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Hi Lori,

A very warm welcome to the group. I am terribly sorry that your daughter has

been diagnosed with IgAN. It is always hard when it is our children isn't

it??

The good news is this, that only 30-50% of the total number of people with

IGAN ever reach end stage where their kidneys fail, and that means 50-70% never

do! Hopefully your daughter will fall into that category. Secondly, having

the tea colored urine is actually a predictor of a better prognosis than those

like me with microscopic blood. For some strange reason, those will visible

blood do better in the long run than those without.

A great place to start off is on our sister site www.igan.ca which our

founder Pierre put up, and recently (like the last few days). That should give

you

a great starting place.

Please feel free to ask any questions you may have too.

Welcome again,

In a message dated 12/13/2004 5:08:04 PM Pacific Standard Time,

littlell523@... writes:

> Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

> was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into the

> hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

> from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80 mg

> of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the web

> for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

> changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have Kidney

> Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? I'm

> so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone help

> me with this please. Thank you.

>

> Lori

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Lori:

Although my son, age 15, does not have IgA nephropathy, he has a similar

disorder called Alport syndrome. He began having symptoms about 18 months ago,

but was just officially diagnosed in August after a renal biopsy.

I, too, was very scared and confused. In fact, for the first month after

diagnosis I couldn't sleep at night, and when I did, would wake up in panic

attacks. That has finally passed, thank God, with a lot of prayer and also due

to my son's own very positive attitude. I am learning not to look at the long

range outcome, but to just take one day and one thing at a time. This kind of

thinking may be a kind of denial, but it is all I can deal with right now. We

have our ups and downs, but as Rob puts it, we are not going to sit around and

worry about his kidneys. We are marching on with life and he is taking his meds

religiously, and taking care of himself.

If you ever want to talk, feel free to email me privately.

There are other moms on this site whose children do have IgA nephropathy, and

they will also chime in and be ready to help you. This is a wonderful, caring

list, which is why I have stuck around.

Best wishes,

, mom to Rob, 15

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Lori:

Although my son, age 15, does not have IgA nephropathy, he has a similar

disorder called Alport syndrome. He began having symptoms about 18 months ago,

but was just officially diagnosed in August after a renal biopsy.

I, too, was very scared and confused. In fact, for the first month after

diagnosis I couldn't sleep at night, and when I did, would wake up in panic

attacks. That has finally passed, thank God, with a lot of prayer and also due

to my son's own very positive attitude. I am learning not to look at the long

range outcome, but to just take one day and one thing at a time. This kind of

thinking may be a kind of denial, but it is all I can deal with right now. We

have our ups and downs, but as Rob puts it, we are not going to sit around and

worry about his kidneys. We are marching on with life and he is taking his meds

religiously, and taking care of himself.

If you ever want to talk, feel free to email me privately.

There are other moms on this site whose children do have IgA nephropathy, and

they will also chime in and be ready to help you. This is a wonderful, caring

list, which is why I have stuck around.

Best wishes,

, mom to Rob, 15

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Hi Lori! Well, you came to the right place! I am new to this group too and have

discovered that there is a tremendous amount of support here. We have all been

through this together and I hope you find that you and your family are not alone

in this fight. I am truly sorry for the news you recently received. I was

diagnosed at 17 years of age and must say it is not fun news at any age. The

most important thing is to allow your precious daughter to feel as " normal " as

possible through this. The thing my doctor told me at 17 was that I could live

to be 100 and have no problems or I could experience kidney failure in 6 months.

I ended up going 2 years with no problems. Then everything changed very quickly.

Found myself in the ER and on dialysis over Labor Day weekend...was fortunate to

receive a second life (transplant) from my loving father 3 months later. Today

(12/14) is the 9 year anniversary of our surgeries. I know this is may all sound

very scary. I do hope that you have a strong

faith and family that will help you through this journey. Please do not

hesitate to ask ANY questions...and again welcome! By the way, where in this

great country are you and your daughter??

:)

littlell523 wrote:

Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into the

hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80 mg

of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the web

for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have Kidney

Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? I'm

so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone help

me with this please. Thank you.

Lori

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Lori,

My son first showed symptoms of IgAN just before his 13th birthday. He

had been very healthy and had no other significant health problems. I

remember well how shocking it was to think of him as having a chronic

illness. In reality the disease had very little impact on his life

until kidney function began to decline about 5 years later. As

already mentioned, the majority of those with IgAN do not progress to

kidney failure, so let's hope your daughter is in that group. My son

did progress to end-stage and got a transplant, but he is doing well

now and living a very normal life.

I believe there was someone else not too long ago in this group with a

teenage daughter recently diagnosed who was looking for an internet

" pen-pal " for her daughter. Maybe your daughter would like to swap

emails with someone in a similar situation.

good luck -

Betsy

>

>

> Hi everyone.  Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

> was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy.  When she was admitted into the

> hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

> from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5.  They have her on 80 mg

> of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> have me taking her BP twice a day.  I have been searching the web

> for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

> changes and what is going on with her.  Is she going to have Kidney

> Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for?  I'm

> so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect.  Can anyone help

> me with this please.  Thank you.

>

> Lori

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> To edit your settings for the group, go to our Yahoo Group

> home page:

> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/

>

> To unsubcribe via email,

> iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe

> Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely

> supported by donations. If you would like to help, go to:

> http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm

>

> Thank you

>

>

>

>

>

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Lori,

My son first showed symptoms of IgAN just before his 13th birthday. He

had been very healthy and had no other significant health problems. I

remember well how shocking it was to think of him as having a chronic

illness. In reality the disease had very little impact on his life

until kidney function began to decline about 5 years later. As

already mentioned, the majority of those with IgAN do not progress to

kidney failure, so let's hope your daughter is in that group. My son

did progress to end-stage and got a transplant, but he is doing well

now and living a very normal life.

I believe there was someone else not too long ago in this group with a

teenage daughter recently diagnosed who was looking for an internet

" pen-pal " for her daughter. Maybe your daughter would like to swap

emails with someone in a similar situation.

good luck -

Betsy

>

>

> Hi everyone.  Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

> was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy.  When she was admitted into the

> hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

> from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5.  They have her on 80 mg

> of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> have me taking her BP twice a day.  I have been searching the web

> for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

> changes and what is going on with her.  Is she going to have Kidney

> Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for?  I'm

> so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect.  Can anyone help

> me with this please.  Thank you.

>

> Lori

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> To edit your settings for the group, go to our Yahoo Group

> home page:

> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/

>

> To unsubcribe via email,

> iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe

> Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely

> supported by donations. If you would like to help, go to:

> http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm

>

> Thank you

>

>

>

>

>

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Lori,

My son first showed symptoms of IgAN just before his 13th birthday. He

had been very healthy and had no other significant health problems. I

remember well how shocking it was to think of him as having a chronic

illness. In reality the disease had very little impact on his life

until kidney function began to decline about 5 years later. As

already mentioned, the majority of those with IgAN do not progress to

kidney failure, so let's hope your daughter is in that group. My son

did progress to end-stage and got a transplant, but he is doing well

now and living a very normal life.

I believe there was someone else not too long ago in this group with a

teenage daughter recently diagnosed who was looking for an internet

" pen-pal " for her daughter. Maybe your daughter would like to swap

emails with someone in a similar situation.

good luck -

Betsy

>

>

> Hi everyone.  Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

> was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy.  When she was admitted into the

> hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

> from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5.  They have her on 80 mg

> of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> have me taking her BP twice a day.  I have been searching the web

> for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

> changes and what is going on with her.  Is she going to have Kidney

> Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for?  I'm

> so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect.  Can anyone help

> me with this please.  Thank you.

>

> Lori

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> To edit your settings for the group, go to our Yahoo Group

> home page:

> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/

>

> To unsubcribe via email,

> iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe

> Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely

> supported by donations. If you would like to help, go to:

> http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm

>

> Thank you

>

>

>

>

>

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Lori,

Welcome to the group, I'm glad you found us. I'm sorry to hear of your

daughters diagnosis, it's always hard to hear about kids being diagnosed.

already pointed you to our sister site which has a wealth of info on it.

Keeping your daughters b/p under good control is one of the main things we can

do to help prolong the life of our kidneys. High b/p in and of itself can

damage the kidneys over time so keeping a close eye on it is a good thing. Once

she is stabilized and the doctors are able to see her trends you should be able

to reduce the number of times you have to take her b/p weekly. When I first

started out I had to take mine 3x/day, now I do it a few times a week unless I

find it running high.

Prednisone is a rough drug to be on and there are quite a few of us here with

experience on it. I've been on it for nearly 15 months now (don't let that

scare you, most people are off it within 6-8 months). Please realize that all

of the side effects of prednisone are temporary and the drug does do the trick

for many when it comes to bringing down protein spills.

It can and probably will bring on some changes in her body and face (she is

at that age where those sort of things are going to matter A LOT) it causes your

face to swell and your abdomen to swell just under the rib cage. Let her know

this is temporary and WILL go away once off the drug. She may also have some

emotional changes, prednisone can really play havoc with your mental state.

Something you want to keep an eye on, though at 12 they tend to be an emotional

roller coaster to begin with so it might be hard to see any drug induced

changes. :o) Some other problems she may encounter are:

-- " fuzzy brain syndrome " (my name for it not a technical term) where she will

have trouble doing new things or even recalling old things. Just try and help

her with schoolwork at this time and make sure she isn't falling behind due to

the effects of the drug. She may become frustrated easily and need a bit of

hands on help with learning new things until on lower doses.

--increased acne that won't clear up with any creams or cleansers

--joint pain (bad charlie horse type pain) beyond the growing type joint pain

she is probably already going thru. Drinking a lot of water in the evenings can

help curb this problem if she finds it happening. It makes you have to get up

to pee in the middle of the night but it's better than severe leg cramps, trust

me on this.

--she may bruise easier than normal while on prednisone

--prednisone can also cause your b/p to rise and she will have to be monitored

closely while on it. Her b/p med dose will probably change quite a few times

while on the prednisone so they can keep her b/p within optimal range. This is

a hassle but also perfectly normal. I tend to have my dose changed every one to

two months to keep things in proper range. As her prednisone dose comes down

they will make adjustments to her other meds as well.

Kids tend to be pretty resilient in the face of IgAN and hopefully once they get

her stable she will remain so for many years to come. You are in the right

place to find answers and to find people to calm your fears. Please feel free

to ask away with questions and we'll do our best to answer you.

Welcome again,

Amy G.

Scared and Confused

Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into the

hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80 mg

of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the web

for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have Kidney

Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? I'm

so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone help

me with this please. Thank you.

Lori

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iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe

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That is just yet one more example of why Rob is so inspirational to all of

us! I love him marching on with life. That is precisely what I try to do every

single day; I count my blessings and march on!

\

In a message dated 12/13/2004 10:04:31 PM Pacific Standard Time,

snooksmama@... writes:

> as Rob puts it, we are not going to sit around and worry about his kidneys.

> We are marching on with life and he is taking his meds religiously, and

> taking care of himself.

>

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Hi ,

To me, it's sounds like you've gone way past DENIAL and have rounded the

corner into ACCEPTANCE.

We can't choose the diseases we get, but we can choose how we deal with

them. Rob sounds like he's a great kid.

Pierre

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>

>

> Lori:

> Although my son, age 15, does not have IgA nephropathy, he has a similar

disorder called Alport syndrome. He began having symptoms about 18 months

ago, but was just officially diagnosed in August after a renal biopsy.

> I, too, was very scared and confused. In fact, for the first month after

diagnosis I couldn't sleep at night, and when I did, would wake up in panic

attacks. That has finally passed, thank God, with a lot of prayer and also

due to my son's own very positive attitude. I am learning not to look at the

long range outcome, but to just take one day and one thing at a time. This

kind of thinking may be a kind of denial, but it is all I can deal with

right now. We have our ups and downs, but as Rob puts it, we are not going

to sit around and worry about his kidneys. We are marching on with life and

he is taking his meds religiously, and taking care of himself.

> If you ever want to talk, feel free to email me privately.

> There are other moms on this site whose children do have IgA nephropathy,

and they will also chime in and be ready to help you. This is a wonderful,

caring list, which is why I have stuck around.

> Best wishes,

> , mom to Rob, 15

>

>

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HI Lori

It's probably way too early to tell if your daughter will eventually have

kidney failure. Kids actually do pretty well with IgAN, for the most part,

after the initial problems with protein and blood in the urine. Right now,

the number sure don't indicate any kidney failure. They are probably just a

touch elevated, temporarily.

2000mg sodium per day is about the same as the sodium restriction for

dialysis patients and also pre-end-stage renal failure patient (the year or

two pre-dialysis). It's not as low a number as it seems. A really low number

would be 500mg, or maybe1000mg, but 2000mg is enough that you don't have to

go nuts trying to avoid every bit of sodium in food. As long as she keeps

away from high sodium foods (like chips, hotdogs, pizza, pickles and olives,

etc.), it shouldn't be too hard to adapt. Avoiding pre-manufactured foods

eliminates a lot of sodium right there, and then it's just a matter of being

careful not to use too much in cooking or on the table. Don't hesitate to

ask if you have any questions.

Pierre

Scared and Confused

>

>

>

> Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

> was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into the

> hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

> from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80 mg

> of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the web

> for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

> changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have Kidney

> Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? I'm

> so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone help

> me with this please. Thank you.

>

> Lori

>

>

>

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HI Lori,

That is great if her creatinine fell to 0.07! That is essentially normal

function. I was praying it would go back after she recovered from her flare up.

\In a message dated 12/14/2004 6:49:42 PM Pacific Standard Time,

littlell523@... writes:

> Thank you. It is so nice to know that I'm not alone. I would give

> anything for it to be me and not my daughter. The doctor called

> today, she had blood work on Friday and her Kidney function came

> back at 0.07. I think this is pretty good, I'm really not sure.

> When they released her from the hospital it was at 0.09. So it is

> better than when we left the hospital. Thank you for the site I am

> going to check it out in a couple of minutes.

>

> Lori

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Hi Lori,

I know it is hard on your mother's heart, but baby-sitting her will only make

her feel worse. I have had symptoms since I was a teenager myself, and the

best thing my parents did was to not treat me any differently at all. If you

act different, she will be more troubled too. I understand it is hard, but she

needs to find her own strength and draw on that. The best thing you can do

is to help her keep very positive and work on counting your blessings.

I understand it is easier said than done, especially when you see cry

over the things she can't eat, but it will really equip her to be able to be

resilient and make her road easier.

You can always come here and cry on our shoulders anytime though. We really

do understand and will walk through this with you each step of the way.

In a message dated 12/14/2004 6:51:29 PM Pacific Standard Time,

littlell523@... writes:

> I don't think I have slept in 3 weeks, I keep waking up at night and

> checking on her. I'm really not sure how I'm going to deal with

> that yet. I have also started babying her, I really don't want her

> out of my sight, I know that this is nuts, but the thought that

> keeps going through my head is " what if something happens and I'm

> not there? " . 's attitude is positive also, she really doesn't

> say to much. We were in the store today and she did start to cry,

> because she can't eat the things that she has always eaten. I just

> told her we would get through this and figure out something. I just

> wanted to cry right with her. Thank you so much and I hope that I

> don't drive everyone crazy with my questions.

>

> Lori

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Prednisone use is not normally long term unless it is post transplant. It is

given usually for 6 months or a year (Amy has been on it longer) and slowly

weaned.

Amy's email yesterday about Prednisone had a great explanation of side

effects. I will copy and paste it below for you.

In a message dated 12/14/2004 6:51:19 PM Pacific Standard Time,

littlell523@... writes:

> One of the things that I

> have been wondering is about the medication, what are the side

> effects and what is the long term use of Presidone??

In a message dated 12/13/2004 10:39:54 PM Pacific Standard Time,

purrfect@... writes:

> Prednisone is a rough drug to be on and there are quite a few of us here

> with experience on it.  I've been on it for nearly 15 months now (don't let

> that scare you, most people are off it within 6-8 months).  Please realize

that

> all of the side effects of prednisone are temporary and the drug does do the

> trick for many when it comes to bringing down protein spills. 

>   It can and probably will bring on some changes in her body and face (she

> is at that age where those sort of things are going to matter A LOT) it causes

> your face to swell and your abdomen to swell just under the rib cage.  Let

> her know this is temporary and WILL go away once off the drug.  She may also

> have some emotional changes, prednisone can really play havoc with your mental

> state.  Something you want to keep an eye on, though at 12 they tend to be

> an emotional roller coaster to begin with so it might be hard to see any drug

> induced changes. :o)  Some other problems she may encounter are:

> -- " fuzzy brain syndrome " (my name for it not a technical term) where she

> will have trouble doing new things or even recalling old things.  Just try and

> help her with schoolwork at this time and make sure she isn't falling behind

> due to the effects of the drug.  She may become frustrated easily and need a

> bit of hands on help with learning new things until on lower doses.

> --increased acne that won't clear up with any creams or cleansers

> --joint pain (bad charlie horse type pain) beyond the growing type joint

> pain she is probably already going thru.  Drinking a lot of water in the

> evenings can help curb this problem if she finds it happening.  It makes you

have to

> get up to pee in the middle of the night but it's better than severe leg

> cramps, trust me on this.

> --she may bruise easier than normal while on prednisone

> --prednisone can also cause your b/p to rise and she will have to be

> monitored closely while on it.  Her b/p med dose will probably change quite a

few

> times while on the prednisone so they can keep her b/p within optimal range. 

> This is a hassle but also perfectly normal.  I tend to have my dose changed

> every one to two months to keep things in proper range.  As her prednisone

dose

> comes down they will make adjustments to her other meds as well.

>

> Kids tend to be pretty resilient in the face of IgAN and hopefully once they

> get her stable she will remain so for many years to come.  You are in the

> right place to find answers and to find people to calm your fears.  Please

feel

> free to ask away with questions and we'll do our best to answer you. 

>

> Welcome again,

> Amy G.

>

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- Congrats on the 2nd Anniversary of your " new life " - Hugs, Rita

12/14/1978 was my due date to deliver my beautiful son - He waited around until

New Year's Day!

Young wrote:

Hi Lori! Well, you came to the right place! I am new to this group too and have

discovered that there is a tremendous amount of support here. We have all been

through this together and I hope you find that you and your family are not alone

in this fight. I am truly sorry for the news you recently received. I was

diagnosed at 17 years of age and must say it is not fun news at any age. The

most important thing is to allow your precious daughter to feel as " normal " as

possible through this. The thing my doctor told me at 17 was that I could live

to be 100 and have no problems or I could experience kidney failure in 6 months.

I ended up going 2 years with no problems. Then everything changed very quickly.

Found myself in the ER and on dialysis over Labor Day weekend...was fortunate to

receive a second life (transplant) from my loving father 3 months later. Today

(12/14) is the 9 year anniversary of our surgeries. I know this is may all sound

very scary. I do hope that you have a strong

faith and family that will help you through this journey. Please do not hesitate

to ask ANY questions...and again welcome! By the way, where in this great

country are you and your daughter??

:)

littlell523 wrote:

Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into the

hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80 mg

of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the web

for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have Kidney

Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? I'm

so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone help

me with this please. Thank you.

Lori

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Thank you. It is so nice to know that I'm not alone. I would give

anything for it to be me and not my daughter. The doctor called

today, she had blood work on Friday and her Kidney function came

back at 0.07. I think this is pretty good, I'm really not sure.

When they released her from the hospital it was at 0.09. So it is

better than when we left the hospital. Thank you for the site I am

going to check it out in a couple of minutes.

Lori

In iga-nephropathy , W4JC@a... wrote:

> Hi Lori,

>

> A very warm welcome to the group. I am terribly sorry that your

daughter has

> been diagnosed with IgAN. It is always hard when it is our

children isn't

> it??

>

> The good news is this, that only 30-50% of the total number of

people with

> IGAN ever reach end stage where their kidneys fail, and that means

50-70% never

> do! Hopefully your daughter will fall into that category.

Secondly, having

> the tea colored urine is actually a predictor of a better

prognosis than those

> like me with microscopic blood. For some strange reason, those

will visible

> blood do better in the long run than those without.

>

> A great place to start off is on our sister site www.igan.ca which

our

> founder Pierre put up, and recently (like the last few days).

That should give you

> a great starting place.

>

> Please feel free to ask any questions you may have too.

>

> Welcome again,

>

>

>

> In a message dated 12/13/2004 5:08:04 PM Pacific Standard Time,

> littlell523@y... writes:

>

> > Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old

daughter

> > was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into

the

> > hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like

tea

> > from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80

mg

> > of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> > have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the

web

> > for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> > changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand

the

> > changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have

Kidney

> > Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for?

I'm

> > so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone

help

> > me with this please. Thank you.

> >

> > Lori

>

>

>

>

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Thank you and that would be wonderful for her to have a pen pal.

The doctors told me after the biospy that the damage was severe. I

don't know if that means she will have to have a transplant or

what. I know that we are really sticking to her diet of 2000mg of

sodium a day and taking the medication. One of the things that I

have been wondering is about the medication, what are the side

effects and what is the long term use of Presidone??

>

> >

> >

> > Hi everyone.  Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old

daughter

> > was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy.  When she was admitted into

the

> > hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like

tea

> > from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5.  They have her on 80

mg

> > of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> > have me taking her BP twice a day.  I have been searching the

web

> > for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> > changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand

the

> > changes and what is going on with her.  Is she going to have

Kidney

> > Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? 

I'm

> > so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect.  Can anyone

help

> > me with this please.  Thank you.

> >

> > Lori

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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> >

> >

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Her feeling normal was one of the things that my husband and I

decided right away. We don't make special food just for her, if she

can only have 2000mg of sodium, then so is everyone else. It is

nice, to get so much support. For the last couple of weeks I have

felt so lost and not sure what to do. By the way, we live in

Michigan. Thank you again.

Lori

>

>

> Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

> was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into

the

> hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like

tea

> from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80 mg

> of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the web

> for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

> changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have

Kidney

> Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? I'm

> so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone

help

> me with this please. Thank you.

>

> Lori

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

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I don't think I have slept in 3 weeks, I keep waking up at night and

checking on her. I'm really not sure how I'm going to deal with

that yet. I have also started babying her, I really don't want her

out of my sight, I know that this is nuts, but the thought that

keeps going through my head is " what if something happens and I'm

not there? " . 's attitude is positive also, she really doesn't

say to much. We were in the store today and she did start to cry,

because she can't eat the things that she has always eaten. I just

told her we would get through this and figure out something. I just

wanted to cry right with her. Thank you so much and I hope that I

don't drive everyone crazy with my questions.

Lori

>

> Lori:

> Although my son, age 15, does not have IgA nephropathy, he has a

similar disorder called Alport syndrome. He began having symptoms

about 18 months ago, but was just officially diagnosed in August

after a renal biopsy.

> I, too, was very scared and confused. In fact, for the first month

after diagnosis I couldn't sleep at night, and when I did, would

wake up in panic attacks. That has finally passed, thank God, with a

lot of prayer and also due to my son's own very positive attitude. I

am learning not to look at the long range outcome, but to just take

one day and one thing at a time. This kind of thinking may be a kind

of denial, but it is all I can deal with right now. We have our ups

and downs, but as Rob puts it, we are not going to sit around and

worry about his kidneys. We are marching on with life and he is

taking his meds religiously, and taking care of himself.

> If you ever want to talk, feel free to email me privately.

> There are other moms on this site whose children do have IgA

nephropathy, and they will also chime in and be ready to help you.

This is a wonderful, caring list, which is why I have stuck around.

> Best wishes,

> , mom to Rob, 15

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,

My son was 21 at the time of the transplant, and he went back to school

right after to finish his last year of college. He is now almost 25

(next month) and is a software engineer for a government contractor.

He did have a recurrence of the IgAN in the new kidney about 1.5 years

after the transplant, which was treated successfully with Cytoxan and

things are stable now 3+ years after the transplant. He has not been

involved in a support group and thinks it's rather silly that I am

still active with this group, but as I point out to him, he still has

IgAN, new kidney or not. Actually I forward pertinent items to him and

he does read them. He's enjoying a good income and a steady girlfriend,

who has stood loyally by his side through transplant and recurrence,

and is doing well on his current mix of meds, so he feels life is very

good. He also has a transplant nephrologist who is terrific and has

been very supportive and accessible by phone or email, so things do

seem under control, at least for now.

thanks for your concern -

Betsy

>

>

> Betsy-Hello! I just read your post and wanted to respond. How is your

> son doing? How long has he had his transplant? Has he hooked up with

> any support groups? I am discovering that more now, 9 years later, I

> am seeking support. At the time of the transplant, I was 19, and

> simply wanted to get back to normalcy, which did NOT include sitting

> around talking about my problems. I am older and wiser now ;) and am

> realizing the value in support when it comes to life changing

> situations like transplants. Is your son in college, working??

>

> Have a wonderful day!

> :)

>

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I was wondering about all that, the doctors never did tell me how

long they thought she was going to be on it. So, I don't

understand, they put you on the prednisone to get the swelling down

and stop the protien drops and then take you off it? I have also

been reading about flare ups. If I'm understanding right, IGAN

isn't something that is always there? The protien and blood will

stop, and then what??? I understand that the damage that has been

done can't be repaired, but I guess I don't get how this works?.?

> Prednisone use is not normally long term unless it is post

transplant. It is

> given usually for 6 months or a year (Amy has been on it longer)

and slowly

> weaned.

>

> Amy's email yesterday about Prednisone had a great explanation of

side

> effects. I will copy and paste it below for you.

>

>

> In a message dated 12/14/2004 6:51:19 PM Pacific Standard Time,

> littlell523@y... writes:

>

> > One of the things that I

> > have been wondering is about the medication, what are the side

> > effects and what is the long term use of Presidone??

>

> In a message dated 12/13/2004 10:39:54 PM Pacific Standard Time,

> purrfect@e... writes:

>

> > Prednisone is a rough drug to be on and there are quite a few of

us here

> > with experience on it. I've been on it for nearly 15 months now

(don't let

> > that scare you, most people are off it within 6-8 months).

Please realize that

> > all of the side effects of prednisone are temporary and the drug

does do the

> > trick for many when it comes to bringing down protein spills.

> >   It can and probably will bring on some changes in her body and

face (she

> > is at that age where those sort of things are going to matter A

LOT) it causes

> > your face to swell and your abdomen to swell just under the rib

cage. Let

> > her know this is temporary and WILL go away once off the drug.

She may also

> > have some emotional changes, prednisone can really play havoc

with your mental

> > state. Something you want to keep an eye on, though at 12 they

tend to be

> > an emotional roller coaster to begin with so it might be hard to

see any drug

> > induced changes. :o) Some other problems she may encounter are:

> > -- " fuzzy brain syndrome " (my name for it not a technical term)

where she

> > will have trouble doing new things or even recalling old

things. Just try and

> > help her with schoolwork at this time and make sure she isn't

falling behind

> > due to the effects of the drug. She may become frustrated

easily and need a

> > bit of hands on help with learning new things until on lower

doses.

> > --increased acne that won't clear up with any creams or cleansers

> > --joint pain (bad charlie horse type pain) beyond the growing

type joint

> > pain she is probably already going thru. Drinking a lot of

water in the

> > evenings can help curb this problem if she finds it happening.

It makes you have to

> > get up to pee in the middle of the night but it's better than

severe leg

> > cramps, trust me on this.

> > --she may bruise easier than normal while on prednisone

> > --prednisone can also cause your b/p to rise and she will have

to be

> > monitored closely while on it. Her b/p med dose will probably

change quite a few

> > times while on the prednisone so they can keep her b/p within

optimal range.

> > This is a hassle but also perfectly normal. I tend to have my

dose changed

> > every one to two months to keep things in proper range. As her

prednisone dose

> > comes down they will make adjustments to her other meds as well.

> >

> > Kids tend to be pretty resilient in the face of IgAN and

hopefully once they

> > get her stable she will remain so for many years to come. You

are in the

> > right place to find answers and to find people to calm your

fears. Please feel

> > free to ask away with questions and we'll do our best to answer

you.

> >

> > Welcome again,

> > Amy G.

> >

>

>

>

>

>

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The Prednisone treatment is really based on patient response. They will

monitor her labs to watch her protein spill, and when it is sufficiently down

and

she appears stable, they will slowly wean her off. A word of caution, being

slowly weaned of is very important. Prednisone is one drug that it is very

dangerous to just stop cold turkey.

The flare-ups that occur with IgAN are in conjunction with a viral illness,

and normally the labs will worsen during a flare up, and return to the baseline

after recovery. But, unfortunately that does not mean the IgAN goes away.

It never does go away. Many people have a fairly benign IgAN that never

progresses to end stage, but the underlying disease does not go away.

Occasionally,

usually only in children, IgAN can go into remission though, but that is very

rare.

Hope this helps,

In a message dated 12/15/2004 5:42:33 AM Pacific Standard Time,

littlell523@... writes:

> I was wondering about all that, the doctors never did tell me how

> long they thought she was going to be on it. So, I don't

> understand, they put you on the prednisone to get the swelling down

> and stop the protien drops and then take you off it? I have also

> been reading about flare ups. If I'm understanding right, IGAN

> isn't something that is always there? The protien and blood will

> stop, and then what??? I understand that the damage that has been

> done can't be repaired, but I guess I don't get how this works?.?

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Maybe in children, the IgAN is not always there (this is not really known).

In people whose IgAN is secondary to HSP, the process which causes IgAN may

not always be active. However, as fas as is known, IgAN is a chronic

disease. The process that causes it is always going on in the kidneys to

some extent, even when there are no visible " flare-ups " with dark-coloured

urine. Otherwise, there would be no way to explain how people who never get

these " flare-ups " (of which there are many, with biopsy-proven IgAN) see

their serum gradually increase over the years and then they end up on

dialysis.

What happens is that there is always depositing of IgA antibody complexes in

the mesangial part of the glomeruli, and this is what slowly but gradually

destroys the filtering capacity of the kidneys.

Pierre

Re: Scared and Confused

I was wondering about all that, the doctors never did tell me how

long they thought she was going to be on it. So, I don't

understand, they put you on the prednisone to get the swelling down

and stop the protien drops and then take you off it? I have also

been reading about flare ups. If I'm understanding right, IGAN

isn't something that is always there? The protien and blood will

stop, and then what??? I understand that the damage that has been

done can't be repaired, but I guess I don't get how this works?.?

> Prednisone use is not normally long term unless it is post

transplant. It is

> given usually for 6 months or a year (Amy has been on it longer)

and slowly

> weaned.

>

> Amy's email yesterday about Prednisone had a great explanation of

side

> effects. I will copy and paste it below for you.

>

>

> In a message dated 12/14/2004 6:51:19 PM Pacific Standard Time,

> littlell523@y... writes:

>

> > One of the things that I

> > have been wondering is about the medication, what are the side

> > effects and what is the long term use of Presidone??

>

> In a message dated 12/13/2004 10:39:54 PM Pacific Standard Time,

> purrfect@e... writes:

>

> > Prednisone is a rough drug to be on and there are quite a few of

us here

> > with experience on it. I've been on it for nearly 15 months now

(don't let

> > that scare you, most people are off it within 6-8 months).

Please realize that

> > all of the side effects of prednisone are temporary and the drug

does do the

> > trick for many when it comes to bringing down protein spills.

> > It can and probably will bring on some changes in her body and

face (she

> > is at that age where those sort of things are going to matter A

LOT) it causes

> > your face to swell and your abdomen to swell just under the rib

cage. Let

> > her know this is temporary and WILL go away once off the drug.

She may also

> > have some emotional changes, prednisone can really play havoc

with your mental

> > state. Something you want to keep an eye on, though at 12 they

tend to be

> > an emotional roller coaster to begin with so it might be hard to

see any drug

> > induced changes. :o) Some other problems she may encounter are:

> > -- " fuzzy brain syndrome " (my name for it not a technical term)

where she

> > will have trouble doing new things or even recalling old

things. Just try and

> > help her with schoolwork at this time and make sure she isn't

falling behind

> > due to the effects of the drug. She may become frustrated

easily and need a

> > bit of hands on help with learning new things until on lower

doses.

> > --increased acne that won't clear up with any creams or cleansers

> > --joint pain (bad charlie horse type pain) beyond the growing

type joint

> > pain she is probably already going thru. Drinking a lot of

water in the

> > evenings can help curb this problem if she finds it happening.

It makes you have to

> > get up to pee in the middle of the night but it's better than

severe leg

> > cramps, trust me on this.

> > --she may bruise easier than normal while on prednisone

> > --prednisone can also cause your b/p to rise and she will have

to be

> > monitored closely while on it. Her b/p med dose will probably

change quite a few

> > times while on the prednisone so they can keep her b/p within

optimal range.

> > This is a hassle but also perfectly normal. I tend to have my

dose changed

> > every one to two months to keep things in proper range. As her

prednisone dose

> > comes down they will make adjustments to her other meds as well.

> >

> > Kids tend to be pretty resilient in the face of IgAN and

hopefully once they

> > get her stable she will remain so for many years to come. You

are in the

> > right place to find answers and to find people to calm your

fears. Please feel

> > free to ask away with questions and we'll do our best to answer

you.

> >

> > Welcome again,

> > Amy G.

> >

>

>

>

>

>

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Lori-

I am new to this group, but am already discovering the wealth of

information that they have to share. It's reassuring to hear about

the effects of medications and the experiences of the disease from

people who live with it, rather than websites describing it. I'm

sorry that this happened to your daughter, especially at such a young

age. I was diagnosed at 22, while I lived in Michigan, actually, and

found that the most helpful thing for me was to learn all I could

about the disease-I've always been science-minded, and I was taking

pathology and immunology courses at the time. Somehow, learning

about it from that viewpoint really helped me come to grips with my

situation. From having to deal with doctors and live with the

reality of a chronic disease, I actually changed my career path-I

have a degree in public health, but I'm looking to move into

nursing. So you never know...good things can come out of unfortunate

experiences. But it's important, since your daughter is still young,

that you learn all you can in order to be an advocate for her health.

>

>

> Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

> was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into the

> hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

> from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80 mg

> of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the web

> for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

> changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have Kidney

> Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? I'm

> so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone help

> me with this please. Thank you.

>

> Lori

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Hi Lori,

I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to welcome you earlier, but after reading

your post, I wanted to take some time in responding. My now 14 year old son

was diagnosed with MPGN when he was 11. Although more aggressive than IgAN,

MPGN is very similar to IgAN - which is why we hang out here.

When was first diagnosed, the bottom of my world fell out. I had the

great fortune of getting laid off during the tech bust, which gave me a year

to search the net, stay glued to several kidney boards and generally try to

get some sense of the ground under our feet. This was a hard year, because

there were also other issues that year unrelated to kidney disease (just

started middle school the week after diagnosis, physically abusive teacher

etc.) Unlike IgAN, MPGN is very rare and poorly researched. I rather see

having rare diseases as a variant of the old Chinese curse about living in

interesting times. The lack of information made things all the more

terrifying. It took me a year to reach some sense of equanimity with it

all. Learning about renal disease and coming to grips with this disease

does not happen over night - however, both are important - for your

daughter's sake.

Quick word of advice about letting your world view regarding disease be

shaped by the net - there's tons of great information out there about IgAN.

Kidney boards and email lists are a great source of info --- however, they

tend to be rather one-sided. Very few people write in to say they're doing

fine - and it's very easy to believe that the complaints are universal.

When started prednisone, I was terrified. However, the side effects

were close to non-existent. More importantly, it turned out to be our

wonder drug. It's an enormous relief to have a drug that responds

to (many MPGN kids are steroid resistent). Try not to let your experiences

and fears be colored too much by everyone else. If you get trapped by your

fears, it makes it harder for your daughters.

Kids are pretty resilient, if you let them be. At this point in your

daughter's life, I bet she has a 1001 things that compete for her time and

attention. The more you keep the focus there (and away from your own

terrors), the more of a chance she will have to build the emotional and

intellectual strengths she may need if difficult times follow.

One thing (and I) found helpful was finding an excellent counselor.

still refuses to talk about kidney disease with his friends.

Actually, only one of his friends (a kid with cystic fibrosis) even knows

he's sick, he's that closed mouth about it. Having an adult who is not your

mother to talk to has helped immeasurably.

The other good thing is there aren't too many curve balls with this disease.

Generally, renal failure occurs slowly - and is very managable. At this

point, I can say that not that much has changed in our lives.

Do we worry about renal failure now? You bet. Am I more worried about how

will do in the finals in the National Geographic geography bee this

afternoon? You bet. Life goes on. As impossible as it seems now, trust me

that your hopes and plans for your daughter have not been irrevocably

changed.

Cy

Scared and Confused

>

>

>

> Hi everyone. Well lets see two weeks ago my 12 year old daughter

> was diagnosed with iga-nephropathy. When she was admitted into the

> hospital the protein in her urine was 1200, it also looked like tea

> from the blood, her Cretian level was 1.5. They have her on 80 mg

> of Predisone a day and a 2000mg low sodium diet a day, they also

> have me taking her BP twice a day. I have been searching the web

> for over a week for information on how to help her cope with the

> changes in her life, but also so that I can try and understand the

> changes and what is going on with her. Is she going to have Kidney

> Failure, what are some of the things that I need to look for? I'm

> so scared for her and I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone help

> me with this please. Thank you.

>

> Lori

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

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