Guest guest Posted December 24, 2007 Report Share Posted December 24, 2007 I will keep you my prayers, Leanne. Glad you got to " clear the air " with her at least. Now try to let those feelings go. Do you have other family or friends to spend the holiday with? I imagine you will have moments of sadness. I guess you'll just to feel them and get through them. That's why I hope you have others to be with. Jeanne in WI > Well guys I was able to finally vent and tell my step mom what was > bothering me! She called me this afternoon yelling at me cause we planned > a family meeting to let I told her know how we felt about what she was > doing to my fathers estate was wrong, but needless to say her precious son > canceled the meeting,I told her that this was not a good time to vent as > it was Christmas time, but she continued to needle me until I finally told > her how i felt, and boy she didn't like that at all! I told her that what > took my father 80 yrs to build up, it only took 3 months for her to tear down, I told her that I can't even go to own fathers house, because I don't feel his presents in there any more because she has taken down everything that belonged to him, she has changed everything around, then the old bag lied to me and told me that she hasn't gotten rid of anything of his, B.S. anyway i told her how i felt, and she is P***ed!!!! oh well.What was she trying to pull? this Christmas is going to be the most difficult time in my life, as it will be the first Christmas without my mom and dad is she just trying to make it worse! Thanks for listening to me vent > guys, I appreciate it alot!!!! Leanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2007 Report Share Posted December 24, 2007 Leanne.... it seems that death brings out the worst in people sometimes. I have heard many cases like yours. Many times I have heard of step parents just leaving the kids out of everything when the death of the spouse happens. People get so greedy. My mom did not have anything of value when she died. But I would not have ever deprived my siblings of anything she had. I just think it is so sick for people to let greed take over when someone they are suppose to " love " has died. I had an Aunt who did this to her step kids. When he died, she took all of it. She even had him change his own mother's will unlawfully and with her death she got it all..... plus everything he had too. Greed is an awful monster. Hope you find some peace. Maybe the fact you did vent and tell her what you thought could have been cleansing. You got it off your chest and said your piece. love and hugs, Debra V. Dave and Jeanne wrote: I will keep you my prayers, Leanne. Glad you got to " clear the air " with her at least. Now try to let those feelings go. Do you have other family or friends to spend the holiday with? I imagine you will have moments of sadness. I guess you'll just to feel them and get through them. That's why I hope you have others to be with. Jeanne in WI > Well guys I was able to finally vent and tell my step mom what was > bothering me! She called me this afternoon yelling at me cause we planned > a family meeting to let I told her know how we felt about what she was > doing to my fathers estate was wrong, but needless to say her precious son > canceled the meeting,I told her that this was not a good time to vent as > it was Christmas time, but she continued to needle me until I finally told > her how i felt, and boy she didn't like that at all! I told her that what > took my father 80 yrs to build up, it only took 3 months for her to tear down, I told her that I can't even go to own fathers house, because I don't feel his presents in there any more because she has taken down everything that belonged to him, she has changed everything around, then the old bag lied to me and told me that she hasn't gotten rid of anything of his, B.S. anyway i told her how i felt, and she is P***ed!!!! oh well.What was she trying to pull? this Christmas is going to be the most difficult time in my life, as it will be the first Christmas without my mom and dad is she just trying to make it worse! Thanks for listening to me vent > guys, I appreciate it alot!!!! Leanne --------------------------------- Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2007 Report Share Posted December 24, 2007 >Jeanne, yes I have a sister that I'm very close to, I have three children and 5 grandchildren that we are spending the holidays with, so that will help! thanks for listening to me vent, Ido appriciate the response! Leanne > I will keep you my prayers, Leanne. Glad you got to " clear the air " with > her at least. Now try to let those feelings go. Do you have other family > or friends to spend the holiday with? I imagine you will have moments of > sadness. I guess you'll just to feel them and get through them. That's why > I hope you have others to be with. > Jeanne in WI > > > > Well guys I was able to finally vent and tell my step mom what was > > bothering me! She called me this afternoon yelling at me cause we planned > > a family meeting to let I told her know how we felt about what she was > > doing to my fathers estate was wrong, but needless to say her precious son > > canceled the meeting,I told her that this was not a good time to vent as > > it was Christmas time, but she continued to needle me until I finally told > > her how i felt, and boy she didn't like that at all! I told her that what > > took my father 80 yrs to build up, > it only took 3 months for her to tear down, I told her that I can't even go > to own fathers house, because I don't feel his presents in there any more > because she has taken down everything that belonged to him, she has changed > everything around, then the old bag lied to me and told me that she hasn't > gotten rid of anything of his, B.S. anyway i told her how i felt, and she is > P***ed!!!! oh well.What was she trying to pull? this Christmas is going to > be the most difficult time in my life, as it will be the first Christmas > without my mom and dad is she just trying to make it worse! Thanks for > listening to me vent > > guys, I appreciate it alot!!!! Leanne > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2007 Report Share Posted December 24, 2007 > I will keep you my prayers, Leanne. Glad you got to " clear the air " with > her at least. Now try to let those feelings go. Do you have other family > or friends to spend the holiday with? I imagine you will have moments of > sadness. I guess you'll just to feel them and get through them. That's why > I hope you have others to be with. > Jeanne in WI > > > Well guys I was able to finally vent and tell my step mom what was > > bothering me! She called me this afternoon yelling at me cause we planned > > a family meeting to let I told her know how we felt about what she was > > doing to my fathers estate was wrong, but needless to say her precious son > > canceled the meeting,I told her that this was not a good time to vent as > > it was Christmas time, but she continued to needle me until I finally told > > her how i felt, and boy she didn't like that at all! I told her that what > > took my father 80 yrs to build up, > it only took 3 months for her to tear down, I told her that I can't even go > to own fathers house, because I don't feel his presents in there any more > because she has taken down everything that belonged to him, she has changed > everything around, then the old bag lied to me and told me that she hasn't > gotten rid of anything of his, B.S. anyway i told her how i felt, and she is > P***ed!!!! oh well.What was she trying to pull? this Christmas is going to > be the most difficult time in my life, as it will be the first Christmas > without my mom and dad is she just trying to make it worse! Thanks for > listening to me vent > > guys, I appreciate it alot!!!! Leanne > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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