Guest guest Posted March 27, 2004 Report Share Posted March 27, 2004 I am so glad to be apart of this group. Friends are who you make them. To have a friend you must be friend. How you treat a friend is how that friend will treat you. Kinda like the do unto others as you would want others to do unto you. I don't let what others write effect me personally when it is something that is not within my life. I have my belief, just like others have theirs. Just because they are different doesn't make them wrong or right, their just that, different. I must have missed some posting and am glad because those type are not productive. I'm sure once what ever it was that created some leaving calms down, this group will bet back to normal. I have begun naming this thing the dragon as ya never know what it will be, when, or how, it just keeps sneaking up on ya and then burns ya but on days. Thus creating a domino effect of emotions and stress which then cause conflict because it's not really understood. Someday my coping skills strong, others they are very slim and others I lash out. It's my world and what ever is happening to me is what it is and I can't just give in. I will fight the dragon, not my friends. I will apologize when the dragon roars it ugly head. My friends understand and continue to love me knowing that it is not easy, especially not even having a name and seeing how others are effected and not knowing if that is your destiny as well. On one hand your grateful you have no name or destination and the other hand your scared because you don't know what the road is ahead and if that dragon will be burning your butt. On a positive note: My daughter had your baby, le. Recap she has had a very hard pregnancy and we almost lost her and the baby. Delivery wasn't easy either. She began 2 weeks ago when she was only 35 weeks. Not a good thing but they really couldn't stop it because of her fragile state but was taking all the precautions. She was to rest and stay down as long as she could to give her more time. Finally on Wednesday, she arrived weighing 6 LB 5 oz. The 2 weeks and 2 days gave her more time and a better start. Unfortunately her arrival was scary as the cord came out first and placenta had torn or something. It was such a madhouse as she went from 6 cm to delivery in 10 minutes and no one was expecting it. At first I thought they were getting her ready for a c-section as things were getting really bad. The baby was in distress, irregular heart beat. They were preparing for an internal monitor when they found she was coming. After one very small push, she was here and the doctor barely had time to put on gloves. See, the Lord does work in mysterious and miraculous ways. Baby and Mom are doing great, staying at grandma's since daddy works out of state. He was able to come for the birth but has a photo shoot this weekend that couldn't be changed. Life as it is. Everyone take care and I know the tips, suggestion, [progressions will begin to be posted. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 27, 2004 Report Share Posted March 27, 2004 Hi Sandy thanks and wether we agree or not i want to hear what you have to say and for that matter anyone else because we need each other regardless of our beliefs .So there you go KIddo (if you need someone to chew on when yopu dont feel so good come here ) or when you want to share a Prophesy or what ever .GEO PLS FRIENDS To ALL my FRIENDS, Our email name to each other is PLS FRIENDS.My comment on all of this stuff is that a FRIEND is indeed there to hear your discomforts,trials,progress ect of this disease but isnt a FRIEND someone you also just chat with on other subjects also? In the dictionary under FRIEND it states a person who helps or supports, showing good and peaceful feelings, a person on the same side in a struggle. I myself dont just talk to my FRIENDS of my ailments, but I talk to them about the good, happy, sad, bad and ugly things in my life, isnt that what a true friend does. We all have our own veiws and opinions of different things, if you dont agree with someone just delete it or go to your microsoft word and write to your self on what you didnt like about the post. I find this group a very loving and careing group from many counties and states around. I truely love and care for everyone here. Can we all just return to being FRIENDS and stop the hurting comments. Love to all, Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2004 Report Share Posted March 28, 2004 Sandy & all my PLS-friends: Sandy you conveyed exactly what I feel. I tend to stay away about discussions on Politics and Religion (but that is my personal choice) as I don't like putting myself in a situation that could cause stress and confrontations. This group (TO ME) is more than just about PLS. It is somewhere I can come to get accurate medical information and support, but it has also become a 'circle of friends' which is equally if not more important at this period of my life. How do you get to become friends if you don't get past the PLS factor to learn about their lives and families. I know there has been more than enough discussion about this matter, so I will keep this short. I will continue to STICK BY MY GROUP OF FRIENDS & will just 'delete' what isn't of importance to me, even though I don't like the tension and unrest this has caused. PLEASE, lets just move on and be there for one another for the support we so dearly need. Thanks for listening. Your friend Jo. PLS FRIENDS > To ALL my FRIENDS, > > Our email name to each other is PLS FRIENDS.My comment on all of this stuff is that a FRIEND is indeed there to hear your discomforts,trials,progress ect of this disease but isnt a FRIEND someone you also just chat with on other subjects also? In the dictionary under FRIEND it states a person who helps or supports, showing good and peaceful feelings, a person on the same side in a struggle. > I myself dont just talk to my FRIENDS of my ailments, but I talk to them about the good, happy, sad, bad and ugly things in my life, isnt that what a true friend does. > We all have our own veiws and opinions of different things, if you dont agree with someone just delete it or go to your microsoft word and write to your self on what you didnt like about the post. I find this group a very loving and careing group from many counties and states around. > I truely love and care for everyone here. > Can we all just return to being FRIENDS and stop the hurting comments. Love to all, Sandy > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2004 Report Share Posted March 28, 2004 Congratulations : Hope Grandbaby & Mom continue to do well. Keep us posted. Jo. Re: PLS FRIENDS > I am so glad to be apart of this group. Friends are who you make them. To > have a friend you must be friend. How you treat a friend is how that friend will > treat you. Kinda like the do unto others as you would want others to do unto > you. > > I don't let what others write effect me personally when it is something that > is not within my life. I have my belief, just like others have theirs. Just > because they are different doesn't make them wrong or right, their just that, > different. > > I must have missed some posting and am glad because those type are not > productive. I'm sure once what ever it was that created some leaving calms down, > this group will bet back to normal. > > I have begun naming this thing the dragon as ya never know what it will be, > when, or how, it just keeps sneaking up on ya and then burns ya but on days. > Thus creating a domino effect of emotions and stress which then cause conflict > because it's not really understood. Someday my coping skills strong, others > they are very slim and others I lash out. It's my world and what ever is > happening to me is what it is and I can't just give in. I will fight the dragon, not > my friends. I will apologize when the dragon roars it ugly head. My friends > understand and continue to love me knowing that it is not easy, especially not > even having a name and seeing how others are effected and not knowing if that is > your destiny as well. On one hand your grateful you have no name or > destination and the other hand your scared because you don't know what the road is > ahead and if that dragon will be burning your butt. > > On a positive note: My daughter had your baby, le. Recap she has had a > very hard pregnancy and we almost lost her and the baby. Delivery wasn't easy > either. She began 2 weeks ago when she was only 35 weeks. Not a good thing > but they really couldn't stop it because of her fragile state but was taking all > the precautions. She was to rest and stay down as long as she could to give > her more time. Finally on Wednesday, she arrived weighing 6 LB 5 oz. The 2 > weeks and 2 days gave her more time and a better start. Unfortunately her arrival > was scary as the cord came out first and placenta had torn or something. It > was such a madhouse as she went from 6 cm to delivery in 10 minutes and no one > was expecting it. At first I thought they were getting her ready for a > c-section as things were getting really bad. The baby was in distress, irregular heart > beat. They were preparing for an internal monitor when they found she was > coming. After one very small push, she was here and the doctor barely had time to > put on gloves. See, the Lord does work in mysterious and miraculous ways. > Baby and Mom are doing great, staying at grandma's since daddy works out of > state. He was able to come for the birth but has a photo shoot this weekend that > couldn't be changed. Life as it is. > > Everyone take care and I know the tips, suggestion, [progressions will begin > to be posted. > > Love, > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2004 Report Share Posted March 28, 2004 All this just goes to show that we are one big happy family, when we go to fighting amongst ourselves. Think about it; what familys doesn't have squabbles in them? Anyone who ever says that their family has never had any disagreements is a BOLD FACED LIER or they live in a fantasy. So when someone gets mad and threaten to leave just leave them alone. They ain't going nowhere. They are just pitching a fit and wanting just that little more attention. Everybody gets that way and every family has someone just like this. So when someone in the family start's showing their butt, just say, Hey, when you get over it, we will still be here for ya! And by the way, we love ya no matter what. We will see ya when you get back! Don't let the door hit you in the a_ _ your way out. LOL (for fun) PLS FRIENDS To ALL my FRIENDS, Our email name to each other is PLS FRIENDS.My comment on all of this stuff is that a FRIEND is indeed there to hear your discomforts,trials,progress ect of this disease but isnt a FRIEND someone you also just chat with on other subjects also? In the dictionary under FRIEND it states a person who helps or supports, showing good and peaceful feelings, a person on the same side in a struggle. I myself dont just talk to my FRIENDS of my ailments, but I talk to them about the good, happy, sad, bad and ugly things in my life, isnt that what a true friend does. We all have our own veiws and opinions of different things, if you dont agree with someone just delete it or go to your microsoft word and write to your self on what you didnt like about the post. I find this group a very loving and careing group from many counties and states around. I truely love and care for everyone here. Can we all just return to being FRIENDS and stop the hurting comments. Love to all, Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 See Bart even feels that way .OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOK PLS FRIENDS To ALL my FRIENDS, Our email name to each other is PLS FRIENDS.My comment on all of this stuff is that a FRIEND is indeed there to hear your discomforts,trials,progress ect of this disease but isnt a FRIEND someone you also just chat with on other subjects also? In the dictionary under FRIEND it states a person who helps or supports, showing good and peaceful feelings, a person on the same side in a struggle. I myself dont just talk to my FRIENDS of my ailments, but I talk to them about the good, happy, sad, bad and ugly things in my life, isnt that what a true friend does. We all have our own veiws and opinions of different things, if you dont agree with someone just delete it or go to your microsoft word and write to your self on what you didnt like about the post. I find this group a very loving and careing group from many counties and states around. I truely love and care for everyone here. Can we all just return to being FRIENDS and stop the hurting comments. Love to all, Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2004 Report Share Posted March 30, 2004 Congratulations !!! or should I say grandma? I know you are enjoying every moment. My best to you all and yes, thank the Lord for his goodness. Take care. God Bless Yolanda Re: PLS FRIENDS I am so glad to be apart of this group. Friends are who you make them. To have a friend you must be friend. How you treat a friend is how that friend will treat you. Kinda like the do unto others as you would want others to do unto you. I don't let what others write effect me personally when it is something that is not within my life. I have my belief, just like others have theirs. Just because they are different doesn't make them wrong or right, their just that, different. I must have missed some posting and am glad because those type are not productive. I'm sure once what ever it was that created some leaving calms down, this group will bet back to normal. I have begun naming this thing the dragon as ya never know what it will be, when, or how, it just keeps sneaking up on ya and then burns ya but on days. Thus creating a domino effect of emotions and stress which then cause conflict because it's not really understood. Someday my coping skills strong, others they are very slim and others I lash out. It's my world and what ever is happening to me is what it is and I can't just give in. I will fight the dragon, not my friends. I will apologize when the dragon roars it ugly head. My friends understand and continue to love me knowing that it is not easy, especially not even having a name and seeing how others are effected and not knowing if that is your destiny as well. On one hand your grateful you have no name or destination and the other hand your scared because you don't know what the road is ahead and if that dragon will be burning your butt. On a positive note: My daughter had your baby, le. Recap she has had a very hard pregnancy and we almost lost her and the baby. Delivery wasn't easy either. She began 2 weeks ago when she was only 35 weeks. Not a good thing but they really couldn't stop it because of her fragile state but was taking all the precautions. She was to rest and stay down as long as she could to give her more time. Finally on Wednesday, she arrived weighing 6 LB 5 oz. The 2 weeks and 2 days gave her more time and a better start. Unfortunately her arrival was scary as the cord came out first and placenta had torn or something. It was such a madhouse as she went from 6 cm to delivery in 10 minutes and no one was expecting it. At first I thought they were getting her ready for a c-section as things were getting really bad. The baby was in distress, irregular heart beat. They were preparing for an internal monitor when they found she was coming. After one very small push, she was here and the doctor barely had time to put on gloves. See, the Lord does work in mysterious and miraculous ways. Baby and Mom are doing great, staying at grandma's since daddy works out of state. He was able to come for the birth but has a photo shoot this weekend that couldn't be changed. Life as it is. Everyone take care and I know the tips, suggestion, [progressions will begin to be posted. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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