Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 I am just now catching up on things. I don't know how this conversation started but I just have to jump in here. I too have had all those Psych courses on evaluations and their results in relation to children diagnosis of mental retardation and such. Through experience I have learned to just throw that out the window for our children. ina, please don't get irriated with what I am about to write. I agree with much of what you wrote but in life I have learned differently. The numerical results mean very little for many children who have CHARGE. It must be known that the tests are basically developed for regular or vanilla disabled children. There are no tests available that accurately assess children who are deaf. There certainly are no evaluation procedures for children who are as involved as our children. These tests are developed with the concept of comparison to " regular " students. I abhor these inaccurate evaluations. I cannot tell all of you how many times we were told that due to the results of Patty's testing she needed to be in the class for the mentally retarded. That occured every single year and I fought it every single year. By the way, mental retardation is seldom in education. The term all use, inappropriately, is developmental delay. We as parents know the difference but educators use these terms inappropriately. Anyway, Patty always performed well above her " potential. " For those in education you must know that is an impossibility. I fought all those ridiculous educators and specialists for years and years. Apparently I still have to. I fought for the most appropriate education for Patty. I had them throw out those ridiculous evaluations and results. By the way, the person doing the evaluation must have intense training in the least for children who are deaf/blind. Without that training scores and results are misleading, inaccurate and misunderstood. Thank God I fought for Patty. It was tiresome for me and worse for her but because I did fight Patty received a better education. It would have been easy to stick her in the class for those with extreme mental disabilities. That's an IQ of 80 or less. If she were in there though she would not receive an appropriate education, she would not have learned and she wouldn't be where she is today. The one evaluation we allowed and lived our lives by, Patty's life, was the results and recommendations when finally when at the age of 14 she went to and was evaluated at Perkins. They were beyond accuarate. We were thrilled. We then went back to our school district with the results and modifications needed. Sad to say our district fought us on those results and modifications. They also twisted some of the informaiton to meet their expectations. Thank goodness I was up to snuff on all that. So, I and her wonderful and gifted regular educators worked together behind the scenes to bring Patty to where she is now. Which by the way is further than anyone expected. Patty graduated from Regular Ed, with assistance, but she did. As you see I hate those archaic terms, inappropriate misleading evaluations and " requirements " for our children. Yes, there are children who have CHARGE who have IQ's that are within those ranges. But how do you find that? There is no test out there that has been developed to accurately assess our children. Don't let anyone tell you any different. Patty is and has been developmentally delayed. That's because of illnesses, hearing, vision and other issues impacting her access to education and learning. She also has gaps in areas such as math. That doesn't mean she can't or won't. It just takes longer. Patty, as a 21 year old adult, is still learning. With things such as the gaps in math we modified her access and used things such as a calculator. With that again she went further than expected. She will continue to learn all her life. That's what humans do. I use our experience to look at and help other children and try to raise that bar. When you lower the bar you lower learning. In education you must bring the child to the instructional level. If you raise that bar too high you have brought the child to the frustration level and learning doesn't happen. If you lower that bar you must know learning doesn't happen then either. If you bring that bar to the instructional level learning increases. By the way, our children also need " breaks. " I hate IQ evaluations solely for diagnostic reasons-for any child but especially for ours. I am for evaluations done by a professional trained in servicing children such as ours to discover their current performance level to then provide modifications and strategies to educate the child further. Again, they said Patty couldn't but she did anyway. That still is the case as an adult. Bonnie, Mom to Kris 23, Patty CHARGE 21 and wife to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 Whee-whooo! I second that ALL the way!!! in Ma. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Congratulations! Where are you located? -- Re: Charge- Kinda Long Mental Retardation-evaluations Well, and I have started a CHARGE clinic. We did four consultations last spring. We're not doing a lot of them, but will certainly help out where we can. Tim Hartshorne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Tim, Have you publicized this anywhere? To all who don't know Tim he not only won the " Star " in CHARGE last year he is one of the best CHARGE specialists there is and a professor of Psych at a university and is currently doing yet another study on CHARGE. He is also married to who is also in the same department at their university and has studied CHARGE extensively. More importantly they are parents of a very young adult who has CHARGE. They've walked the walk. I have sought advice from him a few times and have received wonderful help. The first conference I attended spoke at an outbreak session which described the inappropriate intellectual " labeling " for lack of a better word. It was then the fight with those at Patty's school was the hardest. I can remember sitting there just crying and crying. It was one of those, so I'm not nuts, sort of deal. Oh if they were nearby... For those of you who are close to them I would try like crazy to find out the how and the where and then get my child there to them. So Tim, how and where? Bonnie, Mom to Kris 23, Patty CHARGE 21 and wife to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 me to bonnie i have met tim a few times he came to my house once4 with rob oen time and had lunch a great man he is last confrence the aussie conf we were at we stood out side and mum chatted to him outside the confrence4 room for half an hour about me about his stuff about charge about lots of stuff he even introduced my speach that year he is a great man he is the best professional there is wish he was here to but hes nto lOL so go see him everyone he is cool and he understnds everything dont think nancy wa in aus last time dotn think she ever coems otu here but he does and as i said weve had lunch with him at oru old house i think he might of even gone on our kayak with me or did he now thats pushign the memory but he did talk about it i know that and he think he adiised mum on a few things like school im sure he has on here and in person ant confrences think he might of help a litle with highschool i think i should archive i know hes posted to mum about soem of my stuff hugs ellen > > Tim, > > Have you publicized this anywhere? > > To all who don't know Tim he not only won the " Star " in CHARGE last year > he > is one of the best CHARGE specialists there is and a professor of Psych at > a > university and is currently doing yet another study on CHARGE. He is also > married to who is also in the same department at their university > and has > studied CHARGE extensively. More importantly they are parents of a very > young > adult who has CHARGE. They've walked the walk. > > I have sought advice from him a few times and have received wonderful > help. > The first conference I attended spoke at an outbreak session which > described the inappropriate intellectual " labeling " for lack of a better > word. It > was then the fight with those at Patty's school was the hardest. I can > remember sitting there just crying and crying. It was one of those, so I'm > not > nuts, sort of deal. > > Oh if they were nearby... For those of you who are close to them I would > try > like crazy to find out the how and the where and then get my child there > to > them. > > So Tim, how and where? > > > Bonnie, Mom to Kris 23, Patty CHARGE 21 and wife to > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 We are located in Michigan, but what we have done is to travel to the school in most cases. We've typically spent the first evening with the family in their home, and then in the morning visited the school and observed and chatted with people. Then we've done some assessment. In the afternoon after school I do a two hour CHARGE 101, and then in the evening has done a Person Centered Plan. The next morning we do a team meeting, and then fly out. In one case the kid came here for an assessment, and then went there to do the PCP and the IEP. It has varied a bit, but if we can get all of those components in, I feel as though the staff at least knows a lot more about CHARGE, and we are able to leave with something of a plan in place. It is very time intensive, which is why we can't do a lot of these, but we can do pieces here and there as well. Tim Hartshorne S. Hartshorne, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Central Michigan University Mount Pleasant, MI 48859 phone fax tim.hartshorne@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hi Marilyn, We'll be there for Thanksgiving. What's going on? Tim S. Hartshorne, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Central Michigan University Mount Pleasant, MI 48859 phone fax tim.hartshorne@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Tim- Do you have information on the clinic? Michele _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of Tim Hartshorne Sent: Monday, September 04, 2006 5:17 PM To: CHARGE Subject: Re: Charge- Kinda Long Mental Retardation-evaluations Well, and I have started a CHARGE clinic. We did four consultations last spring. We're not doing a lot of them, but will certainly help out where we can. Tim Hartshorne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Tim- What a wonderful thing for all of us to know about. Thanks! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Tim: is having " behavior issues " at school, and Rick and I can't seem to get our point across about the deafblind/sensory overload aspects that we feel are causing them. She will just " explode " , starting with hitting and bad language, sometimes progressing to kicking. There is a meeting today to discuss this issue. I can't go but Rick is. I'm hoping something positive comes of this; but I have my concerns. They just don't seem to get that there are so many things assaulting 's senses at one time, she's starting puberty and hormones may be rearing their head, she has that overpowering need for routine...the list goes on and they want an XYZ solution that will fit all situations when she gets " wild " . You and I both know that won't happen. Kim said it a great way about the state changes: We may only " see " 5 things, but there may be 20 other things causing the behaviors. The school staff doesn't even recognize the start of these behaviors, even though it is documented in her IEP: giggling, pressing herself against her desk or the wall, inappropriate responses to requests or instructions (signing " hahaha " during classroom discussion). I talked to one of her teachers last week and she wasn't even aware that the IEP stated needs at least 16 pt. font, and is to have the vocabulary for certain subjects pre-taught. These two things are huge! What else are they unaware of that is in the IEP?! She has eight classes in sixth grade, and has to transition all over campus to access them. And they wonder why she is acting tired and rebellious. We're just really, really frustrated right now with 's school. And I know she must be also. We are trying to get the LEA signed on for an eval with Perkins, but that is currently not going to happen. We have a needs assessment meeting on Sept. 15 (to see what needs to be evaluated) and the LEA wants to use information from that to gather a local team for assessment. I just see things getting put further and further down the line, and meanwhile the school can't handle appropriately. We really feel that she will be better served at Perkins, at least for evaluation, and possibly for admission. Friends in CHARGE, Marilyn Ogan Mom of (14 yrs, CHARGE+ JRA) Mom of Ken (17 yrs, Asperger's) Wife of Rick oganm@... Re: Charge- Kinda Long Mental Retardation-evaluations Hi Marilyn, We'll be there for Thanksgiving. What's going on? Tim S. Hartshorne, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Central Michigan University Mount Pleasant, MI 48859 phone fax tim.hartshorne@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hi Bonnie, I have actually not publicized, because I get enough referrals without doing so, and time is pretty limited. So I was hesitant to say anything, but if people are interested, they should email me off list and talk about the issues, and we can go from there. Thanks for the support! Tim S. Hartshorne, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Central Michigan University Mount Pleasant, MI 48859 phone fax tim.hartshorne@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hi Ellen, Thanks so much for your comments. I have enjoyed knowing you and your mum over the years. I first met your mum in 1994. Will you be at the conference later this month? If so, I'll see you there. Tim S. Hartshorne, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Central Michigan University Mount Pleasant, MI 48859 phone fax tim.hartshorne@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Marilyn, This sounds so familiar. It's why I decided to start doing the consultations. People just don't get it. We went to Iowa and the kids teacher said to me they had no idea that behavior problems were common in CHARGE until I said that in my presentation. They just thought it was an extremely difficult kid. There are lots of genetic syndromes that have been identified, and many more to come as genetics continues to make such huge developments. Challenging behavior is an extremely common condition with genetic syndromes. I saw a list of syndromes where the kids have autistic like behavior and there were 15-20 names on the list. What researchers are trying to do is to figure out what is unique about the behavior in various syndromes - to try and describe a " behavioral phenotype. " It is not so helpful to say they have autism or autistic-like features. We want to know what the behavior is. I have developed a behavioral phenotype for CHARGE. Jude and I presented it at the conference in Finland where it was well received. I have written it up for the CHARGE Manual, but so far my updated chapter has not appeared. But I will copy and paste it into a message either later today or tomorrow (it's at work, and I'm at home with the kids due to a half day of school). It is a work in progress, but it may be helpful as you look at 's behavior and help the school to understand it. Tim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 I'd really appreciate a copy of your work. Rick and I understand, but getting school to is entirely different. And this year, there are so many more staff than we've had to try to get the information to sink into. Friends in CHARGE, Marilyn Ogan Mom of (14 yrs, CHARGE+ JRA) Mom of Ken (17 yrs, Asperger's) Wife of Rick oganm@... Re: Charge- Kinda Long Mental Retardation-evaluations Marilyn, This sounds so familiar. It's why I decided to start doing the consultations. People just don't get it. We went to Iowa and the kids teacher said to me they had no idea that behavior problems were common in CHARGE until I said that in my presentation. They just thought it was an extremely difficult kid. There are lots of genetic syndromes that have been identified, and many more to come as genetics continues to make such huge developments. Challenging behavior is an extremely common condition with genetic syndromes. I saw a list of syndromes where the kids have autistic like behavior and there were 15-20 names on the list. What researchers are trying to do is to figure out what is unique about the behavior in various syndromes - to try and describe a " behavioral phenotype. " It is not so helpful to say they have autism or autistic-like features. We want to know what the behavior is. I have developed a behavioral phenotype for CHARGE. Jude and I presented it at the conference in Finland where it was well received. I have written it up for the CHARGE Manual, but so far my updated chapter has not appeared. But I will copy and paste it into a message either later today or tomorrow (it's at work, and I'm at home with the kids due to a half day of school). It is a work in progress, but it may be helpful as you look at 's behavior and help the school to understand it. Tim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2006 Report Share Posted September 6, 2006 tim yes i think we are going this year the confrence is quite close to mums godo friend who is in harvey bay although due to latest things with im sure u have seen i wotn be at the beach or ok i will be sharks dont come in where id be LOL which would b on the sand paddling and anyway we r less in danger there than further up and less in danger than peopel who nothing bout that kinda thing LOL > > I'd really appreciate a copy of your work. Rick and I understand, but > getting school to is entirely different. And this year, there are so many > more staff than we've had to try to get the information to sink into. > > > Friends in CHARGE, > Marilyn Ogan > Mom of (14 yrs, CHARGE+ JRA) > Mom of Ken (17 yrs, Asperger's) > Wife of Rick > oganm@... <oganm%40insightbb.com> > > Re: Charge- Kinda Long Mental Retardation-evaluations > > Marilyn, > > This sounds so familiar. It's why I decided to start doing the > consultations. People just don't get it. We went to Iowa and the kids > teacher said to me they had no idea that behavior problems were common in > CHARGE until I said that in my presentation. They just thought it was an > extremely difficult kid. There are lots of genetic syndromes that have > been > identified, and many more to come as genetics continues to make such huge > developments. Challenging behavior is an extremely common condition with > genetic syndromes. I saw a list of syndromes where the kids have autistic > like behavior and there were 15-20 names on the list. What researchers are > trying to do is to figure out what is unique about the behavior in various > syndromes - to try and describe a " behavioral phenotype. " It is not so > helpful to say they have autism or autistic-like features. We want to know > what the behavior is. I have developed a behavioral phenotype for CHARGE. > Jude and I presented it at the conference in Finland where it was > well received. I have written it up for the CHARGE Manual, but so far my > updated chapter has not appeared. But I will copy and paste it into a > message either later today or tomorrow (it's at work, and I'm at home with > the kids due to a half day of school). It is a work in progress, but it > may > be helpful as you look at 's behavior and help the school to > understand it. > > Tim > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2006 Report Share Posted September 6, 2006 Hi Ellen, I have been out to the barrier reef twice now. Never saw a sting ray there, but I gather they are shy. There was a family of sharks that hung around the first place I went. They were small and not interested in us. But as you say, that is further north, and the resort has its own lagoon that should be safe. Tim S. Hartshorne, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Central Michigan University Mount Pleasant, MI 48859 phone fax tim.hartshorne@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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