Ladies Advice Please

[Guest guest]

Well the topic does come up from time to time on this list but can never be

brought up too often. It is a real challenge for women with our issues to

aproach a man about our problem as it interfears wtih intimacy.

I struggled with my husband for years before finding success with surgery.

But what I went through before hand gave me insight. In my opinnion (which

will likely be contested by others as everyone has their own opinnion on

this) is that the right time to share that information is after you get to

know the guy and have been on a few dates but just before you become

seriously intimate. I would not necessarily share this information with a

friend from work, so I don't think that someone I have just gone on a few

dates with needs to know about it right away either. I think we deserve a

chance for the guy we are pursuing to get to know all of our positive

atributes first.

I have a friend with vv who is going through this same issue right now and I

asked my husband who now has experience in the matter for his opinnion and

his opinnion was " before intimacy or before jewlery whichever comes first " .

As for how to bring it up thats hard too, but I would wait for one of those

moments where you guys are sharing things about yourselves or having a deep

conversation and use that as an oportunity to bring it up.

Bringing up the subject of vv with guys is a tough one and there is no real

rules about it. I guess it comes down to telling him when your heart tells

you the time is right.

" Without rabbits a rabbits foot would be nothing but a disimbodied hand full

of unidentified toes. "

-Pogo

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