Guest guest Posted January 13, 2007 Report Share Posted January 13, 2007 Hey Dari, CONGRATS on the final adoption!!!!!!! I just got done reading your last post about the hubbie. Yes, I did ask and all I can say is: WOW! I am glad that he rose to the occasion and has come around to understand what all spouses eventually come to comprehend: Neither the cancer nor the chemo are a piece of cake and just because you finished treatment, does NOT mean you can immediately resume where you left off before you were diagnosed. I think men are in a world of their own to begin with and when handed a situation they can not fix right away, they are stumped. In my case I noticed that my hubbie could not " see " the devastation cancer was/is causing, so he figured: what the heck, she is up and about even hours after treatment, so why not carry on as usual???? The hardest for him was to comprehend that this will go on the rest of my life. It's not like we will never again worry or think about cancer just because we are done with chemo and rads. Hello???? I think all of us will FOREVER be looking over our shoulder, waiting for the other shoe to drop and praying that it will never happen.... Already, I need to run for now. Just wanted to let you know I read your last post. What is the weather like on the KCM side??? I am looking at snow and ice over here outside KCK (about 2 hours west) and they are warning about more.... Take care and hugs those babies!!!! Later, Caren in Kansas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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