Guest guest Posted March 19, 2003 Report Share Posted March 19, 2003 Jun, If your wife is not having any symptoms, my opinion is don't rush into anything. By all means, get a 2nd or even 3rd opinion. There are a lot of women here who have this size fibroid and some bigger. Read and research and make the right decision for your wife. Even if she begins to have some symptoms, don't let any dr. talk you into doing any procedure you don't want to have done. Let us know how it goes for you. Sorry I'm not in Indiana. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2003 Report Share Posted March 19, 2003 How nice that you are questioning this for your wife! She may not need a hyst at all...it depends. Hang out here and you will get the tools you need to make a decision you are ok with. Best of luck. gg You are a good man. ;-)! gg junbinxu wrote: > Hellos all, > My wife is 35 years old. She had an annually medical check last week. > The ultrasound result shows a 10cm uterine fibroid. She didn't have > any symptoms before that. We went to see a specialist yesterday. The > doctor told us that my wife had to have a hysterectomy and this is > the only choice. > I did a lot of research online. I found a lot of options for fibroid > treatment. I am looking for an experienced gynecologist in Indiana > area for a second opinion. If you know such a doctor, please let me > know. > > Thanks in advance, > > Jun > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2003 Report Share Posted March 19, 2003 Where are you in IN? I'm here too. You have LOTS of options. You also got time to decide. Where is the fibroid? In the uterus? Outside the uterus? In the wall? Did they tell you what kind it is? I was told the same thing as your wife. I knew better because of this group. This is a great group. I'm in southern IN. I got an RE in Louisville. There are REs in Indianapolis. REs usually have better surgical skills than regular GYNs. junbinxu wrote:Hellos all, My wife is 35 years old. She had an annually medical check last week. The ultrasound result shows a 10cm uterine fibroid. She didn't have any symptoms before that. We went to see a specialist yesterday. The doctor told us that my wife had to have a hysterectomy and this is the only choice. I did a lot of research online. I found a lot of options for fibroid treatment. I am looking for an experienced gynecologist in Indiana area for a second opinion. If you know such a doctor, please let me know. Thanks in advance, Jun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Jun, What part of Indiana? After listening to Kukalaka's horror stories of the medical conditions in Indiana (ville, I think), I would be looking out of state if I were you. Hang in there and don't let the docs do a hyst. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 , Thank you very much. You are right. This is a big decision and we have to make it carefully. I have set up 5 appointments with different doctors for my wife. I think since we don't know which one is good, we have to see more doctors and pick one who is best to us based on our own judgment. May be the doctor is right. He wants to do the surgery as soon as possible, because two years ago my wife had an ultrasound examination. The result was normal. He thinks the fibroid is growing to fast. Has anyone contacted www.fibroid.com recently? I try to call their office; the phone number is disconnected. I send them an email, it was returned. I try to get a referral from this center. If anyone has the number, please let me know. Thank you very much. Jun MLic975220@... wrote:Jun, If your wife is not having any symptoms, my opinion is don't rush into anything. By all means, get a 2nd or even 3rd opinion. There are a lot of women here who have this size fibroid and some bigger. Read and research and make the right decision for your wife. Even if she begins to have some symptoms, don't let any dr. talk you into doing any procedure you don't want to have done. Let us know how it goes for you. Sorry I'm not in Indiana. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Cecile, I just found out that i have a submucous fibroid near my cervix and my doc says it's an inch long. I guess that's 3 cm? He has referred my to a doc who he highly recommends. I have had great referrals from this doc. so I trust his judgement. He says he would recommend a resection and an ablation. I agree. But, there have been moments that I wanted to say hysto. He told me that was an option. But he would a couple times mention it almost like a side bar. I don't think he wanted me to chose that. Anyway I have an appt. on Apr. 2nd. I realize that is now less than 2 weeks away. But this whole process takes so damn long. Of course after the consult then there is the scheduling. I hope it's not too long. I had a Lupron shot on the 14th. It's supposed to work for a month. I had excessive bleeding and spent the night at the hospital. I am also anemic. Glad to hear the resection was a piece of cake. I am not really worried about it. And am looking forward to the ablation. W. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Cecile, I just found out that i have a submucous fibroid near my cervix and my doc says it's an inch long. I guess that's 3 cm? He has referred my to a doc who he highly recommends. I have had great referrals from this doc. so I trust his judgement. He says he would recommend a resection and an ablation. I agree. But, there have been moments that I wanted to say hysto. He told me that was an option. But he would a couple times mention it almost like a side bar. I don't think he wanted me to chose that. Anyway I have an appt. on Apr. 2nd. I realize that is now less than 2 weeks away. But this whole process takes so damn long. Of course after the consult then there is the scheduling. I hope it's not too long. I had a Lupron shot on the 14th. It's supposed to work for a month. I had excessive bleeding and spent the night at the hospital. I am also anemic. Glad to hear the resection was a piece of cake. I am not really worried about it. And am looking forward to the ablation. W. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Dear Jun, Ask your doctor to explain to you what rapid growth of your wife's fibroid means. Does it mean he thinks it might be cancer? Then, she should have a biopsy to rule it in or out. Does it mean that he thinks it will grow and impede other organs? If so, based on the rate of growth, exactly when will this be a problem? Does he think this will make pregnacy impossible or difficult? Ask him to explain exactly how. Take notes. Go see other doctors and ask them the same questions. Unless you have a life-threatening condition, there is no reason for a doctor to pressure your wife for surgery. I would take that as a sign that your doctor has his wallet at heart more than your wife's health. If your wife has no symptoms, there is no reason to hurry. Good luck and keep asking questions. If you feel pressured, slow down, breathe, and take your time. It is always a bad idea to make a very important decision under pressure. Only sign up for elective surgery when you are absolutely sure you have done your homework and you have chosen the best surgeon and the best procedure for you. Faryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Kukalaka, We live in Carmel Indiana, just outside of Indianapolis. Right now the only thing I know is that the fibroid is inside the uterus. I will try to get a copy of ultrasound report today. Can you tell me what is RE and how can we contact them? Thank you all very much. Jun kukalaka wrote: Where are you in IN? I'm here too. You have LOTS of options. You also got time to decide. Where is the fibroid? In the uterus? Outside the uterus? In the wall? Did they tell you what kind it is? I was told the same thing as your wife. I knew better because of this group. This is a great group. I'm in southern IN. I got an RE in Louisville. There are REs in Indianapolis. REs usually have better surgical skills than regular GYNs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Faryl, Thank you very much. I will do that. Jun Xu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 Just because the fibroid has started to grow more (and 2 years is a realtively long time) doesn't necessarily mean anything. The doctor is probably trying to play the cancer card, but you should know that cancerous tumors are very rare (I am sure some one else has the precentages) and fibroids do not " turn into " cancer. I found a doctor who was open to other options by contacting the hospital in my state that does a lot of UAEs and asking them for the names of doctors in my area that have referred for that procedure (feeling that they would be more open minded). It turned out that UAE was not necessary for me since the fibroid causing me bleeding problems was entirely inside the uterine cavity and easily removed (by a qualified doctor) by hysteroscopic resection, an outpatient procedure also known as vaginal myomectomy, done with no incisions. Naturally (since I am an elderly 45 year old) the first doctor I saw suggested a hyst, and said that if the fibroid didn't get too big he could do it vaginally. Of course when a vaginal hyst is performed the cervix always comes out too and sometimes the vagina is shortened as a result. So I found a doctor who wanted to do what is best for ME, not her pocketbook, and I have all my parts AND a satisfying sex life. Jun, > > If your wife is not having any symptoms, my opinion is don't rush into > anything. By all means, get a 2nd or even 3rd opinion. There are a lot of > women here who have this size fibroid and some bigger. Read and research and > make the right decision for your wife. Even if she begins to have some > symptoms, don't let any dr. talk you into doing any procedure you don't want > to have done. > > Let us know how it goes for you. Sorry I'm not in Indiana. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 I'm outside ville, IN. They only do hysterectomy, bc pills and just started UAEs here. The docs are not trained in Myomectomy. I found a group of REs (Reproductive Endocrinologists) in Louisville for myself. If your wife's fibroid is inside her uterus, sometimes they can do a resection. This is an outpatient procedure. Your wife would have no outside cuts. I was told ultrasound doesn't give a good enough picture of a fibroid. I will be going back to Louisville to have a saline sonogram to get a better picture of my fobroid (which they think is inside my uterus). So it seems to me your wife would need a saline sono, CAT or MRI. Something more than just an ultrasound. Sometives fibroids grow fast. It's very rare for a fibroid to be cancer. Less than 1%. Your wife sould be a candidate for myomectomy or UAE. REs have taken out a lot of fibroids in this group. Maybe this doc that your wife saw is only trained in hysts like the docs here. You have pleanty of time. If your wife bleeds heavily, check for anemia. Here's a list of REs near you. Travel to get the care you want and need for your wife. I hope you visited the sites I sent you. I hope this helps. Indianapolis's REs: LEO MARK BONAVENTURA , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 DONALD LEE CLINE , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 ROBERT MAXWELL COLVER , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 WILLIAM LEE GENTRY , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , GREENWOOD , IN 46143 LEO PLOUFFE JR , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46285 LAURA MARY REUTER , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 JAMES GERARD DONAHUE , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46228 JOSEPH PAYNTER HOLT JR , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , BLOOMINGTON , IN 47401 JOHN CROW JARRETT , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 I'm outside ville, IN. They only do hysterectomy, bc pills and just started UAEs here. The docs are not trained in Myomectomy. I found a group of REs (Reproductive Endocrinologists) in Louisville for myself. If your wife's fibroid is inside her uterus, sometimes they can do a resection. This is an outpatient procedure. Your wife would have no outside cuts. I was told ultrasound doesn't give a good enough picture of a fibroid. I will be going back to Louisville to have a saline sonogram to get a better picture of my fobroid (which they think is inside my uterus). So it seems to me your wife would need a saline sono, CAT or MRI. Something more than just an ultrasound. Sometives fibroids grow fast. It's very rare for a fibroid to be cancer. Less than 1%. Your wife sould be a candidate for myomectomy or UAE. REs have taken out a lot of fibroids in this group. Maybe this doc that your wife saw is only trained in hysts like the docs here. You have pleanty of time. If your wife bleeds heavily, check for anemia. Here's a list of REs near you. Travel to get the care you want and need for your wife. I hope you visited the sites I sent you. I hope this helps. Indianapolis's REs: LEO MARK BONAVENTURA , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 DONALD LEE CLINE , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 ROBERT MAXWELL COLVER , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 WILLIAM LEE GENTRY , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , GREENWOOD , IN 46143 LEO PLOUFFE JR , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46285 LAURA MARY REUTER , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 JAMES GERARD DONAHUE , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46228 JOSEPH PAYNTER HOLT JR , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , BLOOMINGTON , IN 47401 JOHN CROW JARRETT , MD , REPRODUCTIVE ENDOCRINOLOGY , INDIANAPOLIS , IN 46260 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2003 Report Share Posted March 20, 2003 It sounds like your doctor is giving you good advice. I had a resection last year and my bleeding has improved dramatically. Not only that but the extreme bloating I used to experience before and during my period has now gone. I also have a friend who had a resection done and is very glad she did. You are lucky to have a doctor looking out for your best interests. > Cecile, > > I just found out that i have a submucous fibroid near my cervix and my doc > says it's an inch long. I guess that's 3 cm? He has referred my to a doc who > he highly recommends. I have had great referrals from this doc. so I trust > his judgement. He says he would recommend a resection and an ablation. I > agree. But, there have been moments that I wanted to say hysto. He told me > that was an option. But he would a couple times mention it almost like a > side bar. I don't think he wanted me to chose that. Anyway I have an appt. > on Apr. 2nd. I realize that is now less than 2 weeks away. But this whole > process takes so damn long. Of course after the consult then there is the > scheduling. I hope it's not too long. I had a Lupron shot on the 14th. > It's supposed to work for a month. I had excessive bleeding and spent the > night at the hospital. I am also anemic. Glad to hear the resection was a > piece of cake. I am not really worried about it. And am looking forward to > the ablation. > > W. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2003 Report Share Posted March 21, 2003 Hi, I got a copy of my wife~{!/~}s ultrasound result. The mass lesion is 9.8 x 10.2cm and there is a broad area of contact between the body of the uterus and the mass lesion. The left ovary is also contiguous with lesion, and the left ovary appears to be displaced rather than be the origin of the mass lesion. We went to see our second OBGY doctor (Dr. Star) this morning. After examination he found that the tumor is like a baby head, it almost came out of the cervix. The cervix already opened about 4cm. He is very surprised my wife doesn~{!/~}t have any symptom. This is the first time he has ever seen. He thinks that he can remove the tumor just like deliver a baby. But after he did another ultrasound. He thinks it is too risky. It will cost a lot of bleeding and may be need do a hysterectomy if the bleeding can~{!/~}t control. Based on current examinations and ultrasounds, he thinks it is most likely a fibroid. But since it growth so fast, it could be another kind tumor (I can~{!/~}t remember the name, it is between benign and cancer) or change to cancer in the future. Here is what he said about treatment options. First the tumor has to be removed quickly. The tumor could come out of cervix and pull the uterus out. 1. Laparoscopic Myomectomy is not an option. Because the tumor is too big. 2. UAE, not recommended. It will cost lots of pain and it can only shrink the tumor. 3. Myomectomy is an option. But the surgery will cost lots of bleeding and it may grow again in the future. 4. Hysterectomy is also the treatment he has recommended. If we don~{!/~}t wish any child in the future. We already have an 8 years old boy, so this is not an issue. We were thinking about having another one. But this is not our first priority. The only reason we don~{!/~}t like the hysterectomy is that we hope she can have her whole body parts, unless it is a must be situation. Thank , Kukalaka and all of you for good advice. I will keep searching all the options and doctors. I will let you know the progress of the treatment. Best wishes to you all, Jun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2003 Report Share Posted March 21, 2003 Hi, I got a copy of my wife~{!/~}s ultrasound result. The mass lesion is 9.8 x 10.2cm and there is a broad area of contact between the body of the uterus and the mass lesion. The left ovary is also contiguous with lesion, and the left ovary appears to be displaced rather than be the origin of the mass lesion. We went to see our second OBGY doctor (Dr. Star) this morning. After examination he found that the tumor is like a baby head, it almost came out of the cervix. The cervix already opened about 4cm. He is very surprised my wife doesn~{!/~}t have any symptom. This is the first time he has ever seen. He thinks that he can remove the tumor just like deliver a baby. But after he did another ultrasound. He thinks it is too risky. It will cost a lot of bleeding and may be need do a hysterectomy if the bleeding can~{!/~}t control. Based on current examinations and ultrasounds, he thinks it is most likely a fibroid. But since it growth so fast, it could be another kind tumor (I can~{!/~}t remember the name, it is between benign and cancer) or change to cancer in the future. Here is what he said about treatment options. First the tumor has to be removed quickly. The tumor could come out of cervix and pull the uterus out. 1. Laparoscopic Myomectomy is not an option. Because the tumor is too big. 2. UAE, not recommended. It will cost lots of pain and it can only shrink the tumor. 3. Myomectomy is an option. But the surgery will cost lots of bleeding and it may grow again in the future. 4. Hysterectomy is also the treatment he has recommended. If we don~{!/~}t wish any child in the future. We already have an 8 years old boy, so this is not an issue. We were thinking about having another one. But this is not our first priority. The only reason we don~{!/~}t like the hysterectomy is that we hope she can have her whole body parts, unless it is a must be situation. Thank , Kukalaka and all of you for good advice. I will keep searching all the options and doctors. I will let you know the progress of the treatment. Best wishes to you all, Jun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2003 Report Share Posted March 21, 2003 Hi, Your quite welcome for the information. If a skilled surgeon does a myomectomy, there should be only a minimal loss of blood. You still may want to see a RE. They do seem do to a lot more myomectomies. Your wife will need something better than a regular ultrasound to really know about her tumor. Once a tumor is removed, that tumor doesn't come back. You can get a new tumor. But the fewer tumors you have, the less likely you will get a new tumor. If this is indeed a fibroid, very slim chance of cancer. If you are even remotly considering another child. DO go and see a RE. They will possibly be able to treat your wife and give you the option of another child. You may really want to consider a abdominal myomectomy. Talk to REs. It can't hurt. Read www.myomectomy.net, it will tell you about blood loss during surgery, recurrance, cancer risks, a lot of info there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2003 Report Share Posted March 22, 2003 I am in Indianapolis....had UAE at Methodist Hospital. Specialist in IR has done over 200 with very good results..I have had very good results 1 month post. Be happy to answer any questions re Indy...and UAE. junbinxu wrote: Hellos all, My wife is 35 years old. She had an annually medical check last week. The ultrasound result shows a 10cm uterine fibroid. She didn't have any symptoms before that. We went to see a specialist yesterday. The doctor told us that my wife had to have a hysterectomy and this is the only choice. I did a lot of research online. I found a lot of options for fibroid treatment. I am looking for an experienced gynecologist in Indiana area for a second opinion. If you know such a doctor, please let me know. Thanks in advance, Jun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2003 Report Share Posted March 22, 2003 Jun, OB/GYN docs make money doing hysterectomys. Methodist Hospital in Indy does UAE in Interventional Radiology..well over 200 times. The doc is a female. I have had great results 1 mo post. Will answer questions you may have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2003 Report Share Posted March 23, 2003 , What happened right after the surgery? What kind of cramping did you have? Was the pain med. okay for the pain that you had? Were you able to return to your job or other activities not too long after the UAE? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2003 Report Share Posted March 23, 2003 , What happened right after the surgery? What kind of cramping did you have? Was the pain med. okay for the pain that you had? Were you able to return to your job or other activities not too long after the UAE? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2003 Report Share Posted March 23, 2003 Tersea, I made an appointment for my wife with IU medical center Tuesday. They have done lots of UAE. They will do some initial check to see if she is qulified for UAE. I will contact you if I have any question. Thank you very much for your help. Jun > Jun, OB/GYN docs make money doing hysterectomys. Methodist Hospital in Indy does UAE in Interventional Radiology..well over 200 times. The doc is a female. I have had great results 1 mo post. Will answer questions you may have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2003 Report Share Posted March 23, 2003 Hi, You are right. I will try to make an appointment with RE doctors tomorrow. I hope they have some openning this week. Thank you very much. Jun > Hi, > Your quite welcome for the information. > If a skilled surgeon does a myomectomy, there should be only a minimal loss of blood. You still may want to see a RE. They do seem do to a lot more myomectomies. Your wife will need something better than a regular ultrasound to really know about her tumor. Once a tumor is removed, that tumor doesn't come back. You can get a new tumor. But the fewer tumors you have, the less likely you will get a new tumor. If this is indeed a fibroid, very slim chance of cancer. If you are even remotly considering another child. DO go and see a RE. They will possibly be able to treat your wife and give you the option of another child. You may really want to consider a abdominal myomectomy. Talk to REs. It can't hurt. > Read www.myomectomy.net, it will tell you about blood loss during surgery, recurrance, cancer risks, a lot of info there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2003 Report Share Posted March 24, 2003 , Pain was controlled well..I had proceedure on Thurs and returned to work the following Wed....did well. Re: Treatment options What happened right after the surgery? What kind of cramping did you have? Was the pain med. okay for the pain that you had? Were you able to return to your job or other activities not too long after the UAE? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2003 Report Share Posted March 26, 2003 That's so good to know. I have enough sick time to do that. I was worried about pain control. I have pain due to the cramping at this point. I am waiting for an appointment with a radiologist April 3. It seemed like a long time to wait today. I had a great deal of cramping and had to call the doctor. They gave me a prescription for Tylenol #3. It's woking, but I can't take it at work. Hope I won't have to tomorrow! Thank you so much for getting back to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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