Re: Debra V./inappropriate touching

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Yeah, I guess I just know the silly girls pretty well. They are really like a

bunch of kids. They really love me. I would not take kindly to it with anyone

else. They like to horse around and play. Sometimes we have to remind them " we

are at work " ..... LOL. As I said I don't really like it, but they do the same

kinds of things to each other. They are just some young nurse aids. It is not

an everyday thing. They are just lucky to have a nurse who puts up with them.

On the other hand, they are good workers and would do anything I ask them to.

hugs,

Debra V.

Dave and Jeanne wrote:

You know, if I was friendly with a particular co-worker, I might touch

their

arm with my cold hands to show how cold I was, but that would be all. I

can't believe those younger women would slap you on the butt like that,

Debra. What are they male football players in their heads? I mean, gheesh,

grow up. I understand you have to go along with it to not shake the boat so

to speak, but really....

Jeanne in WI

>I think all of us have the right to our own body and personal space. I

>understand you feel invaded. I have some similar things happen at work

>sometimes. I know they don't mean anything by it because I work with alot

>of young people who like to play around. Sometimes they will pass by and

>slap me on the butt. (this is other women... they are young and just like

>to horse around with each other and play). They just do things like that

>and I understand them..... but it does bug me a bit. I just smile and let

>it go. But truthfully I don't really like anyone touching me either unless

>it is a friendship hug. (that I do not mind). He really had no right to

>touch you on the head that way. He may not have meant it to be rude, but

>it did invade your personal space. Oh and I have also had people put their

>cold hands on me too. I really don't like it though I know they mean no

>harm.

> Hope it comes out ok.

> Debra V.

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