Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 In a message dated 4/2/01 3:47:06 PM Eastern Daylight Time, littlebitz2000@... writes: > My mother in law keeps writing me nasty e-mails saying I brought my husband > down by getting pregnant and thats why he quit school and drinks. I was 16 > when I got pregnant and he was twenty. He was the adult and somehow I was > Dear Kim, she has something wrong in her head. Don't let her get to you, please. I had in-laws that drove me crazy and now that I am older I look back when I was young and all the mean things they said to me and how I just said nothing and took it. I regret that I didn't open my mouth and tell them off. I held in all the stress that they put on me and sometimes I feel that they contributed to me having pancreatitis. It was so hard. They were so overbearing and I was scared to death of them. Their baby boy is to blame not a sixteen year old girl. He knew how to keep his pants on didn't he? Oh, I am so angry. Please stand up for yourself. I am so sorry that you have to go through that stress. Hang in there. Your friend, Shirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 In a message dated 4/2/01 3:47:06 PM Eastern Daylight Time, littlebitz2000@... writes: > My mother in law keeps writing me nasty e-mails saying I brought my husband > down by getting pregnant and thats why he quit school and drinks. I was 16 > when I got pregnant and he was twenty. He was the adult and somehow I was > Dear Kim, she has something wrong in her head. Don't let her get to you, please. I had in-laws that drove me crazy and now that I am older I look back when I was young and all the mean things they said to me and how I just said nothing and took it. I regret that I didn't open my mouth and tell them off. I held in all the stress that they put on me and sometimes I feel that they contributed to me having pancreatitis. It was so hard. They were so overbearing and I was scared to death of them. Their baby boy is to blame not a sixteen year old girl. He knew how to keep his pants on didn't he? Oh, I am so angry. Please stand up for yourself. I am so sorry that you have to go through that stress. Hang in there. Your friend, Shirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Good for you I am glad that you are sticking up for yourself. Way to go I hope this finds you and yours well Mark E. Armstrong www.top5plus5.com Re: Kim from > > > Dear Kim, > > How are you doing today? I hope you are feeling some better. Are > you going to call your doctor today? Ya know, that was so nice of > you to give that doctor the printout, but I have a feeling he didn't > even look at it. I bet he tossed it right into the trash can. Most > of the yeah-who doctors out there think they know what's going on > with us, and that we are stupid, and there is no way we could > possibly know. Sorry, I'm just very sick & tired today, and when I'm > like this I go on & on. Please forgive me. And please, let me know > how you are doing today & what your plans are. You are in my > thoughts. > > Lots of Love & Hugs, > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > > > When I gave that copy from the Hopkins site to the nurse last > night for her to give to the doctor I hope I helped the next person > who came in with pancreatitis. Maybe the doctor will be sympathetic > for somone else. I wish these doctors had more knowledge of this > disease so maybe we wouldn't have to suffer needlessly. > Bye for now and take care, > Kim > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Good for you I am glad that you are sticking up for yourself. Way to go I hope this finds you and yours well Mark E. Armstrong www.top5plus5.com Re: Kim from > > > Dear Kim, > > How are you doing today? I hope you are feeling some better. Are > you going to call your doctor today? Ya know, that was so nice of > you to give that doctor the printout, but I have a feeling he didn't > even look at it. I bet he tossed it right into the trash can. Most > of the yeah-who doctors out there think they know what's going on > with us, and that we are stupid, and there is no way we could > possibly know. Sorry, I'm just very sick & tired today, and when I'm > like this I go on & on. Please forgive me. And please, let me know > how you are doing today & what your plans are. You are in my > thoughts. > > Lots of Love & Hugs, > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > > > When I gave that copy from the Hopkins site to the nurse last > night for her to give to the doctor I hope I helped the next person > who came in with pancreatitis. Maybe the doctor will be sympathetic > for somone else. I wish these doctors had more knowledge of this > disease so maybe we wouldn't have to suffer needlessly. > Bye for now and take care, > Kim > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Good for you I am glad that you are sticking up for yourself. Way to go I hope this finds you and yours well Mark E. Armstrong www.top5plus5.com Re: Kim from > > > Dear Kim, > > How are you doing today? I hope you are feeling some better. Are > you going to call your doctor today? Ya know, that was so nice of > you to give that doctor the printout, but I have a feeling he didn't > even look at it. I bet he tossed it right into the trash can. Most > of the yeah-who doctors out there think they know what's going on > with us, and that we are stupid, and there is no way we could > possibly know. Sorry, I'm just very sick & tired today, and when I'm > like this I go on & on. Please forgive me. And please, let me know > how you are doing today & what your plans are. You are in my > thoughts. > > Lots of Love & Hugs, > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > > > When I gave that copy from the Hopkins site to the nurse last > night for her to give to the doctor I hope I helped the next person > who came in with pancreatitis. Maybe the doctor will be sympathetic > for somone else. I wish these doctors had more knowledge of this > disease so maybe we wouldn't have to suffer needlessly. > Bye for now and take care, > Kim > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Your mother in law sounds like a witch. How does she treat you r children? Did her husband drink?It must be very difficult for you I dont think i would open her emails just delete or ignore them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 I called the doctor today. He was very upset at how I was treated he took the name of the doctor who supposidly treated me. I also called the hospital administration office. I am not sure how that will go but I am fighting back. The pain is getting a little better. I can actually deal with it. I am not sure when I will be able to get on tonight. I am babysitting my two year old nephew later. Has anyone ever tried to tell you that you are responsible for your husbands drinking? My mother in law keeps writing me nasty e-mails saying I brought my husband down by getting pregnant and thats why he quit school and drinks. I was 16 when I got pregnant and he was twenty. He was the adult and somehow I was responsible for all of his actions. And my doctor told me to avoid stress. Sorry I was rambling I am just so frusterated. I hope you are feeling better. Take Care and I hope to talk to you later tonight. Bye my friend, Kim Re: Kim from Dear Kim, How are you doing today? I hope you are feeling some better. Are you going to call your doctor today? Ya know, that was so nice of you to give that doctor the printout, but I have a feeling he didn't even look at it. I bet he tossed it right into the trash can. Most of the yeah-who doctors out there think they know what's going on with us, and that we are stupid, and there is no way we could possibly know. Sorry, I'm just very sick & tired today, and when I'm like this I go on & on. Please forgive me. And please, let me know how you are doing today & what your plans are. You are in my thoughts. Lots of Love & Hugs, ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ When I gave that copy from the Hopkins site to the nurse last night for her to give to the doctor I hope I helped the next person who came in with pancreatitis. Maybe the doctor will be sympathetic for somone else. I wish these doctors had more knowledge of this disease so maybe we wouldn't have to suffer needlessly. Bye for now and take care, Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2001 Report Share Posted April 3, 2001 I decided to block them. And she doesn't really aknowledge them. Only when it suits her purpose. And she drinks too. Sad huh? Re: Re: from Kim Your mother in law sounds like a witch. How does she treat you r children? Did her husband drink?It must be very difficult for you I dont think i would open her emails just delete or ignore them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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