Re: I'm also new to this group! - Take a friend or loved one with you...

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry and what you're going through does sound scarey! Take

a friend or loved one with you if want to wait in the waiting room

with you and drive you to and from your appointment (yes, your

appointment that you will pick up the phone and make now if you

haven't already!)

'Fear of the unknown' is no fun, but 'knowledge is power' and the

more and sooner you know something more specific about what you're

going through, the sooner you can attack it (or be relieved to know

it's not what you think). Either way, you need to move forward

instead of just being in limbo......limboland is no fun, really!

Not that treatment is 'fun' but at least you are progressing then.

Talk to a counselor or support group in person as well.....get some

more support, it will help you get through it better. Call or go to

a place of worship....temple, church, etc for prayer and support.

Good luck!

Suzanne

>

> Hello new to the site as well as some other's. I had went to

some

> DR's. in the pasttwo years. Asking them what is this green stuff

> comming out of both of my breast. My last child was born 15 years

ago.

> MY oldestis 18 and going into the army this june. I'm only 35. I

have

> already gone through cancer once. Because of it I had all my

female

> part's taken out when I was 23. This lats time I went to see my

Doctor

> he found a lump on the left breast. That was a month ago. I was to

go

> and get one of those men's done. I still have not done it. I'm

really

> scared to go. When they call to set up the app. They asked me all

this

> stuff. I told them I had stuff comming out of both of them. They

said

> that I have to have some kind of differnt kind of one. I'm so dam

> scared right now. I know it might seem silly to be so scared but I

am.

> I know that also dum to put this off. I just don't know what to do

any

> more.

> frogger_hope

>