Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 sweetie Congratulations on your new bundle of joy! nothing like those grandbabies...you need to send me a picture of her soon as you can... You have a hard choice to make, but I know you will make the right choice. Could you get your granny and bring her to your house for a day during the holidays? big hugs lady!! Sherry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 , you are a wonderful person. I too really haven't been on much. Depression, I TOTALLY understand and I won't go into mine for this is about you. I'm so happy about your baby GD I bet she is perfect and what a lucky lucky little girl to have someone as special as you to be her GM. As hard as it is to let family be right now that might just be what has to be done w/ your sister as you said its not like you can pick her over your son. Its a hard season to be around with all the memories of lost family members, and other feelings, little lone have family members fight. Now I'm going to cry cause I totally understand, how you are feeling!!! My heart so goes out to you and just know that I Love you and hope this season goes very smoothly for you. God will provide, just leave it up to him and all will be alright! Hugs and Loves! Theresa~ *The most beautiful things in the world can not be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. ~Helen Keller~ News Off Topic I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 Hi, sweetie, I'll be praying for you, big time. Does your grannie live near you? If so, of course, bring her over to your house! Or visit your sister at a different time than Thanksgiving. Holidays are overrated, IMHO, (what a wonderful opportunity to get together and bring up all those old relationship issues <LOL>) and any visit without the stress of the holidays could be wonderful just in and of itself. And how sweet for Ann to come into your life - she won't take your dad's place, of course, but what an opportunity for joy. <G> {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}} Pam in Niceville preop Lap RNY 11/20/02 News Off Topic I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 sorry to hear your going through so much, I know how hard it is when family members have fallin outs hope they resolve everything real soon will keep you and yours in my prayers. always Dolly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 There's not enough time in anyone's life for family travails, ... If you have to be the one with the biggest heart, then do it. Reach down, grab all the love you've got, and get there. Tell your little sister right to her face how much you love her, and how you need her and there's no time in life for being mean to each other. Ask her to help you with the love you feel ... refuse to choose between one faction or the other and do you darndest to get it to be ONE FAMILY! It's important for everyone... Sharon News Off Topic I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 Congratulations on your new granddaughter !! I'm glad that everything worked out and that she's perfect (although,she'd be perfect in your eyes no matter what, right? I'm sorry to hear about the trouble in your family though. Listen to your heart and I know you'll make the best decision that you can. Maybe you could have the holiday celebration at your house so everyone could attend? Or maybe you could speak to your sister and explain what a difficult situation she's put you in by making you choose between your son and her & your grandmother. ------------------------------------------------ Terry Mayers 5DollarHosting.comR http://www.5dollarhosting.com (877)-838-HOST / .... because it shouldn't cost a fortune to make a fortune! R News Off Topic I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 I hate family conflicts., I have such a tiny family that I don't need an icky person in there scaring off the nice ones, ya know? When I lived in CA with my ex, we always had to spend Christmas day with his family (a million people) And my family (small). Thanksgiving, too, sometimes. My parents lived here in WA, but my gparents lived there in town. So, his family did the big thing about noon, paper plates, perch on a chair arm, 10 zillion kids running amok. We did that, then at 6pm, we arrived at my gma's, where we dressed formally, right down to h eels, had the best china, silver, crystal, way more silverware than my poor ex had ever seen, and did our dinner in courses. Same food, every bite all day prepared just as perfectly. Either way, since I was young & too scared to bring food, I did the dishes for both. LOL! But what I'm saying is that we were able to do both celebrations, each in their style. Not because they didn't get along, just very different styles & each had " their " tradition in place. Thanks, Vitalady T www.vitalady.com If you are interested in PayPal, please click here: https://secure.paypal.com/affil/pal=vitalady%40bigfoot.com News Off Topic I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 Tightest hugs from Nebraska -been there done that - its so sad and so ugly hon - whatever the fight was - can your youngest son and your sister patch it up between them? I am assuming your sister is the older of the two - and - she could be the one to apologize even if she is NOT wrong. If not for YOU- then for granny? You could have another celebration - with granny and your kids and grandkids - and not your sister - but - we are headed into the season of thankful and peace and goodwill and that includes families - if you want - I will write them BOTH myself and tell them to take a deep breath and put it behind them - family is too important. My heart and prayers go out to you - and if there is anything more I can do - I will do it - even from here - God bless - deb in NE News Off Topic I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 Hi ; First of all let me say welcome to the world and congrats on your new granddaughter Ann!! I'm sorry you're going through all of that with your family. Since you raised your sister since she was 5 she must be like a daughter to you. I would take her aside and tell her that she is being totally unfair to you by not including your son in her holiday festivities. Explain to her that the holiday would mean nothing to you if your son were unable to attend. Also tell her about granny and your fears of her not being around next year. Ask her if she would just put aside her anger this one time in honor of your father. Then try to get her and your son together to see if a truce could be worked out. I'll be praying for you and I hope it can be resolved for your sake. Roe > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 Thanks so much Theresa I love you too and I am trying very hard to give this to God I just cannot handle it anymore News Off Topic > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born > Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has > told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and > that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God > she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces > and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am > having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the > time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not > welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since > this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your > prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my > sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will > happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my > own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will > probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast > since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading > at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 Thanks Pam I appreciate the prayers and granny is about 20 miles from me and I go there three or four days a week News Off Topic > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born > Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has > told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and > that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God > she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces > and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am > having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the > time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not > welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since > this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your > prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my > sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will > happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my > own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will > probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast > since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading > at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 2002 Report Share Posted November 16, 2002 I would love to have granny at my house Sherry but I know she won't come she would choose to be at Tammy's she is barely speaking to me as it is right now and I am the one who takes her shopping and gets her groceries and to al her DR appointments but she sleeps at Tammy's at night Re: News Off Topic > sweetie > > Congratulations on your new bundle of joy! nothing like those > grandbabies...you need to send me a picture of her soon as you can... > > You have a hard choice to make, but I know you will make the right choice. > Could you get your granny and bring her to your house for a day during the > holidays? > > big hugs lady!! Sherry > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 dear.. I know it won't help much, but here is a big big hug! Sherry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 Hi - First of all, congratulations on your new granddaughter. How truly wonderful for you. Now, as to the family conflict, can't you have your own Christmas celebration with your Granny and your family seperate from your sister's celebration? Have it the day before or the day after your sister's party, so that your granny doesn't have to choose between you. That's my suggestion. And I love you, too! Jeanne in WI Age 39 Open RNY 05/21/2002 314/ 239/150-175 5' 8 " djgraves@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 I will pray for you . Sometimes I try to give a problem to God and I can't quite let go but like you said I can't handle it anymore. I know how family is sometimes myself. Mine never was easy growing up. I hope your sister wakes up and realizes what a treasure she really has in a sister like you. Congrats on new GB!!! God Bless Lahoma > Thanks so much Theresa I love you too and I am trying very hard to give > this to God I just cannot handle it anymore > > > News Off Topic > > > > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born > > Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has > > told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and > > that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God > > she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces > > and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . > > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am > > having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the > > time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not > > welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since > > this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your > > prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my > > sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will > > happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my > > own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will > > probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast > > since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading > > at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 Hey Jeanne It is such a mess here I came from divorced parents and holidays are usually like this on Thanksgiving we went to Tammy's as dad and Granny were next door and then on to mom's and then to Steve's moms and Christmas eve we went to Tammy's and that night to Steve's moms and then Christmas day with my mom and other brothers and sisters .Granny would not leave Tammy's plain and simple Tammy was always the pick of the litter I guess since so many years were between me and Tammy Re: News Off Topic > Hi - First of all, congratulations on your new granddaughter. How truly wonderful for you. Now, as to the family conflict, can't you have your own Christmas celebration with your Granny and your family seperate from your sister's celebration? Have it the day before or the day after your sister's party, so that your granny doesn't have to choose between you. That's my suggestion. And I love you, too! > > Jeanne in WI > Age 39 > Open RNY 05/21/2002 > 314/ 239/150-175 > 5' 8 " > djgraves@... > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 Sherry those big hugs and words of encouragement help more than you could imagine ----- Origal Message ----- To: <GastricBypass-InfoCentral > Sent: Sunday, November 17, 2002 8:38 AM Subject: Re: News Off Topic > dear.. > > I know it won't help much, but here is a big big hug! > > Sherry > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 BTW Sherry TN are you feeling better ? TN Re: News Off Topic > dear.. > > I know it won't help much, but here is a big big hug! > > Sherry > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 thanks Dolly I appreciate all prayers now TN Re: News Off Topic > sorry to hear your going through so much, I know how hard it is when > family members have fallin outs hope they resolve everything real soon will > keep you and yours in my prayers. > always Dolly > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 thanks sis News Off Topic > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born > Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told > us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it > could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect > as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 > inches long and her name is Ann . > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am > having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time > she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome > there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be > my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please > and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of > my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I > cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and > then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as > she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if > you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 Thanks Sharon you are right life is too short for misery News Off Topic > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new > granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful > we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the > pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it > could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank > God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed > 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name > is Ann . > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing > lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister > who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my > youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the > holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will > be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in > your prayers please and that this family conflict is over > soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and > so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I > cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and > grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be > my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast > since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are > still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 Thanks Theresa I am trying to leave this in Gods capable hands I love you too girl News Off Topic > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born > Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has > told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and > that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God > she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces > and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am > having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the > time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not > welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since > this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your > prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my > sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will > happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my > own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will > probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast > since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading > at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 Me too and Thanks mom News Off Topic > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 Thanks Deb in NE I appreciate all your hugs and prayers News Off Topic > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name is Ann . > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just remember me in your prayers please a nd that this family conflict is over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2002 Report Share Posted November 17, 2002 Thanks roe Tammy can be very butty if you know what I mean she has an attitude that won't quit and she didn't get it from me and I already tried to talk to her last week before I came here with my problems but I was afraid not to ask afraid it would lead me to stress eat so I decided to throw out the raft (to the group) and grab hold for dear life . Re: News Off Topic > Hi ; > > First of all let me say welcome to the world and congrats on your new > granddaughter Ann!! > I'm sorry you're going through all of that with your family. Since > you raised your sister since she was 5 she must be like a daughter to > you. I would take her aside and tell her that she is being totally > unfair to you by not including your son in her holiday festivities. > Explain to her that the holiday would mean nothing to you if your son > were unable to attend. Also tell her about granny and your fears of > her not being around next year. Ask her if she would just put aside > her anger this one time in honor of your father. Then try to get her > and your son together to see if a truce could be worked out. > > I'll be praying for you and I hope it can be resolved for your sake. > > Roe > > > > > > I wanted to share with you guys that I have a new granddaughter > born Wednesday the 13th she is just wonderful we were so worried as > they has told us earlier in the pregnancy that she only had a two > vessel cord and that it could affect her heart,kidneys,liver or > bladder and thank God she is perfect as far as they can tell she > weighed 5pounds and 10 ounces and was 191/2 inches long and her name > is Ann . > > I am going to try to be here more I have been kinda missing lately > I am having some problems with depression . My sister who I raised > from the time she was five got into it with my youngest son and told > me he is not welcome there on the holidays and as it is I am really > struggling since this will be my first Christmas without my dad .Just > remember me in your prayers please and that this family conflict is > over soon . I think my sister is jealous of my success also and so I > don't know what will happen here . I think well I cannot choose her > and her family over my own son and DIL and grandsons and then I think > if I don't go it will probably be my last one with my granny as she > is going downhill fast since my dads death .What does a person do and > if you are still reading at this point thanks and I love you ! > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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