Guest guest Posted December 15, 2007 Report Share Posted December 15, 2007 That man I am married too gets on my every last nerve. Yelling at me about spending money again. About last payday when I spent more than allowed on herb and vitamins. I am allowed {allowed mind you} $95 a payday every 2 weeks. went over $10 last payday and he is yelling about it this payday. On and on making me feel bad about my illness. Saying I am stupid, it is not fibro fog. That I have always been stupid. Had fibro whole marriage and beyond. 29 yrs. How I needed to pull my head out of my a## and straighten up. Start listening. He will continue to be abusive till I change. He admitted that he is abusive because of my actions in this marriage. How I am too lazy to work. I told him that I am sick and he knows that. " Just an excuse of Fibro again " he says. I don't care about your illness or you. Told him his threatening demanding ways were not working for him. Maybe we could get along if he changed too. I am not all of the problems. That is alot to carry on my shoulders. So now I started crying and he left. He is so cruel. I don't know , maybe I am gonna walk away when he starts this crap again. He will hold onto it though and just come back with it the next time. i am sick today with bronchitis and he makes it worse. now is keeping money away from me and I have to ask to go to walmart for food even. Very demeaning. He needs help I can't give him. I asked him why he is mean and then he said mockingly " I Have PD and it makes me that way " . I needed to get that out. Oh and he wants to help my sis get away form her drug addicted abusive hubby and he is abusive himself? Makes no sense. thanks for listening and being there. I have no where to turn. My family all live in Wa state. My Mom and dad both think he is mean to me. They are right. Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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