Guest guest Posted January 1, 2004 Report Share Posted January 1, 2004 Sounds like this may have scared her more than one may think. She will be in my prayers. Sharon update on daughter some of you will remember one of my messages on my 18-y-o daughter. As soon as she became 18 she became a differstn person, skipping school and finally quitting, quit her job that she had for 2 years, and was moving from house to house for a place to live. She is home now b/c we told her that she needs to be here and she is also pregnant. I feel as though I have failed her. I know that she made these decisions herself,,,but I still feel as though I messed up some where.she came here yesterady afternoon ans she has taken 2 showers already. Her clothes have stunk up the upstairs with cigarette smoke, and she looks awful. She told me that she is already bleeding alittle, so she may even not carry this baby very long either. She is hoping to get back in school next week, I told her that I can take her to get signed back up. I just hope that she starts to get it back together now. But I guess that time will tell.Lynne~~~~ *** ~~~ *** ~~~ *** ~~~~The Neurosarcoidosis CommunityLive Group Chat:-Mondays & Fridays 10pm EST USAhttp://www.elderwyn.com/neurosarcoidosis/chat.phpMessage Archives:-http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Neurosarcoidosis/messagesMembers Database:-Listings of locations, phone numbers, and instant messengers.http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Neurosarcoidosis/database Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 2, 2004 Report Share Posted January 2, 2004 Faith makes all things possible,Love makes it easy! Janjanbovi@... Powered by Plaxo Want a signature like this? Add me to your address book... lYNNE, sO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER BUT YES SHE MADE HER OWN DECISIONS IT SOUNDS AS THOUGH YOU WERE THERE FOR HER AND SHE CHOSE TO IGNORE THAT. HOWEVERTHANK GOD SHE HAS COME BACK HOME AND MAYBE THIS IS YOUR SECOND CHANCE AND SHE HAS FINALLY REALIZED ITS NOT SO EASY OUT THERE IN THE REAL WORLD. THIS IS A REAL FRAGILE STATE FOR HER I'M SURE BUT I'M ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU MY FRIEND AND HER TOO IF THERE'S ANYTHING I CAN DO YOU HAVE MY MESSENGER AND E-MAIL RIGHT? LOVE YA AND PRAYERS TO YA BOTH,JAN ---Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free.Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).Version: 6.0.542 / Virus Database: 336 - Release Date: 11/18/03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 2, 2004 Report Share Posted January 2, 2004 Lynne, my prayers are with you, too. Yeah, I also had abit of trouble with each of my sons when they turned 18, too. It's like you have to tell them straight off the bat ...that nothing changes in your house just because they turn 18. When they graduate and leave...THEN they can make their own decisions. My oldest just about got himself killed in an auto accident three months after getting his license. he turned 18 and then he was never home. Well, that didn't last too long! Part of their punishment now is to sit and listen to me talk to them for an hour or two about why what they did was wrong. They will never be able to say they didn't know right from wrong. It tears us apart inside when they make wrong decisions that we know they will have to pay for and that is when I give them to God to watch over cuz its too much for me at times. And it will make you even sicker worrying about them. But keep believing that they'll turn around....Cuz some of us did from a bad youth, too. love and hugs S.children8_2000 wrote: some of you will remember one of my messages on my 18-y-o daughter. As soon as she became 18 she became a differstn person, skipping school and finally quitting, quit her job that she had for 2 years, and was moving from house to house for a place to live. She is home now b/c we told her that she needs to be here and she is also pregnant. I feel as though I have failed her. I know that she made these decisions herself,,,but I still feel as though I messed up some where.she came here yesterady afternoon ans she has taken 2 showers already. Her clothes have stunk up the upstairs with cigarette smoke, and she looks awful. She told me that she is already bleeding alittle, so she may even not carry this baby very long either. She is hoping to get back in school next week, I told her that I can take her to get signed back up. I just hope that she starts to get it back together now. But I guess that time will tell.Lynne~~~~ *** ~~~ *** ~~~ *** ~~~~The Neurosarcoidosis CommunityLive Group Chat:-Mondays & Fridays 10pm EST USAhttp://www.elderwyn.com/neurosarcoidosis/chat.phpMessage Archives:-http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Neurosarcoidosis/messagesMembers Database:-Listings of locations, phone numbers, and instant messengers.http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Neurosarcoidosis/database Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 2, 2004 Report Share Posted January 2, 2004 Lynne, my prayers are with you, too. Yeah, I also had abit of trouble with each of my sons when they turned 18, too. It's like you have to tell them straight off the bat ...that nothing changes in your house just because they turn 18. When they graduate and leave...THEN they can make their own decisions. My oldest just about got himself killed in an auto accident three months after getting his license. he turned 18 and then he was never home. Well, that didn't last too long! Part of their punishment now is to sit and listen to me talk to them for an hour or two about why what they did was wrong. They will never be able to say they didn't know right from wrong. It tears us apart inside when they make wrong decisions that we know they will have to pay for and that is when I give them to God to watch over cuz its too much for me at times. And it will make you even sicker worrying about them. But keep believing that they'll turn around....Cuz some of us did from a bad youth, too. love and hugs S.children8_2000 wrote: some of you will remember one of my messages on my 18-y-o daughter. As soon as she became 18 she became a differstn person, skipping school and finally quitting, quit her job that she had for 2 years, and was moving from house to house for a place to live. She is home now b/c we told her that she needs to be here and she is also pregnant. I feel as though I have failed her. I know that she made these decisions herself,,,but I still feel as though I messed up some where.she came here yesterady afternoon ans she has taken 2 showers already. Her clothes have stunk up the upstairs with cigarette smoke, and she looks awful. She told me that she is already bleeding alittle, so she may even not carry this baby very long either. She is hoping to get back in school next week, I told her that I can take her to get signed back up. I just hope that she starts to get it back together now. But I guess that time will tell.Lynne~~~~ *** ~~~ *** ~~~ *** ~~~~The Neurosarcoidosis CommunityLive Group Chat:-Mondays & Fridays 10pm EST USAhttp://www.elderwyn.com/neurosarcoidosis/chat.phpMessage Archives:-http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Neurosarcoidosis/messagesMembers Database:-Listings of locations, phone numbers, and instant messengers.http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Neurosarcoidosis/database Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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