Re: the waiting of results on biop.

[Guest guest]

Hi and welcome to the group. I am so sorry your husband is acting like

this. It makes it much harder to deal with the possibility of breast cancer. We

are all here for you and will be with you every step of the way.

Please feel free to ask questions, vent etc. Did you ask your dr about something

to help relieve the stress? I will keep you in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

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the waiting of results on biop.

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

[Guest guest]

,

This is such a stressful time! Do you have other family, nearby you

can turn to for support? My husband was the same as yours, initally.

He was in denial. He did come around though and has been wondeful.

I hope it is the same situation with your hubby.

Ruth

>

> hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

> days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

> lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

> biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

> patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

> to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

> been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

> brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

> thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

> bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

> alone in this ....nancy

>

[Guest guest]

Sorry to hear your husband does not really care about what happens about your

health...he should care if he is a real husband to you...My boyfriend

understands because his first wife had liver problems and passed on in the

l970's...I am a 4 yr survivor..Had mast. on Memorial Day Week-end 2002. finished

chemo on Veterans Day 2002 and radiation on Valentines Day 2003.

There are some people that just dont care what happens to you...only about

themselves...I worked at the time at a community college taking tuition payments

for over 32 yrs...retired now...The girls in the office did not know what to do

because I was the first person in the office with a major illiness...I had chemo

on Mondays every three weeks and would go back to work on Thurs and Fri. with a

stomach ache...then one time ended up in hospital with low grade fever and low

white blood..was in for 4 days...then I decided to take the whole week off when

I had chemo...because I was not married and had no children and no boyfriend at

the time..they thought I should be a super person and have chemo on Monday and

work the rest of the week...My boss told me I was taking off too much work and I

was making some of the girls work extra and that they were getting stressed

out...They did not understand what I was going though..only had 4 chemo

treatments and then lost my mom

suddenly...went on with the other 4 treamtments without her going with me to

the treatments and that was also hard...If it had been anyone else in the office

that had cancer they would have pitched in and helped that person out without

complaining...I was the guinea pig...I was the only person they thought that did

not have a life outside the office...

Heard from other people in the college you are doing so good and I am glad

it is you with the problems and not me ...I could not handle what you are going

through...

The fact is if you do have cancer you will soon find out who your real

friends are...and I dont have many...

Now I have to have a D & C on Friday thickening of the lining and my girl

friend was going to take me..she went on vacation for 12 days and was supposed

to be home last Saturday and have not heard from her yet...One of my boyfriends

sisters that lives close by can take us there on Friday but she has to work and

can not pick us up...so may have to take a taxi...

Betsy(NC)

Note: forwarded message attached.

[Guest guest]

Betsy,

You are right about the friends. All but one of mine ditched me. Most all of my

friends I have met online.

I will keep you in my prayers for your D & C.

hugs

nne

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Fwd: Re: the waiting of results on biop.

Sorry to hear your husband does not really care about what happens about your

health...he should care if he is a real husband to you...My boyfriend

understands because his first wife had liver problems and passed on in the

l970's...I am a 4 yr survivor..Had mast. on Memorial Day Week-end 2002. finished

chemo on Veterans Day 2002 and radiation on Valentines Day 2003.

There are some people that just dont care what happens to you...only about

themselves...I worked at the time at a community college taking tuition payments

for over 32 yrs...retired now...The girls in the office did not know what to do

because I was the first person in the office with a major illiness...I had chemo

on Mondays every three weeks and would go back to work on Thurs and Fri. with a

stomach ache...then one time ended up in hospital with low grade fever and low

white blood..was in for 4 days...then I decided to take the whole week off when

I had chemo...because I was not married and had no children and no boyfriend at

the time..they thought I should be a super person and have chemo on Monday and

work the rest of the week...My boss told me I was taking off too much work and I

was making some of the girls work extra and that they were getting stressed

out...They did not understand what I was going though..only had 4 chemo

treatments and then lost my mom

suddenly...went on with the other 4 treamtments without her going with me to

the treatments and that was also hard...If it had been anyone else in the office

that had cancer they would have pitched in and helped that person out without

complaining...I was the guinea pig...I was the only person they thought that did

not have a life outside the office...

Heard from other people in the college you are doing so good and I am glad it

is you with the problems and not me ...I could not handle what you are going

through...

The fact is if you do have cancer you will soon find out who your real friends

are...and I dont have many...

Now I have to have a D & C on Friday thickening of the lining and my girl friend

was going to take me..she went on vacation for 12 days and was supposed to be

home last Saturday and have not heard from her yet...One of my boyfriends

sisters that lives close by can take us there on Friday but she has to work and

can not pick us up...so may have to take a taxi...

Betsy(NC)

Note: forwarded message attached.

[Guest guest]

Betsy,

You are right about the friends. All but one of mine ditched me. Most all of my

friends I have met online.

I will keep you in my prayers for your D & C.

hugs

nne

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Fwd: Re: the waiting of results on biop.

Sorry to hear your husband does not really care about what happens about your

health...he should care if he is a real husband to you...My boyfriend

understands because his first wife had liver problems and passed on in the

l970's...I am a 4 yr survivor..Had mast. on Memorial Day Week-end 2002. finished

chemo on Veterans Day 2002 and radiation on Valentines Day 2003.

There are some people that just dont care what happens to you...only about

themselves...I worked at the time at a community college taking tuition payments

for over 32 yrs...retired now...The girls in the office did not know what to do

because I was the first person in the office with a major illiness...I had chemo

on Mondays every three weeks and would go back to work on Thurs and Fri. with a

stomach ache...then one time ended up in hospital with low grade fever and low

white blood..was in for 4 days...then I decided to take the whole week off when

I had chemo...because I was not married and had no children and no boyfriend at

the time..they thought I should be a super person and have chemo on Monday and

work the rest of the week...My boss told me I was taking off too much work and I

was making some of the girls work extra and that they were getting stressed

out...They did not understand what I was going though..only had 4 chemo

treatments and then lost my mom

suddenly...went on with the other 4 treamtments without her going with me to

the treatments and that was also hard...If it had been anyone else in the office

that had cancer they would have pitched in and helped that person out without

complaining...I was the guinea pig...I was the only person they thought that did

not have a life outside the office...

Heard from other people in the college you are doing so good and I am glad it

is you with the problems and not me ...I could not handle what you are going

through...

The fact is if you do have cancer you will soon find out who your real friends

are...and I dont have many...

Now I have to have a D & C on Friday thickening of the lining and my girl friend

was going to take me..she went on vacation for 12 days and was supposed to be

home last Saturday and have not heard from her yet...One of my boyfriends

sisters that lives close by can take us there on Friday but she has to work and

can not pick us up...so may have to take a taxi...

Betsy(NC)

Note: forwarded message attached.

[Guest guest]

Betsy,

You are right about the friends. All but one of mine ditched me. Most all of my

friends I have met online.

I will keep you in my prayers for your D & C.

hugs

nne

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http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html

Check out my other ornaments at

www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html

Lots of info and gifts at:

www.cancerclub.com

CinDWood Crafts

http://www.cindwoodcrafts.com

Fwd: Re: the waiting of results on biop.

Sorry to hear your husband does not really care about what happens about your

health...he should care if he is a real husband to you...My boyfriend

understands because his first wife had liver problems and passed on in the

l970's...I am a 4 yr survivor..Had mast. on Memorial Day Week-end 2002. finished

chemo on Veterans Day 2002 and radiation on Valentines Day 2003.

There are some people that just dont care what happens to you...only about

themselves...I worked at the time at a community college taking tuition payments

for over 32 yrs...retired now...The girls in the office did not know what to do

because I was the first person in the office with a major illiness...I had chemo

on Mondays every three weeks and would go back to work on Thurs and Fri. with a

stomach ache...then one time ended up in hospital with low grade fever and low

white blood..was in for 4 days...then I decided to take the whole week off when

I had chemo...because I was not married and had no children and no boyfriend at

the time..they thought I should be a super person and have chemo on Monday and

work the rest of the week...My boss told me I was taking off too much work and I

was making some of the girls work extra and that they were getting stressed

out...They did not understand what I was going though..only had 4 chemo

treatments and then lost my mom

suddenly...went on with the other 4 treamtments without her going with me to

the treatments and that was also hard...If it had been anyone else in the office

that had cancer they would have pitched in and helped that person out without

complaining...I was the guinea pig...I was the only person they thought that did

not have a life outside the office...

Heard from other people in the college you are doing so good and I am glad it

is you with the problems and not me ...I could not handle what you are going

through...

The fact is if you do have cancer you will soon find out who your real friends

are...and I dont have many...

Now I have to have a D & C on Friday thickening of the lining and my girl friend

was going to take me..she went on vacation for 12 days and was supposed to be

home last Saturday and have not heard from her yet...One of my boyfriends

sisters that lives close by can take us there on Friday but she has to work and

can not pick us up...so may have to take a taxi...

Betsy(NC)

Note: forwarded message attached.

[Guest guest]

The first time I had breast cancer I was 33. My husband at the time of my apt

w/the surgeon was offshore on a rig platform. The doctor ask me if I had brought

anyone with me for my results. " Nope, just me " , My fourteen year old was at home

setting w/my 2mo old. He said that I might need someone to drive me home and

thinking back I probably should have had someone with me, but we women are a

very strong breed. He (the doc) broke the news to me. I almost fell off the exam

table. My first reaction was I can't have cancer. My life is just starting to go

good again. Some people don't know how to deal with life threatening illnesses

so they choose to block it out and maybe after awhile things will go back to

normal. My daughter who was 14 at the time took my illness very hard seeing how

we had just lost my father to cancer a two years before and she was very close

to him. My husband was very supportive. But sometimes even now after my second

bought of cancer if I am having a bad

day he doesn't get it. I think it is very hard to put yourself in someone

else's shoes. Give him some time to take everything in. He may be very scarred

and be the type that holds everything in. Hope things go well for you. My

thoughts and prayers are with you.tt

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

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[Guest guest]

I have found in my 12 yrs of dealing w/ BC , that people tend to think your

ok because they can't see 'the sick' part in you. My mother is like that, we

argue sometimes because she wants me to get up and do stuff around the house

vacum, dust ect and I just don't have the energy. She says she understands

and says she is tired too but still gets up. If you have never had chemo,

you just don't understand how it makes you feel.

-- Re: the waiting of results on biop.

The first time I had breast cancer I was 33. My husband at the time of my

apt w/the surgeon was offshore on a rig platform. The doctor ask me if I had

brought anyone with me for my results. " Nope, just me " , My fourteen year old

was at home setting w/my 2mo old. He said that I might need someone to drive

me home and thinking back I probably should have had someone with me, but we

women are a very strong breed. He (the doc) broke the news to me. I almost

fell off the exam table. My first reaction was I can't have cancer. My life

is just starting to go good again. Some people don't know how to deal with

life threatening illnesses so they choose to block it out and maybe after

awhile things will go back to normal. My daughter who was 14 at the time

took my illness very hard seeing how we had just lost my father to cancer a

two years before and she was very close to him. My husband was very

supportive. But sometimes even now after my second bought of cancer if I am

having a bad

day he doesn't get it. I think it is very hard to put yourself in someone

else's shoes. Give him some time to take everything in. He may be very

scarred and be the type that holds everything in. Hope things go well for

you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.tt

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

---------------------------------

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[Guest guest]

I have found in my 12 yrs of dealing w/ BC , that people tend to think your

ok because they can't see 'the sick' part in you. My mother is like that, we

argue sometimes because she wants me to get up and do stuff around the house

vacum, dust ect and I just don't have the energy. She says she understands

and says she is tired too but still gets up. If you have never had chemo,

you just don't understand how it makes you feel.

-- Re: the waiting of results on biop.

The first time I had breast cancer I was 33. My husband at the time of my

apt w/the surgeon was offshore on a rig platform. The doctor ask me if I had

brought anyone with me for my results. " Nope, just me " , My fourteen year old

was at home setting w/my 2mo old. He said that I might need someone to drive

me home and thinking back I probably should have had someone with me, but we

women are a very strong breed. He (the doc) broke the news to me. I almost

fell off the exam table. My first reaction was I can't have cancer. My life

is just starting to go good again. Some people don't know how to deal with

life threatening illnesses so they choose to block it out and maybe after

awhile things will go back to normal. My daughter who was 14 at the time

took my illness very hard seeing how we had just lost my father to cancer a

two years before and she was very close to him. My husband was very

supportive. But sometimes even now after my second bought of cancer if I am

having a bad

day he doesn't get it. I think it is very hard to put yourself in someone

else's shoes. Give him some time to take everything in. He may be very

scarred and be the type that holds everything in. Hope things go well for

you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.tt

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

---------------------------------

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[Guest guest]

I have found in my 12 yrs of dealing w/ BC , that people tend to think your

ok because they can't see 'the sick' part in you. My mother is like that, we

argue sometimes because she wants me to get up and do stuff around the house

vacum, dust ect and I just don't have the energy. She says she understands

and says she is tired too but still gets up. If you have never had chemo,

you just don't understand how it makes you feel.

-- Re: the waiting of results on biop.

The first time I had breast cancer I was 33. My husband at the time of my

apt w/the surgeon was offshore on a rig platform. The doctor ask me if I had

brought anyone with me for my results. " Nope, just me " , My fourteen year old

was at home setting w/my 2mo old. He said that I might need someone to drive

me home and thinking back I probably should have had someone with me, but we

women are a very strong breed. He (the doc) broke the news to me. I almost

fell off the exam table. My first reaction was I can't have cancer. My life

is just starting to go good again. Some people don't know how to deal with

life threatening illnesses so they choose to block it out and maybe after

awhile things will go back to normal. My daughter who was 14 at the time

took my illness very hard seeing how we had just lost my father to cancer a

two years before and she was very close to him. My husband was very

supportive. But sometimes even now after my second bought of cancer if I am

having a bad

day he doesn't get it. I think it is very hard to put yourself in someone

else's shoes. Give him some time to take everything in. He may be very

scarred and be the type that holds everything in. Hope things go well for

you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.tt

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

---------------------------------

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[Guest guest]

I agree with you Carol. The tiredness that comes from cancer treatment is like

no other tiredness. It is more than tired it is being totally drained.

Sharon

Carol wrote:

I have found in my 12 yrs of dealing w/ BC , that people tend to think your

ok because they can't see 'the sick' part in you. My mother is like that, we

argue sometimes because she wants me to get up and do stuff around the house

vacum, dust ect and I just don't have the energy. She says she understands

and says she is tired too but still gets up. If you have never had chemo,

you just don't understand how it makes you feel.

-- Re: the waiting of results on biop.

The first time I had breast cancer I was 33. My husband at the time of my

apt w/the surgeon was offshore on a rig platform. The doctor ask me if I had

brought anyone with me for my results. " Nope, just me " , My fourteen year old

was at home setting w/my 2mo old. He said that I might need someone to drive

me home and thinking back I probably should have had someone with me, but we

women are a very strong breed. He (the doc) broke the news to me. I almost

fell off the exam table. My first reaction was I can't have cancer. My life

is just starting to go good again. Some people don't know how to deal with

life threatening illnesses so they choose to block it out and maybe after

awhile things will go back to normal. My daughter who was 14 at the time

took my illness very hard seeing how we had just lost my father to cancer a

two years before and she was very close to him. My husband was very

supportive. But sometimes even now after my second bought of cancer if I am

having a bad

day he doesn't get it. I think it is very hard to put yourself in someone

else's shoes. Give him some time to take everything in. He may be very

scarred and be the type that holds everything in. Hope things go well for

you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.tt

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

---------------------------------

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[Guest guest]

Amen amen amen

Sometimes I just want to sleep all day and night and other days I can't do

enough. It is very strange.

-- Re: the waiting of results on biop.

The first time I had breast cancer I was 33. My husband at the time of my

apt w/the surgeon was offshore on a rig platform. The doctor ask me if I had

brought anyone with me for my results. " Nope, just me " , My fourteen year old

was at home setting w/my 2mo old. He said that I might need someone to drive

me home and thinking back I probably should have had someone with me, but we

women are a very strong breed. He (the doc) broke the news to me. I almost

fell off the exam table. My first reaction was I can't have cancer. My life

is just starting to go good again. Some people don't know how to deal with

life threatening illnesses so they choose to block it out and maybe after

awhile things will go back to normal. My daughter who was 14 at the time

took my illness very hard seeing how we had just lost my father to cancer a

two years before and she was very close to him. My husband was very

supportive. But sometimes even now after my second bought of cancer if I am

having a bad

day he doesn't get it. I think it is very hard to put yourself in someone

else's shoes. Give him some time to take everything in. He may be very

scarred and be the type that holds everything in. Hope things go well for

you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.tt

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

---------------------------------

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[Guest guest]

Amen amen amen

Sometimes I just want to sleep all day and night and other days I can't do

enough. It is very strange.

-- Re: the waiting of results on biop.

The first time I had breast cancer I was 33. My husband at the time of my

apt w/the surgeon was offshore on a rig platform. The doctor ask me if I had

brought anyone with me for my results. " Nope, just me " , My fourteen year old

was at home setting w/my 2mo old. He said that I might need someone to drive

me home and thinking back I probably should have had someone with me, but we

women are a very strong breed. He (the doc) broke the news to me. I almost

fell off the exam table. My first reaction was I can't have cancer. My life

is just starting to go good again. Some people don't know how to deal with

life threatening illnesses so they choose to block it out and maybe after

awhile things will go back to normal. My daughter who was 14 at the time

took my illness very hard seeing how we had just lost my father to cancer a

two years before and she was very close to him. My husband was very

supportive. But sometimes even now after my second bought of cancer if I am

having a bad

day he doesn't get it. I think it is very hard to put yourself in someone

else's shoes. Give him some time to take everything in. He may be very

scarred and be the type that holds everything in. Hope things go well for

you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.tt

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

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Hi !

Welcome. Count on this group for support. And try to get the help you can. And

your husband... he might be afraid and trying to ignore the seriousness of the

situation. Men act like this many times when they are scared. It must be tough

for them see someone they love in a situation they can't do anything to fix. I

hope he comes around soon, you will need his support.

Keep us posted.

Hugs

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

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thanks to everyone for the support it helps to talk out how I feel scared to

death ...of the unknowen ....

Pinheiro wrote: Hi !

Welcome. Count on this group for support. And try to get the help you can. And

your husband... he might be afraid and trying to ignore the seriousness of the

situation. Men act like this many times when they are scared. It must be tough

for them see someone they love in a situation they can't do anything to fix. I

hope he comes around soon, you will need his support.

Keep us posted.

Hugs

nancyt563731956 wrote:

hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

to the mayo for more tets .... am so stressed out ....my husband has

been unsupportive he wouldn't even offer to drive me to the

brestcenter for the biop. and don't even ask if I have heard any

thing as far as results ....he even asked me why I was so

bitchy....unreal....this waiting thing is tearing me up.....I feel so

alone in this ....nancy

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> nancyt563731956 wrote:

> hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

> days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

> lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

> biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

> patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

How long does it " usually " take to get results from a biopsy? I am

aware that this could vary quite a bit.

-Frances

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> nancyt563731956 wrote:

> hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

> days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

> lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

> biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

> patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

How long does it " usually " take to get results from a biopsy? I am

aware that this could vary quite a bit.

-Frances

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I had my biopsy late on a Friday and got the results on Monday morning.

Hugs

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Re: the waiting of results on biop.

>

> nancyt563731956 wrote:

> hi everyone I am new to this group ...have been reading posts a few

> days looking for the light at the end of the tunnel ...I found a

> lump a couple weeks ago went thru all the motions had my needle

> biop. last thursady was told that I have calcifications ...and the

> patholigests all couldn't agree if it was cancer or not so sent it

How long does it " usually " take to get results from a biopsy? I am

aware that this could vary quite a bit.

-Frances

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http://www.RudolphsRabbitRanch.com Central Ohio | ^ - ^

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