Cathie - apology Re: BAHA's - metal intolerance

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Dear Cathie-

A comment I received off list made me realize that my rambling comments might

appear flippant and insensitive. I am so sorry. I agree that the metal issue

could be significant. I was not in any way trying to discount that or discount

seeking understanding. I was intending to wish well - as soon as

possible, additionally willing to have healing without understanding. I was not

advocating avoiding understanding, or doing nothing at all and simply waiting

for healing.

I used to feel having an understanding was required before I would even allow or

consider that a resolution was possible. So, sometimes I feel like I almost

would wait to see resolution in my eyes until I felt I had acheived

understanding - therefore I might continue working on a problem that might not

still persist.

For example, if my child had some type of clinical manifestation, I would seek

an understanding such that even after the symptoms had stopped manifesting I

would be unwilling to accept the issue as resolved without cause and effect

clearly defined in my mind. Without understanding, I felt the threat of symptoms

was still real. I tied resolution to understanding..... now I am willing to let

that connection go (for myself). If the problem solves itself before I

understand, I am willing to accept that gift.

I apologize if my random comment caused you pain in any way. I did not intend

to be callous, flippant or disrespectful. I certainly did not intend to make

light of the seriousness of 's symptoms or your concern for her. I do bear

concern for 's well being and speedy recovery deeply.

Please take the best of care. I hope things are resolved quickly.

with love,

yuka

Re: BAHA's - metal intolerance

I am so sorry that is having difficulties with her BAHA site..... I wish

I had something useful to say. I hope it resolves quickly. I used to be so

driven to understand the " why " of things - now I am all good for moving

towards healing and wholeness without necessarily understanding anymore...

although sometimes when I understand the " why " I learn there really wasn't a

problem, so the problem dissolves without being solved...... ) ... I have

rambled!

love,

yuka

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Yuka, not a problem, didnt bother me at all, i am just looking for answers

or help, so i take any advise offered!

cATHIE

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>

> Dear Cathie-

>

> A comment I received off list made me realize that my rambling comments

> might appear flippant and insensitive. I am so sorry. I agree that the metal

> issue could be significant. I was not in any way trying to discount that or

> discount seeking understanding. I was intending to wish well - as soon

> as possible, additionally willing to have healing without understanding. I

> was not advocating avoiding understanding, or doing nothing at all and

> simply waiting for healing.

>

> I used to feel having an understanding was required before I would even

> allow or consider that a resolution was possible. So, sometimes I feel like

> I almost would wait to see resolution in my eyes until I felt I had acheived

> understanding - therefore I might continue working on a problem that might

> not still persist.

>

> For example, if my child had some type of clinical manifestation, I would

> seek an understanding such that even after the symptoms had stopped

> manifesting I would be unwilling to accept the issue as resolved without

> cause and effect clearly defined in my mind. Without understanding, I felt

> the threat of symptoms was still real. I tied resolution to

> understanding..... now I am willing to let that connection go (for myself).

> If the problem solves itself before I understand, I am willing to accept

> that gift.

>

> I apologize if my random comment caused you pain in any way. I did not

> intend to be callous, flippant or disrespectful. I certainly did not intend

> to make light of the seriousness of 's symptoms or your concern for

> her. I do bear concern for 's well being and speedy recovery deeply.

>

> Please take the best of care. I hope things are resolved quickly.

>

> with love,

>

> yuka

>

> Re: BAHA's - metal intolerance

>

> I am so sorry that is having difficulties with her BAHA site..... I

> wish I had something useful to say. I hope it resolves quickly. I used to be

> so driven to understand the " why " of things - now I am all good for moving

> towards healing and wholeness without necessarily understanding anymore...

> although sometimes when I understand the " why " I learn there really wasn't a

> problem, so the problem dissolves without being solved...... ) ... I have

> rambled!

>

> love,

> yuka

>

>