Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 Hey , I can't wait for us to get together... it sounds great I think I can really lose myself in some whipcream....lol Take it easy girl. sorry to hear about your hair. It is never easy. Goodness I can't wait to all of this is over. Take care and god bless --- nancy thompson wrote: > Hi,I been going at it with the ex. too he don't have > my kids but the state of Minnesota now wants him to > pay child support that he never once paid ...because > I have no insurance and can't work untill I get thru > this cemo and recovery ... I need help...and can't > get it unless I go for childsupport well he got his > side of paper work called me at 2;30 am when he got > home from the bar..just hot ..now I am scared > sitting here pounding thease keys...the stress never > ends ...it has been 12 days since my first cemo my > hair is comming out in handfuls been holding the > hair cut thing off...now I will go get it cut before > it really starts comming out ...my...never did I > ever think that I would be going thru this ...I > really need some strength ..I feel like I am > fizzeling out on the emotional end of this ....I am > thinking of you ..we really need to get together > soon...big stong cup of capachino mocah or something > with a pile of whip cream on it any way ...and just > relax...and > enjoy..a few moments ...hang in thier have faith > > > Aurelia Ang wrote: > Hi Siggy, > > I sure understand how stressed you are. Just > remember that justice always triumphs. Leave it to > God and pray. I'll pray for u and the children.You > need yr health to look after them.Concentrate on > healing now. > > Write to us as often as u need. Having a shoulder to > cry on helps healing. > > Lots of love and God bless. > Aurelia. > > siggyt2000 wrote: > Hi all, > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > have been fight my > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > visit and now he > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > against him. He is > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > will take them from > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > for the children > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > on Friday. They > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > had to take some > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > removed. I felt I > needed to do that because of the little bits of > cancer that was found > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > there until they did > the path. They were just going in to remove the > breast because of the > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > still dealing with > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > the stress will. I > just needed to vent.. > thanks ladies. > god bless > > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > Mail. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > it out. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 Hey , I can't wait for us to get together... it sounds great I think I can really lose myself in some whipcream....lol Take it easy girl. sorry to hear about your hair. It is never easy. Goodness I can't wait to all of this is over. Take care and god bless --- nancy thompson wrote: > Hi,I been going at it with the ex. too he don't have > my kids but the state of Minnesota now wants him to > pay child support that he never once paid ...because > I have no insurance and can't work untill I get thru > this cemo and recovery ... I need help...and can't > get it unless I go for childsupport well he got his > side of paper work called me at 2;30 am when he got > home from the bar..just hot ..now I am scared > sitting here pounding thease keys...the stress never > ends ...it has been 12 days since my first cemo my > hair is comming out in handfuls been holding the > hair cut thing off...now I will go get it cut before > it really starts comming out ...my...never did I > ever think that I would be going thru this ...I > really need some strength ..I feel like I am > fizzeling out on the emotional end of this ....I am > thinking of you ..we really need to get together > soon...big stong cup of capachino mocah or something > with a pile of whip cream on it any way ...and just > relax...and > enjoy..a few moments ...hang in thier have faith > > > Aurelia Ang wrote: > Hi Siggy, > > I sure understand how stressed you are. Just > remember that justice always triumphs. Leave it to > God and pray. I'll pray for u and the children.You > need yr health to look after them.Concentrate on > healing now. > > Write to us as often as u need. Having a shoulder to > cry on helps healing. > > Lots of love and God bless. > Aurelia. > > siggyt2000 wrote: > Hi all, > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > have been fight my > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > visit and now he > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > against him. He is > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > will take them from > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > for the children > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > on Friday. They > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > had to take some > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > removed. I felt I > needed to do that because of the little bits of > cancer that was found > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > there until they did > the path. They were just going in to remove the > breast because of the > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > still dealing with > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > the stress will. I > just needed to vent.. > thanks ladies. > god bless > > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > Mail. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > it out. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Well , I cut my hair off last night it is short feels alot better,sure it will be gone in a few days ..I am going to the casino tomarrow ,hope to win some fat cash..the kids start school tomarrow ...but I have my little grand-daughter all week ..she is 4 months old so fun ...so smiliey...that keeps me busy I forgot how much work babies are ..How did your surgey go ? Do you have the tubes agian?This cemo hasn't made me sick but I am running to the bath-room non-stop and really sore where my surgey was ...can't wait untill it is all behind me .....take care signia rodriguez wrote: Hey , I can't wait for us to get together... it sounds great I think I can really lose myself in some whipcream....lol Take it easy girl. sorry to hear about your hair. It is never easy. Goodness I can't wait to all of this is over. Take care and god bless --- nancy thompson wrote: > Hi,I been going at it with the ex. too he don't have > my kids but the state of Minnesota now wants him to > pay child support that he never once paid ...because > I have no insurance and can't work untill I get thru > this cemo and recovery ... I need help...and can't > get it unless I go for childsupport well he got his > side of paper work called me at 2;30 am when he got > home from the bar..just hot ..now I am scared > sitting here pounding thease keys...the stress never > ends ...it has been 12 days since my first cemo my > hair is comming out in handfuls been holding the > hair cut thing off...now I will go get it cut before > it really starts comming out ...my...never did I > ever think that I would be going thru this ...I > really need some strength ..I feel like I am > fizzeling out on the emotional end of this ....I am > thinking of you ..we really need to get together > soon...big stong cup of capachino mocah or something > with a pile of whip cream on it any way ...and just > relax...and > enjoy..a few moments ...hang in thier have faith > > > Aurelia Ang wrote: > Hi Siggy, > > I sure understand how stressed you are. Just > remember that justice always triumphs. Leave it to > God and pray. I'll pray for u and the children.You > need yr health to look after them.Concentrate on > healing now. > > Write to us as often as u need. Having a shoulder to > cry on helps healing. > > Lots of love and God bless. > Aurelia. > > siggyt2000 wrote: > Hi all, > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > have been fight my > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > visit and now he > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > against him. He is > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > will take them from > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > for the children > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > on Friday. They > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > had to take some > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > removed. I felt I > needed to do that because of the little bits of > cancer that was found > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > there until they did > the path. They were just going in to remove the > breast because of the > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > still dealing with > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > the stress will. I > just needed to vent.. > thanks ladies. > god bless > > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > Mail. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > it out. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2006 Report Share Posted September 6, 2006 Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2006 Report Share Posted September 6, 2006 Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2006 Report Share Posted September 6, 2006 Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 7, 2006 Report Share Posted September 7, 2006 Hi,well the kids are out the door for school what a morning my Mattherw is a handful so mouthy and naughty...argues over everything..and fights me on taking his pills ,he is adhd,with a behavior issue ...I thought his behavior would change somewhat when he see's what I am going thru and go alittle easyer on me but....he is worse takes full advantage of me.....if he keeps this up I will have no choice but to send him to live with my parents untill I can controll him or he desides to straighten out he is 13 ....well almost all my hair is gone ..I feel so ugly...kinda on the emotional side of things lately ..not sleeping at night at all usally up all night ...and so tired all day ...been so depressed of how I look don.t even care to try to put on my make-up.....my husband acts like what I am going thru is no big deal...went out bought himself a 2000 grand careavan, really nice ...but I can't drive it ...I might get a smudge on a window or something ...oh well ...his day will come he is the one who needs to live with himself...I hope things are going better for you ,do you still have the tubes in?Man I feel so bad you had to go thru it all over agian ...hang in thier ...have faith siggyt2000 wrote: Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 7, 2006 Report Share Posted September 7, 2006 Hi,well the kids are out the door for school what a morning my Mattherw is a handful so mouthy and naughty...argues over everything..and fights me on taking his pills ,he is adhd,with a behavior issue ...I thought his behavior would change somewhat when he see's what I am going thru and go alittle easyer on me but....he is worse takes full advantage of me.....if he keeps this up I will have no choice but to send him to live with my parents untill I can controll him or he desides to straighten out he is 13 ....well almost all my hair is gone ..I feel so ugly...kinda on the emotional side of things lately ..not sleeping at night at all usally up all night ...and so tired all day ...been so depressed of how I look don.t even care to try to put on my make-up.....my husband acts like what I am going thru is no big deal...went out bought himself a 2000 grand careavan, really nice ...but I can't drive it ...I might get a smudge on a window or something ...oh well ...his day will come he is the one who needs to live with himself...I hope things are going better for you ,do you still have the tubes in?Man I feel so bad you had to go thru it all over agian ...hang in thier ...have faith siggyt2000 wrote: Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 7, 2006 Report Share Posted September 7, 2006 , I am so sorry to hear you are having problems with your son and your husband too. You are right, some day he is going to have to answer for this. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: back home , Siggy Hi,well the kids are out the door for school what a morning my Mattherw is a handful so mouthy and naughty...argues over everything..and fights me on taking his pills ,he is adhd,with a behavior issue ...I thought his behavior would change somewhat when he see's what I am going thru and go alittle easyer on me but....he is worse takes full advantage of me.....if he keeps this up I will have no choice but to send him to live with my parents untill I can controll him or he desides to straighten out he is 13 ....well almost all my hair is gone ..I feel so ugly...kinda on the emotional side of things lately ..not sleeping at night at all usally up all night ...and so tired all day ...been so depressed of how I look don.t even care to try to put on my make-up.....my husband acts like what I am going thru is no big deal...went out bought himself a 2000 grand careavan, really nice ...but I can't drive it ...I might get a smudge on a window or something ...oh well ...his day will come he is the one who needs to live with himself...I hope things are going better for you ,do you still have the tubes in?Man I feel so bad you had to go thru it all over agian ...hang in thier ...have faith siggyt2000 wrote: Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 7, 2006 Report Share Posted September 7, 2006 , I am so sorry to hear you are having problems with your son and your husband too. You are right, some day he is going to have to answer for this. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: back home , Siggy Hi,well the kids are out the door for school what a morning my Mattherw is a handful so mouthy and naughty...argues over everything..and fights me on taking his pills ,he is adhd,with a behavior issue ...I thought his behavior would change somewhat when he see's what I am going thru and go alittle easyer on me but....he is worse takes full advantage of me.....if he keeps this up I will have no choice but to send him to live with my parents untill I can controll him or he desides to straighten out he is 13 ....well almost all my hair is gone ..I feel so ugly...kinda on the emotional side of things lately ..not sleeping at night at all usally up all night ...and so tired all day ...been so depressed of how I look don.t even care to try to put on my make-up.....my husband acts like what I am going thru is no big deal...went out bought himself a 2000 grand careavan, really nice ...but I can't drive it ...I might get a smudge on a window or something ...oh well ...his day will come he is the one who needs to live with himself...I hope things are going better for you ,do you still have the tubes in?Man I feel so bad you had to go thru it all over agian ...hang in thier ...have faith siggyt2000 wrote: Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 7, 2006 Report Share Posted September 7, 2006 , I am so sorry to hear you are having problems with your son and your husband too. You are right, some day he is going to have to answer for this. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: back home , Siggy Hi,well the kids are out the door for school what a morning my Mattherw is a handful so mouthy and naughty...argues over everything..and fights me on taking his pills ,he is adhd,with a behavior issue ...I thought his behavior would change somewhat when he see's what I am going thru and go alittle easyer on me but....he is worse takes full advantage of me.....if he keeps this up I will have no choice but to send him to live with my parents untill I can controll him or he desides to straighten out he is 13 ....well almost all my hair is gone ..I feel so ugly...kinda on the emotional side of things lately ..not sleeping at night at all usally up all night ...and so tired all day ...been so depressed of how I look don.t even care to try to put on my make-up.....my husband acts like what I am going thru is no big deal...went out bought himself a 2000 grand careavan, really nice ...but I can't drive it ...I might get a smudge on a window or something ...oh well ...his day will come he is the one who needs to live with himself...I hope things are going better for you ,do you still have the tubes in?Man I feel so bad you had to go thru it all over agian ...hang in thier ...have faith siggyt2000 wrote: Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2006 Report Share Posted September 8, 2006 Hi , I fully understand how you feel. My son and husband were also seemingly uncaring and unsympathetic. However, now that I'm into the 3rd year of treatment , I realised that it is all because they are the males (not all are like that) who do not know how to react to our struggle. They think that indifference is helping us forget or lighten our burden. To them they think that showing concern may aggravate our sorrow. Just have to live with it and concentrate getting well and strong. Do not let anything or anybody stress you.Deep down they do care and love us. When I was undergoing chemo treatment I also could not sleep at all, both night and day, although I was terribly weak, aching all over and utterly miserable. As for looks it is important that you tell yourself that all this is temporary. You'll bounce back in no time.All this emotional swings are pretty normal reactions.Hang in there! We're all WARRIORS who'll be stronger for the experience!!! SMILE and thank God for the grace to be able to surmount all odds. Hugs and God Bless, Aurelia. nancy thompson wrote: Hi,well the kids are out the door for school what a morning my Mattherw is a handful so mouthy and naughty...argues over everything..and fights me on taking his pills ,he is adhd,with a behavior issue ...I thought his behavior would change somewhat when he see's what I am going thru and go alittle easyer on me but....he is worse takes full advantage of me.....if he keeps this up I will have no choice but to send him to live with my parents untill I can controll him or he desides to straighten out he is 13 ....well almost all my hair is gone ..I feel so ugly...kinda on the emotional side of things lately ...not sleeping at night at all usally up all night ...and so tired all day ....been so depressed of how I look don.t even care to try to put on my make-up.....my husband acts like what I am going thru is no big deal...went out bought himself a 2000 grand careavan, really nice ...but I can't drive it ...I might get a smudge on a window or something ...oh well ...his day will come he is the one who needs to live with himself...I hope things are going better for you ,do you still have the tubes in?Man I feel so bad you had to go thru it all over agian ...hang in thier ...have faith siggyt2000 wrote: Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2006 Report Share Posted September 8, 2006 Hi , I fully understand how you feel. My son and husband were also seemingly uncaring and unsympathetic. However, now that I'm into the 3rd year of treatment , I realised that it is all because they are the males (not all are like that) who do not know how to react to our struggle. They think that indifference is helping us forget or lighten our burden. To them they think that showing concern may aggravate our sorrow. Just have to live with it and concentrate getting well and strong. Do not let anything or anybody stress you.Deep down they do care and love us. When I was undergoing chemo treatment I also could not sleep at all, both night and day, although I was terribly weak, aching all over and utterly miserable. As for looks it is important that you tell yourself that all this is temporary. You'll bounce back in no time.All this emotional swings are pretty normal reactions.Hang in there! We're all WARRIORS who'll be stronger for the experience!!! SMILE and thank God for the grace to be able to surmount all odds. Hugs and God Bless, Aurelia. nancy thompson wrote: Hi,well the kids are out the door for school what a morning my Mattherw is a handful so mouthy and naughty...argues over everything..and fights me on taking his pills ,he is adhd,with a behavior issue ...I thought his behavior would change somewhat when he see's what I am going thru and go alittle easyer on me but....he is worse takes full advantage of me.....if he keeps this up I will have no choice but to send him to live with my parents untill I can controll him or he desides to straighten out he is 13 ....well almost all my hair is gone ..I feel so ugly...kinda on the emotional side of things lately ...not sleeping at night at all usally up all night ...and so tired all day ....been so depressed of how I look don.t even care to try to put on my make-up.....my husband acts like what I am going thru is no big deal...went out bought himself a 2000 grand careavan, really nice ...but I can't drive it ...I might get a smudge on a window or something ...oh well ...his day will come he is the one who needs to live with himself...I hope things are going better for you ,do you still have the tubes in?Man I feel so bad you had to go thru it all over agian ...hang in thier ...have faith siggyt2000 wrote: Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2006 Report Share Posted September 8, 2006 Hi , I fully understand how you feel. My son and husband were also seemingly uncaring and unsympathetic. However, now that I'm into the 3rd year of treatment , I realised that it is all because they are the males (not all are like that) who do not know how to react to our struggle. They think that indifference is helping us forget or lighten our burden. To them they think that showing concern may aggravate our sorrow. Just have to live with it and concentrate getting well and strong. Do not let anything or anybody stress you.Deep down they do care and love us. When I was undergoing chemo treatment I also could not sleep at all, both night and day, although I was terribly weak, aching all over and utterly miserable. As for looks it is important that you tell yourself that all this is temporary. You'll bounce back in no time.All this emotional swings are pretty normal reactions.Hang in there! We're all WARRIORS who'll be stronger for the experience!!! SMILE and thank God for the grace to be able to surmount all odds. Hugs and God Bless, Aurelia. nancy thompson wrote: Hi,well the kids are out the door for school what a morning my Mattherw is a handful so mouthy and naughty...argues over everything..and fights me on taking his pills ,he is adhd,with a behavior issue ...I thought his behavior would change somewhat when he see's what I am going thru and go alittle easyer on me but....he is worse takes full advantage of me.....if he keeps this up I will have no choice but to send him to live with my parents untill I can controll him or he desides to straighten out he is 13 ....well almost all my hair is gone ..I feel so ugly...kinda on the emotional side of things lately ...not sleeping at night at all usally up all night ...and so tired all day ....been so depressed of how I look don.t even care to try to put on my make-up.....my husband acts like what I am going thru is no big deal...went out bought himself a 2000 grand careavan, really nice ...but I can't drive it ...I might get a smudge on a window or something ...oh well ...his day will come he is the one who needs to live with himself...I hope things are going better for you ,do you still have the tubes in?Man I feel so bad you had to go thru it all over agian ...hang in thier ...have faith siggyt2000 wrote: Hey , I know how nice it is to have a small baby to be around. My little girl makes me smile all the time. I think if it wasn't for her I might be a crabby women. As for my surgery. it went okay, I do have one drain. I also had them put a porta cath. But it seems that the care at the hospital is getting worse. I am thinking of changing hospitals. so how does your hair look? did you take pictures? Well win big. I wish I could win some money. goodness, god knows I need it. Good luck and keep smiling. > > Hi all, > > I just need to vent. I have had a very hard week. I > > have been fight my > > ex-husband for my kids. They went out there for a > > visit and now he > > doesn't want to send them back. I have a order > > against him. He is > > suppose to have them back by the 5th if not they > > will take them from > > him and put him in jail. I was trying to avoid that > > for the children > > sake but he won't bend. Then I had another surgery > > on Friday. They > > removed or tried to remove the positive margins and > > had to take some > > muscle. I also had the port put in and the left one > > removed. I felt I > > needed to do that because of the little bits of > > cancer that was found > > in the right side. They didn't even know it was > > there until they did > > the path. They were just going in to remove the > > breast because of the > > massive lump that was there. Anyway I am at home > > still dealing with > > the stress. Goodness if the cancer doesn't kill me > > the stress will. I > > just needed to vent.. > > thanks ladies. > > god bless > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Do you Yahoo!? > > Get on board. You're invited to try the new Yahoo! > > Mail. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Stay in the know. Pulse on the new Yahoo.com. Check > > it out. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > > removed] > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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