeling. This should have been your celebration day. I myself yet know everything that you have endured as I am just now starting treatment. But already I can assure you that on my very first day of non treatment, there had better be flowers,dinner etc to celebrate the special day. Sadly sometimes our loved ones overlook things. Or get caught up in every day things, Its not intentional. Just human. What is that old saying??....'we always hurt those that love us the most....why?....because they are still going to love us afterwards.' I hope that you get your special celebration dinner. Pamper yourself.. Even though rads is over, you deserve it.. You have been down a long and hard road. Hugs and prayers, in Texas starshinespedestal starshinespedestal@...> wrote: Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char Check me out! --------------------------------- We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Hi Char, I finished mine yesterday too! Yahooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know when you wrote and I'm probably too late with my suggestion, but I'd say go ahead and do like you said - throw all that food in the frig, write a note and take your 7 year old out to dinner and have a great time with him simply because you can! And stop and buy yourself some really nice flowers on the way home! Congratulations! Peace and love, Cealy starshinespedestal starshinespedestal@...> wrote: Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char --------------------------------- Don't get soaked. Take a quick peak at the forecast with theYahoo! Search weather shortcut. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Char, Thats exactly what you should of done, gone out to celebrate with your 7 year old!!! If the rest of the family isn't being responsive to your needs right now, then they are truly in denial as to what you just went thru!!! I wish I were there to celebrate with you!!! It is a HUGE accomplishment and I am HAPPY you finished!!! I hope your family realizes someday that they are lucky to have and appreciate you for who you are!!! peace and prayers, Michele starshinespedestal starshinespedestal@...> wrote: Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 hi char, i went through all my bc op and rads alone, i did not have support so when i had finished my treatment i bought myslef a special meal , played my fav music and lit a candle, yes no one understands how we feel , sending congrats and hugs your way sandy in oz & nne Svihlik moochie1@...> wrote: Char, I think it takes another breast cancer patient/survivor to truly know what a milestone this is for us. What calls for a big celebration to us is just another day for some who don't truly understand. To them it probably means that everything is back to normal before treatments. You can vent here anytime. Sedning hugs Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com Celebration... HA RIGHT Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " radation again????> So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.410 / Virus Database: 268.17.1/640 - Release Date: 1/19/2007 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Hi Sandy, May I just say congrats to everything you have been thru, alone!! If I were there, I'd have been right beside you.. know that having met you on here, I will be with you the rest of the way, as I believe we all need a friend! Peace and Prayers, Michele sandy lawson gypsie22au@...> wrote: hi char, i went through all my bc op and rads alone, i did not have support so when i had finished my treatment i bought myslef a special meal , played my fav music and lit a candle, yes no one understands how we feel , sending congrats and hugs your way sandy in oz & nne Svihlik moochie1@...> wrote: Char, I think it takes another breast cancer patient/survivor to truly know what a milestone this is for us. What calls for a big celebration to us is just another day for some who don't truly understand. To them it probably means that everything is back to normal before treatments. You can vent here anytime. Sedning hugs Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com Celebration... HA RIGHT Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " radation again????> So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char ---------------------------------------------------------- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.410 / Virus Database: 268.17.1/640 - Release Date: 1/19/2007 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2007 Report Share Posted January 20, 2007 Hey Char, Imagine me in a party hat and blowing a horn for you. I can't wait till I get to your point. I am cheering for you. Go make yourself happy. Sue Ellen in Texas > > Oh, Char, > > Guess we'll just have to have an online celebration! > The ham sounds good. Can you send some my way :-) > > Maybe the kids and hubby are thinking you're done and that means > everything can get back to normal. > > I'm sending you a toast your way. I guess this group doesn't allow > graphics (my picture bounced back). So just imagine me holding up a > glass & sending you good cheer! - > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2007 Report Share Posted January 21, 2007 You have every right to vent!!! But we here are so happy for you - you made it through the rain and now the rainbows should start appearing. Take a look at the sunrise or sunset and those are yours to enjoy - feel blessed that you are able to enjoy them. But, I would definately thank your family for making your celebration dinner a complete flop!! I agree with ann, no one knows like one who is going through it. Hopefully they will never have to know. Mostly Thank God that you can fell anger and hurt - these are everyday feelings and I will toast to you today - sorry it will have to be sugarless hot chocolate but it will be for you completion of rads. They love you in their own way - remember that God Bless Dee doloresrose.scent-team.com Once you try Mia Bella candles there will be no other! CIAO! DEEBELLA --------------------------------- Need Mail bonding? Go to the Yahoo! Mail Q&A for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2007 Report Share Posted January 21, 2007 Lets celebrate on line...congratulations ... I had my operation on Memorial Day Week-end 2002, finished chemo on Veterans Day 2002 and finished radiation on Valentines Day 2003...all holidays...just happened that way... Betsy... Note: forwarded message attached. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2007 Report Share Posted January 22, 2007 Char: Isn't it ironic that when we need the positive AND support because we know this cancer thing never ends, that our family thinks that it is over? We love you here and are glad that you can vent. I don't have any suggestions for your family except to let them know how disappointed you are. May be tomorrow will be better. starshinespedestal starshinespedestal@...> wrote: Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char Jan Koelsch --------------------------------- We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2007 Report Share Posted January 22, 2007 I thank you for sharing your story with me i am sure it hurt your heart to feel that you were the only one filled with the excitment of knowing you has just completed a very scary experience. i have yet to go thru and may not have to what you have succeded at and i am very happy for you so i sit here and take a bite of food in celebration with you. and by the way it was take out also for i have noone here with me either. thank you Michele Gately tinkkerbelle2002@...> wrote: Char, Thats exactly what you should of done, gone out to celebrate with your 7 year old!!! If the rest of the family isn't being responsive to your needs right now, then they are truly in denial as to what you just went thru!!! I wish I were there to celebrate with you!!! It is a HUGE accomplishment and I am HAPPY you finished!!! I hope your family realizes someday that they are lucky to have and appreciate you for who you are!!! peace and prayers, Michele starshinespedestal starshinespedestal@...> wrote: Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2007 Report Share Posted January 23, 2007 I can remember on my last chemo that my husband told the infusion nurse that he was giving me 3 weeks and cracking the whip so I'd get back to work (yes, he was saying that tongue in cheek to a certain extent). The infusion nurse looked at me, I rolled my eyes and she informed him it would take about a year so he better not crack that whip too soon or he'd have her to deal with.... and she was a big woman. I loved it. And hubby has been great. I complain about being tired or not being able to do something, he's the first one to say... go take a nap or let it go. Unfortunately no one else is doing the work around here either so it does have a tendency to cause some stress. Can't have everything. Barb Re: Celebration... HA RIGHT Char: Isn't it ironic that when we need the positive AND support because we know this cancer thing never ends, that our family thinks that it is over? We love you here and are glad that you can vent. I don't have any suggestions for your family except to let them know how disappointed you are. May be tomorrow will be better. starshinespedestal starshinespedestal@...> wrote: Ok, I need to vent! I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I said sure! Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night(today/saturday). Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! Hurting here in Michigan Char Jan Koelsch --------------------------------- We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2007 Report Share Posted January 23, 2007 Its sad but unfortunately family and friends that haven't been thought the cancer experience can't possibly understand what we are going through ! That doesn't mean that they don't love you . It just means they are ignorant..Until they walk in our shoes they could never completely understand.... Its our trauma not theirs..Also in my family under normal conditions it's very difficult to get all the family together for anything..Everyone has their own lives... Please don't be to upset with them..Im sure they love and care about you... Take care my dear..Your in my thoughts and prayers ..Xo > Ok, I need to vent! > > I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the > whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I > said sure! > Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, > so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a > ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night (today/saturday). > Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch > on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are > having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it > is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt > know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! > > Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her > sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff > together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home > for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do > whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " > > radation again????> > > So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK > MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head > out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a > celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! > > Hurting here in Michigan > > Char > > Jan Koelsch > > --------------------------------- > We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love > (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2007 Report Share Posted January 23, 2007 Hi Char, Congrats for finishing up your radiation. We are all celebrating with you. I started my radiation on Jan. 10th. I'm estimating that my last treatment will be on Feb. 20th as everything goes as planned. I'd be P-O'd too if my family didn't mark this date as a major accomplishment. I'd take the seven-year old out to dinner and something fun that you both like to do. Hugs, > > Ok, I need to vent! > > I finished my Radation yesterday, and hubby asked if I wanted the > whole family to go out to eat in celebration (Friday/last night). I > said sure! > Well, no one was home, kids were here and there and had other plans, > so I said, forget it, I will run to Costco(Grosery Store) and get a > ham and we can have a big ham dinner tomorrow night (today/saturday). > Well, hubby sleeps in and then takes the oldest son to fix his clutch > on his truck. They didnt leave until after noon. OF course they are > having a hard time getting the old one out blah blah blah. So here it > is, 4:15, I phoned and asked him how much longer, he said he didnt > know, probably count on about 6:00. OK!!!!! SO NOW WHAT!!! > > Other kid calls(shes with boyfriend) and she hasnt even begun her > sledding adventures yet, everyone is still getting their stuff > together blah blah blah. I said, I thought you were going to be home > for dinner? She said, " well what do you want me to do? " I said.. " do > whatever! " Then she says.... " I will make it up to you " > > radation again????> > > So the way I am looking at it right now, I guess I AM SUPPOSE TO COOK > MY OWN CELEBRATION DINNER!! I am soooooooo P.O'd. I just want to head > out and go to dinner alone/with my 7 year old. So much for a > celebration, glad to see everyone is excited as much as I am!! > > Hurting here in Michigan > > Char > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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