Guest guest Posted December 24, 2007 Report Share Posted December 24, 2007 You're right, Jennie. We beat ourselves up all the time about not being the people we used to be, like its our fault. How ridiculous! Does the person with cancer blame themselves? Probably not(unless they smoked a lot or something). And the people around us, family, docs, whomever, not believing us just adds to our own self-doubts, and the beating ourselves up some more. Let's all try to put the blame away for Christmas and feel that heaviness lift off our shoulders, so we can feel a little lighter and hopefully more joyful for the holidays. I've really come to love this group and all of you guys. Merry Christmas, friends. Jeanne in WI >I meant to add--- > > Yes, I agree, we do need to try to stay in a state of forgiveness. Of > both others, be it family, friends, coworkers and for ourselves which is > often the hardest one of all to forgive. This is especially important for Fibro sufferers (and others with physical issues). Unforgiveness plays a HUGE part in our pain, ailments and suffering. I KNOW it's a vicious cycle, believe me I KNOW...you forgive and they hurt you and you forgive and they hurt you, and so on and on and on. I KNOW, I KNOW. But still we must do it if only for ourselves!!!!! > > Love you guys! > ~Jennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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